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I don't understand why he would act like this!
Q. Now this is a very aching story in my life. It is a 1 -year story so Its going to be a bit long, sorry for that. Please help me, give me some advise, cuz I really don't know what I did. Why they started hating me!! ?? I lost a friend (a brother)...
A. 17 October 2013: I don't like the fact that youre call this guy your "brother" what you should call him is in fact an "asshole" and keep it that way. You guys aren't blood related, and he has not shown one thing to you that shows that he cares for you like a brother ... (read in full...)
The man I secretly love finally made out with me while drunk but doesn't remember it
Q. Being the only Asian girl in a small Midwestern town, I got picked on a lot while I was growing up. It didn’t help that I was small, mousy-looking and extremely shy. I also had a bad case of buck teeth and had to wear these huge, hideous looking ...
A. 17 October 2013: "a drunk mind speaks a sober heart" he may have been drunk and he may have apologized but I think what happened in the car between you two is very true, and I believe he has feelings for you as well. what I would do if I were you is to just get him ... (read in full...)
I'm devastated over this breakup and over being used!
Q. I’m so heartbroken right now…I need advice on how to get over this woman. I wound up being in a love triangle which has driven me into therapy but I need some additional advice, criticism, feedback…whatever it is…I just need to hear it. I met this ...
A. 16 October 2013: I understand you are currently heartbroken. everyone goes through it. Somehow this is yet so different. You were the side guy. She liked your company but yet she didn't want anyone to know about you. To tell you the truth yes she used you, she ... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair with my married colleague?
Q. I recently ended up kissing a women I work with after a night out. It shouldn't be a problem, only she is married. We have always had great chemistry and she has made no secret of her liking me--I guess you could say she is a cougar or whatever. She ...
A. 16 October 2013: what she wants is just a little fun on the side, which she basically things that's you. She lives the marriage life. and in most cases marriage life is boring, seeing your spouse everyday sex for 2 minutes then sleep, boring lifestyle. she wants a ... (read in full...)
Is it practical to be with someone you love but constantly arguing over money? The 'married' to a poor man dilemma!
Q. I am in a steady relationship that we both have assumed each other as husband and wife despite not registering for a civil marriage yet. I love him very much and we've been together for many years. He has made it clear that he doesn't want marriage ...
A. 16 October 2013: so i see that you are in the 22-25 age category. Now i'm not sure exactly how old your significant other is. But i have a feeling that he hates himself. and the reason he does is because he has debt, and bad credit, and is currently poor. He hates ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend not making much effort in our relationship to talk and visit
Q. Me and my now boyfriend have been friends for years, but we just started dating 3 months ago. I always liked him, just didn't know how to bring it up, and he seemed to really like me so we talked more and more, he told me he would love to be in a ...
A. 16 October 2013: It seems like in this relationship your the one begging for the attention. what i would suggest you do, not break up with him But stop texting him, or stop bother trying to see him because if he really misses you then he'll be the one to ask you to ... (read in full...)
How can I ignore an ex boyfriend that I work with?
Q. How can i ignore an ex boyfriend!!! We only dated for a few months, but i cant get him out of my head. I found out he was cheating on me and he was texting alot of other girls too, so i dumped him. But he keeps contacting me all the time for 'one...
A. 16 October 2013: The fact that he cheated with you to begin with just shows that he isnt worth coming back for. Move on, He has a child and a someone he already lives with. The guy may also be talking to more then just you. You've been fooled by him once, dont let ... (read in full...)
Why does my fiancée get irritated with me about small things?
Q. Hello everyone I am about to be married in a month. My fiance is a very loving and caring girl who is very dedicated in love. That being said, I am noticing a sense of irritation in her in certain situations, irritation that has taken me a lot b...
A. 16 October 2013: welcome to the married life! kidding. But you are going to marry her in a month. Maybe its just the bridezilla in her. but to be honest all women are like that, complain for unnecessary things. Like i stated before it may be the nervousness because ... (read in full...)
Should I date a guy who is 9 years younger than me? I'm 28 and he's 19
Q. Im 28 years old and newly single, i'd rather stay single for a while to be honest but someones interested in me. The problem.is hes only 19 that is way too young for me but my friend doean't think so. I dont feel comfortable about that age gap but ...
