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I'm 35 years old and after 12 years have just broken up with my boyfriend. I was born and lived in South Africa until 1997, when I moved to Scotland. I am currently studying Community Education after my father passed away in July 2009. His death made me think long and hard about what I had, what I want and how Im going to get it. I have loved, lost and loved again. I have a lot of experience in areas that sometimes I wish I never had, but the experiences make me stronger and able to deal with things that normally I wouldnt be able to. I dont pull any punches and call a spade a spade, some like it, some dont. If you ask for advice, be prepared for a frank and honest answer.

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I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   13 September 2007: Right, you are setting yourself up for heartache and possibly more grief than you need by still remaining in contact with her. You are better than that! Leave her alone!!!! Its hard, we all know that. I have also lost loves in the past, but I ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   3 September 2007: You do nothing! You dont want her hassle and grief!!... (read in full...)

He has double standards! What do I do?

Q.   What is wrong with me? My fiance is on a trip for a week without me by himself, and goes to bars/dance clubs by himself which bothers me. Yet, if I go to bars by myself he thinks it's weird. I hate the double standard, but I don't have the guts to ...

A.   20 August 2007: Okay, so you say that you dont have the guts to confront him about his double standards? Well if you dont have the guts to be open and honest now, before you are married, what chance is there of having an open and honest relationship once you are ... (read in full...)

I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her...

Q.   I'm worried! My boyfriend says he loves me, he always has and he still does but I was on his myspace and in his trash was mail with his ex girlfriend saying he still liked her and she likes him and they said he might dump me for her but this was a ...

A.   17 August 2007: If he even mentioned it to someone else before he mentioned it to you, kick his arse out your life! The fact that he actually even thought it means that he has considered it and means that perhaps his feelings arent as deep as you may have ... (read in full...)

I gave the dog to my sis in the end, but i can't stop crying now.

Q.   I know this is madness but i guess i just wanted a moan. I posted a question a couple weeks ago about a 7 month old dog i had that trashed my home. She was only a puppy. Anyway my sis came to visit at the weekend and fell in love with her, my ...

A.   17 August 2007: At least I know I did EVERYTHING that I possibly could have to make her better. It cost £4800, but I would have paid that ten fold if I could have saved her. But it just wasnt meant to be. She had a 2.8kg tumour in her splean that was removed but ... (read in full...)

I gave the dog to my sis in the end, but i can't stop crying now.

Q.   I know this is madness but i guess i just wanted a moan. I posted a question a couple weeks ago about a 7 month old dog i had that trashed my home. She was only a puppy. Anyway my sis came to visit at the weekend and fell in love with her, my ...

A.   16 August 2007: I lost my dog of 6 years 5 weeks ago. To this day I have a cry each day because I miss her so, but she is most certainly in a better place. The morning I was going to put her down, she passed away 20 minutes before I got there. So I didnt get a ch... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   15 August 2007: Dont do anything!!!! Do not write, text or phone her! She will play mind games with you and hurt you again and worse! Its never easy to get over someone that you think you are in love with. But the fact that she did what she did to you makes... (read in full...)

He has been offered a great job in London, England and plans to move there in a few weeks....

Q.   I have been dating a great guy for a few months. I have had many relationships in the past and been hurt a lot but I have known this guy for almost 3 years and we are like best friends so when we started dating it was perfect, very easy, relaxed and ...

A.   11 August 2007: I've been in your situation. I met someone in South Africa and it was great, then I decided to move to the UK. It was hard because I had real feelings for him and vice versa. The first thing to do is, dont ask him to change his mind. The reason b... (read in full...)

I was raped when I was 7, I'm now 12 and it's ruining my life.

Q.   Okay this is how it is: I was raped when I was 7, I'm now 12 and you see it's ruining my life because the thing is I have nightmares about that time all the time so I stay up all night... then I'm late for school and don't concentrate properly...

