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Im 20 years old, i grew up in the USA and moved to england when I was 15.

I am a vet student in nottingham and I love it! I play football and compete at dressage with my horse.

Ive got an awsome bf who i love to bits and a really cute little dog. Basically thats me in a nutshell!! :-D

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If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia, what could happen?

Q.   If you had sex with a girl that has chlamydia what could happen?...

A.   14 October 2008: uhmmm... you could get chlamydia! Then you need to go to your doctor or sexual health clinic and get tested, and go on altibiotics. Its not a big deal if treated early and dealt with completely. Im assuming youre asking because you slept with some... (read in full...)

What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talkin...

A.   14 October 2008: I think youre over reacting a bit here honey. I can see how his words were tactless but i think he is just happy that you are uninhibited and adventerous in the bedroom. If your sex life is great and he is not disrespectful in other areas of your ... (read in full...)

Could you recommend wipes for intimate care?

Q.   I have recently started to use Johnson's Baby Wipes to stay clean, but I don't like the smell, can anyone recommend wipes that don't have a smell or are you better to get the always wipes....

A.   13 October 2008: Either ann summers intimate wipes, which are really good but a bit expensive, or something like Eco-baby unscented baby wipes! :-) hope this helps!... (read in full...)

Does a girl have regular periods in pregnancy or not?

Q.   Hey Guys, Me and my Girlfriend regularly have sex. Please note that "I DO NOT INSERT THE COMPLETE PENIS INSIDE" YOu can say that only the head of the penis goes inside and i withdraw before exploding. Now, my MAJOR CONCERN is I want to confirm ...

A.   13 October 2008:  It is unlikely that your girlfriend will have regular heavy periods during pregnancy but it can happen. My best frieds mum was 8 months pregnent before she figured it out because she bled on her period like normal the whole time!!So yes yoour gf s... (read in full...)

I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing.

Q.   I have just found my daughters diary while sorting out her clothes for washing. I know I should not have done but I read the last few pages that she had wrote on and I am worried she is going to do something stupid. The last entry says that ...

A.   9 October 2008: Hi! Well, your daughter seems to be taking care of herself. I would say the best thing would be to take her out to dinner or something nice, and ask her if shes ok, dont say anything about having read the diary. Talk to her in a really relaxed sett... (read in full...)

What should I do about my feelings for my cousin and my current engagement?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Well I don't know how to start this but from looking up similar situations on this sight I don't feel too wierd to ask. I am in love with my cousin and have been for years now. When I was 17 I slept at my aunt's house (my mother's sis...

A.   9 October 2008: If you are questioning your engagement, the call it off, if you know, in your heart of hearts that you want to be with the woman you love most, your cousin! It will hurt your fiance, but it will hurt a lot less than affairs and a divorce, which is w... (read in full...)

Pregnant on the pill? First time user needs reassurance

Q.   Hey Been on microgynon 30 for almost 3 months now, and have only just started having sex just with the pill (only done it once on sunday, we're all in the clear regarding STIs etc) with my bf, but lo and behold I'm still worried. I've been on tim...

A.   7 October 2008: Ya youre worrying for no reason, Ive been doing exactly waht youve been doing for 2 years, but on Femodene, and not gotten pregnant! Chill out, relax and have fun!... (read in full...)

Does sex disappear in all relationships?

Q.   hey i have been with my girlfrind for 9 months ( this is my first serious relationship) to cut the story short.. the first 3 months where great in the bedroom now its none existant!! is it me?? or do all relationships turn out like this?? or has she ...

A.   7 October 2008: uhmm.. Ive been with my bf 2.5 years, and we still have sex all the time unless we are really busy or when Im working really weird hours. Im a vet student and when Im on placement I often work from like 3.30am on farms... lol! But no, sex does... (read in full...)

Is cheating still bad if my bf wont find out?

