Waiting for sex until after marriage, any opinions?
Q. Abstaining from sex till marriage? I’m a virgin, abstaining from sex till marriage. My main fear, if I’m even lucky enough to find love is that if my partner might cheat on me. The only reason I fear this is because of what I’ve heard in the medi...
A. 23 May 2007: sod the media - its a complete joke. the media just piss people off and talk rubbish all the time just to sell a few more copies of their magazines. don't believe them. yes, a few people have affairs, but not most people...
and if you find som... (read in full...)
If a female has a piercing between her bottom lip and chin does that mean she's bi-sexual?
Q. If a female has a piercing between her bottom lip and chin does that mean she's bi-sexual? I've been told that kind of piercing mean the person is bisexual... just wanted to know if its true or not?...
A. 21 May 2007: come on surely this has got to be another fake question?... (read in full...)
Why won't she let me cum on her face?
Q. She let's me do it in her mouth everytime I ask, even swallows sometimes. She let's me do it on he rear all the time and once I did on her breasts but she will not let me ejaculate on her face. Isn't it unusual? Why do you think that is?...
A. 21 May 2007: er, maybe just because she doesn't like it? and no, its not unusual for someone not to do something they don't like.... (read in full...)
Can you tell if a guy gets hard if he's wearing jeans?
Q. Me and my guy were making out and I was on top of him and grinding a little bit into him and he was wearing jeans and I kept trying to see if he was hard but I don't think he was. Maybe I'm just too ugly or something. It made me feel like crap! I ...
A. 21 May 2007: yeah sometimes guys a little more than just grinding to get it up ;) don't take anything like that too seriously... the fact that he was making out with you tells you all you need to know at this point.... (read in full...)
How many time should I be having sex with my wife?
Q. How many time should I be having sex with my wife?...
A. 19 May 2007: how ever many times you both feel you want to surely... theres no right or wrong amount.... (read in full...)
I have slept with my husband's 18 yearold cousin. Should we stop or carry on?
Q. I am 24 years old and I started sleeping with my husbands 18 year old cousin, I dont love the cousin it kinda was something that just happened. It is fun and exciting havent felt like this in along time. What do we do keep on or stop? Kinda want to ...
A. 19 May 2007: You stop. if your husband was sleeping with someone else, let alone a relative, you'd go absolutely nuts i'm sure. so think how hes going to feel when, not if, he finds out.... (read in full...)
He has a profile stating that he is single. Am I right not to trust him?
Q. i love my bf so much...but i don't trust him, i was informed by a friend about a profile of his which states he is single, looking for fun and includes 'private pictures'. i discovered his password and i have been checking the site every day for ...
A. 17 May 2007: Does he still currently use the site? if your not sure then hold your horses - it might just be out of date from when you two weren't together. make sure of this first and foremost!!!... (read in full...)
How do I overcome feeling so nervous in having to give a presentation in front of my class?
Q. I need help on how to overcome my nervousness. This week I am doing a presentation to my English class, and I am quite scared. I don't like to speak in large groups. There are at least 25 students in the class. I'm afraid that the students will ...
A. 17 May 2007: I'd like to disagree with one point by anon from below.
you SHOULD make eye contact with the crowd. This will make you appear and be more confident and it helps the listeners pay attention to you. people getting bored because your talking to yours... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't want sex anymore! How do you go from wanting it all the time to not at all?
Q. I am 24 yrs old and my girlfriend is 21. we have been together almost 3 yrs. at the beginning of our relationship we were both sex addicts. all the time and anywhere. but for the past few months her sex craving has gone down (so she says) but now ...
A. 15 May 2007: i always find this article a good answer to many questions like this one. not saying it is the root of every relationship, but i guess its always something worth considering...
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4790313.stm... (read in full...)
I want to ask for his phone no. but I'm afraid of getting turned down. Any advice?
Q. hi. i am 14 and i work down at a riding school on sundays. There is a really nice boy down there who i fancy. He is a year younger than me. I want to ask for his mobile number, but I'm scared that he is going to say no because i have had that done ...
A. 15 May 2007: put simply, yes. you'd only hate yourself for not doing so if he suddenly stopped working at the same place. and that would hurt a lot more and rejection.... (read in full...)