A.   10 August 2007: Well I know what you are going through. I was raped when I was 15 and by someone I trusted, my doctor. For many many years I suffered the same symptoms. Nightmares, cold sweats, lack of concentration due to lack of sleep, upset tummy and many oth... (read in full...)

How do I make new friends in the school I am moving to?

Q.   this fall i am going to a different school. I don't know anyone there. I find it difficult to make new friends. How do i make good friends that will stick to me for a long time?...

A.   10 August 2007: I had the same problem when I was at school. I moved school in my second year of highschool, but I found that moving was the best thing I ever did. I made such good friends, ones that are still close to me now, even after I moved country. Just... (read in full...)

What kind of game is this guy playing with me?

Q.   I dont Understand him at all...A couple days ago he wanted me to sneak out of the house so I could spend the night with him...I didnt sneak out of the house because I wuz to afraid...SO today when I check my myspace friends I find out that he had ...

A.   10 August 2007: I think its clear that he only had one thing on his mind and it wasnt spending time with someone he cared about. He only had one goal in mind and that was to get you into bed. Dont fall for pratts like that! They are no good and in the event, Go... (read in full...)

I do stuff to my friend but it makes me feel weird

Q.   ok, i m a virgin, but i don't have a boyfriend yet. but i have a really good friend that lets me do stuff 2 him, he has done stuff 2 me also, but everytime we do something, i fell really weird?? why is this happening?...

A.   10 August 2007: Okay, you say that you feel weird. Probably because you know that you shouldnt really be doing it. Also, the fact that he is supposed to be a friend will make you feel very different about the relationship you have with him. Basically you are both... (read in full...)

I need weight loss diet tips on proper eating..any advice?

Q.   Hi Im going on holiday soon and would like to loose some weight so i feel better about myself i have wanted to for ages now. the past 4 days i havn't been eating junk food and i have eat less (calorie wize). Does anyone know what types of food i ...

A.   10 August 2007: I have to say that I am on diet at the moment and find that just by cutting out certain things, I have lost over an inch in my waist in a week. Dont count how much you are loosing by weight, but by inches you are loosing. Sometimes you may loos... (read in full...)

Need advice on starting my own business and making future relationship decisions! Am I doing the right thing?

Q.   what do you think of my decision? hi there, i have been with my boyfriend for just 3months now and i really think he is the one. i have decided to concertrate on my dreams to start my own business, instead of going to university for three years, i ...

A.   10 August 2007: I have my own business and believe me, its the best buzz in the world knowing that you have made it what it is through hard work and lot of sweat and tears. Its very stressfull to start with, but it does get better over time. To assist in working ... (read in full...)

Should I send a letter to my old boss saying how I felt about the way he treated me?

Q.   I want to know if I should send a letter to my old boss saying how I feel about the way he treated me? I worked for a business 7 yrs. I was reliable, never asked for a raise or anyhting. I got along great with all of the employees even though some ...

A.   10 August 2007: Hell yeah!!! That was totally unjust and uncalled for. For him to tell you to do something and then to take it all back, I would write him a "tastefull" letter advising him that you will be taking it further. I wouldnt let it end at that beca... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   10 August 2007: As I have said to you before, some people like to see others hurt and they like to do the hurting. It makes them feel so much more important than they are. (Or so they think!) You havent done anything wrong other than be open and honest with her... (read in full...)

I just can't seem to make my husband happy...

Q.   I just can't seem to make my husband happy. We moved a million miles from our hometown a year ago because he wanted to. I quit my high paying job to stay at home with the kids and left my family behind. My family doesn't feel welcome to visit ...

A.   6 August 2007: I hate to say it, but if there is a total lack of respect on his part, and he isnt willing to change, then unfortunately it isnt going to work. He sounds as if he has zero respect for you and your needs. It seems that life must revolve around h... (read in full...)

I desperately want to help my friend with his relationship but he won't let me.

