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I'm 35 years old and after 12 years have just broken up with my boyfriend. I was born and lived in South Africa until 1997, when I moved to Scotland. I am currently studying Community Education after my father passed away in July 2009. His death made me think long and hard about what I had, what I want and how Im going to get it. I have loved, lost and loved again. I have a lot of experience in areas that sometimes I wish I never had, but the experiences make me stronger and able to deal with things that normally I wouldnt be able to. I dont pull any punches and call a spade a spade, some like it, some dont. If you ask for advice, be prepared for a frank and honest answer.

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I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   13 September 2007: Right, you are setting yourself up for heartache and possibly more grief than you need by still remaining in contact with her. You are better than that! Leave her alone!!!! Its hard, we all know that. I have also lost loves in the past, but I ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   3 September 2007: You do nothing! You dont want her hassle and grief!!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   15 August 2007: Dont do anything!!!! Do not write, text or phone her! She will play mind games with you and hurt you again and worse! Its never easy to get over someone that you think you are in love with. But the fact that she did what she did to you makes... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   10 August 2007: As I have said to you before, some people like to see others hurt and they like to do the hurting. It makes them feel so much more important than they are. (Or so they think!) You havent done anything wrong other than be open and honest with her... (read in full...)

Should I be jealous if my partner kisses someone else as part of an acting class?

Q.   My partner is interesting in acting classes. I'm concerned because part of these classes will have him kissing other women and acting in various passionate scenes with them. Should I be jealous? ...

A.   17 July 2007: No you shouldnt be jealous if your partner is performing an act which forms part of a college course or part of their work. This unfortunately happens with a lot of actors and actresses, however if they trust their partners, there really isnt any... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   16 July 2007: Its nothing you have done. She sounds like a very vendictive type of person. When someone says they want you, it doesnt always revolve around sex, so dont think that all girls are the same. Just hang in there, the right girl will come around... (read in full...)

What's wrong with us fat girls?

Q.   Whats wrong with fat gals? Im a fat gal. I take good care of myself. Better than a lot of skinny gals. Why dont i get noticed? My best friend is skinny and she smells ,always have dog hair all over her cloths ,her handr are dirty ,whx do guys like ...

A.   13 July 2007: If people arent taking notice of you when you are well groomed, regardless if you are a big girl, then they really arent worth loosing sleep over. I am not the smallest person in the world and what you see is what you get. If they dont like it,... (read in full...)

Did he do the right thing or what?

Q.   Ok so me and Thisby are going out but he cheated on me and i find it hard to deal with and today we made up and my mates dared us to snog. The furthest i ever got was a quick peck so it was a big deal so i said ok but he opened his mouth. Did he do ...

A.   13 July 2007: Firstly, if he cheated on you, why would you want him back? If he is cheating at his age, he will be a bigger cheater when he is older. Secondly, generally if you "snog" or french kiss, you do open your mouth. Honestly I think you should wait ... (read in full...)

I really want to have a future with him, but am not quite sure whether it's plausable. Should I discuss it with him, if so how should I approach the subject?

Q.   hey, I've been chatting to this boy for about a month now, and about a week ago, we went out on a date together. We spent the whole night kissing and have since been out again, and arranged to go out again. Everything seems to be going really wel...

A.   13 July 2007: Okay you are only 14 and I guess he must be about 17/18 or so. At that age, I would suggest you put that thought on hold, for no other reason than there is a fair age difference and at his age he will becoming sexually inquisitive and you are too ... (read in full...)

I keep having sexual thoughts about a picture I saw on the internet

Q.   I don't know why I think like this. I keep on thinking about this guy I saw on the internet(picture). I think about him sexually. Is this normal?...

A.   13 July 2007: Totally normal! I wouldnt worry about it!!! Carry on!! Only if this stops you from meeting other men, then this becomes a problem and you should seek counselling. ... (read in full...)

I feel inadequate because I have so little sexual experience and my life is not the way I want it to be

Q.   hey guys just wanted your help plz. I have been with my gf for nearly 7months we have a good relationship. i dnt know whether im in love with her, bt i do feel close ot her. she says she has never felt like this for anyone before which is quite t...