A. 15 October 2013: To be honest it isn't too old at all. He is in the legal age. And to be honest now a days a lot of women get involved with younger guys. To be honest as long as he likes all the things that you do and you guys get a long great i dont see why not. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't like to have the light on during sex. Is he fantasizing about someone else?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't like to have the light on during sex. He prefers to turn it off and leave another room on so you can see a little but it's still dark. Does that mean that he's fantasizing about someone else during sex? I'm not self conscious ...
A. 15 October 2013: I don't believe he fantasizes your someone else. Maybe he feels awkward having sex in the light. Is sex new to him?.because most people actual are more comfortable having sex in the dark then in the light. What you can do is have sex somewhere else ... (read in full...)
How do I step up my game with guys?
Q. Hey everyone, I've been single for nearly two years, and even though I'm not rushing to be in a relationship again, I can't help but to be a little concerned about how I am seen by men and how I interact with them. Having just graduated fro...
A. 15 October 2013: When it comes to Bars/Clubs you do know that you aren't as lucky actually finding a guy to settle down with you actually have a higher chance finding someone there for a one night stand. The question I have for you, are clubs and bars only places ... (read in full...)
How can I contact again my ex-friend and crush and should I? I regret losing him.
Q. It's a bit long but that's because i'm gonna try to explain things well so that hopefully you can answer accuraletly... if you could give me your opinion on it i'd be VERY grateful ! So here is the story This guy got interested in me right a...
A. 15 October 2013: Dear sandra181, your story caught my eye, so I read through fully to be honest I did it more then once. Just to fully understand exactly what you are asking for. Through the words you've written it sounds like he really really liked you, and all you ... (read in full...)
LDR talking only 1 hour a week on the phone isn't enough for me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. Things were great and I've fallen deeply in love with him. We met on holiday and decided to have a long distance relationship where we would see each other every 1-2 weeks for about a week. ...
A. 15 October 2013: I cant tell you exactly what to do. foruntetly that's not my job here. But I will however give you some advice. Move on.
He is far away, in a university. The fact that he barely talks to you and broke this off from you just gives you the answer itse... (read in full...)
am still in contact with a guy I dated when I was 16, I still like him what should I do?
Q. Hello, I am still in contact with a guy I dated when I was 16, we broke up cos he lived in America and I live in NZ, anyway, recently we have started emailing each other constantly throughout the day and a few months ago he moved to Australia, wh...
A. 15 October 2013: So originally you guys broke up because of the long distance, which is completely understandable. doesn't seem like a bad break up. So why not try it. what I would do if I were you is ask questions that get to that point like. Are you seeing anyone, ... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend and unsure if he likes me?
Q. Im a senior in high school and ive never had a boyfriend. I really like this guy who has already graduated and we talk a lot but im not sure if he likes me back. One time I asked if I could ever have a chance with him and he said that he didnt see ...
A. 15 October 2013: To be honest with you. My senior year I've actually never had a boyfriend throughout my high school years either. So I completely understand your confusion.
You haven't really listed a lot of more signals you feel you receive from him, so unfo... (read in full...)
I care for him but take his words with a pinch of salt..am worried I'm a rebound!
Q. Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles! Thanks for taking the time to read, I'll try not to be too repetitive in the telling :) In summary, I met this guy J online. He's got a lot (and I do mean A LOT) of baggage to work through, not the least being that he br...
A. 15 October 2013: To be honest the only thing that can heal a broken heart is time. He needs time to find himself again, and to love again. You cant come into his like and all of a sudden every single part of pain his ever felt will simply disappear. unfortunately it ... (read in full...)
I just feel like I don't belong anywhere and my life is passing me by.
Q. Ok, I know this isn't a relationship question but I need help. I'm not quite sure how to put this but my life just sucks right now. I feel like it's passing me by, and it's really pathetic. I'm not sure quite how to put this, but there's a vo...
A. 15 October 2013: You do have a purpose in this life. Imagine, everything your dealing with now and in the future is in your own hands. First you say that you love guitar and that its your passion, but then you bring yourself down and say your not good, then you say ... (read in full...)
She's the only friend I've got but she's cheating and I don't like how shes changing!
Q. Hello everyone, i don´t have many friends and yet the few I have, they have moved abroad for better work, to study etc...So now I´ve got only one friend I can hang out, we´ve known each other for very long time and I can say we were best friends... ...
A. 15 October 2013: like the person below me stated. a bad friend, is not a friend at all. Her acting like that, you might as well not have her as a friend. your stating that her boyfriend and you became good friends. If he ever found out you know about her cheating ... (read in full...)
