I can't stop thinking about my height after a comment by this girl?
Q. I went on a few dates with a girl but nothing really picked up. A friend of mine ran into the girl randomly at a party and asked her what she thought of me. She said that I was a good person and a lot of fun but not what she was looking for. My ...
A. 7 September 2008: truth is some girls will be put off by your height, and thats just life, the same as if they were just not attracted to you because of any other physical feature and you have to be attracted to someone to date them! BUT height isn't a big deal to ... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight?
Q. i really want to lose weight!! i am quite fat 10 stone at age 14 5ft2 or something like that. i really want to lose a couple of pounds. any ideas.. thanks :)...
A. 7 September 2008: if you're already eating healthily and doing some exercise it might just be that you're just a teenager and sometimes it take a while to lose puppy pounds. i'd seriously discourage dieting but if you go to your gp they can give you a healthy eating ... (read in full...)
What would happen if I did become pregnant and I didn't know and I was still taking the pills? I don't have any periods at all, and I've taken the pills for the past 3 years daily.
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and he recently proposed to me. He has openly told me about the amount of girlfriends he has had and what ones he'd slept with. When we got together i said i would go onto the mini pill- as we, and ...
A. 5 September 2008: no need to worry, if you're taking it properly you're not supposed to have any scares!! and you won't have caused your self any damage or made yourself infertile. ... (read in full...)
Question about my height?
Q. Hi i have just turned 15 years old and my peers tower over me at average of 5'9, i am 5'5 and am around girl height at my school. My question is will i still grow to at least 5'9 (My dads height). Thanks...
A. 4 September 2008: you might, my brother was very short for his age until he was 17 when he grew to 6ft in a few months. and my dad is only 5'10 so its probable that you will grow more but you should just accept your height the way it is because there isn't anything ... (read in full...)
It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and he didn't even get me a card. How do I breach this subject maturely?
Q. Ok, so I'd like some advice on how to sit down and talk to my boyfriend about his recent behaviour... It was my birthday a couple of weeks ago, and he didn't even get me a card. I questioned him about this, calmly, and all he had to say was that ...
A. 3 September 2008: this just means he cares more about how it would "inconvenience" him to get off his ass and buy a card than your feelings. dump him asap or it will be like this forever... (read in full...)
Together for three years, I moved in with him, asked if he thought we would be together in the future, he did not know, couldn't promise love or commitment, I am devastated, should I just wait around or leave, I love him?
Q. Im in a difficult position, I recently asked my boyfriend whether he thought we would still be together in the future, so we could make plans. His answer was I hope so but I cant promise I will still love you then, and to stop planning for the ...
A. 3 September 2008: i'd say leave, if he doesn't love you now he never will... (read in full...)
Why would she have sex with someone else the day after she had sex with me?
Q. befor me and my girl friend whent out we were haveing sex one day we had sex the next day she had sex with some oneelce then she came back an had sex with me. why would she have sex with some one else the day after we did? she said she liked me an ...
A. 3 September 2008: well if you aren't exclusive then maybe she's just seeing other people and being sure not to hide it from you so that you don't get led on... (read in full...)
When did you first have a boyfriend/girlfriend - that actually lasted a few months?
Q. Poll: When was the first time you had a relationship, and what age did you have your first kiss? I'm not talking about a peck on the cheek or peck on the lips type of kiss, I mean a toungue kiss? And when did you first have a boyfrien...
A. 3 September 2008: i was 18 when i had my first kiss and 20 when i had my first relationship.
its not as unusual as you think to be 16 and never kissed. believe me, til you meet the right person you aren't missing out on anything!... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?
Q. I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking ...
A. 2 September 2008: maybe he just means you're too young, ie you'll change so much over the next 10 years, gain so much more experience of life that you'll really be a different person... (read in full...)
WHY this fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by an "alfa-male" in front of my girlfriend??
Q. I often have the fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by a stronger, muscular, handsomer, and more well-endowed man in front of my girlfriend.she tries to stop him, at first, but eventually he ends up woo-ing her into having sex with him ...
A. 2 September 2008: hmm the thing is, this fantasy might be exciting but in practice you might not enjoy it so much! sometimes fantasies should remain such, something to talk about and that but it's a bit like a threesome fantasy, a nice idea but often leads to ... (read in full...)