Do I cause him pain when my muscles tighten?
Q. Im 21years old and lost my virginity to my long term boyfriend (3years) a few weeks ago. I was just wondering if I was causing him pain? Due to the fact I can feel my Vaginal Muscles tightening whilst hes inside of me. Thank you for any guidance ...
A. 15 May 2007: maybe the best way to find out is to ask him - its all about communication!... (read in full...)
How do you get a guy's attention?
Q. how do u get a guy's attention? i knew it's a stupid question but i really do want to know. please give me real answers!...
A. 15 May 2007: it is up to you. if you want it, you will. why should he come to you???... (read in full...)
My best friend and I are now in a relationship but she's worried if we break up our friendship will be ruined!
Q. right heres my problem. theres a girl ( just as in about every other tale )... known her for years.. lately become best friends... and i ask her to be my girlfriend. to my surprise she says yes. the day after i recived an email saying i should...
A. 14 May 2007: sorry to say but if you break up as a couple, the friendship will almost certainly take a big hit aswell.
if you break up due to circumstance (ie one of you moves away) then it might be well... but if you break up for, say for the sake of arguemen... (read in full...)
Had an operation on my leg and now--I can't ejaculate! What has happened?
Q. I recently went 4 an operation on my leg, but since this i have been unable to ejaculate. At first i cudn't even get a hard on, but now i can i still find it hard to cum. Is there anything i can do 2 help me?...
A. 14 May 2007: give it time for the operation to heal properly. by the sounds of things youve made progress already, just keep it up (hahahahahaha)... (read in full...)
He's Christian and doesn't want to have sex with me... I want to have sex. Will this work?
Q. Hello. I've been in a relationship for about a year and a half with a very kind, sweet guy whom I was at school with - for about a year it has been a long distance relationship as we're now at different universities. I'm physically attra...
A. 14 May 2007: it will work if you want it to. if you truely love him you will respect this, and no matter how frustrating you may feel, you will wait and honour him.... (read in full...)
Are any ladies or men who can give me some advice on what males of 23 think, want in a relationship?
Q. Hey Hey, I'm seeing this 23 year old....and there's a 7 year difference between us. Like... I wanna get inside his head...know or understand what he's thinking. I wanna know what 23 yr old males think and what they want. I wanna know conversa...
A. 14 May 2007: theres no one thing, sorry to say. its not as easy as that! a lot depends on education, class, upbringing etc etc.
everyones different. the best way is to ask him! but a good thing perhaps is to be up to date with current affairs... also shows yo... (read in full...)
All I wanted was his support for my friend who passed away. Was I out of line?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months. At first everything was great. But things have changed. A good friend of mine passed away recently and I hadn't seend my boyfriend since I was with the family. Well, I asked my bf if he and I could spend ...
A. 14 May 2007: let your bf come to you now. he should have stuck to his word, and realised that you really needed him. if he wants to be with you, hes got to prove himself and earn it now.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to have more sex with me?
Q. Hi there I am 21 years old my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for 3 years. Our sex life was great but recently he doesn't want to have sex as much as he use to, I now have to make the first move but he always says he's tired and doesn't want ...
A. 14 May 2007: erm, whats with you saying your 21 yet the page saying your 10-12 at the top?... (read in full...)
Would it be right for us to have a baby before the marriage?
Q. hi everyone i just need an advice from you guys, im with my bf for a year now then just recently he asked me for us to make a baby just to make sure that we could have one he's 30 and im 26, i told him that i wanted marriage first before anything ...
A. 14 May 2007: surely if you want to be sure you two can have a baby you could always have a fertility test? surely the attitude of 'lets have a baby just to be sure were both fertile' is really unconsiderate on the baby?... (read in full...)
He's younger than me and my friends say I shouldn't date a schoolboy! Should I listen to them?
Q. Hi There. I'm in urgent need of help. Im 21 and I'm seeing a 16 year old. He acts much older and is such a nice guy. I really love him and want this to last. We made love and it felt amazing. I though I might be pregnant and he told me he'd stan...
A. 13 May 2007: always your heart, always your heart. and a little bit of your head too at times, but never let friends get in the way of YOUR life. if you want to be with him, be so.... (read in full...)
