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| | missaqua777's profile:im quite an adaptable, open minded person and i believe that there is always more than one perspective on something, i can often emphasize with others as well. Im an idealist and like to believe there's more in life than rationality-like fate!
i've realised through experience that you do need others, at least a bit, to make you happy, ive been through the "no friends years", the "wild mental breakdown years" "the AGGRESSIVE years"(lol)...you get the picture. now, however i have a group of amazing new friends THEY ARE MY CLAN! of course i still have a few old nearest and dearest :) i think others have helped me to become the crazy, confident person i am today(i have been described as permanently high) however i do believe that its healthy to let ppl help themselves but i do believe "a problem shared is a problem halved". i like to write and paint also :D
i hope that people find happiness within themselves. being happy is the main thing, follow your heart and if you want something bad enough it's always possible-BUT MORALS ARE ALSO IMPORTANT!!lol xxx
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I think I want to move on, but he keeps kissing me! Should I just carry on with this weird relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! Well I have a pretty straight forward question so I hope you can all help me. Basically I went out with the most amazing boy for a whole year and for someone my age that is practically forever!!!! Any ways and since we have been broke...
A. 20 July 2008: it seems to me it's about how he treats you in general which should suggest whether you wnat to take things further and obvs how well you know him i mean personally when i was your age i had some of the STRONGEST feelings for guys so far in my life ... (read in full...)
Do I tell the truth to my friend's mother about the necklace my friend shoplifted?
Q. okay so my friend shoplifted an expensive necklace a week ago and i didnt say anything, but i think her mother is suspicious,and i am going to go to her house in two days when her mother is going to be there and i think that she might end up talking ...
A. 15 June 2008: well you should let your friend know that you disapprove of his actions and i think you should be honest with his mum because what he did was wrong so maybe she could persuade him to return it in some way (if that's possible might be too risky) also ... (read in full...)
How can I get a boyfriend?
Q. How can I get a boyfriend? I flirt with guys who I like and they flirt back, I know that a lot of guys like me so how do I get one of them to be my boyfriend? I don't know why no guy has asked me out yet. I talk to lots of guys and I like 2 guys and...
A. 5 June 2008: i dont know how your confidence levels rate but i would suggest maybe actions rather than words? ;) i mean if you feel confident enough to, take the flirting a step further, maybe touch his leg and look proper deep into his eyes (not too deep) if he ... (read in full...)
He keeps saying that he masturbates over me in the Internet... can I take him seriously?
Q. Hi DearCupid! Derz This Lad Hu Used 2 Tease Me Alot And Was Really Nasty, But Now He's Being All Flirty With Me! And Keeps Saying That He Masturbates Over Me [On Msn] But I Just Can't Take Him Seriously! How Can I Find Out If He's Just Taking The ...
A. 26 May 2008: he's proved that he doesn't respect you by treating you like scum, if a guy likes you he may tease about stuff that he know won't upset you but if a boy intentionally tries to hurt or belittle you, he's NOT WORTH IT and it doesnt say a lot for his ... (read in full...)
My first boyfriend. I need some advice on things to do.
Q. I asked for advice before, the question was: ''I made him give me advice about dating a boy, without knowing I referred to him. Now that he knows, I'm not sure what to do next.'' Well, he's my first boyfriend, and I'm not his first. He knows tha...
A. 26 May 2008: do what comes naturally, when you're having a joke with him and you just wanna fling your arms around him, touch him playfully on the arm, come up from behind him and put your arms round him, lean close to him in his personal space(but not all the ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to convert a gay guy?
Q. i dont know what im gonna get back on this but is it possible to convert a gay guy?? how often is it that they actually realise they've made a mistake and they actually are straight?? thanks...x ...
A. 24 May 2008: lol, oh dear. but friends-WHAT if i have the gut instinct that he's not gay and he claims he is ... i dont know im a bit crazy and i like to believe the impossible that i can change stuff that supposedly shoudnt be changed im sorry guys but im not ... (read in full...)
