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I'm not great on advice but sometimes I have a few ideas that turn out to be gooduns.
I'm just going to say my opinion, normally based on experiance and hope that people don't think it's crap advice, but if they do then so be it.
Oh and another thing, sometimes I get a bit passionate about my opinions :-)
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| Latest articles: Teachers and students. What is going on with mixed answers?
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31 December 2007: Any students out there who are in love with their teachers. This one is for you. As I am one myself... I posted this question 5 days ago. In search of an answer as to why there seems to be different advice for male and female posters on many ...
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He lied about his age. What should I do now?
Q. I met a guy who told me he was 18 going on 19..things developed fast and I think I've fallen for him, only for him to tell me he's 16. I'm 22. I'm confused and told him I need time to think. What should I do?...
A. 7 October 2009: Please give him a chance, I'm in the same situation only I'm the one who lied. Love is love, and life is once - Age, it's only a number, one that grows. Don't loose something good, you will probably regret it. He must have felt so bad for lying too ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong for me to have a sexual relationship with him and nothing more?
Q. Hi everyone, For a couple of years I have been flirting on and of with a guy a few years older than me and it's hardly ever led to something. But he came to a house party at mine on Friday night and things got a bit out of hand and we ended up ...
A. 5 August 2009: Honestly, just as a random little late feedback. Who ever said no strings attached hate sex was a bad thing, is a weirdo. It's out of my system and we're still fine with eachother even though as a person he drives me up the wall but in the sexual ... (read in full...)
The test came back... POSITIVE!!!!
Q. I had sex and I missed my period and when I took a test it came came back positive! I don't even love this guy. Should I get an abortion? Should I tell my parents? What should I do?...
A. 2 March 2009: Double check that you are pregnant. Make sure before you panic.
Thinking your pregnant can cause stress enough to make you miss a period.
And positive results can be wrong on pregnancy tests (negative ones are hardly ever wrong) but positive... (read in full...)
How can I kiss him and make it look real?
Q. I have never kissed a guy and I am 13. My school is preforming a play and I got a lead and my character and another character have to kiss. I wasn't nervous at all but when I found out who I was supposed to do the kiss with I wasn't nervous b...
A. 25 February 2009: Waiiiit, wait WAIT!
You have to KISS someone in a school play??
Where are your parents? Why isn't someone filing some sort of sexual harassment claim against your school?? You shouldn't have to kiss anyone you don't want to even if it is for the ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out and risk hurting my best friend???
Q. I really fancy the same person that my best friend fancies. Well, she says she is just friends with him but I'm pretty that she feels WAY more strongly about him than that. Thing is, she knew him before I did and she was the one who actually ...
A. 22 February 2009: I'm just throwing this out there as a point of veiw.
My best friend kissed the boy I fancied - And I then said to her 'I don't care, I don't care, be with him if it will make you 2 happy' which was a complete lie.
And then she did it again. And a... (read in full...)
How can I tell my shy girlfriend that her pubic hair is turning me off sex?
Q. Hey I've been with a girl 18 months now, And everything is ok. Only thing is I REALLY have a thing against pubic hair, I'm not a shallow guy or anything it's just a REAL turn off for me. Everyone has things with make them excited and turns them off ...
A. 22 February 2009: When a woman is completely shaven and has no pubic hair I always think that's a little pedophillic (I swear i'm not trying to say your a pedophile or anything!!!) But some women find it a bit weird.
And also you have to take into account it's not ... (read in full...)
Should I stop having sex with my teacher?
Q. I´m in college and I have sort of fallen in love with one of my teachers. I did have sex with him once. I didn´t feel bad about it, but he kept saying how sorry he was. He says it´s not the right thing to do, but he doesn´t really do any action t...
A. 22 February 2009: It's not THAT illegal, your over the age of concent.
And having sex with sombody doesn't make you a slut.
If he has a wife then perhaps it is a bad idea. Angry wives aren't nice!
And just to save your reputation you should stop you don't won't ... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs if you wear a condom?
Q. Are STDs still passed if you wear a condom? ...
A. 20 February 2009: Not that I know of unless it breaks or something.... (read in full...)
How old were you when you first French-kissed?
Q. Ummm. I've never pulled ( kissed with tounges ) a guy, I'm 13... How old were YOU when you first did that... Am I too young? ...
A. 20 February 2009: I'm 16 and I have and I thought it was disgusting. Some people never do - some people prefer to kiss without tongues.... (read in full...)
I don't know if he fancies me?
Q. Hey Im 14 and this friend of mine is 16. We have been talking loads on msn, texting and on the phone. He flirts with me a lot and sometimes i think that he fancies me. He is dropping lots of hints that he does but he has a girl friend. He said tha...
