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We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...
A. 10 July 2007: I am so glad that you have had the courage to do this. It takes a lot of courage to make a big decision like that, so many people wouldnt have done it. But it shows that you are strong and woman not to be triffled with!
Good on you!!!!
Let us ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex even though I now have a BF?
Q. Hi I'm meeting up with my ex this weekend. I only went out with him for a few months back in 2004, we split up because I felt that there wasn't that spark there, plus it was a long distance between us. I've been with my current boyfriend since ...
A. 9 May 2007: Well my take on this is, if you have no "feelings" towards an ex anymore, then there is no harm in seeing them. However, advising your current partner is always a good thing since if you dont, they may think that you still have feelings for the ... (read in full...)
I'm 15, he is 19 and I think I'm pregnant - can he go to jail?
Q. I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for 2 1/2 years. My parents do approve of us dating, but I think I'm pregnant. Can my boyfriend go to jail?...
A. 9 May 2007: I'm afraid he can. This is a website link that you may find helpful. http://www.coolnurse.com/consent.htm
I suggest you get a pregnancy test done asap. A blood test at your local doctor will be the best option.... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she care that he raped me?
Q. My mum HATES my sisters boyfriend for cheating. But shes still good friends with my rapist. I just dont understand it, my sisters boyfriend has been cheating on her and staying out all night. Leaveing her to look after to kids. And she absolutely ...
A. 8 May 2007: Guilt can be a terrible thing to live with. Perhaps her hiring the limo was her way of saying sorry without saying sorry. But the fact that she is still friends with this person defeates the object of attempting to apologize since the pain will ... (read in full...)
He says im selfish because I didnt wear the clothes he wanted me too!!!
Q. Hi guys, im having problems with my boyfriend and its to do with him calling me selfish you be the judge. I wore this casual dress to uni the other day and its just above my knees and he was really upset about it. He said im really selfish to have ...
A. 3 May 2007: So basically he is trying to rule what you wear? I'm sorry but thats not right!
He may feel uncomfortable with you wearing short, skimpy clothing, that I can totally understand because no bloke wants other guys to stare at their girlfrie... (read in full...)
He didnt call, got angry that I wasnt bothered, I ended it and he insulted me, I love him but dont know whats up with him ?
Q. please!!!! someone!!!! help me!!!! My boyfriend didnt call me at all on friday and when he called me saturday he was acting really strange and asked me if i was mad that he didnt call on fri. i said no and said i didnt care(i did)he acted wei...
A. 3 May 2007: Any bloke that disrespects you like that, isnt worth the bother. You are honestly better off without the hassle of him disrespecting you in that manner.
No-one can tell what he is feeling other than someone or something has got into him. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
He didnt call, got angry that I wasnt bothered, I ended it and he insulted me, I love him but dont know whats up with him ?
Q. please!!!! someone!!!! help me!!!! My boyfriend didnt call me at all on friday and when he called me saturday he was acting really strange and asked me if i was mad that he didnt call on fri. i said no and said i didnt care(i did)he acted wei...
A. 3 May 2007: Any bloke that disrespects you like that, isnt worth the bother. You are honestly better off without the hassle of him disrespecting you in that manner.
No-one can tell what he is feeling other than someone or something has got into him. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
Im 13 hes 17, he wants to have sex this weekend, how do I tell him im not ready!!?
Q. well i have this 17 year old boyfriend and im only 13. and he wants to have sex this weekend but i don't know how to say im not ready. i tried to tell him through a text message when we were texting but he thinks we should and i scared if i say no ...
A. 3 May 2007: Other than the fact its illegal, anyone who loves someone is willing to wait until the other person is mentally ready to have a sexual relationship.
If you even think that he will force you into it, stay well clear of him. Call him up and just say... (read in full...)
We have lived together just over a year and our contract is due to run out in 2 months and he wants to find seperate places to live.
Q. I have a wonderful boyfriend and I love him to pieces and can't bear to think of my life without him but recently he's started a new job and we dont see each other much as he's working 50 hours at a restuarant then moonlighting at a secuity job ...
A. 2 May 2007: I think that living seperately can be a great thing. My boyfriend and I have being in a relationship for 9 years and we live seperately. For no other reason than we both wanted to get into the property market.
We did live together for 6 months w... (read in full...)
What is the best way to approach a woman (in a bookstore)?
Q. when you approach a woman at a bookstore, is it better to do so when she is sitting and reading, or when she is looking around at books at the store? surely women do come to look around as well?...