She says we don't have enough "quality time" together, even though we're living together
Q. Ok this is my first time writing on something like this, but I know my girlfriend has asked for online help before and said its really helpful so here I am. We have been together for around 5 years I think and we've just moved in together but eve...
A. 12 October 2013: I feel as though the reason she agreed in moving in is to get closer to you, but all she's now is just further. I understand the quality time she's speaking of. But maybe you guys weren't ready for the big move?..while you're gone, hanging out with ... (read in full...)
Pregnant by current boyfriend but still have feelings for my ex. Should I keep the baby or give it up for adoption?
Q. So I was 14 and a freshman in highschool, and I had made really good friends with a guy (we'll call him Sam) while I was dating (Max). Max heard a rumor that I was a sleep around and just started to ignore me. I was hurt and ended it with him, and ...
A. 12 October 2013: in your teen years. every guy you meet you feel as though they are the one. when it comes to your pregnancy with devan, remember. you asked him to finish inside you, you do realize that his sperm and your eggs may make a baby?. so you are ... (read in full...)
Have I buried my future?
Q. Hi, I'm 23 years old. I'm in love with one girl. We met 3 years ago in collage. She proposed me in the last semester. After 4-5 months of our relationship her parents got divorced. Now she is staying with her father. It was shocking news for me. I ...
A. 12 October 2013: being 23 years old I don't believe you buried your future. people become successful at ate 25 to 30 to even 40. you're young to think about family and financial stability. being married is just written documentation stating you guys are together. ... (read in full...)
How do I dance at the homecoming?
Q. Hi :) so homecoming is this Saturday. I'm going with that mixed signals guy lol and I have like 2 questions. So we have been talking more, like last week he called me and asked to hang out and called me "babe" which of course I freaked out (not when ...
A. 12 October 2013: I understand where your brother is coming from. I did not read about the "mixed signals" guy you've stated. But I'm glad everything is working out. If you're the only girl his currently talking to. reason his calling you babe and talking to you more ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to approach him once he's no longer my teacher?
Q. Hi there, I am a 18 (soon to be 19) years old. This year, i decided to carry on an extra year at my sixth form to improve my grades, instead of going straight to uni. I have been put in a physics class with a new teacher, who i think i am reall...
A. 12 October 2013: having crushes on teachers is a common thing, throughout school I myself had maybe teacher crushes. like you've stated. I do respect the fact that you want to at least wait til school is in fact over. I believe love does in fact come in unexpected ... (read in full...)
Beating myself up for immature mistakes
Q. I was never a wrong person but some circumstances made me commit some really silly and immature mistakes. Like forcing myself to go out on a date just cause my trust on my boyfriend was lost. I never intended or had any desire to be with any guy. I ...
A. 12 October 2013: Dear pennylily, I do not believe you were wrong whats so ever. The past is the past, there is a reason we don't live there anymore!!!!. to be honest I've done things I deeply regret as well. I respect the fact that you have not had sex with any guy ... (read in full...)
What are people's opinions are on changing your mind about the way someone looks?
Q. I was wondering what people's opinions are on changing your mind about the way someone looks? A few months ago, I found out that my boyfriend told his friend last year that his ex was better looking than me and I wasn't all that great. I'm not ...
A. 12 October 2013: when it comes to dating/relationships. the first thing anyone and everyone that notices is in fact looks, its what attracs you to someone. but there has to be an emotional/mental attraction as well not just physical. I do believe he said that ... (read in full...)
Mixed Signals From a Guy
Q. So my freshmen year of college I met this guy and I liked him right off the bat, but there were complications because his best friend really liked me. Anyways, the guy I liked started really liking me back, and told me he loved me. I had to reject ...
A. 12 October 2013: I believe reason he found someone else is because he tried getting over you. he doesn't seem much of a player, if he was he'd try to make moves on you and every other girl. I believe he doesn't want to mess anything up with his best friend. maybe ... (read in full...)
Am I too hopeful that he likes me? What do you think?
Q. So-- this guy is in two of my classes here at college. He is in my major. He sits by me in both classes. There is a group of 4 of us in the same major that stick together (all boys plus me). Anyways, I cannot explain to you how attracted I am to ...
A. 12 October 2013: the first question I have for you is at the beginning of the class i'm assuming you guys picked your own seats, since it is in fact college. But who sat first? it makes a difference if you guys are both in the same class the second time around maybe ... (read in full...)
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