A.   10 July 2007: First off, no-one can sort your life out for you, but your self asteem seems to have hit rock bottom. For what ever reason, you dont seem to have any faith in yourself and for that reason, you have all these other feelings of no-one wanting you, or ... (read in full...)

I think I caught her cheating, but she wont admit it

Q.   Hi, For the last few weeks I have had a suspicion that my girlfriend is cheating on me. It started about 3-4 weeks ago when she started chatting to men she had met on hotornot. she became really secretive about what she was talkng about online...

A.   10 July 2007: Sounds like it could be nothing, or could be something. The next time she decides that she is going to her sisters, or going out, and you are not sure if she is telling the truth, you need to find out if she is. To do this, you need to make sur... (read in full...)

We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...

A.   10 July 2007: I am so glad that you have had the courage to do this. It takes a lot of courage to make a big decision like that, so many people wouldnt have done it. But it shows that you are strong and woman not to be triffled with! Good on you!!!! Let us ... (read in full...)

I've got really bad period cramps? Help!

Q.   Hey! its me again! i need advice, wats the best cure for stomach cramps? i'm on my period and my stomach really kills, i know this is silly but i'm too embarressed to ask my friends thnx H:)...

A.   9 July 2007: Definately a hot water bottle, I prefer Nurofen and hot soak in the bath! You may not feel like going for a long walk, but it really does help!... (read in full...)

I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?

Q.   I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...

A.   9 July 2007: Good for you! You wait until the right person comes along. Its not often you find someone with morals like yours, so you stick with them. Having good morals is good. So keep up the good work!!! Dont let peer pressure get the better of you. W... (read in full...)

Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?

Q.   Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?...

A.   9 July 2007: Its not against the law to date someone who is 18 if you are only 14, but it is against the law to have sexual contact with him. Its called statutory rape, and depending on what state you are in, it can have dire concequences. If you and he do ha... (read in full...)

My wife is behaving strangely; could she be cheating?

Q.   Do I have sufficient reason to be concerned/suspicious? Recently my wife of 9months has been hanging out with a group of new "friends" (she's 26 and this group is 19-20) until 2 or 3 in the morning. She use to be very concerned about getting to...

A.   9 July 2007: I am really sorry to hear this. What a coward she is! If you love someone and are in a relationship, if someone hits on you, you just say to them, "thanks, I'm flattered, but I'm with someone". She obviously doesnt understand this concept!... (read in full...)

Do women like a tough boyfriend or a sensitive boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, I was just wondering... do women prefer a manly man or a sensitive guy for a boyfriend? Not to sound bigheaded but I'm reasonably muscley and quite strong but I'm also really sensitive and I cry at sad films and other sad stuff that a lot of ...

A.   9 July 2007: It varies from woman to woman. So dont try work on either! You are what you are. A woman that is right for you will like you for whatever you are. My boyfriend is very sensitive and that is great, but he also has a labour intensive job so he is al... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   7 July 2007: Firstly, if she is so repulsed by your disability, why didnt she just say "thanks but no thanks" to start with. Instead she plays mind games and gives you attitude because you wont jump to her command! Look, she just isnt worth it! Stop reading ... (read in full...)

Can you get AIDS from sweat?

Q.   Could you get STD,AIDS,HIV from sweat or somebody elses sweat?...

A.   6 July 2007: HIV is infectious and is usually passed from person to person by unprotected sex, sharing injection equipment or from a pregnant mother to her baby. Not from sweat!... (read in full...)

My husband treats me so badly but I don't want to leave for our kids; what can I do?

Q.   Hello, My husband and I have been married for 4 years, but together for 7. He's is 24, and I am 25. This is also my 2nd marriage. My husband just recently got out of the military. He was a military cop, so he has that attitude like a cop. He is also ...

A.   6 July 2007: You say you want to do the best for this kids, but being in a relationship where there is violence and the potential to be violent, is not an environment to bring kids up in. I can truly say that I had your opinion once when it came to men. I h... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   4 July 2007: Finally the penny has dropped! As difficult as it may be, you have made the best decision ever!... (read in full...)

Should I continue on being his support system?

Q.   I have been thinking about my ex boyfriend. He's in a really rough situation where he's living from place to place. Last nightm, he and his friend spent the night in the park because his friend mother kicked him out of the house. He tried calling ...

