I had a bad accident, will women want to date me?
Q. I haven't dated in over 17 years and I don't want to be alone forever. I was nearly killed in a car accident when I was 24(I'm 41 now).I was a bodybuilder at the time,which doctors say probably saved my life.I was drunk(.33)4 times the limit....
A. 6 October 2009: Lazy Guy,you must be perfect and never make mistakes.You can't assume you know what I would do if I met a woman with no breats.I am alot of things,but shallow ain't one of them.I would happily date a woman with no breats or anything else as long as ... (read in full...)
This woman intrigues me and I'd love to ask her out for coffee...
Q. I've recently become more friendly with a woman who works in a store I frequent. She's always been very nice and she's very likable and I enjoy talking to her. I'd love to ask her out for coffee sometime. I'm not sure if she's interested or just ...
A. 7 March 2009: Hey BlueAngel,I've been in therapy awhile now.I started because of my depression.When my grandmother(who raised me)got breast cancer,it sent me over the edge and I became suicidal.My therapist worked with me about trying to accept myself as I am and ... (read in full...)
This woman intrigues me and I'd love to ask her out for coffee...
Q. I've recently become more friendly with a woman who works in a store I frequent. She's always been very nice and she's very likable and I enjoy talking to her. I'd love to ask her out for coffee sometime. I'm not sure if she's interested or just ...
A. 6 March 2009: Thanks for the advice Annalisa,Wonderingcat and BlueAngel.You really gave me some things to consider.As far as an affair Wonderingcat,I did that kind of thing back when I was much younger.I want more than that,I want a long term relationship.One ... (read in full...)
Losing her is the last thing I want to do so how do I stop pushing her away?
Q. I have put my girlfriend through a lot with my insecurties and jealousy. She has lots of male friends which drives me crazy. They all look better than me and I know they aren't childish like me. It's like the slightest thing comes up and I get all ...
A. 10 May 2008: That's a great ideal macmicheal! If someone treats me like they don't care,I feel less wanted and want to change it.Maybe I can make her feel the same.Thank you... (read in full...)
Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?
Q. I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...
A. 27 April 2008: Thanks Light,I'm in therapy right now trying to get some self esteem.Hopefully I'll soon be able to believe what people say about me and start to see some worth in myself.I certainly don't want to lose her due to lack of self esteem.She has told me ... (read in full...)
We were in the middle of sex and he ran out to watch a match! Tired of his obsession for footbal!
Q. Well me and my boyfriend have been together a year and half now, and everything is great. We have a great time, we're both completely loyal, we both love each other to pieces. I know you're probably thinking "What's the problem here?" The probl...
A. 26 April 2008: Have you talked to him about this?I find sometimes a person has to be put in the same type of situation to get it.Why don't you quit and go watch tv and see how he feels?... (read in full...)
Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?
Q. I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...
A. 25 April 2008: Ok,I really can't think of a way to explain this.I know I CAN physically do it but in my entire life I have never been able to be the way she wants me to be.First off,I'm disabled from a car accident.I can walk but I have no ankle bones,hence no ... (read in full...)
Would most guys jump at the chance to treat a woman as submissive? Am I just a wimp?
Q. I need some help.My girlfriend seems to like submission.I've asked her about it,she says she doesn't HAVE to have it to be satisfied.However,out of ex's the one that broke her heart was the one that liked to have her submit.On her myspace page,she ...
A. 25 April 2008: That's good advice Light but if you'll take another look,I said I CAN'T treat her or any other woman that way even playing or role playing.I can do anything else,just not that.What I'm saying is,if she wants that and I can't give it to her,will she ... (read in full...)
I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.
Q. I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...
A. 1 April 2008: He can't visit both of us because my g/f and I have sorta long distant relationship.She works crazy hours and I have to take care of my grandmother.She will be coming soon tho.She has a big family but they are all grown.She's looking at possible ... (read in full...)
I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.
Q. I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...
A. 1 April 2008: She said she's over it after only one day! I told her there's no way she's over that in 24 hours!She's trying to protect me but won't admit it.I told her it was fine to go because they would be married had he told her the truth.She's going to resent ... (read in full...)
I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying.
Q. I know I just asked for help the other day but now I have a worse problem. My girlfriend's ex fiancee says he's dying. He just left her one day and never spoke to her until yesterday. She never knew why he left her but now she knows it was because ...