A. 2 May 2007: I have to say that if I were to approach someone in a bookstore it would be when they were up and about looking at the books. That way, you could perhaps look at what they are looking at, and say something intelligent about the author or if you've ... (read in full...)
Advice on how to take the pill correctly!
Q. i'm on birth control .. and i'm just wondering (this is my first month) the ring in the middle. with the least amount of pills, is that the pills that you take that is suppose to make you start your period? just wondering because i've...
A. 2 May 2007: Dont panic, if its your first month your body could still be getting used to the tablets. It may take a couple of months before you body gets into a routine.
In the meantime, if you intend to have any sexual relations, you must continue to use o... (read in full...)
I was dumb enough to fall for a married man and I can't trust what he tells me! What should I do?
Q. Ok, first of all I was dumb enough to fall in love with a man who is still married. No kids. He is in the process of settling the financial matters and says he has a solictor working out the figures. We agreed we wouldn't see each other until he ...
A. 2 May 2007: No-one ever said it would be easy, but you know in your heart that the right thing would be to end it, until he becomes "available" and I mean available, on the market!
As hard as it may be, you need to muster up the strength to just END IT! I ha... (read in full...)
I've been depressed for so long.. How do I get rid of it without going to the doctors!?
Q. What is the best way to get rid of depression? I have had it for years and daren't go to the doctors. i don't want it on my records. What if this comes back to haunt me in the future. But - honestly i just cannot go on. i am so down all the time. I ...
A. 1 May 2007: Take it from someone who suffered with depresssion for years, it doesnt always revolve around drugs and even if its on your record, who's gonna know about it? Doctors cannot discuss your file within ANYONE!!! Even if you were on the likes of an ... (read in full...)
Just discovered hes been looking at child pornography!!!!!! I dont know what to do!!?
Q. i need some help. two days ago i found out my b/f has been looking up porn pictures of young girls on sites and downloading pictures (between the ages of about 8-13). i feel soo angry. i dont know what to do, we've talked about it and he apologised. ...
A. 30 April 2007: A phone call to your local police station is in order. If this is what he's like at this age, can you imagine what he would be like in a few years to come when his sexual urges are hightened.
You local police station will be very helpful and give... (read in full...)
We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...
A. 27 April 2007: Have you considered perhaps taking a break. During that time you can work out what you want to do.
You obviously love him, but you need to work out whether you love him enough to live with the way things are, or whether you want to call it quits... (read in full...)
I am jealous and am losing my confidence, all because he looks at other females! Why is this happening to me?
Q. Over the past year, I have beecome more insecure about myself. I was so confident before about myself that nothing bothered me at all, and I was just so happy. Now, I feel the opposite. My bf starts looking at other girls while im with him out in ...
A. 25 April 2007: Firstly, if he is looking at other girls, so long as he doesnt touch, its pretty normal. My boyfriend and I look at other people and he may even comment that "she's hot" or I may say "mmmmm he's nice". So long as you dont touch, its pretty normal. ... (read in full...)
What happens if you can't live up to other's expectations?
Q. What happens if you do not or cannot live up to the expectations of other people in life who are important for you?...
A. 25 April 2007: I know what you say and there is only one answer for it, YOU DONT!!!
Parent have specific expectations for their kids and the bulk of the time, they are totally unrealistic. Most of the time, its things that they want for you, but you dont wan... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you reject your guy for the pain you feel while having sex with him?
Q. This is a question to all women in general as to whether you would reject your guy for the pain you feel while having sex with him? Or in milder case, would you blame or criticize him?...
A. 25 April 2007: I would never reject him. There can be so many reasons for having pain while you have sex, and the bulk of them are totally normal.
This is just one website which discusses this fact. Read some of it. http://familydoctor.org/669.xml
There a... (read in full...)
How can I stop him slapping me for his fun ??
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for two weeks now and it was going realy well till he started slapping me on the face, he hit me once before when we used to date and i thought he had changed when i got back with him but i went round his and he just ...
A. 21 April 2007: Why are you with him? A leopard never changes his spots and if you've only been in the relationship two weeks and he is making any aggressive suggestions, its only the start of worse to come.
Tell him that you love him, but its over!
Perhaps... (read in full...)
I'm annoyed that I have to pay for everything when we go out on dates! How do I bring this up with my gf?
