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i've realised through experience that you do need others, at least a bit, to make you happy, ive been through the "no friends years", the "wild mental breakdown years" "the AGGRESSIVE years"(lol)...you get the picture. now, however i have a group of amazing new friends THEY ARE MY CLAN! :) i think others have helped me to become the crazy, confident person i am today(i have been described as permanently high) however i do believe that its healthy to let ppl help themselves but i do believe "a problem shared is a problem halved".
i turned 18 a few months ago and i feel like i've really built myself i've resisted SIN lol in the process developed a strong sense of morals, individuality and realised my passions, such as writing art and ice-skating :):)
SO LIFE GOES ON GET OVER IT LOL!!!! :D:P
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Am a lover? Or his mother?
Q. I am sittin here angry....why becoz I have a Man (boy) in my house that thinks he is my boyfriend. However, we have as often a nun and a monk....and he does not work, I cook, I clean, I do it all...as he sits and watches, doing his thing....we use ...
A. 27 September 2009: u should show him this thread and then kick him out xx... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my lesbian teacher and its making me question my sexuality!
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Question 1: I know the topic of teacher crushes has been discussed to death on this site but I feel that my situation is a little more unique in that my teacher happ...
A. 24 September 2009: Hi i think from reading this as an outsider it seems that you're a very rational person and your instincts couldn't be more accurate, i mean basically it sounds to me like you most probably are a lesbian because your past obsessions all show this ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a slacker in bed
Q. Basically I have a really bad problem, i love the guy I’m with more than anything, but, well, in bed he's not exactly great... I’m lucky if he lasts 5 minutes and he’s really selfish in bed. I spoke to a mate of mine, and we were talking about sex ...
A. 23 July 2009: Hi You sound weirdly like my best friend it's not you is it?? ;D;D lol :D well i mean one thing you could try is like deprive each other of sex for a bit, that way maybe you'll both want it more be more up for it and your bf will physically b... (read in full...)
Do men mind pubic hair?
Q. Hi, I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz h...
A. 26 June 2009: children are produced from sex which happens between a man and a woman and you're a child-at the START of approaching womanhood "do men mind" no true "man" will have sex with a child- screw what men, the media society claims, it's all psychological ... (read in full...)
Fell in love with my ex-teacher, should I tell him, do you think there is a future?
Q. Hi... I am new here and I am in need of some help. I for some unknown reason have fallen in love with my teacher from junior year of high school. Here is some more information about my situation.My Junior Year he was new to the school and i didnt ...
A. 1 June 2009: Hi!
It seems like another case where we let ourselves be emotionally controlled, which is when we tragically(lol!) make rash ruthless decisions like blurting without thinking ending up looking mental so as for actually telling him now i wouldn't... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he notice me?
Q. Ok I really like this guy but he doesn't pay attention to me. It's like I don't exist to him. I don't want to like him but I can't help it. I would just catch myself staring at him for like a really long time. Right now he is going out with another ...
A. 15 May 2009: show your confidence laugh a bit louder(but not crazy!!) with your friends stand slightly away from your group when he's looking if you notice out the corner of your eye make cool eye-contact with him if e/c lingers try smiling
yeah u can talk to ... (read in full...)
My 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean.
Q. 'friend' called me a cow no one wants to milk. What the hell is that even supposed to mean. He also said I'd become fat now. What in the world is it any of his business anyway. I am so mad right now- enough to not contact him again!...
A. 15 May 2009: complete twat who can just throw lines like that at someone he calls a "friend?" no respect or care n maybe u should show him this friend so he can see how everyone agrees what a twat he is i wouldnt contact him again!! x... (read in full...)
How do I find her G spot?
Q. hi, Im a fifteen (soon sixteen) years old guy with a serious girlfirend. We have had sex since... I dont know when... earlier than last summer at least. well, enough about me, I came here for a question. By GF and I have sex quite often and... w...
A. 15 May 2009: listen you say unot bothered about you right so just let go of everything you're insecurities and let nature flow it's all about in the moment if you just relax and go for it if you're loving the time you'll perform the best without realising it, ... (read in full...)