A. 20 February 2009: Times are changing, and it hardly causes a blink to hear about a 14 year old and a 16 year old anymore. He might wait until your 15 because it sounds better! Just make sure there is no underage sex invonvled and that you don't get in the way of ... (read in full...)
Should I go on the pill in advance and how can I bring it up with my mum?
Q. Hello, I'm 18 and in a long distance relationship and have just found out that my boyfriend will be able to come over in August :) We will have been together for a year then :) Anyway, I would quite like to have sex and I think that at the leas...
A. 17 February 2009: It's not pointless at all, it's refreshing to read something more light hearted! It's a good idea to take the contraceptive pill in advance. It gives you time to get used to the routine and also any changed it may make to your body! And as far as ... (read in full...)
I'm so emotionally confused and need advice please!
Q. Hi I could really use some advice please. I have this ex (my first kiss) who I was good friends with last year. We ended up hooking up one night, he wanted to have sex but I said no. After that it got awkward and we stopped hanging out. I ran into ...
A. 9 January 2009: You won't be called a hoe, there are way more sexually active women out there and as long as you don't make a habit it of it there is no harm. Have some fun! I have a theory that we only have 100% love to give, and if we are interested in on... (read in full...)
Do ugly ducklings ever grow into swan?
Q. .because i am ugly ducking who never grew in to swan does any girl grow from ugly duckling to swan?...
A. 7 January 2009: There is no real definition of beautful. Who is to say what's beautful and what isn't.
Look in the mirror and say ' Yesterday I was beautiful, today I am beautiful and tomorrow I will forever be beautiful' You have to love yourself first and then... (read in full...)
Can I get an STD from myself? What harm can my own sperm do?
Q. I'm really really worried. Well, my friend said that jacking off is really addicting, so I tried it. When I did, sperm got out, and got onto my hands. I forgot to wash them. ( I just cleaned my hands with a piece of tissue ) Then I ate a bag of ...
A. 4 January 2009: That is so gross for a start nobody wants to know about you licking your sperming fingers!!
But you still need advice. you can't get an s.t.i from yourself do you know why?
Because:
If you've got it, you've ALREADY got it!
You get them from... (read in full...)
My wife has hacked into some of my web pages and done very juvenile things. Are there any repercussions for this?
Q. My wife (In the middle of a divorce) has hacked into some of my web pages and done very juvenile things. Are there any repercussions for this? How can I get her back without breaking the law? I have the evidence, but I don't know if what she did was ...
A. 24 December 2008: Well it all depends on why your divorcing doesn't it - She seems angry!
But if not just thank god your not as immiture as her and just change everything back to the way it was - it's just a way of getting your attention...
OR
Shove manure throu... (read in full...)
I don't know which one is stronger, my head or my heart, how can I get over this teacher crush?
Q. I'm so tired of being in love with this guy, that i can't have. I thought i would get over him soon, because it'll never work out...but yet, im still sitten here, love sick, and tired of it. I need help! I don't know how to get over him. Here's ...
A. 24 December 2008: I'm not going to waffle. It won't go away - it's an itch you need to scratch so you either scratch it or move on and push it to the back of your mind. Presonally if I don't scratch an itch it drives me insane so I don't fight it. You may feel the ... (read in full...)
Is this amount of sex bad?
Q. Hi there. Me and my bf really really enjoy sex, and when he's back from uni we do it every opportunity we get. He satisfies me every time but I get worried that this amount of sex is bad. I think about sex a lot during the day and i'm always q...
A. 1 December 2008: Theres no such thing as too much sex if it's safe and you both want to! As long as it doesn't get in the way of everyday life then have sex whenever you want however many times you want! - You only live once!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother....
Q. HELP!!! I'm pregnant by my best friend's brother.... he wants nothing to do with me or the baby and that is fine by me. His family adores me and is so excited. What am I going to do? How can I remain a friend of the family when he will always be ...
A. 1 December 2008: It'll only cause him discomforture if you stay friends with his family (and why shouldn't you?? He deserves it anyway - Why should you avoid your friends?), it's not your fault! ... (read in full...)
What did the beautiful woman mean?
Q. A woman who flirted with me told me the other day that if she wasn't married "she would snap me up!" What exactly did she mean by that? Thanks for any help ...
A. 1 December 2008: Don't be ridiculous, it's pretty damn obvious what that means! You just want a load of people to answer your question and validate the fact that a woman finds you attractive!!
'Snap you up' -- Is like saying she would want to date you but just said... (read in full...)
His Myspace is set to private and he won't let me see it!