Q. This isn't so much a problem as an irritating niggle, but it's one I'm having difficulty in figuring out an answer to. When my GF and I first started dating, on each date we went on she would offer to pay. I'd generally decline and pay myself, ...
A. 21 April 2007: I have this problem too, except slightly different circumstances. My boyfriend doesnt let me pay for anything even when I do offer. So now, I refuse to go or do anything simply because I feel uncomfortable someone always paying my way. And I was NOT ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I should distance myself from him and let him meet more with his friends. What should I do?
Q. i posted a question previously but i dnt think i made my point clear enough. facts: - my boyfriend doesnt see a problem at all. - He only has one real friend and a brother, in a band and works. - were both very serious, especially him. - we...
A. 20 April 2007: All I am hearing is how you are running after him. Stop it!!! You sound as if you are far too attached to him and thats really not healthy at all.
You have to remember that he needs time with his friends and needs time apart from you. The best rel... (read in full...)
My sister is only 14 and going on the pill, Is this just so she can now have sex ?
Q. My sister is being put on the pill, and she is only 14. She is a virgin, and she says she wants to have birth control to help her periods. She just got her first high school boyfriend. As her sister I am afraid that she is doing this so that she ...
A. 20 April 2007: I have to admit I was on the pill at age 14. It was purely for having a regular menstral cycle.
If your sister has a good head on her shoulders I wouldnt worry about it. Its only if she is in the slightest bit permiscuous that you need to worry!
... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 20 April 2007: You need to feel better about yourself.
Perhaps get yourself all dressed up and go out with some friends for the evening. Show you how beautiful you are and show you that other boys can like you.
You have to remember that the way you see your... (read in full...)
He says his lack of interest in sex is not because of me! Should I believe this and is there really a man out there who doesnt need sex?
Q. Ok... About 16 years ago, I was introduced to a guy by my family. They said he was an "uncle", instantly we grew close and fell in love, but being that we were "family" nothing came of it. As adults we found eachother again and found we were not at ...
A. 19 April 2007: Honestly it does happen. I know of one couple (friends of mine), her partner is 7 years older than her and he has vowed not to have sex with her until they are married. And trust me, they havent! He has very catholic values and was brought up in a ... (read in full...)
He says his lack of interest in sex is not because of me! Should I believe this and is there really a man out there who doesnt need sex?
Q. Ok... About 16 years ago, I was introduced to a guy by my family. They said he was an "uncle", instantly we grew close and fell in love, but being that we were "family" nothing came of it. As adults we found eachother again and found we were not at ...
A. 19 April 2007: Honestly it does happen. I know of one couple (friends of mine), her partner is 7 years older than her and he has vowed not to have sex with her until they are married. And trust me, they havent! He has very catholic values and was brought up in a ... (read in full...)
He says his lack of interest in sex is not because of me! Should I believe this and is there really a man out there who doesnt need sex?
Q. Ok... About 16 years ago, I was introduced to a guy by my family. They said he was an "uncle", instantly we grew close and fell in love, but being that we were "family" nothing came of it. As adults we found eachother again and found we were not at ...
A. 19 April 2007: Honestly it does happen. I know of one couple (friends of mine), her partner is 7 years older than her and he has vowed not to have sex with her until they are married. And trust me, they havent! He has very catholic values and was brought up in a ... (read in full...)
He says his lack of interest in sex is not because of me! Should I believe this and is there really a man out there who doesnt need sex?
Q. Ok... About 16 years ago, I was introduced to a guy by my family. They said he was an "uncle", instantly we grew close and fell in love, but being that we were "family" nothing came of it. As adults we found eachother again and found we were not at ...
A. 19 April 2007: Honestly it does happen. I know of one couple (friends of mine), her partner is 7 years older than her and he has vowed not to have sex with her until they are married. And trust me, they havent! He has very catholic values and was brought up in a ... (read in full...)
He says his lack of interest in sex is not because of me! Should I believe this and is there really a man out there who doesnt need sex?
Q. Ok... About 16 years ago, I was introduced to a guy by my family. They said he was an "uncle", instantly we grew close and fell in love, but being that we were "family" nothing came of it. As adults we found eachother again and found we were not at ...
A. 19 April 2007: Honestly it does happen. I know of one couple (friends of mine), her partner is 7 years older than her and he has vowed not to have sex with her until they are married. And trust me, they havent! He has very catholic values and was brought up in a ... (read in full...)
I was abused by my step dad! Its still haunting me, please help!!