Too much pressure...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out (dating) for over a year now. We've become so close to each other that we tell each other everything and I just want to spend my every waking hour with him and he says he loves me as well. There have been many ...
A. 15 May 2009: you know deep down what you should do- or shouldnt, you say he loves you too well if that's so he would want the first time to be an act of love- which apart fron reproduction is the only thing sex SHOULD be, a way to express your love for each ... (read in full...)
Why won't he approach me?
Q. Hey! Basically this guy he looks at me more than is socially acceptable like the proper full head turn, not the sort of look that you would imagine. He's shown other little signs he likes me but we've never spoken, he looks at me with eyebrows ...
A. 4 March 2009: ok thanks a lot i know i should be more open just feel foolish i suppose but better than losing him, agian thanks i will talk to him very soon :D:D xxx ... (read in full...)
Can anyone decipher his actions?
Q. Interested or is it in my head?? - he often looks at me regardless of if we make eye contact and sometimes he actually cranes his head there was this time i was laughing with some1 he proper looked, i look at him sometimes but i mainly slyly obs...
A. 28 January 2009: yeah but why would he KEEP looking at me i also look for signs that he isn't iterested im trying SO hard to keep things real in perspective LOL when i read this over it seems he does like me but like you said i don't want to get hurt.
thank... (read in full...)
I sit in the bedroom on my own and avoid my husband and kids because I don't know how to tell them the truth.
Q. I have been married for 19 years... the majority of that time I have been unhappy. I have done everything I can to make sure everyone else is happy. I feel so unhappy and alone. I don't want to upset anyone, even when my husband had an affair I ...
A. 24 January 2009: im sure that nobody was destined to end up sitting alone in a bedroom this is just a wake up call don't feel like a bad person most people would NOT have stuck around 19 years i think your actions are very noble you have no choice but to explain to ... (read in full...)
Having some trouble knowing if this guy's interested or not.
Q. Hi, having some trouble knowing if this guy's interested or not we've never spoke, he doesn't really STARE but he always looks my way sometimes for a second sometimes longer whenever he sees me and there was this one time he looked at me when he ...
A. 24 January 2009: well it's changed a bit at first i was like just maybe im imagining his looks it's in my head but thye otehr day i walked past didnt look felt him staring then when i came back he craned his head backwards to make eye-contact and when i was talking ... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 16 January 2009: well not really much u can do i guess obviously nobody really knows what's in her head how can they maybe she just needs to get over herself lol whatever happens happens suppose :)
my situation moving :D:D he actually craned his head to look at ... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 13 January 2009: I should warn you I'm an optimist but don't COMPLETELY rule it out yet because those signs were pretty suggestive why else would she KEEP looking at you all this time and the whole awareness of being close and everything i mean seems to me there are ... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 11 January 2009: most probably this was the reason i mean i noticed my guy was acting more distant i was a bit panicky lol cos i thought manybe he's gone off me and that's why im planning to show interest rememeber there is no rush if you feel now is the right time ... (read in full...)
Having some trouble knowing if this guy's interested or not.
Q. Hi, having some trouble knowing if this guy's interested or not we've never spoke, he doesn't really STARE but he always looks my way sometimes for a second sometimes longer whenever he sees me and there was this one time he looked at me when he ...
A. 11 January 2009: well since he's making less eye-contact i want him more now so i will pluck up my courage and swallow my pride lol, so you think he likes me back??
thanks :):)... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 11 January 2009: sorry about the late reply, you should be smiling at her and making more eye-contact because of these signs believe me she likes you if she was just messing about she would not be giving you so many good signs, the constant looking over at you ... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 1 January 2009: I meant that if you keep looking over at her you'll most probably come across as needy- you should try and show someone you're interested in that you have your own life and you may look a bit desperate, if you catch her looking at you THEN look at ... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians
Q. A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing...
A. 30 December 2008: im not 100% sure but i've read things on the internet and in a magazine that boys can't choose their sexuality but girls can maybe you want to research into it, well basically there is definitely no such thing as normal in this context i know a few ... (read in full...)
Have sex? Or wait?
