My husband checks out girls and watches porn online... I'm a little overweight could that be a factor?
Q. I think i have a huge problem, and i need some advice, i dont know if its me or my husband but it seems like i catch him every other day looking at internet porography, well it will be in the history, he says he loves me but i dont know we have been ...
A. 7 November 2009: ew. your husband is disgusting. how can he act like that around you and your children. tell him to man up and stop acting like a teenage... (read in full...)
We send each other saucy pictures and flirt... Are we having an affair?
Q. Over the past 2 years I have become friendly with 1 of the guys i work with-we are based in different parts of the country but sometimes he comes over for meetings where im based. He is married with a child and im getting married next year. I want t...
A. 7 November 2009: yes you're having an affair. a good test is, if you're doing nothing wrong then you won't mind telling your husband all about it. pictures and all... (read in full...)
"Sort your life out, you aren't a baby anymore"?
Q. Hi, i dont know if im being oversensitive here but i just want some feedback. Im 27 and been doing driving lessons just over a year now.My instructor wants me to book my test in and im just not confident. Last night on my driving lesson h...
A. 7 November 2009: well maybe he was being harsh but maybe he's right? you've been taking lessons for a year, maybe you should just suck it up and take the test, if you fail you fail but he probably wouldn't tell you to take it if he thought you weren't a good enough ... (read in full...)
Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...
A. 6 November 2009: oh lol i read this wrong! i thought you said part time job! get a new boyfriend... (read in full...)
He is saving an old love letter from some other girl! Why?
Q. Hello the other day i saw my boyfriend going threw his stuff and pulled out a letter her glanced at it for a few seconds and folded it up and put it back in hes box then when he left i went and read it. IT was a old love letter for some girl? why ...
A. 6 November 2009: i keep a lot of things from past relationships. it reminds me of a good time, in spite of how things might have ended or fizzled out. it doesn't mean anything other than a fond memory. we all have pasts and you can't expect someone to throw theirs ... (read in full...)
Cheating GF wants to work on our relationship but won't give up her friendship with her affair partner.... What do I do?
Q. Hey all. My girlfriend of 3.5 yrs cheated on me. We have a beautiful son together. I have forgiven her and done everything I can to try and work out our relationship. The one thing I have asked of her is for her to not have any form of ...
A. 6 November 2009: no way. give her a choice and if she doesn't choose you then you should leave. the only difference is you have to remain on good terms for the sake of your son. but that doesn't mean being a doormat... (read in full...)
Biological clock in overdrive - please help!
Q. I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed 3 year relationship. I have lived with my partner for over 2 years now, and moved abroad to live with him. For the past year I have been struggling with increasing desire to have a child. Please understand that ...
A. 6 November 2009: you can't force your partner into something he's just not ready for, not to mention that in this economic climate the odds of him getting a job when he graduates are actually quite slim. i agree with sarcy, spend the next year getting as fit and ... (read in full...)
How can I learn to enjoy oral sex more?
Q. Ok , this is embarrassing, but I have a hard time giving my husband oral sex. He really enjoys it and I enjoy the pleasure that he gets from it but I have a hard time with the taste and texture of the "fluid". I have even gagged on it, which is ...
A. 6 November 2009: you can get some flavoured lubricants from shops like ann summers called d**k lick. crude but it might work... (read in full...)
My husband hit me while drunk and doesn't remember. Should I trust him not to do it again?
Q. Recently my husband hit me. He had been drinking and he lost his temper. He had no recollection the next day, has apologised and promised it will not happen again. I just don't know how I feel or if i'm stupid to believe him. He is a drinker anyway, ...
A. 6 November 2009: no i wouldn't trust him. i also don't believe he doesn't remember. i'm guessing he just doesn't want to face up to it... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy after being sexually assaulted or is it possible that I have gotten over it and won't need therapy?
Q. I was drugged and raped by someone I just met whilst unconscious when traveling alone last year. I can recall everything prior to falling unconscious, once during (somewhat blurry and brief), and can remember afterwards when I wake to find him next ...
A. 6 November 2009: you definitely should get counselling. you don't just get over a trauma like this. it will come back and haunt you later. i hope you get the help you need and i'm sorry such a terrible thing happened to you... (read in full...)
My b/f makes me feel complexed about my body, I used to be happy about it!
Q. When I'm watching movies with my boyfriend he is always pointing out which girls have better breasts or stomachs than me. If there is a topless scene he will immediately turn to me and tell me things like, "her's are much bigger than yours, they're ...
A. 6 November 2009: wow! my rule for relationships is that your confidence should never be knocked in anyway. if someone does that they're abusing you in an emotional way. you used to be confident and happy with your body, that is rare and precious and he took it away ... (read in full...)
Should I get a part time lover to avoid demanding sex and attention from boyfriend all the time?
Q. I have been dating a guy for about six months now. He is everything i have ever dreamt of, loving, caring romantic, sensitive, except: 1. He rarely has time for me. We live 5 minutes drive apart, we are always free after 4pm but only meet about on...