My parents think my boyfriend is with me for my money! Why do parents always think they are right?
Q. Why is it parents always think there right. I have a boyfriend and I love him very much but they seem to think he's on with me for my money. He doesn't earnt the same amount as me and therefore I pay for pretty much everything but he always says ...
A. 2 September 2008: if he's using you then you'd know it because your entire relationship would be about what he can get out of it. other wise its just a case of the person with the money pays. simple as that. i'm a student and my boyfriend works, he pays for the vast ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my little brother - what can I do?
Q. I'm in love with my little brother. I am currently a senior at my high school and he is a freshmen at the same school. He's casual, down-to-earth, funny, and he has the cutest smile. I've been in love with him for as long as I could remember. ...
A. 2 September 2008: you might be very close to your brother but its very unlikely that you really love him. Sirena seems on the ball with this one, sometimes siblings devlop feeling for each other but its a good idea not to act on it because mostly likely it is a phase ... (read in full...)
Unhappily married - do I leave my wife and son to try and be happy?
Q. I have been married for six years and have a son with my wife but I am unhappy. i have recently met a young women and I have got feelings for her that I have never felt before. I dont know what to do. do I leave my wife and son and be happy or do I ...
A. 2 September 2008: you say you're unhappy but you really need to look at what is making you unhappy, i would suggest personal counselling and couples therapy before you do anything else, because you owe it to your wife and son to give this marriage the best shot you ... (read in full...)
Will God forgive my dead cousin for her gesture? I am open minded to all different beliefs.
Q. My cousin killed herself. She was 27yrs old. In my church we were always taught that if you kill youself then you are going to burn in hell forever. And I was eavesdropping when some family didnt know I was there and I heard them saying things about ...
A. 2 September 2008: i'm a Christian and i firmly believe that God knows the struggles we have and he understands when those problems overwhelm us. God loves all of his children and he wouldn't punish one of them because the pain became too much. the older members of ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he say "I love you" in public, only privately? Why does he not invite me to visit his family?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for about one year two months, now; he has been using the "L" word for a while, now. I can't remember who started it. At first, it was, "you know I love you". Since he would always say such a thing, I stopped ...
A. 2 September 2008: you sound a bit immature, if you love him and he loves you, why does it matter how much other people know that. a relationship isn't for show. as for the family, well you might be better off for now!! "in-laws" can be a pain in the neck but if you ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my boyfriend call me more often?
Q. i jst wna knw how to attract my boyfriend towards m so dat he wants to toke to m mre n mre on phn as he hates toking on phn for long hrs...dosnt gift me preasants nor surprse...tell m smthng i can do so dat he miss m alot n gets attrcted towards m ...
A. 2 September 2008: maybe he's just not that interested in you, in which case you should just find someone who does like you, but be wary because a relationship is not about how many presents you get or how long you spend on the phone. and sort out your spelling... (read in full...)
Do you think changing my facebook status will prove anything or was it a mistake?
Q. hi all, just started a new relationship with a really nice guy..... the relationship didnt start well i was seeing someone casually which broke off and he flirted with a female friend to make me jealous. i went over his last night and as we...
A. 2 September 2008: i think if facebook is a factor in your relationship you have a serious maturity problem. have a talk with him... (read in full...)
Dealing with my bf's beautiful, bitchy ex gf! How do I get over this?
Q. For seven years i went to dancing school with this girl (who we'll call Angela) who was really bitchy, mean and made my early teenage life a misery. she made me feel really insecure about my dancing and was just a bully in general. seven years la...
A. 1 September 2008: for everything she has, you have him. all her sponsorship and brilliant dancing wasn't going to make your bf stay with her was it! jealousy is tricky and the only way (i know of ) to get rid of it is to think positive things about yourself and to ... (read in full...)
Am I at the right age to father a child? What do you all think?
Q. Hi, What is a right or optimum age to have a baby? I'm 22 and I feel like I'm at a prime age to father a child of my own. My girlfriend (same age) says we are too young and that we should wait. We both work full time so we have regular income a...
A. 1 September 2008: well there's nothing you can do til SHE is ready, just don't pressure her into it or you'll both regret it... (read in full...)
Age differences - should people's reactions matter?