I've been a bit forward with my teacher lately, and now he's backed off! I'm struggling to deal with this.
Q. i have been a bit forward with my teacher lately i sent him an email saying how much he makes me smile and then another email saying how glad i am i have now got to an A grade in history (he teaches me that) saying how great he was and then he ...
A. 22 May 2008: hi! im in a very similar situation- this is a question i posted:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/hes-older-i-cant-get-him-out-of.html
im not gonna do anything now, if at all. i think it's best to leave it for the moment however much it ... (read in full...)
I feel marginalised and treated like dirt by this group of girls. I don't know what to do!
Q. hi i started college this year and met some great people however some of these people turned out to be not so great. they started treating me like dirt to be honest, a group of girls i made friends with from the begininning gradually started ...
A. 19 May 2008: i think that for you to get the better of these girls you have to become really confident and that starts with emphasizing your individualty, fun lol!! take time to recognise everything you love about yourself that's personal to you and maybe traits ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?
Q. Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...
A. 17 May 2008: hey, i think if you talk to any girl they will say they've had a teacher crush and sometimes it's love, sometimes it's lust, sometimes it's infactuation but even if it is coming from the heart, there is no excuse for you to do anything now. i dont ... (read in full...)
Do you consider race a factor when choosing a partner?
Q. I'm a African-American male that likes all types of women. The women I used to be with are Latinos. I do not really care about ethnicity because if you look for someone that understands your needs and your strives, that someone may not be your color ...
A. 13 May 2008: i think it is a consideration when choosing a gf/bf, not an absolute essential but a consideration. personally i generally crush on and my ideal man i think would be a white guy-but on the other hand it's not like i wouldnt ever go for a guy of ... (read in full...)
Am I too mad or dull to get a boyfriend?
Q. this isnt really a relationship problem, more a life problem but here goes.... every time I go out I am either very quite and shy, so noone likes me, or i have a drink and am embarressingly loud and people think (and i quote) "that girl is ma...
A. 10 May 2008: you are not a boring person at all but you obviously have some confidence issues, which always hinder the person's life in some way. shy people with confidence issues are so common and everyone is shy at some time in their life but as you learn and ... (read in full...)
My crushes are based on personality, not looks, is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for me (17) to not have ANY feelings at all about guys who all my friends say are really fit? I really am not attracted to pysical appearence, If I get a crush on sombody it is because of his personality and unless he is dead ugly the...
A. 30 April 2008: hey hun. ok id just like to add something i forgot, it's just i think it's really significant-i once had a crush on a 50 year old guy-because of his personality-oh yeah it's true...hoped this helped :D... (read in full...)
My crushes are based on personality, not looks, is this normal?
Q. Is it normal for me (17) to not have ANY feelings at all about guys who all my friends say are really fit? I really am not attracted to pysical appearence, If I get a crush on sombody it is because of his personality and unless he is dead ugly the...
A. 29 April 2008: hey!! i'd like to say that you are wayyy more normal than you realise, i have a large group of friends and all my gfs crushes are based on personality, we have endless talks about all the meaningful, specific stuff that we love about our crushes, me ... (read in full...)
How should I tell my teacher that he made my life worth living?
Q. My chorus teacher (who I'm in love with, but forget about that right now) is the reason why I'm still here today. I was suicidal in eighth grade and was going to follow through with it if ninth grade didn't go well. Obviously since I'm in twelfth ...
A. 29 April 2008: hi! i think that you should maybe tell him through a letter that to you he is very special and an inspiration and that you appreciate him so much as a person-i wouldn't say you were in love for him mainly because he may just label you as a student ... (read in full...)
Why does the fact that I have big boobs make guys assume they can treat me like a slut?
Q. Hi Im 16 and am a 5"3 size 8-10, very curvy, G chested female. I have always hated my figure so thats nothing new, but recently I've felt particularly shite because everytime I go out to enjoy myself around people my own age, for instance at part...