A. 6 November 2009: i agree wit the other poster, sounds like you need another boyfriend not another job!... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill but had sex briefly without a condom, is it still possible to get pregnant?
Q. Recently I had sex without a condom...well, started sex.It was only for 2 min (prob less) and we stopped but it still freaked me out.Im on the pill but im wondering if its still possible to get pregnant.I've never done that before and I guess we ...
A. 6 November 2009: anything is possible but it's highly unlikely. the pill is effective enough on it's own, you don't need condoms to prevent pregnancy if you're on the pill but you do need them to prevent std's... (read in full...)
Drunken mistake won't leave me alone...
Q. This guy i did stuff with while drunk keeps trying to contact me through facebook, but he was just a DISGUSTING mistake and I really don't want to have anything to do with him... How can I reject him without seeming like a bit of a b****?...
A. 5 November 2009: why not be a bitch? he obviously isn't getting the message... (read in full...)
Is it normal to prefer sex during the first days of menstruation?
Q. I am curious. My wife tells me that she is most interested in Sex about the 3rd or 4th day of her period. Is this quite normal?...
A. 5 November 2009: can't say it would be for me now, i'd be more interested in a good book and hot chocolate at that time but hormones are funny things.... (read in full...)
2 questions: My little brother searches for porn and I don't have my period yet!
Q. [MODERATOR NOTE: The same (13 year-old) poster has presented two questions, which has been combined into one post.] ok my little brother is on youtube serching on sex and i know cause i checked the search on my laptop what shold i do??? Also, why...
A. 5 November 2009: everyone has their period at different times. if you're under 16 there's nothing to worry about at all. if it doesn't come by 17 i'd see a doctor but til then be glad! it just brings cramps and bloating lol. as for your brother, i think you need to ... (read in full...)
I'm depressed after my abortion.
Q. im 14 and i had an abortion in February, and know im depressed and want a baby. what do i do? please help me. i have never been this depressed in my life before please please help me ...
A. 5 November 2009: you should tell your doctor and he can refer you to counselling. it's important you deal with these feelings... (read in full...)
Would you believe a married man who......
Q. would you believe a married man, who is not having sexual relations with his wife is taking extenz only for his own self esteem (like you would lift weights or work out) as he claims. Or would you belive he is having sexual relations elsewhere? Wo...
A. 5 November 2009: nah i wouldn't believe him on either count. especially with the two together. ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend turn gay if he enjoys it when I give it to him from behind?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have a very good relationship....and sex can be a little kinky with us and I know sometimes my boyfriend likes me to play with his butt hole sometimes and I was thinking about using a strap on with him cause I heard that's ...
A. 5 November 2009: you can't turn gay.
anything that happens between a man and a woman is heterosexual sex. no matter where all the bits and pieces go so don't worry about it... (read in full...)
I've been grilling my wife for two years and I need the truth!
Q. 36 years ago I noticed a guy's name on my gf's calender. As I had just a few days prior got back from the military I asked about it and she said he was just a person who came over to the apartment house where she lived to play cards. She lived with ...
A. 5 November 2009: if she's been faithful and loving for 33 years, is one minor indiscretion really worth worrying about ... (read in full...)
My period still hasn't shown up, could I be pregnant?
Q. I've been on the pill since August (microlite) and sometimes me and my boyfriend don't use condoms. Normally he doesn't cum inside me (I know it's not a proper method of contraception) but my period's late now =( Usually my seven day break starts o...
A. 5 November 2009: sigh! you can ALWAYS be be pregnant. the pill isn't 100% but it seems unlikely unless you were taking antibiotics or were vomiting at some point while taking the pill. sometimes the pill messes your period around for a few months so i wouldn't panic ... (read in full...)
She had sex with her ex, so I went out and had sex with another girl. Is this relationship doomed?
Q. hi my girlfriend and i are together for like a year. we jumped straight into relationship literally the day after she finished with her ex of 3 years. a few days ago i found out she had sex with him again a couple of weeks ago. in anger i we...
A. 5 November 2009: doomed... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps saying he has sex for my benefit, even though he is always initiating it!
Q. my boyfriend always iniates sex and then afterwards tells me that he didn't want it and only did it for me. i don't care whether i get any or not and he is the one who gives all the signals and leads me to the bedroom so why does he keep saying ...
A. 5 November 2009: next time just say that you're ok and you don't want to have sex but it was SO nice of him to offer. he'll soon fess up i imagine... (read in full...)
My teen pregnancy inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What do I do?
Q. I'm 17 and pregnant, and I keep telling my family about how much I love it, and it inspired my 12 year old sister to get pregnant. What should we do?...
A. 5 November 2009: well it depends, is she actually pregnant yet? ... (read in full...)
I know I can't get over our break-up while we have contact, but I can't abandon him while he is treated for cancer!
Q. I'm in such a difficult situation at the moment. I split with my boyfriend 2 months ago, but I still love him. We've stayed in contact since that day which I know we shouln't have because it's made it impossible to get over him. He still loves me ...