Q. I am a 34 year old male who has just begun dating a 19 year old female. I love being with her and adore her greatly, she is mature for her years , fun, serious when neccessary and has all the qualities of my ideal woman! However, I am concerned ...
A. 1 September 2008: 19 might be legally an adult but no matter how "mature" you say she is, she is still just 19 and naive and with little experience- she'll change drastically in the future so i doubt this is a long lasting thing. however in terms of advice, the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and my best friend deny the rumours (I was told they slept together) - now I'm hurt and don't trust them!
Q. So about two weeks ago I was told by one of my bestfriends, that a previous rumor I heard about my boyfriend of 6 months was true. He had slept with my "bestfriend" of four years three or four times. I had confronted both of them about a month ago ...
A. 1 September 2008: you've heard this rumour twice? i'd be inclined to believe there was something in it, especially if you trust the friend who told you. in which case they both screwed you over and you should dump both of them... (read in full...)
Why email me to say he doesn't care if he really doesn't care? Why not just ignore me?
Q. I was wondering why my ex boyfriend.. [he broke up with me a year ago because he wasn't feeling it so much anymore, but we've been talking and flirting and stuff in school (I'm now 18, he's now 17) etc... but not really spoken to him during the s...
A. 1 September 2008: he just sounds like an idiot! you shouldn't give him another thought... (read in full...)
Why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the bedroom? Why can't they just leave it at the door?...
Q. with most of the girls ive been with, after i slept with them they developed intense emotional feelings even when we weren't close to intimate prior to the events. so my question is this, why do women bring such sentiment and emotion into the ...
A. 1 September 2008: stop sleeping with people you dont' care about, problem solved... (read in full...)
Why am I so tired? Is it depression?
Q. Hi, Lately i have been feeling so tired its not normal, all i can think about is sleep. When im awake i feel really down and dont enjoy any of the things i used to, mainly because i have no energy or no happy thoughts anymore. I went to have a b...
A. 1 September 2008: you can be depressed even if your life is perfect. go back to your doctor... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is unhappy with my teeth
Q. I have dentures and I kept them a secret from my bf for nearly 3 years. One day my mouth was hurting so much from wearing them i told him I had them and then went to the bathroom to remove them to relieve the pain. I have taken to not wearing t...
A. 31 August 2008: its your mouth tell him not to be so shallow... (read in full...)
Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!
Q. What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...
A. 29 August 2008: the thing is it obviously must feel weird because its a shock but you can work past that, and there is every chance you can have perfectly normal kids or adopt. i would advise against throwing love away because it chooses you, and you can't pick who ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to explain the scars of my legs to the new guy
Q. Hi, Basically my problem is that I have scars on my upper legs from self-harming a very long time ago ( 10 years ago). The reasons behind this don't really matter as they no longer exist and don't explain anything about the person that I am now. ...
A. 29 August 2008: just explain what you said to us, you had problems coping in the past but you are over it. you should be proud you managed to find your way out of that! if he really does run a mile then he isn't really equiped for an adult relationship. everyone ... (read in full...)
Years after our marriage I find out he's my half-brother!
Q. What would you do if you met a guy started going out with him than years later you got married to him and found out that you had the same dad....... What would you do? stay together? seperate? or see each other as brother and sister? ...
A. 29 August 2008: you didn't live as brother and sister as children so i don't think you have to deal with those moral issues, like dearkelja said, consult your doctor before having children and if you're happily married then stay that way, its just blood really, you ... (read in full...)
Why do I always pee after sex?
Q. I pee every after sex. What about you gals? Is it normal? Please help me to understand why i pee after sex. Thanks! ...
A. 29 August 2008: your bladder is stimulated by sex. its quite normal and healthy as it removes bacteria from the urinary tract and prevents infections... (read in full...)
Will I ever feel the way I felt about my ex about anyone else? Will Mr.Right ever come along?
Q. dear cupid, i need your help. my boyfriend left me a couple weeks ago and im not quite over it. im in college and loving it but i really want a relationship ... i don't even think its to get over him because i am ... i was mad at him but im not ...
A. 28 August 2008: i swear that you will someday feel differently, but the more you dwell on it the longer this stage will last, get out, get hobbies, meet people and you'll be over it all the quicker. ... (read in full...)