Q.   i love my boyfriend but i want more. he can be quite shy when it comes to even leg touching and he says he wants to kiss me but he always chickens out, and we ave had PLENTY of opportunitites! but there is this guy i like who is prepared to go all t...

A.   7 October 2008: cheating is just as bad even if your bf doesnt find out. It still says the same thing about youa s a person. You are very young. If you want more, why not take a break with your bf and have your fun, and if your really love him, it will work out in ... (read in full...)

My daughter has asked for a training bra and she's only 9!

Q.   Hi there I wonder if anyone can help me with this one? My daughter, she's 9 and very tiny and always been a tom boy, never done anything remotely girlish, has asked me to get her a training bra, she has no development in that area at all but her ...

A.   7 October 2008: Hey! my mom used to not let me wear a bra and all my friends wore one, and I got teased really badly. Maybe someone has said something to your daughter? I think the best thing to do, or what I would have apprecieated if my mom did, was to expl... (read in full...)

Will our baby's name be hyphenated if we can't come to an agreement?

Q.   I live in Saskatoon, Sask. and am unmarried, and 5 months pregnant. The father is still around but we are no longer together as a couple. I want the baby to have my last name but he wants it is, I heard that if we can't agree the baby's name will ...

A.   7 October 2008: Well, there are a lot of ways this can work. Whats wrong with haveing a hyphenated last name? It shows that the baby comes from two differnt famiies and represents both of them! Secondly, you can always use your or the fathers last name as a mi... (read in full...)

How erect does a guy have to be to give him a blow job?

Q.   Im curious. A guy's penis, does it have to be erect before you can start to play with him or give him a blowjob? All answers welcomed and appreciated. Thanks!...

A.   3 October 2008: he doesnt have to be hard at all to start! Im sure he'll be hard as soon as youve been kissing him for a while... just start palying with it, kissing it etc... and he'll get hard! ;-D ... (read in full...)

Why do girls give oral sex?

Q.   do girls give guys bj's because they want to or do they just do it to make the guys feel good in a relationship...

A.   2 October 2008: Both! I love giving head. Honestly I do! But I also do it because I know my boyfriend loves it. Its a way to really make him feel special, let him lie back and enjoy! :-D But I do love it too! ... (read in full...)

Self Conscious about my vagina!! Help!!

Q.   Hi, Personally i feel really weird asking these questions but they are driving me crazy!! I am a teen and as many people say am very self conscious about my vaginal area. I am in a relationship with a boy and i want to go the next level with him but ...

A.   30 September 2008: Hey honey! I fully understand how you are feeling, I used to feel the same too, my labia are really different sizes, ones really small and ones much bigger! I can honestly say, tho, that no guy Ive ever been with even seems to notice it, and I as... (read in full...)

Friends have told me about masturbating, but I want to be a virgin, please help.

Q.   Hi, I'm 12 years old and i want 2 have sex but my friends have told me about masterbating what should i do? p.s. (im realy horny but i want 2 b a virgin please help me)...

A.   26 September 2008: Masturbation is the best thing honey! Your hormones will be making you feel horny but youre way too young to ba having sex and Im glad you still want to be a virgin! THe best way to masturbate is to have some quiet time, when no one will inte... (read in full...)

Unsafe sex 12 days before my period, can I be pregnant?

Q.   I had unsafe sex 12 days before my period,can i be pregnant...

A.   25 September 2008: yup you can definitely be pregnant, 10-14 days before your period is due is the key time to concieve! Sorry!... (read in full...)

The scars from my breast reduction are making me insecure about sex!

Q.   Three years ago I had a breast reduction...and now I have scars on my breasts and they also had to make my nipples smaller so there are scars around them too. My question is, if I have sex with a guy, should I tell him before we have sex or should I ...

A.   24 September 2008: honestly, i would say somehting just before you take your top off... then your guy will be so horny and want you, he wont care! Then he will be used to them and not even notice them any more! :-D... (read in full...)

How would I know if I've had an orgasm?