A. 1 April 2008: She was ready to break up because of my insane jealousy.I've put her through so much.She says I need to realize that no matter who her friends are she wants me.My insecruties make me keep say things i shouldn't and i can't stop.... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 31 March 2008: Collaroy take another look I said I am a jealous man. I said I think guys that who aren't overly jealous don't like this, am I right? I could have worded that better. Sorry ... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 31 March 2008: I never said that about women and I'm in therapy.... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 30 March 2008: No,she's not worth giving up.I just don't know how to handle this.My mind keeps wondering what these guys say and what she says to them.She told me from the beginning she's a flirt.I guess I thought that would change if she loves me.
As far as m... (read in full...)
She insists on keeping her male friends! Is it "Ultimatum" time?
Q. Should I be upset about my girlfriend having male friends?She says they are just friends but I'm not sure I should believe that.I asked her a couple months back if she chatted or got messages from them.She said no then today after I pressed her,she ...
A. 30 March 2008: It's just so hard for me to believe that these "friends"don't hit on her or talk about sex.Why would a straight man be a woman's friend if he didn't want something in exchange?I slept with alot of women who were my friend first.And alot of these ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's?
Q. Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's". I should start by telling you that I have self-esteem issues,i'm overly sensitive,abando...
A. 23 March 2008: That's a really good ideal!I'm always available.Being that way probably makes her take me for granted even if she doesn't realize it.Thx for the advice:)... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but when my grandmother finds out it will break her heart, how do I keep them both?
Q. I'm trying to give my girlfriend space as I know women need. The thing is,I'm so jealous that when she's not talking to me,I worry she's talking to someone else and I end up texting her.She has a full live and doesn't think about me as much as I do h...
A. 22 March 2008: She's 84... (read in full...)
He still lives with his ex! Am I being unreasonable?
Q. I started going out with my boyfriend 2 years ago. He has an ex who is his best friend and he told me from the beginning no one would ever come above her (which was ok to begin with but I thought i might come close after 2 years?!) For the first 6 ...
A. 21 March 2008: I don't think you're being unreasonable at all!After 2 years,he should be closer to you not her.He said no one would ever be above her?That may have been ok in the beginning,but by now,you should be above her.I mean she is his EX.The pet names and ... (read in full...)
She doesn't admit our relationship
Q. Can someone help me?How do you deal with having a flirty girlfriend?When guys hit on her she smiles instead of just telling them she's taken.I'm not saying be mean,I'm just saying politely say I'm sorry I'm taken.I'm really starting to think she's ...
A. 12 March 2008: She may be lonely,that's what worries me that she'll find someone better.I should have made it clearer,sorry bout not,i'm not in a wheelchair.I just have no ankle bones,they are fused.My legs and knees are messed up and my right arm is paralized.I ... (read in full...)
She doesn't admit our relationship
Q. Can someone help me?How do you deal with having a flirty girlfriend?When guys hit on her she smiles instead of just telling them she's taken.I'm not saying be mean,I'm just saying politely say I'm sorry I'm taken.I'm really starting to think she's ...
A. 12 March 2008: No went haven't socialized yet.We are 900 miles away and are planning to meet next month.If things work out,I can move there or she can move here.Probably her because she used to live here.But that's way far ahead as I don't even know if we'll be ... (read in full...)
Ended our online relationship because it never went farther than Internet, as we are both shy. How could we talk again and... progress?
Q. Hi im Fourteen, and here is my problem. at the start of year 10 i found out this boy liked me. So i was talking to him on msn and he admitted it himself, so i was thrilled and told him i felt the same. Anyway as time went on we were only talkin...
A. 8 March 2008: Well,it sounds like he likes you as much as you like him.If you want him,you are going to have to tell him face to face.I know you're shy,I was too at your age.Think about this.Whats the worst thing that could happen?How many times in life does the ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's?
Q. Is it normal for a relationship to start to change after just 3 months? What I mean is less phone calls, fewer texts and fewer "I love you's". I should start by telling you that I have self-esteem issues,i'm overly sensitive,abando...
A. 7 March 2008: There's something very important I failed to mention.We did not just meet 3 months ago,we've been talking off and on for 2 years as friends and it grew into a relationship.Thx for the advice.... (read in full...)
Can you 'teach' family members how to masturbate if they asked you?
