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My husband threatened my 11 year old with a knife!
Q. been married to a controling man for 10 yrs and have 3 kids lately he has grabbed me by the face a couple of times when he says i have done wrong and just last week he threatened my 11 year old while he had a knife in his hand. i have no life and ...
A. 7 November 2007: My sister was in the same situation some years ago. She had the same fears as you, and rightly so. Your kids have been through enough, as have you!
No-one deserves to be treated in the manner that you and your kids have. They are what matters ... (read in full...)
She was raped by her ex father in law. How can I cope with the distress I feel for her?
Q. Hey, My fiance has a sexual past that she is not proud of and I'm not either. It's a real problem because I get these recurring disturbing images. She is coming from a really sick marriage in which her husband tried to sell her for sex and his ...
A. 2 November 2007: At the end of the day, it was not consentual! She DID NOT give him the right to violate her like that, so although she was high/under the influence of alcohol or whatever the case, she did not say YES! So it was rape!
I think that she needs to... (read in full...)
She's not speaking to me
Q. the girl im with at the moment is not speaking to me after we had a weekend away together, i have been with her for a while and last night we was having a text chat like we normally do and she asked me about my past relationships, and because i ...
A. 31 October 2007: If she isnt speaking to you because you werent quick enough texting back, she has some serious issues! It shows immaturity and she possibly thinks you postponed having to text back because you had something to be ashamed of.
I cant understa... (read in full...)
I can't trust him to tell the truth. Any suggestions?
Q. Hi - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years (the last 6 months he has been living abroad). He told me only last week (during an argument on the phone when I shouted he had been selfish leaving me alone like this) that he had actually delayed ...
A. 29 October 2007: I know how you feel since I moved country and at the best of time its hard laying foundations for a life, let alone a life with someone else.
You need to speak to him face to face really. Speaking over the phone just doesnt work. You need to speak... (read in full...)
Why does love feel so far away from me?
Q. Why does love feel so far away from me? I think I'm fairly attractive, and I have reason to believe I'm sought after by atleast a couple of young ladies I know. But I've only ever had one girlfriend, in a long distance realtionship tha...
A. 29 October 2007: You are in the same boat as many young people your age. But you hit the nail in the head when you said that you are very young, and because you fealt you had a very deep and meaningful relationship, that is why you are so hurt.
Telling someone ... (read in full...)
How to get her a way to wear lingerie
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to bits but I've always had this fetish for her to wear lingerie like a a nice corset etc. Seems like no matter what approach I take, she just doesn't want to. I have no problems being n...
A. 29 October 2007: I'm sorry to say but she obviously just isnt comfortable enough with herself to show herself off in that fashion to you.
You just need to keep reassuring her just how beautiful she is. She may later realise that she has the body, so show it off. ... (read in full...)
I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?
Q. Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big ...
A. 22 October 2007: Being South African it wouldnt be the first time I have heard of someone saying something like that. My boyfriend and I have been together 9 years and we get on great. However, I have found that when it comes to political discussions, they know ... (read in full...)
If its just connection problems, then why was he so aggressive?
Q. Im having problems with my significant other. He's is away for two weeks and ive tried to ask him nicely to get on the internet from his hotel. So on tuesday he tried but then claimed that he wasnt able to get on but his peers were. And ye...
A. 22 October 2007: My boyfriend is on the road about 6-9 months of the year. Like you, I love him dearly which is why I stay.
He virtually lives in hotels and 90% of the time he has problems connecting. Its not his computer but the hotel line.
From years of... (read in full...)
She was raped by her ex father in law. How can I cope with the distress I feel for her?
Q. Hey, My fiance has a sexual past that she is not proud of and I'm not either. It's a real problem because I get these recurring disturbing images. She is coming from a really sick marriage in which her husband tried to sell her for sex and his ...
A. 22 October 2007: Take it from someone who was raped at 15, the last thing she needs is someone constantly backing off because of how they "feel for them". We see it as pity and that is so not what we need.
We need someone who accepts that this has happened... (read in full...)
Is there any way to speed up labour??
Q. I'm just over nine months pregant. 2 days ago i had a small amount of clear fluid run down my leg, it's the 3rd time it's happened. I was wondering if theres anyway to speed up labour? People have suggested driving fast over a hill, and one lady ...