Q.   im having sex with my bf but i dont know if ive had an orgasm. my friends say it feel awsome but i really dont know. sex does feel good but not so good that im screaming out so loudly that my next door neighbours hear me. how do you know when yo...

A.   24 September 2008: If you dont know, you havent had an orgasm! Its a really intense feeling, you want it to keep going forever and then suddenly all the wanting releases and you almost dont want to be touched, and jsut want to curl up and snuggle! I dont have to ... (read in full...)

Bigger does feel better but is it SAFE? My husband and I have experimented with large sex toys.

Q.   Dear Cupid, My husband and I have been happily married for 30 years. We are both in our early fifties and enjoy sex tremendously. Over the past year my husband decided it was time for me to experience the feeling of being penetrated both ...

A.   23 September 2008: Hey! This should be fine, just dont push yourself furthur than is comfortable, eg if it is sore, then wait till ti goes away to do it again. So long as there is no bleedng and no lasting soreness, no unusual looking or smelling discharge during t... (read in full...)

Would I be able to satisfy two girls in parallel? Can it be done at all, or is it an urban legend?

Q.   My chiropractor is in love with me though I look a bit like her brother. She is very hot and I would love to get it going with her. my girlfriend is the only obstacle between me and ultimate happiness. Don't want to lose her, but want to taste some ...

A.   23 September 2008: Dump your girlfriend and ask your chiropractor out. If she is a decent human being with professional codes of conduct she will politely show you the door and suggest you see another, probably male chiropractor. (my parents are sports massage ther... (read in full...)

My wife wants to have an erotic massage done by a woman, but we are worried how this will affect our marriage and if it is worth the risk!

Q.   Hi My wife and I have a great relationship we love each other very much and have a great sex life. we enjoy watching porn together and we like the girl on girl and my wife has a fantasy about being with another girl so we thought that maybe goin...

A.   22 September 2008: Youll never know until you try, if it will crossa line it shoudnt! But this seems like a fairly safe way to explore this fantasy. I would stay away from anyone you actually know or are freinds with as that could cause more problems. I hope thi... (read in full...)

How to deal with my period (and the unbearable cramps) when I'm at school?? It's even hard to walk and talk to people...

Q.   PLEASE HELP ME!! I don't know what to do when i get my period on a school day. This morning i was having a pretty light period, then when I got to school, like all my nerves went off and my period suddenly turned heavy. During my 1st hour class i...

A.   22 September 2008: The best thing Iv found is to take some pain killers before i get any cramps, and then when they do come on they dont seem to be nearly as strong. And just keep taking them at the 4 hour or 6 hour intervals that the packet says! If it is really r... (read in full...)

He wants me to have his baby, how can I postpone this?

Q.   ive been seeing an older guy for 4 weeks now.(26) im (15) and i generally feel like ive fallen for him big time. we see each other once a week as he lives too far away so he cant afford paying 50 pounds everyday just to see me. i met him for the...

A.   21 September 2008: You could always try telling him that you are too young to be a mum and that you want to wait till you have a university degree or a carreer before you start a family. If he doesnt agree, you should run for the hills, if he does agree to that, then ... (read in full...)

Is my irregular period normal?

Q.   Period question here... hi im 14 and i have had my period for about 10 months or soo they still arent ragular is that normal? also lastsunday i got my period but it was gone by monday but just a few minutes ago i relized its back is ...

A.   6 September 2008: Heya! Ya youre perfectly normal honey, I had friends who used to wear a little panty liner all the time to prevent accidents, cuz they were so irregular, and Im 20 and I still wear a liner for a few days around the time I start my period just to be ... (read in full...)

Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?

Q.   I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...

A.   6 September 2008: Thats definitely not cheating, its totally normal! You can also have phone sex while youre apart, get her to talk dirty to you and have some fun while shes doing it! you can talk to her and listen while she has her fun, which can be a turn on too!... (read in full...)

My girlfriend got sick after we had anal sex. What can I do to help her?