Q. is it ok for a 19 year old guy to show his 15 year old brother how to masturbate if he asks him to...
A. 12 February 2008: I could never see myself"teaching"a person how to masturbate.Sounds like something else is below the suface.Masturbation is a natural thing,especially for guys.I descovered it as a kid taking a bath.No guy needs to be"taught"how to masturbate.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend Over-exposed to porn or bi-curious?
Q. GUYS: NEED AN HONEST OPINION...Is this weird? Or the result of too much porn? No homophobes, please. I recently discovered alot of porn on my fiance's computer. We;ve been together 5 years and I love him with all my heart but the content freaked ...
A. 12 February 2008: Well,as a guy who watches porn(been single 15 years)I have to say,I don't think he's bi.After so long a time,regular sex scenes get kinda stale.I have watched different types of porn,mostly because it's something I've never seen much of.It's kinda ... (read in full...)
I need help before ruining my relationship
Q. I need help before I ruin my relationship!My girlfriend has lived life to the fullest and I've done nothing.This makes me so jealous that I won't even let her tell me anymore about her past.I also get very jealous of the comments she gets on her ...
A. 28 January 2008: Thanks Richard.It's very hard at this point because it's also a long distance relationship.I worry so much that it makes my ill.My therapist has given me so many suggestions but I never seem to be able to do it.However my g/f has made me rethink ... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 11 January 2008: Thx LG001,
I hope she can be comfortable with that.It sounds good to me.Guess the best thing to do is talk it out first.... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 11 January 2008: Thanks Kodgypie, That's good advice but I'm so mentally fragile that the slightest thing that doesn't work will make me never be able to "perform".Negative thoughts can kill just about anything.I rarely think positive.My therapist says i choose t... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 10 January 2008: Yeah Starfairy,but most women don't want to sit on your face the first time they have sex with their b/f.I guess if we really sat down and talk about it,she'd be more comfortable with the way I'd have to do things,I mean we're not kids by any ... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 10 January 2008: Wow Baby Duck,I never thought of any of that except the side behind her.Thanks... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 10 January 2008: The therapy I was talking is psychotherapy.I'm way worse than you think.I'm on enough meds to knock out a horse.Having someone to talk to has helped me.I can tell her anything.I usually end up crying but I know things could be way worse.The only ... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and having trouble in the bedroom. Any suggestions?
Q. I have a pretty serious problem.I had a near fatal car crash,which left my right arm paralized,ankle bones shattered and removed and a knee that doesn't bend much.I can still walk though.I haven't had sex since my accident which was in 1992 because ...
A. 8 January 2008: Yes I'm in therapy.I have severe depression and anxiety.... (read in full...)
I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship
Q. I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I ...
A. 3 January 2008: Yes,I really do like her ALOT,I'd say love.Of course I know I only know what she tells me.I rarely trust anyone even face to face but I feel I can trust her.I'm really putting myself out there which I also never do.Guess that's why I'm so scared of ... (read in full...)
I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship
Q. I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I ...
A. 3 January 2008: Well,everyone's great answers made me actually make one small step.I showed my grandmother and told her a bit about her.I told her we'd known each other 2 years and talk on the phone everyday.That's about all I dropped on her so she can digest that ... (read in full...)
I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship
Q. I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I ...
A. 2 January 2008:
Thank you very much for your answer.I just wanted to tell you a little more.Yes it is my grandmother's house and even though I'm 40,I've been with her my entire life.I can't afford to move out.My grandmother only has me.She still gets around but ... (read in full...)
I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship
Q. I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I ...
A. 2 January 2008: I'm so scared of being alone because I'll end up commiting suicide without my grandmother.I've thought about it.My son and my new potiental real life girlfriend are the only things that I think about that I hope will stop me.... (read in full...)
I met a girl online, but I worry some issues I have will ruin a relationship
Q. I met a woman on the internet about 2 years ago.When we first started to chat we told each other alot about each other.Her past scared me off but we still talked.After being in therapy,I relized anyone 46 is going to have a past just like I do.I ...
A. 2 January 2008: We haven't met yet.We've talked on the phone off and on 2 years.No she has no reason to go to therapy and has no problem that I go.I can't go to her for 2 reasons:1st I'm disabled(I can walk) and can't afford a plane ticket.2nd My whole family would ... (read in full...)
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