Q. Hey Everyone, sorry for the lenqth in advance. But I'm a fifteen year old qirl and I've been datinq my boyfriend for three months. We are very much in love with eachother. For the past couple of days I've really been thinkinq about sex. ...
A. 29 December 2008: 3 months really isn't long and i think that you should be able to wait at least sixteen years before you do it- seems like you could end up regretting it just persevere and be that little more patient how old is this guy because if he's already had ... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 29 December 2008: ok wait longer than 5 days i would say definitely at least a week if u approach her too often she could end up thinking of you as desperate, weird obsessive be careful with that.
also dont completely ignore her she may be more shy than u realised... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 27 December 2008: weird it's somewhat a surprise she didn't welcome you i guess thinking realistically think it was probably because the nervous stuttering thing making her feel unconfortable, particularly around her friends- she may just have been taken aback it's a ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to try weed?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to smoke weed with him but I won't because I'm allergic to cigarette smoke. do they contain mutual elements? or would it be fine if I tried it?...
A. 23 December 2008: firstly dont try it. whatever he tells you at the end of the day it may be a class c drug or whatever but what goes up must come down- basically if you get used to the weed you will start wanting a bigger high and automatically going on to harder ... (read in full...)
My question is how can I lose this female foot fetish?
Q. I have been on this site before, about a female foot fetish in which I have. However, I still am worried about sex. I am worried that I may not be able to produce sex due to my foot fetish. I have tried looking up some porn videos and still I can'...
A. 23 December 2008: apparantly the whole foot fetish is something to do with the curves of the feet reflecting the woman's curves so maybe you should just try and think of it like that when youre getting off i think porn is going down the wrong direction you just ... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 23 December 2008: ok when i like someone that is exactly what i do, sometimes i purposely ignore them just because i don't want it to look too keen- she clearly likes you and it's most probably because she doesn't want to come across as desperate good luck :D... (read in full...)
Are these signs she is interested in me?
Q. I am trying to figure out if this girl is interested in me or not.She works in the same office building as mine but for another company and there is a common roaming area for all downstairs.I have been noticing her for last 8 months though i never ...
A. 19 December 2008: Well you should ask youself why you're so well known with her friends, I mean what else could it be? Look I do a lot of this kind of research lol signs, body language at the end of the day go with your gut. Im sure she probably doesn't giggle at ... (read in full...)
Do I make my teachers nervous
Q. Lately I've been noticing one of my teachers seems to be acting differently. In the beginning of the year, he would constantly be staring at me when teaching, (which made me feel uncomfortable at times), but now he's looking away if he catches me ...
A. 14 December 2008: maybe you didn't have any romantic interest in him at first, if thats true and this is random he probably has some sort of crush on you- if you did have feelings you're likely to imagine signals. he's also doing the responsible thing by not making ... (read in full...)
Should I have allowed a thief to sleep in my house?
Q. So, me and my girlfriend live together and one night her uncle kicked her cousin out of his house. I've never met the uncle but I hear he is a real piece of crap. My girlfriend asks me if her cousin can stay the night at our apartment for a night. ...
A. 12 December 2008: i think that this is more than just sticking by your principles, at the end of the day it IS your house therefore you have a responsibility for your valued possessions he does not sound good- you need to explain this to her that you can't take the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I are so different and it's causing problems.
Q. My boyfriend just wants to see me as and when it suits him and if there is nothing else better to do. We dont share many similar interests except watching tv. He drinks a lot and I don't so any time he goes out he doesn't want me in his company cos ...
A. 28 October 2008: a sign of a good relationship is that it starts with compatibility and chemistry,that's what i've found other wise what sets them apart from the rest? your first love should feel elating and he obviously doesn't make you feel GOOD he sure doesnt ... (read in full...)
Is a 15 year old and a 24 year old a bad age gap for a relationship?
Q. Hi ... I was wondering: is 15 (girl) and 24 (male) an innapropriate age gap in a relationship??? xx...
A. 11 October 2008: in general yes, you should ask yourself what appeals to him about a 15 year old girlfriend, unless you're real amazingly mature and do you trust each other with your embarrasing secrets and are you sure he cares about you because at 15 having an ... (read in full...)
I need help, I am obsessed. I want relief please.