Q.   My friend wont let his gf go on the pill in case she gains weight *she a stick so she need a bit of weight* and they use condoms but only 60% of the time. He's 18 and shes 17 ive tried to explain to him that she wont become fat and if she did he ...

A.   3 August 2007: Firstly, yes the pill can you put on weight, but some actually have the opposite effect too. So he cant prejudge what the pill would do to her as we are all different and our bodies will react to various pills differently too. Secondly, dont spe... (read in full...)

Has anyone ever heard of a child getting kawasaki disease /mucocuteous lymph node syndrome twice?

Q.   has anyone ever heard of a child getting kawasaki disease /mucocuteous lymph node syndrome twice ...

A.   3 August 2007: From what I have googled on the net, you can get it more than once, but only up to the age of 4/5 years old.... (read in full...)

My ex is acting weird, and I don't know what to make of it!

Q.   I broke up with my x boyfriend about 2 months ago due to the fac that i was become unhappy with the relationship and began to get bothered with the "close' friendship him and his girlfriends were having. We stopped the communication for about 2 ...

A.   3 August 2007: Why do you feel bothered that he is acting like a toddler. So he phones you and has a go at you on the phone without actually finding out the whole story. How immature is that!!! If he was so concerned about what you were doing there with someone ... (read in full...)

He told me he was working night shift, but my friend saw him going in to a disco!

Q.   I'm 24, my husband's 29. For the past few weeks my husband's been working nightshifts to earn extra money, which I wasn't too pleased about, but when I heard him saying we'd get more money if he did double shifts, I accepted the situation. So f...

A.   3 August 2007: Firstly, if he didnt have anything to hide, then he shouldnt have gotten so defensive! The fact that he has totally blown things out of proportion tells me that there is a chance there is a little more to this story than he is telling you or other... (read in full...)

Me and my mum don't get along. What can I do to repair this?

Q.   Well me and my mum are not close. I mean like I don't want to tell her anything. I can never tell her anything and I am starting to hate my mum. She doesn't know what to do cause I lock myself in my room and don't talk to anyone. All I want to do is ...

A.   3 August 2007: You are not alone here. There are a lot of kids, especially teens that go through this, so you are not alone! A lot of what your mum is doing now, you think is totally wrong and she is being mean etc. You will however realise later on in life, th... (read in full...)

I also fear for my life, he has came very close to seriously injuring me in the past.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years, he is thirty and I am 20. I am still growing up and I would prefer to do it alone but I love him and he has helped me immensely. We have a lot of problems, there has been abuse, b...

A.   3 August 2007: What ever anyone ever says to you, it may not be the best idea to stay with him but you are obviously scared to leave. From personal experience, if a man hit me, he needs to learn to sleep with his eyes open because when he's least expectin... (read in full...)

How old should I be before I get a boyfriend?

Q.   I'm going into middle school. How old should I be to have a boyfreind? Not to kiss or anything, but just to talk to and hold hands....

A.   3 August 2007: It really depends on your maturity and the ability you have to be able to cope with that kind of relationship. To have a close male friend that you hang out with and do stuff with, I think thats okay at any age. But to have a "boyfriend" which is... (read in full...)

Can I ever find happiness in a relationship, when my feelings always seem to dig me into a quagmire?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Can I ever find happiness in a relationship, when my feelings always seem to dig me into a quagmire? Is there anything wrong with me for always getting stuck with guys who are not marriage material? I am 28 already and my last boyf...

A.   3 August 2007: You are definately not alone on this one! I was a complete magnet for all the "idiots" walking the planet. If one came along, we stuck like glue! Its been 9 years and I am still with my current boyfriend. I am very happy and we have a great re... (read in full...)

My friend's cousin was abused and is now obsessed by sex!

Q.   I have a freind who's cousin is in trouble. She is 18 but she was sexually abused a couple of months ago and she liked it and now she is like obssesed with sex. All she wants 24/7 is SEX, SEX, AND MORE SEX. She is so obssesed with sex her whole ...

