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HI! My name is Meshalee. I am 28 years old, born and raised in NJ, but now residing in FL. ! I am a mama of 2, stepmama of 3. I am a teacher and PT student majoring in Psychology. I am all about family but like everyone else, we have our daily struggles, a semi-combined family is a lot of work. I enjoy reading (especially anything about world religion, dreams, and astrology). I also love to write. My favorite playground is the beach, give me sand, sun, and sea!!!

I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?

Q.   [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...

A.   8 August 2010: SIGH...Sweety, a man of this age dating a child (whether or not you look or act older, yes, you're still a child) is wrong. WRONG! You're mental, emotional, and sexual needs are MUCH different. While you may say you "love" him, trust me, you know ... (read in full...)

Partner said they wanted sex and then changed mind with no reason. Fair?

Q.   My partner and I have sex on occasion. We were with friends and my partner discussed in front of our friends "gettin some tonight" I had plans to go for a walk with my daughter later in that night. I was given a choice between the walk and "getting ...

A.   7 August 2010: Blowing off plans with you daughter for sex is whats not fair here. Your child should come first, nomatter what. Sex is something ylou can have whenever, especially is you have a live in girlfriend. So, you were disappointed and hurt bc your gf blew ... (read in full...)

How should I react to news of my brother's cancer?

Q.   oh my gosh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my brother has cancer, how do i react, he hates tears and hates bipolar, which i am, so i need as much help as possible any help and advice highly appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

A.   5 August 2010: My high school sweetheart and father of my daughter was diagnosed with cancer when he was 18, he also hated tears and pitty. Although I was devestated I held it together as much as I could. I supported him, I wentt to all of the doctor visits and I ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my teacher but now he is leaving, I want to get him a thank you card but don't know what to say in it....

Q.   This new teacher came to my school about 2 years ago..He has been my tutor for 2 years and he was my english teacher last year. I didnt start liking him till about 6 months of him teaching me,but it got worse and i eventually stopped talking to ...

A.   2 August 2010: Aww, the school teacher crush. I respect the teacher for not taking advantagé of your crush. Get him a "Thank You" card, it can even be blank inside, just tell him how much you appreciate his dedication, that he has helped you so much along the way, ... (read in full...)

I stay overnight all the time, but he does not want me moving in, why not??

Q.   I've been dating a guy exclusively for over two years. I've been staying at his house every day and night since Christmas 2009. When I say I'm going to stay at my place, he always talks me into staying with him instead. My lease will be up in a few ...

A.   2 August 2010: This is simple...he needs to know his home is just that...his. And spending the night, even everynight is not permanent where moving in completely is. You have only been dating a short time, maybe it comforts him to know if things don't work out the ... (read in full...)

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

Q.   This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it ...

A.   1 August 2010: WHY continue this? The more you allow the more she will hurt you. Her stories don't seem to add up, and well, it's evident that she has some major self-esteem issues. For someone who has nvr even met the woman iñ person, you sure have been blinded ... (read in full...)

Fighting over our kids!

Q.   My husband and I are constantly fighting over the kids. I have a 14 year old from a previous relationship and he has a daughter, 6 1/2, from a previous relationship. His daughter gets away with everything and my son gets pushed aside. What do I ...

A.   1 August 2010: I have 2 girls ages 10 and 6 and my fiance has 2 boys ages 9 and 12 and a daughter who is 7. We all live under one roof and it is a struggle. We are actually just not seeing a therapist bc we have major parenting differences. Also, his children's ... (read in full...)

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

Q.   What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues ...

A.   31 July 2010: Well, in my opinion, I believe carrying on like you are in love with the father of yóur chíld when is all reality you are not is not selfish at all, but I do also think if YOU were your boyfriend and he was the one sneaking around behind your back ... (read in full...)

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