A. 27 April 2008: yup the other answers here about dressing are extremely true, but i'd also like to sortof expand on Namatjira's point, ok firstly dressing right is vital-wear clothes that you feel comfortable in, i think you are definitely right not to wear short ... (read in full...)
SITE VIDEO: April 2008 video from Andrew
Q. Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??...
A. 25 April 2008: you are quite young-wow you must be a computer genius!!lol i have a friend like that hes ALSO CALLED ANDREW!! lots of weird coincidental stuff like that happening to me lately...anyway yh life goes on lol...
anyway back to the point, that will be ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with their teases that became annoying after a year?
Q. Okay, alot of guys i know think i look like 50 Cent, the rapper, and they always call me "CURTIS' because they think it's funny...and whenever me and one of the guys are alone, they say i don't really look like him..i just don't understand...i told ...
A. 19 April 2008: Think about it if they're all acting like gimps when theyre together but act fine when youre alone-they're just ganging up on you. They are immature, petty typical boys who have ONE SIMPLE Y CHROMOSOME and no nothing better where as we girls are ... (read in full...)
Are these sexual thoughts wrong?
Q. im 15 n ive recently started having serious sexual thoughts about a lad i know. ive never thought like this before n it shocked me a bit. he says he thinks about me in THAT way too - he texts me all the time saying things about sex n like 'imagine ...
A. 19 April 2008: It's a natural reaction you get turned on by this, these feelings are coming so naturally to you because you are in the middle of sexual maturity, also your hormones are pretty wild at that age. Sex is a natural thing and is not wrong but agreed, ... (read in full...)
I see my teacher as a regular man with feelings so I don't idealize him. Should I wait to tell him my feelings?
Q. hey i know this is the usual because many girls post this but im 17 and in 11th grade in love with my History teacher (30).... this all started 31/2 years ago....in 9th i would just see him teach lessons in his room....and i thought about nothing ...
A. 18 April 2008: hun teacher student relationships are forbidden because there's some dodgy sick manipulative perves out there who want to take advantage of minors, who are inexperienced and vunerable. you are not a minor, you are practically an adult and you seem ... (read in full...)
Have I technically lost my virginity because I used a tampon for the first time?
Q. well i used a tampon for the first time today. i was just wondering, will this break my hypen? DONT EVEN KNOW IF THATS WHAT ITS CALLED lol, that little stretchy thing inside and they say it breaks when you lose your virginity-does it mean ive ...
A. 15 April 2008: thank you! :)... (read in full...)
I'm suffering from really bad period pains! Any tips on how to obviate them?
Q. Hi, i'm suffering from really bad period pains! And when i'm in classes at school I don't know what to do because the pain becomes unbearable - and its not like I can just take a paracetemol because some teachers are quite strict about it! ...
A. 14 April 2008: hi i have been in your EXACT position, it affects me really bad too, sometimes im in actual agony for like 3 days! ive tried every single short term method there is, the only short term thing i recommend is ibuprofine-make sure you take two-take ... (read in full...)
They don't like me because I'm different, how do I chill out and fit in?
Q. i've always had a problem when it comes to making friends and fitting in, i'm not nasty or anything just quite shy. I admit i am abit different and when i started this year on my course i fit in really well but with people being there from school ...
A. 5 April 2008: Quite :)... (read in full...)
My uncle is sex-pesting me, I don't want to say anything to my family, but what can I do?
Q. Hi, While I was camping a couple of years ago I slept in another camper tent. There are three double beds. My Cousin in one my other cousin in another and next to one of the beds is another one that my aunty and uncle sleep. I slept next to my...
A. 4 April 2008: if you havent already told him to stop you need to that because if he keeps persueing you after that he is a SERIOUS SERIOUS threat, also you need to tell someone you TRUST, regardless or whether that perosn is family or not, also, agreed, childline ... (read in full...)
Why am I not able to like someone and have them like me back?
Q. Hey, Here's my (slightly confusing) situation: I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend, never even kissed a guy or anything. Until about half a year ago, I had *major* confidence and shyness issues, and also I never bothered about my appearan...