Q. Ok, well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year now, he has a myspace and I don't, I can't stand the website. He has his myspace set to private and I cannot see it, I am a jealous person and I can't stand it. I don't know what goes on. ...
A. 1 December 2008: 1) It sounds like your self esteem is low, everybody feels like they are in competition but your boyfriend wouldn't be with you if he thougght other girls were better..
2) Music myspaces aren't set to private, it's not exactly great for advertis... (read in full...)
I want to add this guy I like to my facebook, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm stalking him! How do I do this in the best way?
Q. When I was on facebook I was doing a random search of people in my city and I saw a face i recognised. So I click on the profile and realised it was this guy who comes into my work all the time. He works right next door to me (we both work in retail ...
A. 30 November 2008: You could strike conversation with him, and then if you hit it off you can ask him if he has facebook, if he says yes then you can add him and if he says no then clearly he's not interested! But I'm just gonna say, it sounds like a bit of a coinc... (read in full...)
How do I talk to my child about the birds and the bees?
Q. I caught my 8year old masterbate.How do i talk to her about this?...
A. 30 November 2008: It's unusual for somebody to masturbate at that age, maybe you should be thinking about what has lead to her curiosity. You need to talk to her about it. She might not even understand what she is doing... It could be learnt behaviour which has come ... (read in full...)
Is is all right I have a teacher's myspace?
Q. Right, my question is: Is it all right that I have a teacher's myspace? The thing is he's not my actual teacher, I only got to know him during cross country last year (he was one of the teachers that ran the club) and I thought he was fun and cool...
A. 29 November 2008: Don't give him the bloody letter or apology!!!! Message me, I'm afraid my answer will be shunned if I post it! Don't worry I'm not going to be harsh! I know exactly what your talking about, you just had to find a way of asking a question that peo... (read in full...)
Miscarriage???
Q. I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry...
A. 29 November 2008: This is dangerous. Please don't do it as you could most likey harm your body. Find some other way - I don't know what laws there are for you but isn't there some sort of welfare??
I can't stress more the dangers, why didn't you take the morn... (read in full...)
Genuine teacher/student problem - urgent advice needed!
Q. Hey, genuinely want advice here guys! Ok, Im 16 and doing my 'A' levels at my school sixth form. There is this one teacher I get along very well with, and im not sure what's happening with us. He is married with children He is genuinely, i b...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh goodness, your post was so long ago I know but I can't help feeling so badly for you when I read. How are you doing? What has become of your situation?
In terms of advice there is nothing I can say that the other aunts haven't said. But my hear... (read in full...)
Have you ever fancied/had a crush on anyone you shouldn't?
Q. Have you ever fancied/had a crush on anyone you shouldn't, such as a teacher, your boss, etc? I kinda fancy my teacher, but I'm not doing anything about it. I know it'll go wrong somehow. So, I just wanted to know if anyone else has been through...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh goodness where do I start....
My brother's best mate who was much older than me.
My teacher - it was awfully painful and by far the worst
A married man - A friendship that ended very badly indeed
A friends boyfriend - Painful
M... (read in full...)
Do me and this man (my teacher) really talk in metaphors? Opinions please.
Q. Hey guys, Ok, this question may be long, but I need some opinions from you because I really don't know what to think. My teacher of perfomance is 48 and i'm 18. I know what are you going to say and i know it's illegal to have relationship, because ...
A. 21 November 2008: I understand what you mean when you say 'speaking in metaphores'... When you have a connection with somebody *especially an intimate connection* you can have a seemingly completely innocent conversation but you and that person know deep down what ... (read in full...)
Should I express myself to my teacher, I want to know if he likes me, as I think he does?
Q. I'm 16, and i have a crush on my teacher. But it feels like so much more than that. It started last april, when we went on a school trip. We were all in one area in the hotel, and he was sitting down. I was standing not too far from him and i just ...
A. 21 November 2008: I understand what you mean but most of the time you see something when you start looking for it. When you noticed him look at you the first time you then started looking at him to see if he glanced again - Every one of us look at loads of people ... (read in full...)
I want to be involved here too...
Q. Dear cupid, I've been with my boyfriend who I love dearly 4 about a years now. Before we lived together he got a girl pregnant. I knew about this and he said we would deal with this when the baby is born. Well the baby came and he told me they ...
A. 16 November 2008: Why do you want to be involved in this childs life? The situation seems a bit sticky to me. I understand where you are coming from though - all he can do is ask and if she says no then just request that he stops going behind your back - Ask him to ... (read in full...)
Ladies - if you fancy a guy do you talk to him loads or find yourself tongue-tied?
