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Could I be being used?

Q.   hello im 33 and i am married to a muslim guy. we married after knowing him only 3 months or so. we married islamically.i think he is using me but his actions say otherwise. we argue a lot and he says he is in love with me , i would love a bab...

A.   20 January 2008: Trust your instincts I must say, what's pointing out to you that he is using you? How does he show his love? Buying you things, doing things for you and protecting you? Or is it the eye contacts, love making and watch you while you leave for work? ... (read in full...)

How do I act with my ex as he wants to keep in touch??

Q.   I am a girl,aged 18.I had a boyfriend for 4 months,but because he had to leave for Portugal,he decided to leave me. He left in the beginning of the month(January,5th).A month earlier he said we had to break up,as he was leaving and didn't want to ...

A.   20 January 2008: I think it was quite fair that he didn't attempt to keep you hanging on and give you the space to move on with your life. Now do you want to keep in touch with him? You're both still young and it's only a matter of time that he meets another girl in ... (read in full...)

My husband always takes the side of our children to the point they all become abusive! What should I do?

Q.   help - my husband of 24 years does not stand up for me - he always takes the side of our children to the point of them being very verbally abusive and physical as well. He does not step in to support me. I am at the point of leaving - what should ...

A.   20 January 2008: You poor mummy, I really don't think your husband respects you much it sounds similar to my case except i'm one of the child who followed my dad to turn abusive towards my mum. He really encouraged me at the time, i called her a whore and many awful ... (read in full...)

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