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Im 21 years old, i grew up in the USA and moved to england when I was 15.

I am a vet student in nottingham and I love it! I play football and compete at dressage with my horse.

Ive got an awsome bf who i love to bits and a really cute little dog. Basically thats me in a nutshell!! :-D

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Ladies: what is your experience with sex on prom night?

Q.   I’m going to the winter formal soon. I truely care about my boyfriend . I look forward to a the evening of dressing up etc. the thought of sex has entered my mind. If we have sex on the winter formal night I think it should be with someone like my ...

A.   28 October 2009: Sex on a romantic night like prom night/winter formal night is only ever a good idea if you truely love the person you are with and are ready for sex. In your case, it could be the perfect night, but dont feel like you have to do it just because ... (read in full...)

Is there a high probability that I'm pregnant?

Q.   Ok so i was at a friends house.And there was this guy. We fooled around. I gave him a hand job and i gave him a blow job he blew sperm on him self. Then we had sex we use two condems. and niether on eof then broke. Is there any high chance i could ...

A.   13 August 2009: No, there is a very very low chance you are pregnant, you used 2 condoms when you had sex! I really doubt you are, but if youre worried, go pee on a stick! (by that I mean get a pregnancy test, they are cheap and easy)... (read in full...)

Living with a boyfriend in a dorm room: good idea?

Q.   Hello everyone! My situation is that I have been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. We have pretty much decided that we will get married one day and that we are soulmates. He just finished college and I have one year left. The school t...

A.   13 August 2009: Hey! If you have a single, then it could be ok, so long as he doesnt have too much stuff in your room. It really depends on how strict your school is about guests etc and if it would either get noticed or bother anyone who might report it. Also, ... (read in full...)

Does anyone else find this odd?

Q.   I'm 23, my partner's 44, and recently he's been wanting to go out clubbing more and more. My parents like him, they understand this is just a phase and that I have to experiment. I just don't have the energy to do this ALL THE TIME! He want...

A.   12 August 2009: Hey honey, this really sounds like hes just trying to relive his youth and refusing to actually grow up and be an adult! If it was a new thing i would say hes having a mid life crisis, but if its been going on forever, it sounds more like he'... (read in full...)

Am I gay if I like anal sex?

Q.   she was on her period so we had anal sex, it was all good but afterwards she asked if she could bum me, i've always wondered so i let her ( she used a strap on ) It felt so amazing, i started thinking afterwards, does this mean i could be gay?...

A.   11 August 2009: No it doesnt mean that you are gay, although theres nothing wrong with it of you are! It just means that you like having your male G-spot, or P-spot as some people call it, stimulated... this is the back of the prostate gland and it gives guys a ... (read in full...)

Anything that I can do to calm my girfriend down, she thinks she is pregnant?

Q.   my girlfriend isn't scheduled to start her period for another week or so, but she thinks she is pregnant?? is this possible?? she is not on the pill and while we might start sex without a condom, i always put one on during sex. i feel confident ...

A.   14 June 2009: She could well be pregnant, the only effective way to not get pregnant is to use a condom before your penis comes anywhere near her genitals, and to not take it off until you pull out for the last time! So ya, she could well be pregnant. But ther... (read in full...)

Too skinny to date?

Q.   Yeah, that's it. I'm 24 now and if you look at me, you'd think I stopped developing when I was 14. 6ft and only 135-140 lbs which apparently is a huge turn off for girls. I'm not going to say I've tried everything in order to gain weight...

A.   7 June 2009: Everyone likes a different kind of guy, and honestly for me, I love a guy for who he is, not what he looks like! so long as a guy makes me feel beautiful and loves me for me, and there is attreaction, which is more to do with having a connection and ... (read in full...)

Can I lose my belly in a couple of months?

Q.   i am going on holiday in july and i admit i have a belly, but its not really big. (i weigh7 and a half stones) but if i go gym every day and do loads of sit ups, and a balanced diet would i loose my belly in the 2 mounths. and is their any other ...

A.   13 May 2009: Hey! if you go to the gym even every other day, and do sit ups as well as cardio exercise and all over toning to burn calories, and eat less sugar and more fruit and veggies and whole meal bread, whole wheat pasta and brown rice as well as nice ... (read in full...)

Have I definately lost my virginity and was this actual sex?

Q.   im 15 years old and ive fancied this boy from school for a while now whos 16 but in my year (11). hes fancied me for about a year we talk all the time out of school but hardly ever while we're there. i was a bit scared of asking him out because ...

A.   13 May 2009: Im sorry honey but you have lost your virginity. If his penis was inside you, then you are no longer a virgin! And yes, the pain is normal, I bled for a week after i lost my virginity and the doctor said THAT was normal! (I had to fly back to ... (read in full...)

Surgery to get my virginity back?