Q. pls help..when i was little my step dad abused me,my mum and him have now split up, but still at the age of 25 im getting night-mares, flash backs. when me and my husband try to make love i get flash backs den. it got so bad i couldnt go out the ...
A. 19 April 2007: I was abused by my family doctor when I was 15 and after years of therapy I can remember it as if it was yesterday.
The therapy helped a bit as you say, but the pain doesnt go away, but it does get better. Its been 16 and a half years since my... (read in full...)
He hates that I help my troubled family! Is he wrong or should I stop doing this?
Q. I need some advice, I've been in a relationship for the last 11 years I've dedicated myself to my boyfriend always there for him putting up with so much abuse and financial distress. Within the last year he has really changed for the better, but now ...
A. 19 April 2007: Great to hear it!... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't have a great home life.She gets yelled at a lot. How can I help her cope?
Q. My friend is a girl and she doesnt have a great homelife and she gets yelled at for lots of things that she shouldnt be yelled at for an puts her down and im not sure what excatly i should tell her.so wat would u guys say?...
A. 18 April 2007: An unhappy homelife for someone your age is hard. I have a number of friends that were in the very same situation at your age. I was however one of the lucky ones and had fantastic parents.
There is nothing that you can do to make matters easier f... (read in full...)
How long do you think you should be in a relationship for before proposing?
Q. How long do you think you should be in a relationship for before proposing? I've been with my girlfriend for five years and it's been fantastic apart from the occasional row over nothing and her having a one night stand near the beginning of the ...
A. 16 April 2007: Five years is a great time. You obviously know each other well enough and as you said, her little error of judgement at the beginning of the relationship is a forgivable offence.
If you love her, and you want to spend the rest of your life wit... (read in full...)
She's 6 months pregnant and she left me...I want her back! What should I do?
Q. Hello, I have recentely parted from my partner, she is six months pregnant. (Please note) that this was my partners decision. For a while we haven't been getting on, there are lots of reasons as to why, but the reason why i write this is b...
A. 16 April 2007: She is pregnant so her hormones are all over the place. And a little time out will do her and possibly you, a whole lot of good.
She hasnt said that she isnt prepared to get back together, which means that she obviously has feelings for you, oth... (read in full...)
We have a daughter and I want to plan for a future but he doesn't. Should I leave or stay?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years. And I think it might be time for us to go our seperate ways. We have a 3 year old daughter who makes this situation the hardest. I want to do family things, hangout and make friends together. Save money ...
A. 16 April 2007: First and foremost is the wellbeing of your child. Living in a home where parents argue non stop is very unhealthy for any child.
You are clearly unhappy with the way things are, and you both want different things from the sounds of it. You have... (read in full...)
We can be happy, but we fight a lot, too. Does this mean we aren't meant to be together?
Q. I have been with the same guy for three and a half years, and most of the time we are happy. Sometimes we have these massive fights however, and they can end in a "break up" (which doesn't last) or just a break. We have had two proper breakups which ...
A. 15 April 2007: Couples always fight. Its an age old tradition, but its what the fights are about that matters. If its a trust or honesty issue, forget it and move on. If you've tried a few times to get back together over trust or honesty issues, it just isnt gonna ... (read in full...)
He hates that I help my troubled family! Is he wrong or should I stop doing this?
Q. I need some advice, I've been in a relationship for the last 11 years I've dedicated myself to my boyfriend always there for him putting up with so much abuse and financial distress. Within the last year he has really changed for the better, but now ...
A. 15 April 2007: I am in the very same situation with my family. My parents are in financial distress since they emigrated and lost all their money when there solicitor sold their house and ran off with the money. It left them with the clothes on their back.
I hav... (read in full...)
He wants to know about previous bf's but I am not saying anything! Am i wrong in trying to keep these things from him?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for seven months and we really love each other. am 19 and he's 23 but we wanna get married in the near future. my dilemma is that he asks me a lot of questions about my past and wants to know about every man i ...
A. 15 April 2007: Fair enough, these guys may in passing say something, but in a case like this, he'll be pissed knowing that you have slept with these guys, and whether you tell him now, or they tell him later isnt gonna make him any less pissed!
Its your choice w... (read in full...)
I was dumb enough to fall for a married man and I can't trust what he tells me! What should I do?
Q. Ok, first of all I was dumb enough to fall in love with a man who is still married. No kids. He is in the process of settling the financial matters and says he has a solictor working out the figures. We agreed we wouldn't see each other until he ...