A.   3 July 2007: Support System or friend? There is nothing wrong with being a good friend by listening to him and helping him through a rough patch, but be weary not to fall into the trap of him "wanting to be with you" for all the wrong reasons. I was i... (read in full...)

I'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have?

Q.   i'm not bisexual or lesbian, but is this feeling normal to have? sometimes when i see this lady that i know for quite sometime, i see her touching, rubbing, stroking her neck, arm, shoulders, etc. i get this feeling in my vagina. am i aroused or ...

A.   3 July 2007: Having sexual fantacies for the same sex is pretty normal, however you are of an age where you normally have an incling as to whether or not, you actually want to follow through with the same sex. It may be that you are just very inquisit... (read in full...)

We haven't had sex in our 5 year relationship because of contraceptive worries

Q.   I'm a rare brand of guy, I'm 22 and a virgin. I've been with my girlfriend for slightly under five years now. We never had sex yet because well, I always assumed at some point she would get birth control. I was hoping she'd get the birth contr...

A.   2 July 2007: Firstly, I would like to congratulate you on waiting. You have no idea how often people give away the one thing that they have control over, to someone who they think they love, and honestly its just for the sex. Now, so far as it goes, if you u... (read in full...)

My boyfriend treats me badly when he's upset or stressed

Q.   I need some help. My bf is soooo stubborn and selfish when he is upset/angry/stressed. I can't handle how he behaves when he doesn't get his way, or isn't in a good mood because I feel like he takes it out on me, and he withdraws from me which leads ...

A.   2 July 2007: You have only been going out for 5 months and he makes you feel like this? Thats not love! Anyone who tells the other that they must "just accept it because its who they are" must be from the planet Zogg! You dont have to "accept it"! If he is ma... (read in full...)

Since we got married he's become like a different person

Q.   My Husband and I just got married less then 2 months ago...We've been together for 5 years and it was his decision to get married. I thought this would be such a wonderful start to a new life. I was so Wrong!! Since our wedding, he does nothing ...

A.   29 June 2007: The problem here seems to be communication. He doesnt want to communicate for some reason or other. Have you tried talking to him and suggesting councilling? It really would help! If he doesnt want to go to councilling, then perhaps you should d... (read in full...)

He was very generous financially to his ex wife but doesn't help me with our bills

Q.   Hi all and hope your well. I need some advice from the ladies really. I have kept my boyfriend for the past 18 months, while he was sorting out finances with his ex wife. Its all sorted now, they sold their house, and he brought her a new one so...

A.   29 June 2007: You have a very valid point. Although he doesnt want to get a house with you, I would be in the same situation, just from the point that I wouldnt want the hassle if things didnt work out. Besides, your flat is yours and yours alone, and you are ... (read in full...)

After illness, my looks deteriorated and he went on a date with another girl

Q.   I have known my boyfriend for 4 yrs now through the internet. I was in a relationship when I get to know him and broke up with my ex few months after knowing him. The break up with my ex have nothing to do with my boyfriend. My boyfriend an...

A.   27 June 2007: Good Luck! Let me know how you get on, but dont let him continue treating you the same way as he has been. He is totally out of order!... (read in full...)

After illness, my looks deteriorated and he went on a date with another girl

Q.   I have known my boyfriend for 4 yrs now through the internet. I was in a relationship when I get to know him and broke up with my ex few months after knowing him. The break up with my ex have nothing to do with my boyfriend. My boyfriend an...

A.   27 June 2007: Firstly, change in ones appearance is inevitable. If he cannot understand you illness, and doesnt make the effort to help you get through it, whatever happens to your appearance, then he is not worth the hassle! If he truly loved you, then he ... (read in full...)

I'm worried that the pill will cause me to gain weight - I have a knee injury and can't exercise!

Q.   I've been having severe break-outs on my face (acne/pimples) for the last 6 months. They are also very painful. I never had any problems with acne before. I also noticed that my periods have not been regular in the last 6 months. And very scanty ...

A.   26 June 2007: It depends on the pill that you use whether or not you pile on weight. I was on Diane and I did put on weight, so I changed it to Ovranet (I think that was what its called) and I actually lost weight. You just need to get a pill that is compatab... (read in full...)

