We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?
Q. I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...
A. 24 April 2008: You deserve so much better than this. Because you are smart and attractive there is no need to accept crumbs from anyone. Besides, you know he is a cheater. Would you really want a boyfriend who is a cheater?
I'm certain his gf doesn't know he ... (read in full...)
My problem is our exclusive sex life became unexistant since engaging in the "swinger" activities!
Q. hi i have been seeing my bf since last november stated fantastic he was all over me .then after 1 month nothing he never hardly touches me .we now go swinging and he does everything with the other women ,i have asked why not me but he wont ...
A. 24 April 2008: I guess you have to ask yourself is this the relationship of your dreams? If the answer is no, then you know what to do.... (read in full...)
He wants to date other girls and to continue to date me as well. Is he really interested in me?
Q. i dated a guy twice two weeks ago. when he called me for our third date, i reminded him that i was not comfortable dating a man who was dating other women at the same time, he didn't say anything at all at that time but later on the same day of our ...
A. 24 April 2008: You've only had a few dates. How could either of you know that you only want to be with each other after so short of a time? i think it is normal for both to keep dating others until they decide on exclusivity with one person. ... (read in full...)
Moving to another country for love? He's not exactly against getting married eventually.
Q. moving for love? i'm with my bf for almost a year now. He's been wonderful, caring and loving. I'm 26, he's 31. he's moving to another country and has 'invited' me to move with him. Actually he said it's up to me but when I said I am consider...
A. 22 April 2008: No, I wouldn't move with him at this point having only been together for a year and him telling you he doesn't intend to get married.
Is it you plan to marry one day?
Would you move to this country on your own if he wasn't in the picture?
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How are you supposed to keep a strong connection when you only see someone twice a week and no calls in between?
Q. Me and my guy have been seeing each other for 6 weeks now and we are great together but I have one complaint! He doesnt call me much at all I have noticed the last couple of weeks. He will call when I am supposed to come over and maybe a couple ...
A. 21 April 2008: Hi! I really can relate to what you are going through! I put up with this roller coaster for 3 years and just now broke it off. We'd have a great time on the weekend; well part of the weekend, saturday night to sunday afternoon and I wouldn't h... (read in full...)
Am I being a complete idiot and clinging onto something that isnt going to work.. or is there light at the end of the tunnel?
Q. Okay.. I have been seeing this guy since last July, and we hit it off straight away. He is 10 years older than me and had just come out of a 23 year relationship.. He has 2 children, one of 10 and another 20.. He moved out and rented his own flat. ...
A. 17 April 2008: He sounds like a mess.
I have this rule never to date separated or recently divorced men. They simply aren't ready to move on. They usually try to find someone to date quickly as they are lonely but that woman is the rebound girl. The rebound ... (read in full...)
Should I marry my cheating boyfriend? It's not like he gets away with it because I catch him every time!
Q. should i marry my boyfriend of three years? even though he cheated on me numberous times and lied about it and i caught him everytime....
A. 15 April 2008: I'm not sure what difference it makes that you always catch him because he is still doing it?
If you want to spend your best years married to a cheater then go for it, but I bet you can find a decent man out there who won't cheat on you.... (read in full...)
Would I be better off alone even though we love each other??
Q. I fear I love my man too much. Currently, I'm living about a 2-hour commute away from him, in my parents' house, because I'm student teaching, and the school I teach at is close to my parents' house. I always look forward to weekends, because ...
A. 15 April 2008: If you are still with him, I think that maybe you should just skip a weekend or two. Makes other plans with some friends and have some fun instead of worrying about if he is going to show up or not and then having that ruin your weekend. ... (read in full...)
Should I give him a month to think things through?
Q. "I have been with a guy for 7 years who is not ready to get married yet, we are both approaching 30 and to make things worse we have been living in different cities for 3years now. Our relationship has survived the distance until recently when we ...
A. 7 April 2008: No, he has had 7 years worth of chances. What he is doing is stalling so you'll take him back and continue on as they are without him having to anything. You have waited long enough. ... (read in full...)
Anything wrong with a 19 year old male dating 26 year old woman?
Q. Hello! I was wondering, is there anything technically wrong with a 19 year old male dating a 26 year old female.. with two twin kids? Maybe it's just a crush, but I believe I'm pretty into her. Obviously older men date younger girls, b...
A. 7 April 2008: I suppose the only problem i could see is that at 19 you'll be growing and changing a lot in the next 5 years or so.
She may be looking for someone to settle down with eventually. Just be honest and fair with her.
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I want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him.
Q. Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me some...
A. 7 April 2008: Well he's a man and not the same as us women.
Try this and watch him flip out.
Wear a corset with the garters and fishnet stocking with tall stiletto heels. Poofy messy hair and lots of makeup. Be confident and show off. Don't be all hiding an... (read in full...)
Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?
Q. I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for ...
A. 7 April 2008: Ask yourself, have all the problems that is causing your marriage to end been resolved 100%?
Why are your afraid to end the marriage?
I think if you know deep down the marriage is over, end it and then go visit the man in Australia and se... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but would never marry me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years, we have 4 kids together and he has been married before and engaged before. The other day I was talking to him and he said that he would never marry me. So I got very angry I am not talking to him ...
A. 1 April 2008: Did you finish your education or have in job skills? I think you need to prepare yourself if something happens to him as legally you most likely won't get squat. He should at least have a life policy with you as beneficiary.... (read in full...)
I met an older man after my divorce, one year later the excitement has gone though and I'd rather be alone. Why is this?
Q. I've been living a separate life with my husband for 4 years. We've got two flats and we only see each other mostly at weekends. In the end I was fed up that he was refusing to live with me so I divorced him. I am craving for love and company. ...
A. 31 March 2008: I think it is normal to feel this way. He just isn't the right man for you. After my divorce I spent several years on my own and it was great. I advanced in my career, started new hobbies, did things I always wanted to do. You can do the same. Sta... (read in full...)
Am I being used just for comfort?
Q. I feel very lost and lonely in my relationship of 16 months right now. I do believe my boyfriend has commitment problems and sometimes It really does hurt me, considering weve been together for so long and yet I dont think hes over it. Ive never ...
A. 4 March 2008: Since you are 16, I would move on and date others. Enjoy your youth and getting out there with your friends and other boys and have a good time.... (read in full...)
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