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I love my best friend's boyfriend!

Q.   I have a major problem!I love my best mates boyfriend!He texts me all the time and one of my mates sarah is always on the one to him and apparently he sed "i mean i like Kay and everything but theres just something about Beth" Please help i'm so ...

A.   2 March 2009: Hun your still just a kid, i very much doubt its love. Leave him alone!! Unless you want to sabotage your friendship with your best mate. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend drama!

Q.   I just found out that my boyfriend of a year is cheating on me. What should I do? Should I give him another chance or should I break up with him? Please help me....

A.   2 March 2009: Aw you poor thing! It all depends - do you think you will be able to trust him again? Was it a one time thing or an affair? If it was a one time thing and you are willing to work on the relationship it may still be able to work out. However, if ... (read in full...)

Engaged and cheating

Q.   I am engaged and been in a relationship for almost 7 years. However, I have cheated a handful of times throughout the relationship. Since I have been engaged I have cheated 3 times with different people. I feel guilty and know that this can't ...

A.   2 March 2009: What you are doing is not fair on your finace at all!! How would you feel if the tables were turned?!? How can he be your soulmate when you cheat on him constantly. Sorry but you need to sort yourself out. How unfair on your fiance. He deserves ... (read in full...)

Was this experience an orgasm?

Q.   last night my boyfriend went down on me and after a few minutes i got an amazing feeling! my vagina felt like it was pumping my legs and hips went all funny and all i wanted to do was scream, my breathing got heavier and i couldn't stop squeezing my ...

A.   2 March 2009: You most certainly did. Go girl!!!... (read in full...)

Being used just for sex?

Q.   My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him came to me a condom and ready to go amd i said no because i'm a virgin now he said next week he want's me to suck his penis.but he want's he's friend there to.is he using me just for sex?should i do it?...

A.   2 March 2009: Yip he is using you. How long have you been with him for? Dont do anything you are not comfortable with - you will just regret it. He doesnt sound like he respects you and your feelings. Dont feel pressured to have sex with him because he wants ... (read in full...)

I hate kissing him knowing he has a girlfriend!

Q.   Dear Cupid, Theres this boy i'm talking to and we love each other dearly but he has a girlfriend.He said he's not in love with her but he does love her and he told me that he's in love with me and tells me he loves me and that he wants to spend th...

A.   2 March 2009: Give him an ultermadium. How do you feel knowing he kisses her too?... (read in full...)

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