My finacee values his family more than mine
Q. My fiance (whom I'm wedding in 4 weeks) seems to value his family more than mine. He has three sons from a previous marriage, three grandchildren and two on the way. I have no children but have nieces and nephews who are just like my children. ...
A. 28 August 2008: i think this is normal that he would care more for his kids than your nieces and nephews, it would be weird if he didn't, they are his kids after all. but saying that he obviously doesn't understand your relationship with him, you can ask him to be ... (read in full...)
The one night stand that produced a daughter will not recognise or support her.
Q. hi i had a 1 night stand which resulted in a pregnancy my ex partner knows its not his and it is the 1 night stands im trying to get the 1 night stand to recognise his daughter but he is not forthcoming and is not financially supporting her what ...
A. 28 August 2008: get a dna test and go to www.onlymums.org because they'll know more about the legal avenues you can persue to force him to help and other kinds of assistance to help you... (read in full...)
Have I had an ongoing infection? And what was that odour?
Q. when i was 16 i had a very strong fishy vaginal odour that lasted just one day. im now 23. my discharge has always smelt 'normal' but some days it would smell quite strong. ive been with my new partner for 7 months and have noticed it smells quite ...
A. 28 August 2008: you could have a bacterial infection, just go to your gp, he or she will give you a pill and thats it... (read in full...)
How do I convince my sister to stop wearing this bikini?
Q. My cute younger sister (she's 16) hangs around the public pool wearing a thong bikini. From behind, it looks as though she is totally naked. The boys there gather around her, many whispering, all staring, some spreading the word. If I ask her to ...
A. 28 August 2008: its her business not yours. tough but true... (read in full...)
I don't get the popularity of the doggy style position! Care to shed some light?
Q. Hi, I don't know if this is in the right section What makes doggy style so enjoyable for people? Me and my boyfriend have tried it a few times, I personally don't like it because I find it too impersonal and it doesn't do anything for me...
A. 28 August 2008: its just a different sensation and i imagine your boyfriend likes the view but you wont' like everything thats normal ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend wants kids but I don't, as I already have 2. I'm afraid she will leave me as warned.
Q. I am a divorced father of two children, 11 and 9 years old. My current girlfriend has never been married and would like to have children. She has pretty much given me an ultimatum, "have another child with me or our relationship is over." Quite ...
A. 28 August 2008: well you should break up. you want different things and she should have to give up having children for you... (read in full...)
Can my ex just throw him out?!
Q. Im a mother of 3 children - 1 boy 15 who has lived with his father for the past 12 months, and 2 daughters age 12 and 6. My son who lives with father has thrown him out and now wants to live with us but unfortunately there is no bedroom space and ...
A. 28 August 2008: think how your son must feel. no one wants him. poor kid. sure his dad can't legally throw him out but do you want him to be where he knows he isn't wanted? i think you should get him therapy and go into family therapy and make space for him in your ... (read in full...)
I want to stop taking the pill so I can get pregnant with my boyfriend. Is this wrong?
Q. hey i wanna know why i feel like i want a baby... im only 18 an i live with my mum an dad an ive got a boyfriend of 3 yrs. I just feel like i really want a baby, im on the pill and sometimes ive felt close 2 missing my pill an having sex with my ...
A. 26 August 2008: no this is an incredibly stupid thing to do. you still live with your parents you can't force a baby into their home and at your age neither you nor your boyfriend are fit to look after aa baby not to mention tricking your boyfriend into fatherhood ... (read in full...)
The "friend" I introduced to MY friends and helped acclimatise to MY uni, has stolen my friends and is spreading lies about me!
Q. i will try not to make this long! but basically i have had this friend who i have known for 3 years since college. during our time as friends the friendship began to get weak i noticed alot of flaws about her etc, anyway we both strted university ...
A. 26 August 2008: people are so fickle. and i wouldn't waste any more time on any of these so called friends, join a society or yoga class or somethign and make new friends... (read in full...)
I've been misusing my birth control pills. What is going on with my body?
Q. Hi, Just a quick question been on the oral contraceptive pill 4 like 4 years now, and never ever miss a pill! The past two months i've been overlapping my pills so i wouldn't get a period. This month however i overlapped my pill not expectin...
A. 26 August 2008: hmm i think you should ask the doctor, i know that its is ok to overlap, there is no real reason not to so there shouldn't have been a problem... (read in full...)
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