A.   3 August 2007: Take it from someone that was abused at the age of 15, its not the enjoyment of being raped, it is a defence mechanism. You think that to fit in now, that is what people want from you. You are tarnished, but to be untarnished, you have to "put ... (read in full...)

Is everybody online dating? I cant find anyone in the real world!

Q.   Is the whole world online dating? I can't find anybody in the real world ....

A.   2 August 2007: Well I have to say that I met my boyfriend on the internet 9 years ago and we are still together. I dont think there is any harm in meeting people on the net so long as you do it in a safe manner. Our first meeting was in a very open bar an... (read in full...)

I ended it by text.

Q.   I was seeing someone but finished with him because he had another girlfriend, he siad he didn't love her but would not leave his children. He admitted he was scared of getting hurt but he did love me but he had to hold back. I finished it because it ...

A.   1 August 2007: Ok, so he has trust issues and obviously issues with being faithfull too, so I wouldnt be too worried about ending it. If you felt that strongly about him you are bound to be upset and hurt etc, but if he was any type of man he would have gotten i... (read in full...)

Should i just go on strike?

Q.   Taken for granted: I do 100% of the maintenance work, 90% of the cooking, my fair share of the cleaning and laundry, and more than half of the finances. Our point of contention is that she doesn't seem to notice what I do and gets her panties ...

A.   1 August 2007: Sounds as if she needs a hard lesson in dirt control. As I am somewhat like yourself and would rather just do the work than live in a filthy environment, there also comes a time when enough is enough and I think you are just about there. ... (read in full...)

Sex at 14.

Q.   Am i too young to have sex at 14 ?...

A.   1 August 2007: Absolutely! At 14 your body hasnt fully developed. Other than the fact that you will know it is illegal to have a sexual relationship at that age in the USA. The penalties for the partner can be horendous in a number of US states. Leave it for ... (read in full...)

We're still very much newly weds, we shouldn't be having problems like this!

Q.   I just caught my husband who just cheated on me like 2 weeks ago in yet another lie about hiding his porn!! If you've read my last post you saw that my husband of not even 7 months yet, cheated on me (had an emotional affair and kissed his ex while ...

A.   31 July 2007: From what you have said, and the fact that you should still be in the "honeymoon period", it doesnt sound as if he has taken his vows seriously at all. As far as I am concerned, him hiding files away isnt so much as a lie but a complete disregar... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin at 18 because i want to wait for the right person, is this a silly idea?

Q.   Hi, I'm a virgin at 18, because I'm waiting for the right person to have my first time with. Do you think this is a silly thing to do, and that I should have done it differently? I've had the opportunity to, but would rather have it with another ...

A.   31 July 2007: There are so few people like you these days, but its good to know that there are still some like you out there! No, you hold on till the right person comes along! If your friends take the piss, dont let it bother you, later on in life when you... (read in full...)

We want to get married but I also want children; he doesn't

Q.   My name is Chrissy and my boyfriends name is David we want to get married and i want children but he doesn't he said they cost too much money and all they do is scream and cry i want children very bad what do i do??...

A.   31 July 2007: My boyfriend and I were in a dilema just like this. We love each other so want to get married, he wants kids and I dont right now. But we had to compromise! Its the key when you are so completely different about a specific aspect of life. We decid... (read in full...)

Can you be kissed without returning the favor?

Q.   I have been out of town for some time now, and all was well with me and my girl until the last couple of days, right before im due to be back. Before now we talked on the phone every night and it was all good...we were happy. But the last couple of ...

A.   24 July 2007: Good luck! Let us know how you get on!... (read in full...)

My mother in law even had the nerve to open our mail...

Q.   I have tried to get close to my mother in law, but it feels like she only puts up me because I'm married to her son. She always has something nasty to say, but it is usually when it's just her and I! For example it was just her and I in the car ...