Q.   can i do surgery, and have my virginity back the same way that it was before i wont be tithe ...

A.   13 May 2009: Once you have had sex, you have had sex, and you cannot ever undo an experience. That said, why do you want your virginity back? If it is for religious reasons, there are rituals you can do, with your religious leaders, sometimes to have a "secon... (read in full...)

I've never had a BF and I'm sick of hearing "it will happen someday"... help me NOW!

Q.   I'm 18 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Never even been asked out. Not that I don't get attention from guys. It's just that I only seem to get the wrong sort of attention, like guys in clubs who are just looking for a one night stand and ...

A.   13 May 2009: Okay, If you want to find someone to day, first of all get out there and try new activities! Ive never met a boyfriend in a club, not once! I know some people have, but so often the people you meet there, are as you say, only looking for one thin... (read in full...)

He has hit me a few times, slapped me, punched me, and even hit me with a glass bottle... but I love him!

Q.   My boyfriend is quite controlling, but loves me more than anything, he says he cant live without me. I have a list of rules of things I can and cant do/wear/say like I cant wear my hair up, flat shoes, I cant talk to my ex boyfriends and the only ...

A.   13 May 2009: At the moment you feel like you love this man more than life itself, but do you realise that that is very likely what you are choosing? Are you prepared to sit back and watch him beat your children? Demean them? Are you prepared to raise your dau... (read in full...)

I love her and don't want to be away from her, but my career will require it...what do I do?

Q.   I am just about to enter college. I have been with my girlfriend for over three years now. I plan on proposing to her soon, as it is a very serious relationship and if I had any definition of love it would be the feelings I have for her. I wish to ...

A.   13 May 2009: You clearly love your girlfriend very much, and well done to you for seeing potential problems and trying to work them out early! Dont give up on your dream of being a spanish teacher tho! First of all, talk talk talk to your girlfriend about... (read in full...)

How effective is the morning after pill?

Q.   THIS IS REALLY IMPORTANT. Last night my boyfriend was at a party and got drunk. I was in my house with my friend. [i live with my boyfriend.] My friend and I had some alcohol too, so i was drunk. My friend left when my boyfriend got home. W...

A.   10 May 2009: Im assuning you took Levonelle One Step, which is the over the counter one in the UK. It is 95% effective in the first 24 hours, 85% between 25 and 48 hours, and 58% between 49 and 72 hours The IUD (intrauterine device) is almost 100% effe... (read in full...)

What do the city girls think of a cute, friendly farmer's son?

Q.   what do the city girls think of cute,freindly ,tall,freindly,charming country guy who works on a farm...

A.   9 May 2009: Im not a city girl but a nice tall friendly charming guy from a who works on a farm sounds pretty much like a dream to me! To be fair, I want to be a farm vet... but still, farm boys are hot! :p... (read in full...)

What to do to tighten up?

Q.   Ok well I haven't had sex in a year because I'm scared to w/my husband b/c we've had 2 kids my last 1 3mos ago. But the reason I haven't is b/c after my 1st child my vagina was very. Loose to him. Now to me nothing changed it was still great but he ...

A.   9 May 2009: I think its a mantal block that your husband has developd, perhaps! I have friends who have had this exact problem and the bottom line is that your husband may be sub-conciously freaked out by the fact that babies have come out of your vagina, ... (read in full...)

What goes through your head 1st when you're approached by thai guy in Thailand ?

Q.   Well I always go hanging in many places[Kao san street for example ] in Thailand. I see a lot of cute girls and they're mostly tourists. But I'm always afraid that when I go to them and start the conversation, it is possible that they will think I ...

A.   4 May 2009: I would suggest going to bars or something like that. Personally I would be put off if a random guy came over and started talking to me while I was on the street or in a resteraunt. But if girls are in a club or bar, and they seem interested, eg ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to break my engagement to my parents!

Q.   I am 25 and I have been dating a 42 year old man for almost 1 year. I live in a different state then my family and none of them have met him yet. He is the sweetest guy I have ever dated, he is respectful, caring and I love him. He asked me to marry ...

A.   1 May 2009: Bring him with you, definitely! Did he give you a ring? You could always just wear it and let your parents know that way first, and then after theyve met him, officially announce it to them. That way they will know whats coming! :)... (read in full...)

I think I'm ready, but how do you know if you're ready for a sexual relationship?

Q.   Hey, Theres been alot of boys who have asked me for sex, hand job, head job etc... But im still a virgin, i havent given head job or hand job or been fingered, the firther-est ive been is like kissing and its really embarressing. I feel that im re...

A.   1 May 2009: youll know when youre ready, because you wont have to ask if youre ready! If you find kissing embarrassing then youre not ready! My mom always uset to tell me, pick youre favourite food, and decide whether youd rather have that food, or ha... (read in full...)