A. 17 October 2007: My oldest sister drank a bottle of casteroil because she was two weeks late. They were going to start her labour for her if she didnt go into labour soon. She took the casteroil on the Saturday night and by Sunday morning (when they were going to ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want to make love in boyfriends truck
Q. is it wrong of me to want to make love in my bfs truck ? he promised we would but havent yet !...
A. 12 October 2007: Hey, if thats what floats your boat, well go for it then. People have sexual experiences in a lot of wierd and wonderful places, so if thats what you want, do it!... (read in full...)
I have bad anxiety and depression and it's all caused by women
Q. Hello, I'm an 18 year old guy and I have bad anxiety and depression and it's all caused by women. Not like ex's or anything like that but just I can't seem to even get a girl to like me much less a relationship and it makes me feel pretty down. I ...
A. 12 October 2007: You are in the same boat as a lot of both woman and men. It has got nothing to do with the way you look, rather perhaps the places you go to find this special someone.
I was in the same boat as you up until the age of about 19. But I have to say, ... (read in full...)
This guy that likes me makes me nervous.
Q. ok theres this one guy that im really scared of. he supposedly likes and he always calls me sexy and hot. it makes me feel nervous and i tell him to stop. he bugs me alot and tries to make me feel guilty that i dont want to go out with him. you cant ...
A. 8 October 2007: It depends where you are that this person does this to you. If its at work, I suggest you ask him nicely to stop saying things like that to you because it makes you uncomfortable. If that doesnt work, I suggest getting someone that is slightly ... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't want this baby!
Q. Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so ...
A. 8 October 2007: If he cant see what a good person you are, and that you just want to do the right thing, then he doesnt deserve you! I really do wish you all of the very best with your new addition. Perhaps in time he will see the error of his ways.... (read in full...)
He treat me and my cats like crap! Stay or Leave?
Q. hi i have asked a question about my bf before, as he always goes to the gym and comes home late all week, and now he upsets my pet cats to get at me, my 3 cats are rescued house cats and are very spoilt and mean the world to me, my bf will lift them ...
A. 6 October 2007: I am glad the gates to communication are now open. It is so important in a relationship. Had he told you his problems before, perhaps we would have been a little easier on him. I do hope everything works out!... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't want this baby!
Q. Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so ...
A. 6 October 2007: I can honestly say that I think you have your head screwed on right. This child wasnt an accident. He wanted it at some point, so he really needs to grow up some.
You will be a wonderful mother. Dont let him or anyone else tell you otherwis... (read in full...)
Is skipping breakfast going to make you gain weight?
Q. if you dont eat your breakfast in the morning. is this helping a diet because your eating less or is it making it worse. Ive hurd not eating in the morning makes you gain weight...
A. 5 October 2007: Not eating breakfast can make it more difficult to loose weight. Its got to do with the fact that you are starving your body, making it go into storage mode because you are not feeding it regularly.
Ensure that you eat breakfast when you are on d... (read in full...)
How can two men feel completely different about me in bed? Which one is right?
Q. I have had two sexual partners in my life. I slept my with my ex boyfriend and my current boyfriend. My ex boyfriend caused me to have horribly low self esteem because he always told me how horrible and cold I was in bed. He called me sexually ...
A. 5 October 2007: Honestly I think its a case of the pot calling the kettle black. Who is your ex to tell you, that you are sexually frigid? Is he the God of sex?
Its probably not got anything to do with you, its probably all HIM! The fact that there are probably... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't want this baby!
Q. Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so ...
A. 4 October 2007: Okay, this guy is seriously confused!
So he wants to have a baby and because it didnt happen when HE wanted it to, and it came later, he has now decided he doesnt want it anymore. Is this guy on the same planet as us or what?
You may love ... (read in full...)
I'm a wife in despair-how do I save my marriage?
Q. my husband is bored in our marriage...says we have done all we can...he prefers to swing cause lack of ideas. im so stressed. im a good person but he wants me to make myself a like a bad girl and talk dirty to him to help him out. how do i do this, ...
A. 4 October 2007: Okay I hear what you say, but this should be a two way street. It shouldnt all be on you to save this marriage, he should want to do that too. So on that point, you need to first of all speak to him and ask him if he is prepared to work on the ... (read in full...)
He treat me and my cats like crap! Stay or Leave?
Q. hi i have asked a question about my bf before, as he always goes to the gym and comes home late all week, and now he upsets my pet cats to get at me, my 3 cats are rescued house cats and are very spoilt and mean the world to me, my bf will lift them ...