A.   20 July 2007: She sounds like a real charmer! Firstly, speak to your husband about it. Make sure he knows exactly what is being said and how you feel. I am pretty sure that he will be understanding and supportive. He may try and brush things under the carpet a... (read in full...)

How can I help my friend here?

Q.   I'm 21, and my friend's 19. She got married 6 months ago to a 40-year-old man who she's been with since she was 17 - and said that they married for love not money (he was a nice guy who was a builder, and said he wasn't wealthy, just lives a good l...

A.   20 July 2007: Okay, if I put myself in her shoes. The question of whether she made a good or bad decision to get married is now immaterial because she's married. So put that aside for a minute. The decline in sex drive will probably be as a result of his age ... (read in full...)

He's phoned his ex asking for phone sex; this is the third time he's cheated, what should I do?

Q.   heya remember i said my bf was complimenting other girls well now i've just found out that he's been texting his ex girlfriend asking her for phone sex !!!!! i really love him but this is the 3rd time he's cheated on me with her what should i do ??? ...

A.   20 July 2007: If you are asking other people what you should do after someone has just cheated on you, then you should have a word with yourself. The fact that you say you love this person, doesnt mean that he can use you as a doormat! Dont let anyone do that ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to take me to his family gathering; is he embarassed by me or not really committed?

Q.   I live with this guy and we've been together over three years. His family has a reunion every few years and the last one happened right after we started dating so I wasn't invited, but he said i would go to the next one. There is another one ...

A.   19 July 2007: Actually, I was in a very similar situation with my current boyfriend. It turns out he wasnt embarresed by me, but by his family. Ask his straight out what the problem is and if he is embarresed by them or you. You may be surprised at the answer!... (read in full...)

How can I make this relationship a success?

Q.   I'm a shemale... I'm 21 and I have a boyfriend who is 18 years of age... I love him very much and he too he said but I'm trying to understand him everyday... I don't wanna give up with him... and hope with him also... How we can be able to ...

A.   18 July 2007: I'm not 100% sure what your question is but if you are wanting to "understand" your partner, its difficult to always understand what the other person thinks, or why they do specific things. After 9 years with my boyfriend I still dont understa... (read in full...)

Can you be kissed without returning the favor?

Q.   I have been out of town for some time now, and all was well with me and my girl until the last couple of days, right before im due to be back. Before now we talked on the phone every night and it was all good...we were happy. But the last couple of ...

A.   18 July 2007: Okay, you are in a slight predicament in that I do believe you can be kissed without returning the favour, however she was honest enough about telling you this, only because she asked you. Most people would deny it! She could well have been kis... (read in full...)

I moved back from Australia after having a breakdown... should I go back and try again?

Q.   I moved to Australia with my partner a year and a half ago, but unfortunately found the experience very stressful and had a break down! I had to come back to the UK to try to gt on my feet again, and I do feel somewhat better, but desperately want ...

A.   18 July 2007: Well it depends on what caused you to have the break down to start with. I moved from South Africa to the UK in 1997 and I know exactly how stressful it is moving country, and how difficult it is to find "yourself" in a new country. It is stressfu... (read in full...)

She's 13 and wants to give me a handjob. I haven't met her yet and I'm worried about this!

Q.   well u c im 12 and my gf is 13 i really like her but dont know her yet....... i met her on mysapce but she doesnt live to far from me... we always text and call and then she brough up that it would be fun if she gave me a hand job and if i fingererd ...

A.   18 July 2007: Right so you havent met her? And she hasn't met you? And you want to do what to each other. Are you crazy even considering it! You are both kids. That kinda stuff should be left for when you are both older. You shouldnt even be consider... (read in full...)

Should I be jealous if my partner kisses someone else as part of an acting class?

Q.   My partner is interesting in acting classes. I'm concerned because part of these classes will have him kissing other women and acting in various passionate scenes with them. Should I be jealous? ...