What is this lump? Help!

Q.   hello I feel quite embarrassed asking this question and I understand that you aunts are not doctors but I would like some advice. Well... just above my clit there is this small lump and I know it isn't a spot, I do shave and haven't yet come across ...

A.   29 April 2009: its most likely nothing but the only way to say for sure is to go to your doctor. You can show it to your mom, or just tell her that youre more comfortable discussing it with the doctor, and ask her to take you to the doc! :)... (read in full...)

Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?

Q.   I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't re...

A.   26 April 2009: Im allergic to nair and things like that, so Ive taken to tweezing! Ya it takes a while, but not that long, just do it after a shower and it really doesnt hurt! :) All you need is a pair of tweezers! ... (read in full...)

Too much discharge!

Q.   Looking for advice from fellow girls here. Since starting my period, every day I get a lot of discharge. I realise that it's normal to get a certain amount as it's the bodys way of "cleaning", but I get quite a bit and it's embarrassing, and has ...

A.   20 April 2009: Honey! If you itch, its not normal, you probably have a yeast infection! Its really easy to get rid of, and makes total sense that you got it after your peroid. The hormonal changes around your peroid make your body more vulnerable to become ... (read in full...)

He wants to 69 but I have an "appearance" problem

Q.   OKay so my boyfriend wants to 69 but I'm embarrassed cause I have butt crack hair. I've never talked to anyone else about this...is this normal? Does everyone have it? and if not should I shave it?...

A.   18 April 2009: Everyone has it! I shave mine, when Im shaving the rest of things down there, but to be honest its not somewhere tahat he'll be going in normal 69, unless hes playing with you anus! :P ... (read in full...)

My scars look really ugly and I'm dreading the summer.

Q.   I really just wanted a male perspective on scars, but girlies if you have any words of wisdom that would be fab too. I have an ongoing knee instability that has required quite a bit of surgery and has left me with lots of long ugly scars, I really ...

A.   17 April 2009: Babe! I have scars all ove my legs, I have a huge one that runs all the way across both of my thighs, and its totally visable when I wear shorts, it came from a horse riding accident with an electric fence. Also I used to figure skate competitively ... (read in full...)

Ladies: Turn ons & turn offs

Q.   Ladies let's help our DC brothers out! We sometimes have sincere and genuine questions about what women think. Post here your number one turn-on and number one turn-off you have about a man. If yours is already mentioned, go to your next one. ...

A.   17 April 2009: Turn On: Being made to feel sexy Turn off: acting bored during sex! ... (read in full...)

Giving good head..suggestions please?

Q.   I really want to know how to give good head... and since this is a place where lots of people share their advice and expierience i would like to know what certain actions make this the most memorable expierience? ...

A.   17 April 2009: no no no! Dont blow on it! It is possible to get an air bubble trapped inside the urethra (where the bee comes out) and that can supposedly go into the blood stream and kill the guy! Im sure thats an overly dramatic suggestion but its what Ive ... (read in full...)

Should I be losing this much hair?

Q.   Recently i have noticed that when brushing and washing my hair, alot of it has been falling out, before a bit did, but now its alot, im just wondering if its something i shoulld be worrying about or what the cause may bee :/ thankss :) xx...

A.   17 March 2009: You should go and ask your doctor, or talk to your mom and have her go wiht you to the doctor, but its probably nothing. I went through a year at about 14 where lots and lots of hair used to fall out, and then it went away and the doctors never ... (read in full...)

The walls of my vagina have collapsed, (what do I do? )

Q.   Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now, I'm 15, but 16 on Monday, I have become sexually active for 1 year, my periods have always been regular, not much menstrual pain and recently the walls of my vagina have not collapsed but ...

A.   21 January 2009: You really need to see a doctor, it sounds like you have a condition like pelvic Inflammatory disorder or an infection... but only a doctor can help you here, sorry! :)... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel this sick after losing your virginity?

Q.   is it normal to get really bad stomach cramps and feel sick after losing your virginity? we did use protection and it didnt split so i cant be pregnant, im just kinda worried....

A.   21 January 2009: I think its totally normal. I think it somehow triggered my period when I lost my virginity. I bled havily for about 5 or 6 days, with major cramping and awfulness.... and I wasnt due for about another week... So I wouldnt worry about it unless i... (read in full...)

Should you shave your arms?

Q.   Should you shave your arms? It's just I have some quite dark hair on my arms, and I wondered if it's normal to shave your arms. It's not like super-dark, so I don't have to shave. I just wanted to know....

A.   21 January 2009: I agree with Gina, dont shave your arms... it will make the hair grow back worse, more stubbly and darker, and thicker. If it really really bothers you, you could wax, but that really isnt needed im sure! And honestly, a bit too much hair looks way ... (read in full...)