Q. Hello! I'll keep this brief since there are far more important and interesting questions on this web-site for you to focus on, but I was just wondering that if a woman fancies a guy then generally speaking does she A) talk to him much more than ...
A. 16 November 2008: Your right every woman is different. But if a girl goes to either extreme then she probably likes you or her friend might if she's asking u loads of questions, hope that helped :D... (read in full...)
Should I keep having sex with him? I'm 13!!!
Q. Hello! Basically I'm 13 and I have had sex with the same guy over 20 times. Is that bad cos if it is then I'm gonna stop doing it but we're madly in love and we're basically going out so I don't know what to do. thanks for the help! x...
A. 29 October 2008: Basically going out? Are you going out or aren't you?
Your 13, stop having sex. At your age you are not ready to be facing the consequences of pregnancy if it occours, think about your mum finding out... "When did this happen?" " I don't know mumm... (read in full...)
Help! Sex questions need answered!
Q. ok, heres the deal, my bf wants me to give him a handjob/blojob, but 1; i dont know how, im afraid i might not do it right nd 2; i dont know what cum tastes like. can someone help me out please?...
A. 29 October 2008: Well a hand job is pretty simple I would have thought, you just rub his penis..
And a blow job is just as simple, abit like (for want of a better analogy) Eating an ice cream in a way, you don't bite, and go slowly - And remember you don't al... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over the hate for that slut???
Q. My husband and I are together now. He had a brief affair with our neighbour who is married. We were all friends. When I caught them together he asked me what about us, well I told him that as long as he was involved with her I would see to it that ...
A. 23 October 2008: I say hit the bitch, and get it out of your system, I am in a similar situation only from another point of veiw I wasn't the wife I was the daughter who found out about her dad's affair, and to this day I want to kill the woman who broke my family ... (read in full...)
Is this a healthy 'friendship'?
Q. when i was in the 5th gd. i had a crush on my twenty three year old coach. well, i'm naturally a flirty person so of course i flirted w/him. well, we spent a lot of time alone together because he gave me rides home everyday because we were ...
A. 23 October 2008: Well how old are you now? I don't understand grades really so you'll have to put it to me plainly lol.
Sounds like he's friendly and if you get on well theres no reason why the friendship is UNhealthy and you never know, maybe in the future when... (read in full...)
Can we continue to live together as a threesome?
Q. I have been married for a few years now and recently i met a girl and she moved in with me and my wife, i have got children with my wife and after sitting down and talking for a long while we decided it would be best that we stay together but ...
A. 23 October 2008: The children will be bullied relentlessly if the kids at school find out they have 2 mummys and a daddy that all live together, and also many adults will be against your way of life and you might get some nasty phone calls or letters complaining, ... (read in full...)
How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love?
Q. I have been seeing another woman for over 20 years. I made a mistake and got married to someone else and I am very unhappy. How can I set up my wife to meet someone else, so I can go on with the one I love....
A. 22 October 2008: What do you want me to say?
The best way I've found is to tie her to a chair, blindfold her, and put her in a room full of single men and hope for the best!?!
Don't tell her for goodness sake!! What she doesn't know can't hurt her! You could s... (read in full...)
I'm not allowed hugs from my friends yet my boyfriend is???
Q. This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts ...
A. 21 October 2008: Why are either of you having prolonged physical contact with the opposit sex? I think that he is playing by his rules but won't let you plasy by those rules aswell. but you both shouldn't really be hugging anybody else for that long, if you think ... (read in full...)
Are they jealous that I was getting all the attention or was I really behaving slutty?
Q. I went to this party with my girlfriends. There were about 5 guys there that I used to be friends with and havent seen in a long time. I said hi and started drinking and dancing with them, while they were hugging me and flirting with me but I ...
A. 21 October 2008: oh my god crafter, 'with great power comes great responsibility' 1) i don't think spiderman is aproppriate right now and 2) she was flirting not running a country, they we're jealous, everyone gets flirty when theyre drunk, so what? its clled having ... (read in full...)
I feel turned on by my uncle!
Q. Okay, this is so gonna sound weird and a little sick, but if anyone has some advice I would appreciate you send me a message back. Me and my uncle have been close since I was a baby. I'm turning 17 and he is turning 40 this year. Since I was 14 h...
A. 21 October 2008: How do you tell you mother something like that though???
I am in a very similar situation with my step uncle, I find myself very uncomfortable sometimes - but at the same time the attention kind of intrests me and I don't understand. But like fade... (read in full...)
Could I be prosecuted for this?
Q. I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parent...
A. 21 October 2008: Before I answer, how old is your girlfriend/ex?... (read in full...)
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