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Why did my boyfriend tell me he was with his mom all day when he actually went out without her?

Q.   Hello. I need your help in figuring out my boyfriend's actions today. Here is what happened. I texted him this morning at around 11. I said "good morning" to him like usual. But there was no reply. Usually he replies pretty quickly. I th...

A.   11 May 2016: Dear OP after carfully reading both question and follow up this is what I feel I need to say and highlight. First I believe your behaviour you outlined is unacceptable and boarder line crazy. And when several aunts either kindly or bluntly addre... (read in full...)

Can I get over my insecurity and jealousy in this situation? My Gf had sex with someone else shortly before we started dating.

Q.   So this is my story, I don't know if I overreact or not. I chatted up this girl in late November last year through a dating app. We talked a bit but there was nothing going on, she said she was busy, working on a project day and night and had to...

A.   11 May 2016: Hey bro this is just my advice. If It was before you it was fair game. I can understand how it can make you feel un easy but its not her fault. She never even met you! If you have strong feelings for her and your liking your relationship and the ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her I slept with our friend?

Q.   Hello my aunts! Im back again. You guys gave me great advice about how to handle my bad situation with my not so faithfull wife. I followed it and it worked out. The only downside is she kicked me out. which means less time with my babies before I ...

A.   11 May 2016: Yet again it seems to be a group conscience that its a fairly obvious solution to my answer. I guess I been in a long lasting committed relationship I forgot how to be single. Im still in a mind set that I should be sharing every last detail with my ... (read in full...)

Our relationship is great, except when he comments on the appearance of other girls!

Q.   Hi.. Um I have very low self esteem and suffered from depression since i was very young. I'm in a relationship, and honestly, its great.. Apart from the fact where he compliments other girls sayong they are hot or have big boobs . This really ...

A.   10 May 2016: Hello I've read both your post and your response i'm sorry your going threw these though times I agree strongly with honesty that you should work on loving yourself. in the corniest of ways we are all beautiful. Now as a male who aswell has a pr... (read in full...)

How should I handle this? Is he being thoughtless? Selfish? Or ?

Q.   My boyfriend was supposed to be going to a gig with me. The band cancelled the tour due to illness. Instead promised we would go on a weekend getaway and hinted at engagement. We have been together 2 years and have two kids together and liv...

A.   29 April 2016: Listen some men are truly afaird of the concept of marriage. On a man's perspective i wouldnt chop this up to selfishness. I would rather look at it as a huge life changing milestone that some men have a hard time to fully jumping into. And if you ... (read in full...)

What should I do with my gamer boyfriend?

Q.   As if my boyfriend didn't play games already enough. Now he wants to play 4 hours straight two nights. While he plays every night for 3 hours. Like is he serious!?!? When were supose to be spending time together. I want to spend time with him, e...

A.   29 April 2016: This is a different view then others, But I thought I would just throw this out? When me and my wife started dating she as well thought I had a gaming problem. I would hear about it a lot. Then one night I got her to play a video game with me.. She ... (read in full...)

He's less interested in sex. Is it me? Or could it be that I disgust him in some way?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years and up until about 5 months ago things were great, we had a great love life and sex life and I was happy. However, recently, we've rarely been having sex, I would say maybe once a month. I brou...

A.   29 April 2016: Theres a lot of reasons us males can suddenly lose interest in sex. This is coming from my personal experience only as I am not an expert. But i would focus on details or changes in his life. I for one lost my sex drive when I started working 65 ... (read in full...)

When is it the right time to leave?

Q.   Okay. To answer my question I strongly believe you will need my whole backstory. So lets just jump into it. We met at 16, it was bliss, romance, and teenage rebelion at its finest. She was perfect and at this moment i knew I was in love. ...

A.   29 April 2016: Here are my responses to all these answer. First let me thank each and every one of you for taking time out of your lifes to try to help guide my pain and confusion into a more positive outcome, i carefully read each response and pondered every word ... (read in full...)

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