Q.   Hey everybody recently me and my girlfriend had anal and vaginal sex and she has been sick for 2 days straight and she says she feels as if her asshole ripped and her vagina is ripped also and when we were doing anal she was bleeding... She got a fe...

A.   6 September 2008: Did you have anal sex before vaginal sex? Was it your/her first times? please go see a doctor, take her to one ASAP,! she needs IMMIDIATE medical attention.... any poo that ended up in the vagina or any of the cuts that the blood was coming f... (read in full...)

WHY this fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by an "alfa-male" in front of my girlfriend??

Q.   I often have the fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by a stronger, muscular, handsomer, and more well-endowed man in front of my girlfriend.she tries to stop him, at first, but eventually he ends up woo-ing her into having sex with him ...

A.   2 September 2008: Hey! First I want to say that fantasies are normal and we all have our own quirky little ones! If youre better trying to understand why you have this fantasy, it sounds to me like maybe youre a little bit mi-sexual and you want to explore ... (read in full...)

Breech baby - how likely is it that he'll turn in time?

Q.   heya well i'm 28 weeks pregnant...had my last scan the other day and was told that my baby boy is "extended breech"...i should have asked about this at the time but i was too in awe of seeing my beautiful baby so didn't :P But will he turn? he's due...

A.   18 August 2008: Hi honey! Its very very likely that he will turn in that time, babies do a huge amount of growing and moving and changing in the last trimester! Dont worry too much even if he doesnt. Modern medicine is very good and there are little risks... (read in full...)

My GF has bad news that cannot be discussed over the phone, I'm left wondering what it could be until I can see her again in a few days...

Q.   Hi everyone, I have been in a great relationship with my girlfriend for almost a year now. We are both 20 years old. Recently, I had to come back to my hometown for 3 months and I have been away from her. We have been writing to each other, chat...

A.   18 August 2008: Perhaps someone she is close to is ill, or maybe she is. Be ready for anything. Also she could be pregnant, or on the other hand, infertile or something like that. Try to stay calm, maybe bring her something nice like flowers or chocolates to ... (read in full...)

Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?

Q.   Is there a way to find out if you are allergic to condoms before using them for sexual intercourse?...

A.   18 August 2008: You can always buy a condom, and rub it on your inner arm or the inside of your elbow for about 5 or 10 mins, using a bit of lube that you know youre not allergic to, and then wait 24 hours! The key with all these sorts of skin testing is to wait... (read in full...)

I have joined a church where you can receive the Holy Ghost, I have a medical problem, which causes irregular hearbeating, how do I tell what is spiritual and what is related to my medical condition?

Q.   hi. i have recently started attending a church where spiritual things happen. and one of them is getting the holy ghost. now i have a problem. i have just been diagnosed with synus arrythmia.irregular change in heart beat caused by breathing. i need ...

A.   11 August 2008: I doubt a sinus arrythmia and finding the holy gost would feel the same at all. I have an arrythmia too, and it really doesnt feel like much unless im exercising or breathing really hard! And im guessing finding hte holy gost would be much more ... (read in full...)

Can you catch genital warts if he wears a condom?

Q.   Hello, just a quick one. Can you catch gentil warts from someone if they wear a condom? I am female and he is male. Its just that i have heard he has it but doesn't know... so obv. i want to be careful. t...

A.   15 July 2008: Yes you can catch warts when wearing a condom, because the warts are not always covered by the plastic! If his wart touches u, then you can will catch warts, sorry, they are very very contagious and are hard to get rid of!... (read in full...)

I'm getting depressed about these stretch marks.

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 and currently have stretch marks on my inner thighs and are now gradually moving around to my outer thigh, they are so embarresing and i don't know what to do, i think I'm skinny at size 12, 5"8/9 and i have 34b boobs.. i can see them ...

