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I can't compete sexually with my wife's former lover

Q.   My wife's last lover had a bigger penis, greater stamina and could please her with vaginal intercourse. I feel so inadequate and don't know why I should make any more pathetic attempts. Any advice?...

A.   12 January 2015: Best thing to do is move on and find someone new. I appreciate that everyone has a past but knowing that her former lover was more well endowed and had more stamina will only torment you and it never goes away. Somewhere out there, is the perfect ... (read in full...)

He is my perfect man...except his penis is too small...should I overlook this??

Q.   I dated John while I was in college about 10 years ago. He was gorgeous, intelligent, creative, ambitious.... everything you could ask for. The only problem was the size of his penis. Everything leading up to sex was mind blowing,but I was always ...

A.   27 October 2014: Interesting topic. I am approaching this from the other side. My wife is used to thick, fat size, not average size in length and girth. I am average size especially in Girth. I can still give her the big O through penetration but the space / gap ... (read in full...)

Does size and shape have an influence on sexual compatibility?

Q.   Sexual compatibility is important. We all have certain preferences; we all have certain things that do turn us “on” or “off”. Why is everybody so easily claiming: “It is not the size but the technique that is important”? It might be the scenario ...

A.   16 October 2014: Size Compatibility is important. My wife and I have all the same sexual interests, fantasties, likes and dislikes however despite how much we love each other the size is a major problem. I am in length and width nicely above the averages we see m... (read in full...)

Should I leave because of her vagina size or tell her it bothers me?

Q.   My girlfriend vagina is much looser than any other women i have been in a serious relationship with, what really bothers me is that i dont have a small penis im actually well over average, so i kno its not me, I really like the person that she is, ...

A.   16 October 2014: Some of the answers above are so silly its embarrassing. If the vagina is able to open up to the degree you mentioned, she is probably taking in air. Meaning the problem is not likely to be your size. If she can get 3-4 fingers in (straight line... (read in full...)

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