A.   17 July 2007: No you shouldnt be jealous if your partner is performing an act which forms part of a college course or part of their work. This unfortunately happens with a lot of actors and actresses, however if they trust their partners, there really isnt any... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   16 July 2007: Its nothing you have done. She sounds like a very vendictive type of person. When someone says they want you, it doesnt always revolve around sex, so dont think that all girls are the same. Just hang in there, the right girl will come around... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   7 July 2007: Firstly, if she is so repulsed by your disability, why didnt she just say "thanks but no thanks" to start with. Instead she plays mind games and gives you attitude because you wont jump to her command! Look, she just isnt worth it! Stop reading ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   4 July 2007: Finally the penny has dropped! As difficult as it may be, you have made the best decision ever!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   21 June 2007: I wouldnt worry about it to be honest. It sounds as though you have some kind of stress reaction, but if you are concerned or it persists and doesnt get better, I would suggest that you speak to your doctor sooner rather than later.... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   20 June 2007: You said it, its the last straw! Call it a day and be done with her! As said before, some people get a kick out of seeing others suffer. They are no better than pond scum! Honestly you are so much better off without her!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   18 June 2007: Firstly, you havent done anything wrong, so her giving you the sob story about "you putting her in hospital", is absolute bull. She shouldnt have told lies and been so deceitfull to start with. Had she been honest and acted her age, this would never ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   13 June 2007: You are finally understanding that this girl is not worth holding on to because she WILL hurt you!!! This manipulation thing is an old trick that so many people use today, and unfortunately it works on a lot of people. They know they are hurting ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   12 June 2007: Right, I think it is safe to say that the kid here is her! You are getting yourself too deep into something that is perhaps nothing, and you are gonna hurt yourself! You have already started having feelings for this girl, and I say girl becau... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   11 June 2007: You have just nailed it on the head then. She obviously doesnt love you, its just lust! If she has a track record of being like that and doing that to her partners, who you honestly want that? Even if just for a short time? Would you want to be ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   9 June 2007: Well you have actually just answered your own question really. You said that you didnt want her to have sex with other men, which means that you dont trust her. A relationship is based on trust, and it wont be a relationship if you dont trust her ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   7 June 2007: Okay, the question here is, "How do you feel about her?" If you like this girl, then you need to sit down with her and tell her. If you are not sure, then there is your answer. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that play the game of send... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   23 May 2007: With intimacy, so long as you take it slow, and dont rush all the experiences you are going to learn about, it will be great! Its when you rush things that it soon dies and isnt interesting for either party. Just go slow!!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   23 May 2007: Just remember, soft and gentle!! Trust me its like riding a bike, you never forget. And if she is right for you, you will never want to forget that first kiss! Dont be nervous, just relax and enjoy the experience!! Go get 'em tiger!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   22 May 2007: Absolutely brilliant! I am over the moon for you! Enjoy it, and have fun!!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   21 May 2007: Perhaps her family will be as open to the age difference as my parents were. I was 23 and my boyfriend was 33. They loved him and still do. Dont let the age thing interfere with what could potentially be a wonderful blossoming romance!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   15 May 2007: You have to remember that not all woman are the same. We dont all just think about looks and what we can get from the bloke. There are a lot of us out there that think about more important things, like how you make us feel about ourselves and how ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   14 May 2007: Let us know how you get on. I think she'll really enjoy that!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   11 May 2007: You may be disabled, but you can do ANYTHING YOU WANT TO. Call up the co karting place beforhand and tell them that you have a disability. They should be up to speed on various disabilities and should be able to accomodate without any problems. I ... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   11 May 2007: I think that taking her go karting would be GREAT!!! Give you both an adrenalin boost! Always good on a date! I think that she will love it! I know I would!... (read in full...)

I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?

Q.   I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...

A.   10 May 2007: Depending on what type of girl she is, depends on where to take her. If she is the romantic type, the chances are she just wants to spend time with you, and as already said, a walk in the country and a picnic is always a good choice. If she ... (read in full...)

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