Q. Hi, there. I love a girl so badly. I am obsessed. I cant think anyone else. I guess that I am so weird. She doesn't even love me but I am the one waiting for her for long. She acts wid me so normally,but i believe i can wait for her my whole life.i ...
A. 8 October 2008: hey i know these feelings kill but just rememeber we're human beings we are so complex EVERYONE gets really bad obsession these feelings will go away as quickly as anything, also it's SO common to feel more strongly about someone than someone feels ... (read in full...)
His parents don't like him seeing me so he "sneaks around" to see me and I hate it.
Q. help i dont know what to do well okay here goes. me and my bf have been going out 4 about half a year now and we love each other to bits. his parents were fine about it till earlier on in may and that made them dislike me. Now they still haven...
A. 3 October 2008: When parents of a friend, bf whatever dont approve it feels really icky i know parents are parents though and to me it just sounds like he's had a good upbringing with parents who are concerned some are just over the top though and you shouldnt feel ... (read in full...)
Is he the stereotypical Turkish guy or could he be for real?
Q. Ok here is the story...I met this guy on holiday in Turkey. He lives there and was a barman in my hotel. He is 18 and I am 16. So there isn't a large age gap. He constantly flirted with me and kept tryin to get me to go walks and kiss me. I wasn't ...
A. 25 September 2008: at first instinct doesnt seem genuine to me, i mean ypu must have heard the stories if you know what a stereotypical turkish guy's like and i think if you think about it what makes this guy any different. Any guy can tell you he loves you uh uh i ... (read in full...)
He threatened he'd stay in the rain, suicidal, so I invited him to my house where he continued his abuse, when I refused sex he said his ex was better, etc. Is this emotional blackmail?
Q. Hello there, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 16 months now. When i first met him he was a depressant after splitting up with his ex girlfriend, i helped him through it and he has been on and off them for some time know. He often says he ...
A. 24 September 2008: You are young, you dont need to deal with this, yes he has issues but hes treating you worse than how you would treat a fly, he is using and abusing you. not worth it, move on, you should definitely not be in a relationship with this guy becuase one ... (read in full...)
I wish I'd waited. Am I wrong for feeling guilty?
Q. hello. my boyfriend and i have been dating for six months now and in the last month, we've had sex 4 times. he says he's perfectly content with what he have done and does not take it back, although i know that deep down he wishes he hadn't done ...
A. 24 September 2008: hey, virginity is way overrated these days anyway just think of it like you've had the experience and it was new and you feel content make the most of it and dont worry this is just the start there will be wayyy more times in your life youre gonna ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal teenager?
Q. I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl ...
A. 5 September 2008: look im 17 and i really really dont know whether to even go to uni and i DEFINITELY dont see the appeal of getting completely wasted it really pisses me off the ppl who are like lets just drink all night get smashed sleep with whoever get high NO ... (read in full...)
I'm shy and want to fit in at school!
Q. Hey aunties, uncles, or who ever reads this: I'm a 15 year old girl who's just moved and I just started this new school. Problem is that I'm super shy with people I don't really know (familiarity is where I'm most comfortable)but I'm really outgo...
A. 23 August 2008: well i think most people who are decent will appreciate friendliness from newbies A LOT i mean it's hard to find someting to critisize about someone who smiles and acts happy and friendly-but don't overdo it. At first you just have to laugh at ... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look ...
A. 28 July 2008: im seventeen never had a boyfriend, above average looks (in all honesty) and one thing ive realised is that everything-life is based on heart and soul not what's on the surface. You can feel the deepest feelings, discover the most inspiring ... (read in full...)
I think I want to move on, but he keeps kissing me! Should I just carry on with this weird relationship?
Q. Hi everyone! Well I have a pretty straight forward question so I hope you can all help me. Basically I went out with the most amazing boy for a whole year and for someone my age that is practically forever!!!! Any ways and since we have been broke...
A. 20 July 2008: it seems to me it's about how he treats you in general which should suggest whether you wnat to take things further and obvs how well you know him i mean personally when i was your age i had some of the STRONGEST feelings for guys so far in my life ... (read in full...)
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