He never knew I liked him and now he has a gf! What should I do?
Q. i really like this boy. but he has a new girlfriend. i am real good friends with his best friend. his friend told me that he liked me but he never knew how i felt about him. thats why he never did anythinng about it. what should i do....
A. 13 May 2007: "jury, will you please examine exhibit A, to my left. This is the prime example of why everyone should be open about their feelings. When you do not tell someone you feel for them, this happens. case closed"
as for what to do, theres nothing ... (read in full...)
I like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. Can we have a relationship anyway?
Q. My best guy friend(for about 9 years) has been paying a lot of attention to me this school year. He always gives me high fives and occasionally pokes and hugs me, and we always talk to each other. My friends say that we would look good together. I ...
A. 13 May 2007: so rhythmandblues2, why should she not let him know when you say he will her know? how do you know that? he might be sitting there thinking 'i really like her but don't want to risk her not liking me and ruin the friendship'. i say tell him, but ... (read in full...)
My friend is 14 and has slept with guys aged 13 to 30... how can I get her to stop!?
Q. im realli worried about my friend!!! she is 14 and she has slept with loads and loads of guys, all ages too. she is sleeping around ti make her self popular and i cant get it through to her that thats all they r after, she thinks havin sex with loa...
A. 13 May 2007: you must also tell the police about the times shes slept with people over 18. that illegal.... (read in full...)
Should I tell mr Amazing how I feel?
Q. Dear Cupid, For about two months now, I've been crushing on this really amazing guy. His name is Ethan, and he lives in the next town over from mine. He's seventeen, and like I said, he's amazing. Do you remember how, when you were a little gi...
A. 13 May 2007: yes you definitely should tell him, you'll only hate yourself if you don't and he gets a g/f next month, at least if you tell him you've tried your best as such.
as for how, always do it face to face. ... (read in full...)
My wife has some interest in other women, would it be a good idea to have a threesome?
Q. k so heres the thing....my wife has in the past had mild interest in other women. one time she even kissed one of our friends. i guess what im getting at is that i would like to try adding another woman to our sex life once in a while, just ...
A. 13 May 2007: don't do it - fantasy is so much better than the reality. it can wreck relationships, theres been many a post on here of people warning others not to...
even if the event goes with a bang and all is fine, it can still be brought up months later in... (read in full...)
Why can't I find a boyfriend?
Q. can anyone tell me what is wrong with me? i've been in search for a boyfriend for 2 years and i can find him!! i do have a couple of options but i don't know how to get them. i get so jealous when i see my friends cuddling and kissing their boyfri...
A. 13 May 2007: simply way. stop looking.
this might seem stupid, but your probably looking too hard. just relax, enjoy being yourself, and act naturally. if your always looking and this comes out in how you act towards people, it can put people off. just be ... (read in full...)
I'm underage and he cheated on her with me...
Q. ok i am in a real sticky situation. there is this 18 year old boy and he has a girlfriend but we have been doing some things lately. But he has come on to me first. im 14. he is a real player and he has cheated on her before. what should i do?...
A. 13 May 2007: don't tell his gf, thats the first thing. secondly, tell the police because hes 18 and your a child, that stuff is illegal.... (read in full...)
My ex bf is always logged onto messenger...is waiting for me to chat to him or is talking to other girls?
Q. me n my bf were used to chatting on yahoo msger. he would log on for me and me too. now we've broken up but I dont know, I cant get over him. he too on the either side had some family issues and so broke up, not willingly either. but I still see him ...
A. 11 May 2007: if your not together, its really any of your concern who he talks to really... and im always logged into messenger... doesn't mean im talk to someone all the time tho!... (read in full...)
Should I tell my Dad that his friend is touching me inappropriately?
Q. my dads friend always touches me in inapproiate places when my dad isnt around he told me not to tell anyone what should i do ? should i tell my dad ...
A. 11 May 2007: yes. and the police asap. he needs to be stopped incase it becomes more than touching... and incase he does it to anybody else too...... (read in full...)
I'm getting married to my gf, but I'm madly in love with a coworker.
Q. I am getting married in less than 2 months to a girlfriend of 4 years, she has 3 kids from a previous relationship who I get along with well. The past year has been very rocky: we have argued quite alot over everything from sex to money, the ...
