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I cant forget my affair, I love her and it Hurts so much! What can I do?

Q.   I was involved in an affair that ended after two months. We both knew it was wrong, I was the married one and she wasn't. My marriage has basically been over for the last four+ years and my wife and I have not been intimate in over three years in a...

A.   25 March 2009: Just wanted to see if this thread was still alive and what happened in this case? Care to update? Best regards.... (read in full...)

Leaving marriage for affair partner is that a good thing??

Q.   I'm pretty much down to my last option. I'm a 37 year old married man, with two children. Have been married for 8 years, have been together for 15. I am in the middle of an affair. Not real proud of it, it is with a co-worker and it just happened...

A.   4 February 2009: I'm just wondering if the "Anonymous" poster of September 8, 2008 is still around....... (read in full...)

Leaving marriage for affair partner is that a good thing??

Q.   I'm pretty much down to my last option. I'm a 37 year old married man, with two children. Have been married for 8 years, have been together for 15. I am in the middle of an affair. Not real proud of it, it is with a co-worker and it just happened...

A.   5 January 2009: Wow. I would really like to hear from some of the people on this thread (especially "anonymous" woman below) who have left their marriages to be with their affair partners and how it worked out. In my case, I am married and was having an affair ... (read in full...)

Will I ever get over this man?? Is it possible that something so wrong could be meant to be?

Q.   I feel like I'm going crazy. I had an affair with an amazing man and it ended 3 months ago for all the right reasons. The problem is I'm having problems getting over it - I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him so much I really do feel like ...

A.   12 December 2008: Hi there. Looks like this question was from back in July, but I'm curious if there is any update from then?... (read in full...)

Do I tell her now (1 1/2 months later) I accept the breakup or just move on and accept on my own?

Q.   Hi all. I have a question for everyone. I'm a 36 year old male who is trying to accept the end of a 2 year relationship. At first I tried to hold on to this relationship and did a bit of begging and pleading for her not to go. Then we tried ...

A.   10 December 2008: Tisha-1, wow, thank you. Yes, that does sound like a plan. I need to do something like that and I guess there is no point in trying to call to explain or apologize for the awkwardness and simply wish her well and tell her I won't be contacting her ... (read in full...)

I'm having an affair but I don't want to hurt anybody or ruin anything. Help!

Q.   I have been having an affair with one of my collegues for over a year now. He has since proceeded with his divorce and it will be final at the end of the month. I have not even filed. My husband and i were only married 4 mos before i began this ...

A.   9 December 2008: Hi there. You said that your colleuge is getting divorced, but you haven't said what either of you really want. Does he want to be with you after he is divorced? Are you in love? You said you've been involved with Nathan for over a year? So... (read in full...)

Do I tell her now (1 1/2 months later) I accept the breakup or just move on and accept on my own?

Q.   Hi all. I have a question for everyone. I'm a 36 year old male who is trying to accept the end of a 2 year relationship. At first I tried to hold on to this relationship and did a bit of begging and pleading for her not to go. Then we tried ...

A.   8 December 2008: Wow, thanks everyone for all the quick responses! This so helpful. One thing I wanted to clarify is that while we haven't spoken since the day before Thanksgiving and have been having "no contact", I never said anything about this to her and I ju... (read in full...)

I want to get over my affair but it's so difficult! Please help me.

Q.   Hi all, Firstly, both of us are married, and I have been having an affair. I loved all the attention I was getting and about 1 month ago he broke off with me. It tore me apart intially, but now I am more stable. For the past two weeks, I have be...

A.   4 December 2008: First of all, know that you are not alone. I've been going through something so similar and am so glad that I found this site! I am married and had been having an affair for 2 years with a married woman. Neither of us has children and the ... (read in full...)

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