A. 4 October 2007: I have 4 cats and two dogs that mean the world to me. I would rather see my boyfriend walk out the door than see anyone of them getting hurt. I know he would NEVER hurt one of them because his arse would be grass and I would be the lawnmower. So on ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my mom I'm not a virgin without freaking her out?
Q. how do u tell your mom who is a massive freaking out person that there 15year old daughter isnt a virgin?...
A. 28 September 2007: Well first off, I wouldnt! Why would you want to tell your mum that? Why would you want to tell anyone that? Its private and unless there is a real reason for telling someone that, I wouldnt open a can of worms!... (read in full...)
He's the best bf I've dated, but I can't get over our 2 year age gap!
Q. Dear Cupid i have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger then me. im not really comfortable with that age gap but he always make sure we don't let that come between us. out of all the guys i'v dated, he tops them all and he always remains me of his...
A. 28 September 2007: Trust me, at your age, a two year age gap is perfectly fine. If he loves you and you love him, stop thinking about something as trivial as a small age gap. Enjoy your time with him and be yourself!... (read in full...)
Is love at first sight true? Ready to sacrifice everything to be together, though I'm married and know this person for a month.
Q. I am a 47 year old male with a professional job and have been married for 16 years. About a month ago I met a 39 year old female hispanic woman who speaks some english and we can hold conversations very well at a conference. She is also married for ...
A. 26 September 2007: Okay, first off, Love at first sight is real! I know because my boyfriend and I met and it was a real love at first sighting!
Secondly, before you throw everything away, you need to make sure that this is not just a fancy and that you really d... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend cheated on me?
Q. Has my boyfriend cheated on me? Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and right at the start of our relationship he cheated on me when i promised him a filthy night that night - he said he had to go home - and i then later found...
A. 26 September 2007: Okay, if it were me in your shoes, then the words "bye-bye" would be the words being uttered.
Yes, you have spent two years together, but wouldnt you rather loose two years rather than waite another 2, 3, 5 or even get married and then find out... (read in full...)
My teeth are yellow and this puts down my confidence...
Q. I have had yellow teeth for as long as I can remember. I don't know why, I hardly ever eat chocolate or drink coffee/tea or smoke or do much that would stain them. It really affects the way I talk and act around boys. I don't think they're nat...
A. 23 September 2007: Okay, you may think this is really an odd thing to do, but I have white teeth and many have commented on that. The reason they are white has got zero to do with what I eat etc. So stopping drinking coffee etc isnt going to make a huge difference. ... (read in full...)
My bf slapped me b/c I was nagging him when he wanted to sleep! I feel it's all my fault.
Q. My boyfriend of 3 yrs slapped me in the face yesterday just because I was nagging him very late at night when he wanted to sleep. Is his action justifiable?? He blames me for provoking him since I didnt respect him in letting him sleep. Now, I feel ...
A. 19 September 2007: What? You are actually asking if its justified? No-one deserves to be treated in that way. He had no right to slap you whatever the situation.
As for you feeling guilty. So you may have nagged him, but you still dont slap someone for it! No matte... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 13 September 2007: Right, you are setting yourself up for heartache and possibly more grief than you need by still remaining in contact with her.
You are better than that! Leave her alone!!!!
Its hard, we all know that. I have also lost loves in the past, but I ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 3 September 2007: You do nothing! You dont want her hassle and grief!!... (read in full...)
Our child passed away, he blamed himself, we've tried sorting our problems but he's txting someone else. Help..
Q. My boyfriend has moved out of our home and told me he needs his own space. I really need some advise. I been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years we've had two boys but our younger one passed away whilst in the care of my boyfriend he has ...
A. 28 August 2007: Personally, I think you should not look back at all. The world is your oyster, and although he is the father of your child, and you will never forget that, he seems to be pulling you down when he should be raising you up.
He seems to be trying t... (read in full...)
Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it...
Q. Hey everyone, thanks for reading. Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it. I went to my home state to visit my family for two weeks, but it went by so fast and just made me miss both my family and my ...
A. 27 August 2007: Good idea! Foster another dog. I have two puppies and trust me they are an absolute handful, but one hell of a weight loss program. I have lost loads of weight and it feels great!
Feel good about yourself that you are killing two birds with one... (read in full...)
Our child passed away, he blamed himself, we've tried sorting our problems but he's txting someone else. Help..
Q. My boyfriend has moved out of our home and told me he needs his own space. I really need some advise. I been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years we've had two boys but our younger one passed away whilst in the care of my boyfriend he has ...