I'm afraid a relationship means the end of my freedom

Q.   Athough i want to make a good relationship i think that i will lose my freedom and i would'nt have time for myself if i am with someone a lot of hours every week. So i don't really ask from the other person to be together a lot of time every week ...

A.   25 June 2007: Firstly, having a relationship and being in a meaningful relationship does NOT mean loosing your freedom! I have been in a very meaningful relationship for 9 years and I still have my freedom to do what I want, when I want. The only thing I dont a... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   21 June 2007: I wouldnt worry about it to be honest. It sounds as though you have some kind of stress reaction, but if you are concerned or it persists and doesnt get better, I would suggest that you speak to your doctor sooner rather than later.... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   20 June 2007: You said it, its the last straw! Call it a day and be done with her! As said before, some people get a kick out of seeing others suffer. They are no better than pond scum! Honestly you are so much better off without her!... (read in full...)

My wife is behaving strangely; could she be cheating?

Q.   Do I have sufficient reason to be concerned/suspicious? Recently my wife of 9months has been hanging out with a group of new "friends" (she's 26 and this group is 19-20) until 2 or 3 in the morning. She use to be very concerned about getting to...

A.   20 June 2007: I have to say that if I were in your shoes, I would also be worrying and very suspicious. Obviously we dont know all the facts, but everything seems to point to her doing something not right. It may be entirely innocent and she may have just got... (read in full...)

I might have an affair because my wife and I argue so much

Q.   Hello people, i have a problem that i would like you to help solve.I was recently married and now we are bleby an 11months old boy. for the last 2months my relationship has been having its rocky parts.we been arguing and at times the arguments he...

A.   19 June 2007: I think that telling her this may make her feel even more insecure and this could lead to even more problems. In a situation such as this, you really need to get some kind of discussion going, rather than an argument. You obviously know what you... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   18 June 2007: Firstly, you havent done anything wrong, so her giving you the sob story about "you putting her in hospital", is absolute bull. She shouldnt have told lies and been so deceitfull to start with. Had she been honest and acted her age, this would never ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to keep work life and personal life seperate?

Q.   Is it possible to keep work life and personal life as completely separate? I am quite paranoid about the intermix of the two as i consider the colleagues at work to be a kind of threat for my personal life of family. Please advice.. ...

A.   15 June 2007: I am not sure exactly what you mean, as I dont know your exact circumstances, but it is very possible to keep your personal life and work life seperate. I have a small business and I NEVER allow my work life to rule my personal/private life. I ... (read in full...)

Am I being overbearing?

Q.   I think i am nagging my boyfriend.my sisters say that i am obsessed with him.according to them i ask him too many questions.i cant stay without him and don't want to loose him.please help......

A.   15 June 2007: There is nothing worse than a partner who is overbearing and not so much a nagg but wants to know your every move, every day. To them, it says "You dont trust me", that may not be the case, but that is what you are communicating in a round about ... (read in full...)

Should I get my boyfriend a gift for father's day (even though he isn't the daddy)... ?

Q.   I don't know if I should get my boyfriend a gift for father's day. i know he isn't my father. but we just had our 1st baby 2 months ago, and he is a really good daddy to her. He also works and supports us. I just want to let him know he's ...

A.   13 June 2007: No-one would judge him for having a couple of beers each night! If he is good with your child, regardless if he is the biological father, and he helps support and care for your child, then I would most certainly say he deserves a little somethin... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   13 June 2007: You are finally understanding that this girl is not worth holding on to because she WILL hurt you!!! This manipulation thing is an old trick that so many people use today, and unfortunately it works on a lot of people. They know they are hurting ... (read in full...)

Self-conscious about being called fat

Q.   Recently, when I was out in public i've been hearing people calling me fat. That makes me feel awful and ashamed of myself. Why are people so mean? Why do they do this? I am 5 feet 4, and 138 pounds. Is that considered as fat?nSince of this incident ...

A.   13 June 2007: Firstly I'd like to say to all the people who say things like "you're fat", Sod you all! Secondly, why do you listen to peoples snide comments like that? I am a larger size, well if I'm honest, a few sizes larger than I was a few years ago, and... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   12 June 2007: Right, I think it is safe to say that the kid here is her! You are getting yourself too deep into something that is perhaps nothing, and you are gonna hurt yourself! You have already started having feelings for this girl, and I say girl becau... (read in full...)