Tongue piercing

Q.   I just wanted to know if getting your tongue pierced makes going down on a guy feel alot better or does it not really make a difference? I'm considering getting mine done not for that reason but i was just wondering......

A.   9 January 2009: Be careful with these honey.... my best friend ended up with half her pace permanently paralised ebcuase they hit a nerve doing the piercing... As for oral on a guy, some guys love it, others cant satnd the feeling, depends on what gets your guy... (read in full...)

Which one of these sperm vs. oxygen facts is true?

Q.   Ok... i was looking stuff up online about anal sex and read on one site that sperm is dead once it is exposed to oxygen. Then on here i read somebody's answer to a question that said if the sperm drips down and enters the vagina the girl could still ...

A.   9 January 2009: Hey! sperm doesnt die on contact with oxygen, no, but it cant survive more than a few hours outside the body, and only then if the environments is right... eg moist and nutrient rich! So if sperm dripped down from anal sex, and then you had vagi... (read in full...)

How long will it be before my lover leaves his g/f & baby for me?

Q.   Hi, i don´t know how to start.I fell in love with a guy who has a girlfriend and have a baby(2 months) with her.He is my boss, and i use to work with him over one year as interpreter. Our relationship start by small games.I mean when i started we ...

A.   8 January 2009: Sorry but from what you say, this guy isnt planning on leaving his baby ad girlfriend for you, hes just having his fun while he can. Hes not a great guy, sorry to say that, but he isnt doing right by anyine in this situation! You need to cut him ... (read in full...)

Sexy Time?

Q.   Hey, I have been on a weeks course of antibiotics, 4 250mg ones a day, and I stop taking them tomorrow. I am going to my boyfriends on Sunday and he'll probably want to have sex because it's been so long since we last did. I am really concerned as ...

A.   8 January 2009: You need to use condoms honey, sorry! you might not be covered by your contraceptive pill for up to 7 days after you take your last antibiotic! Sorry hun but to be on the safe side, use a condom! :)... (read in full...)

I try to improve my looks to get a boyfriend but I'm always taken so seriously.

Q.   I feel I will never measure up to other girls who always get boyfriends, nice guys and jerks want to go out with these. People tell me I should improve on how I look but I can't. I am not very feminine. I look awful. I don't like going to the ...

A.   28 December 2008: Your problem is not how you look but how you act and percieve how you look! Try life coaching sessions or positive thinking therapy to help you to get a better outlook on life. Once you are happy with the way you are, then men will start to be ... (read in full...)

Asian Boys

Q.   I love East Asian guys. I do not love White guys. I'm a White Canadian girl. I grew up in a very, very multicultural area (I was the only white girl) and then an area that was about 50% Chinese. when I was 10 I moved to an all white area. Unt...

A.   14 December 2008: Honey, there is nothing wrong with liking asian boys! People will always find somehting to criticise, my bf is a redhead and I love it, I think he's totally gorgeous, but Ive got friend and family who take the piss all the time! Dont let other pe... (read in full...)

Sex jokes!

Q.   Hey guys. I'm 13 and a lot of guys have been talking to me about me sucking their dicks and crap like that. I won't do it but the thought doesn't completely gross me out any more, in fact not at all. I laugh at sex jokes and things like that, ...

A.   14 December 2008: Totally normal honey and you sound jsut the right age to be joking like this. Its a normal way of geting used to the ideas of sex before actually doing it. Everyone does this... when I was baout 14 we used to ahve these "dino-egg" candy things and ... (read in full...)

I am freaking out because I haven't gotten my period yet!

Q.   my boyfriend and i have had sex three times now. we have used a lubricated (trojan) condom each time. no birth control. the last time we had sex we checked the condom as usual and it had no holes. we had sex, and he says that he went for a li...

A.   14 December 2008: Go pee on a stick! I know that sounds harsh, but I dont mean it in a bad way, just as in, its not a big deal, you can get a pregnancy test at any supermarket, drug store etc... for about $10 and then use it in a public toilet and throw it away ... (read in full...)

Interracial couples?

Q.   what do people think of couples of different races? e.g. black boy with white girl, white boy with asian girl...etc...

A.   14 December 2008: the race thing doesnt really come into it in what ive seen except with muslim boys trying to date non muslim girls. And thats not really race, but religion. Ive seen that not work a lot because the cultural expectations of gender roles are so ... (read in full...)

How should I ask a married woman out on a date?

Q.   Hi. I was just wondering what's the best way to ask a married woman at work out on a date. By just asking her whether she wants to go for a drink sounds too casual and disrespectful to me - especially since I've had working relations with her for ...

A.   13 December 2008: Hmmmm... you shouldnt ask a married woman out on a date at all. People should respect the sanctity of mariage and respect the fact that, if a woman is married, she is totally off the dating market. I know its hard to hear this, but you ne... (read in full...)

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