A. 15 April 2007: From what you have said, I have serious doubts that he has actually made any attempt to distance himself from his wife. It seems from my outsiders point of view that this guy is just a player.
It seems that he is still living in the marital ... (read in full...)
He wants to know about previous bf's but I am not saying anything! Am i wrong in trying to keep these things from him?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for seven months and we really love each other. am 19 and he's 23 but we wanna get married in the near future. my dilemma is that he asks me a lot of questions about my past and wants to know about every man i ...
A. 15 April 2007: I dont think its right for him to ask who you have been with. Its a private thing! He can ask how many guys you've been with, but not who!
Its normal for your partner to want to know who and how many, but he hasnt got the right to ask and then tel... (read in full...)
I got a uninary tract infection after having sex...is this common for women?
Q. When I first had sex with my boyfriend, I didn't know it is a good idea to pee after intercourse (even using condom). Therefore, I had urinary track infection. The doctor gave me some antibotics and suggest me to drink cranberry juice. Therefore, ...
A. 15 April 2007: I wouldnt say its unheard of. Not all woman have this problem, but its not totally uncommon for it to happen.
Try taking Cranberry tablets on a regular daily basis. They are good for the urinary system and should stop or reduce the number of infec... (read in full...)
My guy friends tell me that I'm a huge flirt and that I confuse them. Should I change my behaviours?
Q. Telling a friend you don't like him the way he likes you is tough. Most of my guy friends have confessed to me that they like me, but I haven't felt the same way about any of them. Some of them have been cool afterwards, but they seem awkward ...
A. 15 April 2007: Its difficult when its just the way you are, but at the same time, if you are sending mixed signals to people, you may one day send the wrong signal to the wrong person and land up in a whole bunch of trouble.
Its not so much changing the way you ... (read in full...)
Am I being too harsh to tell my gf to stop doing this thing that makes me very unhappy?
Q. My girlfriend is doing something that is making her happy and while im not happy and she wont quit because she loves doing it but it takes a lot of time out of being together but then she says she loves me more than anything... am i being to harsh ...
A. 15 April 2007: We obviously dont know what it is she is doing that is making you unhappy, but if its something she loves, it would be unfair to ask someone to stop doing it.
My boyfriend is a roadie for bands. He is on tour at least 6 to 8 months of the year. We... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 15 April 2007: Ok, so you know you have low self asteem. The question is, what are you gonna do about it?... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 13 April 2007: Exactly what I was saying earlier. You have a low self asteem and you are so wrong about people. Dont tar eveyone with the same brush and say that no-one will look twice at you. Some people look at more than just what people look like!... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 13 April 2007: Firstly why do you care so much about what other people think about you? Its not peoples opinions that count, its what you think and feel!
If you were fat, looked like the swamp thing and had bulging eyes, who cares! That is you, and thats th... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 11 April 2007: Dont stress about it. I know its easier said than done, but honestly by asking the question you will at least get an answer. Even if its not the one you want to hear, at least you will have an answer and you can get on with things one way or the ... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 10 April 2007: You're not a wimp, you are just scared that things wont go your way. Make a decision if you definately want to do this and do it. Dont stress about it. If its meant to be, its meant to be.... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 9 April 2007: Your best bet is to speak to him on a one to one basis. No-one else there. Perhaps that would open him up too. As you say if he left in May its not the end of the world, you would see him again.
It sounds to me like your first real crush. They are... (read in full...)
I have this mad crush on him and he's leaving in May. What can I do?
Q. When i Started High School In Year 7 There Was The 1 Lad In Year 8 And I Hated Him I Couldnt Stand Him. ..................................................... Im Now In Year 10 And I Am Truely Crushin on him so Badley He Is All I Think About - He...
A. 9 April 2007: Tough one!
If you like him, and he is leaving shortly, then you need to act fast. Perhaps you should text him and ask him to meet you somewhere. Somewhere where there will be no friends etc. Then ask him directly if he has any feelings for you,... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she care that he raped me?
Q. My mum HATES my sisters boyfriend for cheating. But shes still good friends with my rapist. I just dont understand it, my sisters boyfriend has been cheating on her and staying out all night. Leaveing her to look after to kids. And she absolutely ...
A. 18 March 2007: I was raped at 15, and the worst part about the whole ordeal is that my one sister didnt at first believe me. She told me that it wasnt true and that if it was, I must have asked for it. You soon start believing that you did do something ... (read in full...)
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