He beat me after I cheated... can I fix this or should I leave?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months i know that doesn't sound long but in that time i cheated on him three times he found out and cheated on me i don't know how many times and beat the hell out of me then hit me a few times after the ...

A.   12 June 2007: No-one is making fun of you. You obviously like the guy enough to actually think about leaving or not! However, if there is drugs involved, do you really want to get yourself involved in that? Okay you say that when you are with him, you are the ... (read in full...)

I think I am being bullied by my female boss, and I am not sure how to deal with it.

Q.   I think I am being bullied by my female boss, and I am not sure how to deal with it. I have never really gelled with her like I have with other colleagues, although we do get on to a degree. She insinuated today that I had misfiled some re...

A.   12 June 2007: Firstly, what she is doing is not right and any manager should do their utmost to ensure that that kind of behavious doesnt happen in an office environment. The fact that it is your boss that is doing this, means that she is in the wrong, and she ... (read in full...)

He beat me after I cheated... can I fix this or should I leave?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 months i know that doesn't sound long but in that time i cheated on him three times he found out and cheated on me i don't know how many times and beat the hell out of me then hit me a few times after the ...

A.   11 June 2007: Firstly, two wrongs dont make a right. You cheated on him, so he cheated on you. Sorry, but if it were worth saving, he would have thought about it. Secondly, are off your head? Are you actually thinking about staying with someone who has put his ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   11 June 2007: You have just nailed it on the head then. She obviously doesnt love you, its just lust! If she has a track record of being like that and doing that to her partners, who you honestly want that? Even if just for a short time? Would you want to be ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   9 June 2007: Well you have actually just answered your own question really. You said that you didnt want her to have sex with other men, which means that you dont trust her. A relationship is based on trust, and it wont be a relationship if you dont trust her ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   7 June 2007: Okay, the question here is, "How do you feel about her?" If you like this girl, then you need to sit down with her and tell her. If you are not sure, then there is your answer. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that play the game of send... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   23 May 2007: With intimacy, so long as you take it slow, and dont rush all the experiences you are going to learn about, it will be great! Its when you rush things that it soon dies and isnt interesting for either party. Just go slow!!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   23 May 2007: Just remember, soft and gentle!! Trust me its like riding a bike, you never forget. And if she is right for you, you will never want to forget that first kiss! Dont be nervous, just relax and enjoy the experience!! Go get 'em tiger!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   22 May 2007: Absolutely brilliant! I am over the moon for you! Enjoy it, and have fun!!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   21 May 2007: Perhaps her family will be as open to the age difference as my parents were. I was 23 and my boyfriend was 33. They loved him and still do. Dont let the age thing interfere with what could potentially be a wonderful blossoming romance!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   15 May 2007: You have to remember that not all woman are the same. We dont all just think about looks and what we can get from the bloke. There are a lot of us out there that think about more important things, like how you make us feel about ourselves and how ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   14 May 2007: Let us know how you get on. I think she'll really enjoy that!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   11 May 2007: You may be disabled, but you can do ANYTHING YOU WANT TO. Call up the co karting place beforhand and tell them that you have a disability. They should be up to speed on various disabilities and should be able to accomodate without any problems. I ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   11 May 2007: I think that taking her go karting would be GREAT!!! Give you both an adrenalin boost! Always good on a date! I think that she will love it! I know I would!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   10 May 2007: Depending on what type of girl she is, depends on where to take her. If she is the romantic type, the chances are she just wants to spend time with you, and as already said, a walk in the country and a picnic is always a good choice. If she ... (read in full...)

We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...

A.   27 April 2007: Have you considered perhaps taking a break. During that time you can work out what you want to do. You obviously love him, but you need to work out whether you love him enough to live with the way things are, or whether you want to call it quits... (read in full...)

We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...

A.   16 April 2007: First and foremost is the wellbeing of your child. Living in a home where parents argue non stop is very unhealthy for any child. You are clearly unhappy with the way things are, and you both want different things from the sounds of it. You have... (read in full...)

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