A. 27 August 2007: Okay, I am confused! You want to be with him WHY????????
You say you love this guy.....well where the hell is his respect and love for you????
You lost a child. He should be there so that you can comfort each other, not sleeping around ... (read in full...)
My mother in law told me she's having an affair, I told my husband. Now she is angry with me!
Q. My mother-in-law confided in me that she was having an affair. I kept the terrible secret for a long time but finally broke down and told my husband about it. He told his mother that he thought she was betraying his father and he was disappointed ...
A. 27 August 2007: Sorry, but she was in the wrong for telling you!
You are married to her son and as his wife have to be honest and tell him everything. That is what marriage is about!
Okay, she confided in you, and told you not to tell, but how can someone expe... (read in full...)
Hubby is spending our savings. I feel like I'm being taken advantage of?
Q. Ihave had a row with my husband over work and moey and am beginning to despair.Ihave taken early retirement after being ill and off work for over a year and recieve a pension which at a push just about covers our basic expenses. About six months ago ...
A. 27 August 2007: Actually I can sympathise with you. My father has recently gone on pension and my mum is still working, but due to her health I am not sure whether she will be able to keep that up for much longer.
My mum is a spendaholic and will spend every pe... (read in full...)
I was abused as a child. Am i still a virgin?
Q. hi guys pleas help me! im not sure if im a virgin when i was a little girl a guy of my age did touch me alot of time. i think it happened once that he did put his finger in me. now today im 21 and i have a bf i dont want to have sex no. i want to ...
A. 27 August 2007: As a victim myself, and what you have described, you are still a virgin. If he did not penitrate you with his penis and actually break the hymen, you are still a virgin.
You hold out for your wedding day. It will be so much more special making l... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to dream about another guy???
Q. I feel guilty... i dream about another guy but I have a boyfriend. Is it wrong os cheating to dream about another guy? I know i cant control my dreams but i still feel bad....
A. 27 August 2007: Hell no, its fine! Its fantacy!! Dont panic about it. If you acted on your fantacy, then I would think it was wrong! ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my family that I'm bisexual
Q. i'll get straight to it, i'm bisexual and i dunno if i should tell my familly, my brother is a lil bit homophobic n i dunno how they'll react... please anyone i need advise on what to do and light on the situation thank you ...
A. 24 August 2007: Okay, I was 18 when my best friend told me he was bisexual. To be honest I knew, just by his behaviour, but he was absolutely petrified to tell me, he thought that it would end our friendship.
He felt so much better after he told me, and in fact ... (read in full...)
It seems like no one wants to be my friend, what should I do?
Q. i am a working woman, and i ve been in service for 15 yrs now. my problem is i have no friends as of now. this year i ve made few old office friedns but they are never frank with me though am very nice n frank to them. i don't understand what ...
A. 24 August 2007: First of all, dont be ashamed of who you are! If people cant like you for who you are, then they are not people you want to be friends with. Trust me, it never works!!
Secondly, I dont know you, so dont know what kind of person you are, but from... (read in full...)
Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it...
Q. Hey everyone, thanks for reading. Right now my husband is deployed in Iraq and I am just so depressed because of it. I went to my home state to visit my family for two weeks, but it went by so fast and just made me miss both my family and my ...
A. 24 August 2007: I know how you feel to an extent. I used to live about 600 miles away from my mom and dad, and my boyfriend was always away on tour. He used to be away for months at a time.
I got depressed because I didnt know where he was, or if he was safe. He... (read in full...)
Having serious marriage problems. Should I stay or should I go?
Q. I have been married for 9 years, and me and my wife have lost connection physically and emotionally. We have tried professional help, but it doesn't seem to work. We have 2 children and I don't want to leave them behind, but I have been trying t...
A. 20 August 2007: Go! Its not often that I would say that, but if you have already tried councelling and it doesnt work then you really have done what you can for the marriage.
Although you will not be living with your kids, it doesnt mean that you arent their fa... (read in full...)
He has double standards! What do I do?
Q. What is wrong with me? My fiance is on a trip for a week without me by himself, and goes to bars/dance clubs by himself which bothers me. Yet, if I go to bars by myself he thinks it's weird. I hate the double standard, but I don't have the guts to ...
A. 20 August 2007: Okay, so you say that you dont have the guts to confront him about his double standards? Well if you dont have the guts to be open and honest now, before you are married, what chance is there of having an open and honest relationship once you are ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 15 August 2007: Dont do anything!!!!