A.   15 July 2008: Honey, going to the doctor wont do any good, you dont need to! He wont give you anything for them, i asked my doctor about them and he told me what ive just told you! And about the pubes, you can trim them if they bother you or hang out of your ... (read in full...)

Could I still be pregnant if his pre-cum didn't get inside me?

Q.   Me and this close friend had sex. i was a virgin and he wasn't. we both were clothed, but we had sex without protection. then he pulled out of my vagina. then he pre cam on the floor. can i still get pregnant if the pre cum never got inside me ?...

A.   15 July 2008: Uhmmm... how did you have sex fully clothed?? sorry... just had to ask! anyways, ya you could be pregnant, if his penis was inside you, so try adn use the morning after pill, and in the future, use contraception!! :-D... (read in full...)

I'm getting depressed about these stretch marks.

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 and currently have stretch marks on my inner thighs and are now gradually moving around to my outer thigh, they are so embarresing and i don't know what to do, i think I'm skinny at size 12, 5"8/9 and i have 34b boobs.. i can see them ...

A.   15 July 2008: Hey honey! I had exactly the same problem, im 20 now adn my marks have almost totally faded, theyre still there if you really look. I was 5 ft 9 and a size 10/12 (still am!!) The best thing to do is to use moisturiser, all the time, after ev... (read in full...)

My wife told me she would cheat on me with George Clooney if she had the chance!!!

Q.   Guys, would it bother you a lot if this happened to you? My wife and I were watching tv last night where a woman was asked a question, if George Clooney asked her to have sex with her and there was no way she could get caught would she cheat on her ...

A.   14 July 2008: Hey! Seriously dont worry about this, everyone has fantasy crushes, like on movie stars...!! Its just harmless fun, and anyways, if your wife ACTUALLY was offered sex on a plate with George Clooney, she might not even take it cuz then it would be r... (read in full...)

Bullied. Told I'm ugly. Told I'm worthless. I know I am none of that, but getting over it isn't easy

Q.   Ok here it is. I am 17 and 18 in november. My problem is i was bullied from ages 8 - 15. I was told i was ugly, i was worthless and that no one wanted me. I used to think this girl was my friend but now resent her. i havent seen her in almost 3 ...

A.   15 June 2008: Hey! Youre very strong and its Ok that this bothered you but you also know that youre a beautiful woman and you have friends who love you for who you are now! Thats the thing to focus on and dont feel guilty for being hurt by your past or beat ... (read in full...)

Hairy arms making me self-conscious! What do I do?

Q.   I have really hairy arms. A boy in my Spanish class even commented on it. I have light blonde hair so my arms hairs arent dark or anything, thers just a lot of them. this makes me really self conscious and i find myself hiding my arms under the ...

A.   15 June 2008: Hey! You can always wax or shave your arms, or do what I do! Get a cheap electric shaver and use that to trim down your hairs. Or shave and then use a hair minimising lotion every day! Hope this helps! :-D... (read in full...)

Watching lesbian porn with my boyfriend, and I'm enjoying it!

Q.   me and my boyfriend have recently been watchin porn togther before having sex and my boyfriend likes to watch lesbian porn because it turns him on alot more, but recently ive noticed that i quite enjoy watchin lesbian porn and it turns me on alot ...

A.   14 June 2008: Hey! #Same exact situation here! My bf likes lesbian porn way more than straight porn adn i get pretty turned on by it! But im not lesbian, ive never been attracted to a girl in real life or anything. I think its jsut the erotic sexuality that is a ... (read in full...)

Any advice on how to dress to impress on my school trip?

Q.   Hello, I am going on a school trip for like 3 days so its an overnight stay as well. The boy that I kind of like is going and I want to impress him with my looks and stuff but I kind of need help becoz we are going to be doing all sorts of acti...

A.   14 June 2008: Get some old but nice fitting jeans and some easy wearable tank tops and hoodies for doing the activities! That says "im into this and having fun and I have a sense of adventure that Im not afraid to hide!" and then in the evenings have some nice ... (read in full...)

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