A. 4 April 2008: i think it sounds like youve probably still got some insecurities that you dont realise on the surface and that stops you feeling happy with who you are as a person, which could be why you feel like they're after you to use you, admittedly a lot of ... (read in full...)
They don't like me because I'm different, how do I chill out and fit in?
Q. i've always had a problem when it comes to making friends and fitting in, i'm not nasty or anything just quite shy. I admit i am abit different and when i started this year on my course i fit in really well but with people being there from school ...
A. 4 April 2008: hun, persueing this case is pointless, why would you want to be friends with these people, they dont respect you as a person, they dont help you, they dont listen to anything youve got to say, if it's possible i would try my hardest to find new ... (read in full...)
They wont talk to me after I lost the plot in a store!
Q. Just want to make one thing clear before I tell you my problem ... I’m not a female despite what It says at the top of the answer, If fact, I'm using my daughter's account. About a week ago my son-in-law, granddaughter and I where in the supermar...
A. 3 April 2008: we all flip sometimes it's no big deal, your family were probably only annoyed because it's setting a bad example to the kid also it's a little embarrasing but it shouldnt be an issue if i was in your daughter's position i would reprimand you and ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
A. 3 April 2008: oh wow that really is exciting, i know that sounded sarcastic but its not-i genuinely feel a warm vibe inside me i have so much respect and gratitude for this site, all we can do now is think onwards and upwards for DC!! these people are legend!!x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex. How do I stop this?
Q. hi my name is michele and i am 15 years old. well i have been with my boyfrined for 7 months and he is rushing me into things that i dont want to do. how can i stop this from happening. thanks michele P.s please help...
A. 18 March 2008: ok just remember that it is your own body, you're own voice you should only lose your virginity when you know in your head and your heart that it's the right thing to do, DONT GIVE IN you can only lose it once and this guy knows that youre unsure so ... (read in full...)
He's not a creep, he's HOT! Is he just playing me?
Q. OK theres this guy I know. I've noticed he's quite flirty-which doesn't bother me in fact he says he flirts with everyone. Now he SAYS he's just playing yet he winks and looks at me longingly. He's also offered his place for me to 'esc...
A. 17 March 2008: sounds like a bit of a tease, maybe he is maybe not however you must trust your best judge ment and remember that even thou he's hot, he could hurt you or take advantage of you. lots of guys tease when they flirt or like someone- however it is a bit ... (read in full...)
A thought for women
Q. After reviewing some post here on dearcupid.org, and seeing a few TV shows about how women (not all) feel about sex and their men. Some things we hear are “feel like I’m a slab of beef”; “sex on the brain”, among others. What women don’t ...
A. 17 March 2008: i dont know why but there just seems to be so many young guys around these days who give you one look and you know exactly what's on their mind. maybe it's partly due to the media that there are so many sex-crazed young blokes around, tends to be ... (read in full...)
I have trouble making new friends because I'm shy. Please help
Q. Hey! Im in a new school and im finding it very hard to open up. Everyone always tells me im so quiet or shy. Id rlly like to open up, but i cant. I try to build up my confidence, or picture myself talking with ease, but that never seems to work. ...
A. 12 March 2008: I think that when it’s a case of being really scared to talk around ppl, it’s more social anxiety than just mere shyness. I know exactly how that feels and when I was fourteen I talked to a counsellor about how I felt and she helped me develop an ... (read in full...)
Is it gay to join your female friends on a girls' night out and feel excellent?
Q. Hi my name is paul and i went out with some woman that i know and it first it was just going to be just them to a girls night out.. One of my best friends asked me to come with them and i said i would and i had a good time. It was me and 5 of them. ...
A. 9 March 2008: i think only you know if youre gay. do you get turned by men or gay porn, or not find woman attrative. Because it's a sexual orientation it's more important who you actually want to have sex with, as opposed to what gender your friends are. If these ... (read in full...)