A. 5 November 2009: you can't do both obviously so i'm thinking you either suck it up and be there for him or you leave him to it and get your life back. i'm not being judgy or anything it's totally up to you (and him too). so you just have to make a decision about ... (read in full...)
Family: Where does your priorities lie?
Q. Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to ...
A. 4 November 2009: and i agree with tisha, love doesn't come in a 1,2,3 listing. ... (read in full...)
Family: Where does your priorities lie?
Q. Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to ...
A. 4 November 2009: oh i think i misunderstood. i didn't realise it was in order of importance. i think if i had kids they would come first. everyone else would be second. ... (read in full...)
Family: Where does your priorities lie?
Q. Wife Question to husband Who do you see as our family? Husband Answer to wife You and the two kids of course Wife to husband No one else? Husband to wife No. No one else Husband to wife Who do you see as our family? Wife to ...
A. 4 November 2009: my parents, brothers and husband. don't have kids yet. ... (read in full...)
Raped by two men and troubled by porn
Q. [Moderator note: some spelling errors corrected, paragraphs added for easier reading] So to start off my question I'd like to say that I was drugged and raped by two guys a couple of years back. But My question is that the last thing I remember...
A. 4 November 2009: you need to tell him. i'm sure he'll understand. this is important to you and so it should be important to him. i also hope you've had counselling to deal with your trauma. xxx... (read in full...)
My brother asked me to look at his because to judge its size
Q. My older brother asked me if I could look at his erect penis and tell him what I thought about its size. I know he is really self conscious about it and I just wanted to help him out. I've seen his dick before when we were really young. But never ...
A. 4 November 2009: its not cheating but it is weird. give him a measuring tape... (read in full...)
Bipolar wife pregnant-help!
Q. My wife is bipolar. She is also pregnant, so she isnt taking her meds. I knew this would be hard, but she is really starting to get to me. I love her, but Im getting really tired of the fights.... that more often than not, seem to be about stupid ...
A. 4 November 2009: you need to see your doctor for proper advice. there are probably things you can both do to help the situation. and just keep focusing on the fact that this is a short term problem. ... (read in full...)
I want to be his girlfriend. Any feedback?
Q. Hey guys it's Buddah again :). I just wanted a few little comments on this crush I have. Okay, so I just turned 14 a few weeks ago, and I am in the production of 'Cinderella' at my school. There is a guy, he's 17, that I have a huge crush on. He ...
A. 4 November 2009: ps your friends might just be jealous... (read in full...)
I want to be his girlfriend. Any feedback?
Q. Hey guys it's Buddah again :). I just wanted a few little comments on this crush I have. Okay, so I just turned 14 a few weeks ago, and I am in the production of 'Cinderella' at my school. There is a guy, he's 17, that I have a huge crush on. He ...
A. 4 November 2009: seems like he's definitely into you. he is a little old in my opinion but as long as he's willing to take things at your pace then that will be ok. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?
Q. There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...
A. 4 November 2009: sounds like she only wants one thing from you. she's desperate to have sex and that's a bit worrying. she's also pressuring you into it and that is not fair. don't do anything you aren't ready for and if she doesn't want to wait then she isn't worth ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!
Q. I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in ...
A. 4 November 2009: these kinds of strong feelings are normal when you're young. they're very real and powerful but they are there to prepare you for real, mutual love in the future. some day you will see that your infatuation with your teacher isn't really as big a ... (read in full...)
She is 30 and he is 74. Is he actually interested in her mind?
Q. He is 74. She's 30. First of all, let's say he is a thin, very attractive, elderly man. It may seem gross to some people, but she says she is actually attracted to him. It may be weird to some, but she said something about him is fascinating to h...
A. 4 November 2009: your "friend" is arm candy... (read in full...)
What do you think of a man, who...?
Q. What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on ...
A. 4 November 2009: he's selfish. don't go out with this guy. he wants everything on his terms... (read in full...)
Romantic gift ideas?
Q. Hi All My partner is a little down lately, and id really like to surprise her with something to cheer her up.. something romantic. The problem is, money is VERY tight right now, and ive done most of the things i can think of (massages, flow...
A. 3 November 2009: moth dna. thats funny.
something a friend of mine did for her boyfriend was highlight every word in the dictionary that she thought applied to him. it takes a long time but its very romantic i think. ... (read in full...)
Do girls have a problem with a curved penis? And what skin tone do girls find more attractive?
Q. Hi...i'm 18 years old boy,i have two questions. 1. I don't know why but i have a slightly curved penis.Its very little bent downwards and slightly curved to its left,perhaps its coz of the way i masturbate as i masturbate pressing my penis on...
A. 3 November 2009: it's got nothing to do with how u masturbate. lots of men have curved penises. they just grow that way. as for skin tone, i don't really have a preference. ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with her when we aren't in a relationship?
Q. There's this girl that I've know since the 6th grade and I've always thought she had a nice body. We're in the 9th grade now. We started talking over the internet and one thing led to another and we ende up having internet sex and now se wants me to ...
A. 3 November 2009: good for you! hope things work out well for you both... (read in full...)
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