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DId my girlfriend fix herself up for this other guy?

Q.   im in a relation with a girl since a year. and cos im dark, shes not so much into me. im a singer by profession, im 6'2" tall, great physique, but im little dark. i guess for that reason shes not able to adjust with me. she works at a place, a gu...

A.   18 May 2011: Not sure what your culture is but If someone causes you to doubt them so much it's not worth it. Get out and find someone else u can trust.... (read in full...)

In a relationship with a married man....where is this going?

Q.   Hi everyone. I'm a confused, single woman, no kids, and living independently. But i am in a relationship with a married man for more than a year now. it's not like what most people think of when they hear of this type of relationship. we are not ...

A.   18 May 2011: I'm writing from the position of someone who was a mistress for 9 years. Ike you I made my own money owned my own place etc. I saw him every week day and some weekends. Everyone knew about us, his wife knew about me as his ex but she had suspicions ... (read in full...)

I'm an average weight for someone my age, but my legs look awful in leggings and shorts!

Q.   Hello, I am a 17 year old teenager and now that I am older I tend to 'dress up' more than I used to, I normally wear jeans to school, but Leggings are so much comfier than jeans. so I would like to wear them more often. I have a problem though, ...

A.   12 May 2011: I had to reply to this as my daughter had a similar worry. When she was younger she would wear baggy tshirts to cover her thighs cos she wS embarrassed. i felt it would b a phase and xplained to her that with a little exercise she would tone up. She ... (read in full...)

Kissless virgin

Q.   There is a stigma surrounding virginity. But there is a much bigger one surrounding kissless virginity. I have told some people I am a virgin, if the moment seems right, and they just assume it's because I haven't found the right girl or something ...

A.   12 May 2011: There's a time n place for everything. Just because you haven't met a girl you want to kiss doesn't mean you have a problem. One day you will and to be honest if a girl likes you she may ask you to kiss her or even make the first move, after all ... (read in full...)

Vagina problem

Q.   I have always found sex quite uncomfortable and painful which worries me, especially when I went for a smear test the other day and the nurse couldn't even insert the speculum. I have had a smear before but it took 3 appointments and 3 different ...

A.   12 May 2011: Hi sorry to hear about your worries. Sounds to me as though you may be tensing up during the procedure which can make it uncomfortable. I can understand how you feel. Just wish the speculum wasn't metal and cold. I'm use to it now, but all I can ... (read in full...)

Air trapped in the vagina during doggy style - any suggestions? Anyone else had this problem?

Q.   When my husband and I have sex doggy style - sometimes he gets so much air in there it hurts for hours! I don't know what I can do about this. I haven't told him this before - I didn't want to make him feel bad cause I know hes not trying to hurt ...

A.   11 May 2011: I have had this problem as far back as I can recall. When we have sex, part of the pleasure is caused the sensation which in turn comes from the vacuum created during the act. if your partner pulls out intentionally or otherwise a large amount if ... (read in full...)

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