Do not write, text or phone her! She will play mind games with you and hurt you again and worse!
Its never easy to get over someone that you think you are in love with. But the fact that she did what she did to you makes... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 10 August 2007: As I have said to you before, some people like to see others hurt and they like to do the hurting. It makes them feel so much more important than they are. (Or so they think!)
You havent done anything wrong other than be open and honest with her... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 16 July 2007: Its nothing you have done. She sounds like a very vendictive type of person.
When someone says they want you, it doesnt always revolve around sex, so dont think that all girls are the same.
Just hang in there, the right girl will come around... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 7 July 2007: Firstly, if she is so repulsed by your disability, why didnt she just say "thanks but no thanks" to start with. Instead she plays mind games and gives you attitude because you wont jump to her command!
Look, she just isnt worth it! Stop reading ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 4 July 2007: Finally the penny has dropped! As difficult as it may be, you have made the best decision ever!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 21 June 2007: I wouldnt worry about it to be honest. It sounds as though you have some kind of stress reaction, but if you are concerned or it persists and doesnt get better, I would suggest that you speak to your doctor sooner rather than later.... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 20 June 2007: You said it, its the last straw! Call it a day and be done with her! As said before, some people get a kick out of seeing others suffer. They are no better than pond scum! Honestly you are so much better off without her!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 18 June 2007: Firstly, you havent done anything wrong, so her giving you the sob story about "you putting her in hospital", is absolute bull. She shouldnt have told lies and been so deceitfull to start with. Had she been honest and acted her age, this would never ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 13 June 2007: You are finally understanding that this girl is not worth holding on to because she WILL hurt you!!!
This manipulation thing is an old trick that so many people use today, and unfortunately it works on a lot of people. They know they are hurting ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 12 June 2007: Right, I think it is safe to say that the kid here is her!
You are getting yourself too deep into something that is perhaps nothing, and you are gonna hurt yourself!
You have already started having feelings for this girl, and I say girl becau... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 11 June 2007: You have just nailed it on the head then. She obviously doesnt love you, its just lust! If she has a track record of being like that and doing that to her partners, who you honestly want that? Even if just for a short time? Would you want to be ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 9 June 2007: Well you have actually just answered your own question really. You said that you didnt want her to have sex with other men, which means that you dont trust her. A relationship is based on trust, and it wont be a relationship if you dont trust her ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 7 June 2007: Okay, the question here is, "How do you feel about her?"
If you like this girl, then you need to sit down with her and tell her. If you are not sure, then there is your answer.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of people that play the game of send... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 23 May 2007: With intimacy, so long as you take it slow, and dont rush all the experiences you are going to learn about, it will be great! Its when you rush things that it soon dies and isnt interesting for either party.
Just go slow!!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 23 May 2007: Just remember, soft and gentle!! Trust me its like riding a bike, you never forget. And if she is right for you, you will never want to forget that first kiss!
Dont be nervous, just relax and enjoy the experience!!
Go get 'em tiger!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 22 May 2007: Absolutely brilliant! I am over the moon for you!
Enjoy it, and have fun!!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 21 May 2007: Perhaps her family will be as open to the age difference as my parents were. I was 23 and my boyfriend was 33. They loved him and still do.
Dont let the age thing interfere with what could potentially be a wonderful blossoming romance!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 15 May 2007: You have to remember that not all woman are the same. We dont all just think about looks and what we can get from the bloke. There are a lot of us out there that think about more important things, like how you make us feel about ourselves and how ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 14 May 2007: Let us know how you get on. I think she'll really enjoy that!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 11 May 2007: You may be disabled, but you can do ANYTHING YOU WANT TO. Call up the co karting place beforhand and tell them that you have a disability. They should be up to speed on various disabilities and should be able to accomodate without any problems. I ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 11 May 2007: I think that taking her go karting would be GREAT!!! Give you both an adrenalin boost! Always good on a date!
I think that she will love it! I know I would!... (read in full...)
I'm dating a younger girl but I don't know where to take her. Help?
Q. I am dating a girl who is 18 and I am 27. Has anyone got any suggestions for dates?...
A. 10 May 2007: Depending on what type of girl she is, depends on where to take her.
If she is the romantic type, the chances are she just wants to spend time with you, and as already said, a walk in the country and a picnic is always a good choice.
If she ... (read in full...)
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