A. 11 May 2007: maybe its just a case of seeing what else you could have before your finally 'unavailable', trying to see what you may 'miss out on', and then you'll finally realise it was just something going on in your head and not your true lasting feelings.
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My boyfriend is addicted to computer games!
Q. My Boyfriend just turned 20 years old. I am going to be 21 in october. We have been together for 7 months and have an apartment together. All he wants to do is play computer games. He says that when he gets home from work he just wants to relax and ...
A. 10 May 2007: yeah just show him how better other things can be!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 10 May 2007: walks in the country are good, or try and find a near by botanical garden - really good. esp in summer, you just sit around and enjoy being with eachother in a wonderful setting!... (read in full...)
How do you get a guy's attention?
Q. how do u get a guy's attention? i knew it's a stupid question but i really do want to know. please give me real answers!...
A. 10 May 2007: go up and talk to him - act friendly and pay him attention, in the sense that you should listen to him, make eye contact etc. something that will work (well on me at least) is seeming cheerful and confident in who you are!... (read in full...)
I find my boyfriend embarassingly unmanly. What can I do?
Q. Hey, I've recently started dating a guy, I'm 15 and he's 14, but because he's in the academic year below me my boy "friends" think it's weird. Sometimes they go as far as hitting him and tripping him up, "as a joke" For some reason, when the...
A. 9 May 2007: stick up for your boyfriend. he obviously need a bit of support from you here, so give it to him.... (read in full...)
Worries about doing it anal...
Q. I am willing to try anal with my partner. We are both VERY nervous about this new "spice". Can you please give me information on the best tips on doing this. Will it hurt? What about his "thing" comming out 'diry'? How can I prepare for it? Thank ...
A. 9 May 2007: if you scared and both nervous then why do it? try something that gets you going instead!... (read in full...)
How much sex is "just right"? Am I too sexual for this girl?
Q. If you are really in love with a girl and you have been with her for 7 years.... how many times should you be having sex a week if you really are attracted to eachother. I really want to have sex more and it seems like only twice a week maybe three ...
A. 9 May 2007: I guess its all about compromise, there is no right amount! its all about how your respective sex drives fit in with eachother.
just talk to her and be honest, explain what you've just said here, but do it gently. for all you know she wants it... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fake my sex experience with this guy who is way ahead of me in that area?
Q. Okay so I'm officially dating this guy, it's a secret though. We are crazy about each other, and we've been hanging out everyday afterschool, it's really hard though cause he lives on the otherside of town, were thinking about having sex, he's way ...
A. 9 May 2007: yep i agree, and if hes a lot more experienced, he might be able to tell your faking it anyway... best not to try at all! acting all inocent and sweet and inexperienced is probably going to turn him on even more, and as is the case with all ... (read in full...)
What should I expect when I'm with a boy and he wants to 'get off' with me?
Q. hi just a quick question! im kinda confused please can u tell me excactly what a boy expects when you get off with them? I haven't been put in this situation before and i want to know excactly what to do when it comes to it... please help i need to ...
A. 9 May 2007: although you shouldn't want to 'get off' with a boy if you don't know what it means. so long as you know how far you want to go with a boy, thats the important thing, it doesn't matter what its called. you shouldn't be aiming for a word your not ... (read in full...)
He cut me off completely...is this because he needs spacea and does it sound like we'll get back together?
Q. My boyfriend and I had dated for 5 months but we became so close in those 5 months. Our relationship was what I consider healthy and we didnt fight much. One day however we did get in a fight and that ended our relationship, he broke it off suddenly ...
A. 8 May 2007: give him his space, let things be, and how things see in the future. perhaps he just needs to get himself sorted before he can come back to you, which he may well do so. but perhaps best not to wait forever for him, incase he never does. best of ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous so I tested my boyfriends fidelity and now he doesn't want to be with me anymore. Should I try to get back with him?
Q. I have been with this guy for 2 years now, and we get on great - but we have some quite big arguments over nothing.. when we argue we both usually know that we'l be back together within an hour.. I am a jealous person, i cant help it i just a...
A. 8 May 2007: sounds to me like you made your bed, and now have to lie on it. i think things are entirely up to him, not you now.... (read in full...)
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