No idea where I stand with my (adult!) student and trying not to compromise my job can be hard! Why inviting me if he is already committed?
Q. I have a question and a problem. I teach german to adults and have a student to whom I feel deeply attracted to. He has been divorced for a year and has a girlfriend - had one very quickly after his divorce. we know each other for about 9 months ...
A. 9 March 2008: ok, i don’t think that you should feel guilty about feeling attracted to him, one because you’re both adults and we’re human beings, you cant help feeling attracted towards one another. I know though, it’s hard to tell if someone’s in love with you ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my teacher?...
Q. Hi i'm 14 years old and i fancy my business studies teacher i really really want to get over him because he's 42 or 43 and it's silly fancying a teacher but i can't and thats the problem. every time i go into his class i can't stop gazing into his ...
A. 6 March 2008: we all get drawn in by our emotions, we dont choose who we fall for ALL people have had crushes on teachers-it's common to obsess over your teacher, you feel like crying because you have a strong infactuation with him-any strong feelings you think ... (read in full...)
Am I being used just for comfort?
Q. I feel very lost and lonely in my relationship of 16 months right now. I do believe my boyfriend has commitment problems and sometimes It really does hurt me, considering weve been together for so long and yet I dont think hes over it. Ive never ...
A. 4 March 2008: noticeably in your question you haven't mentioned anything about really feeling strong emotions for this guy-this is not an accusation- i mean do you really want to hang on for this guy? this guy isn't committing, showing you true feelings, showing ... (read in full...)
How can I tell if he enjoyed it?
Q. I gave my first handjob yesterday and I'm not sure if I pleased him or not, I honestly don't feel as if I did. He did bust and he was breathing heavy afterwards, but I'm still not sure. Does anyone know how to tell if he liked it or not without ...
A. 2 March 2008: i think that sometimes, we as girls tend to be modest, even when we feel deep down that we did a good job :P where as men boast and are arrogant, although they actually havent done as good as they think. im talking in general here, using an example ... (read in full...)
Are sociable guys actually shy around the girl they fancy? Is there a rule?
Q. hey peeps, is it true that guys that are really outgoing and friendly and sociable are shy and reseved around the girl they fancy? i wondered cause im really confused about this thing... anyway thanks for people's opinions in advance x ...
A. 28 February 2008: thanks for all your imput, it's just there is a guy whos REALLY PROPER outgoing, will talk to anyone, lovely guy but whenever he sees me he looks genuinely TERRIFIED also he speaks in a quiter tone of voice however he's not nervous or stuttery ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 28 February 2008: me? no of course not why would it be me?...(looks around shiftily) i think this word has been spoken too many times people hand your heads in shame!!
lol!... (read in full...)
How do I tell this girl I really like her?
Q. ive liked this girl for over a year now. i liked her alot. i went away for a while and thought i was completely over her but ive gone completely MENTAL! i luv her so much. we are gud friends and i wana ask her out. i dnt wana play any game just want ...
A. 28 February 2008: i agree, when i plan to approach someone i like when the actual time comes i get soooo nervous i just FREAK OUT. it's no good because i just end up thinking "i am never trying that again i am not going to put myself through that again" lol. mind you ... (read in full...)
Are sociable guys actually shy around the girl they fancy? Is there a rule?
Q. hey peeps, is it true that guys that are really outgoing and friendly and sociable are shy and reseved around the girl they fancy? i wondered cause im really confused about this thing... anyway thanks for people's opinions in advance x ...
A. 27 February 2008: yh thanks for your reply i really have been getting mixed answers but would you say youre a really, proper outgoing guy? lol x thanks ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much?
Q. Well my boyfriend wants to have anal sex more often but it's very painful for me but I want to satisfy him, what can I do so it won't hurt as much? ...
A. 26 February 2008: anal sex IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE. The butthole is for one thing only there should be no pressure to experiment with this crap, if anything people should make an effort to avoid it. Girl, you don't need to do this for him, you know you dont want this ... (read in full...)
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