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I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...

A.   18 May 2008: when you are bad with women the longer you are bad with them the worse and harder it is to be good with women, and also the more important it is to be good with them. its a visious circle, im guessing you dont have any friends who are good with ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   14 May 2008: hi areil you sweat dear. thankyou i wownt go to a self help group ever. im not scared of rejection not at all now. to be honest im so scared and stressed of fumbeling a conversation up and loosing someone i like so much that i cant listen be... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   14 May 2008: ive gone hrough stages of asking 4 women a day oput even on packed tubes ! im not afraid, its just im not self belif enof but im sick of getting rejected its happened for every single person ive ever asked out i dont wanna just keep getting rejected ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   14 May 2008: hi ive tried david de angelo was getting emails from him every week about how you have to be confiedent , but being confident it doesnt tell you i cant help being nervous and so i cant say much ! im nervous so when i try to act confident it comes ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   14 May 2008: wow someone who doesnt think prossies are evil and more to the point dont think im a complete scum bag for using them ! thankyou, gsmbling with women isnt the problem, its loosing all the time that is. thankyou... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   12 May 2008: im not suiciedal just only for a few days after i screw up i hate myself for being inadaquite so much... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   12 May 2008: Ive had enough, genuinly ive had enough of this forever i feel sick to the bone with loanliness, i dont no how to pull and what makes it worse is that women want me looks but i turn them off because my personality is sooooooooooooooooooooo ugily. ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   12 May 2008: Ive had enough, genuinly ive had enough of this forever i feel sick to the bone with loanliness, i dont no how to pull and what makes it worse is that women want me looks but i turn them off because my personality is sooooooooooooooooooooo ugily. ... (read in full...)

I hate his ex and myself.

Q.   Here it goes. My SO and I have been together for just over a year now. We get along great except for a few details. He never tells me that I'm beautiful, but he has told me about how beautiful his ex-wife is and about how much of a freak she was and ...

A.   10 May 2008: Man ive just answered so many questions like this your in the same boat as every female on the planet haha You fell for a confident man and now hes turned out nasty. You need to date men whoa are not confiedent i know its horrable and to ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend ended relationship because she can't love me?

Q.   My girlfriend recently split up with me because she says although she cares for me deeply (more than anyone else she has ever been with) she just cannot love me. She is so fantastic and I'm so sad now. She says she has never loved anybody, and she ...

A.   10 May 2008: i think she has gone for good ! dont pester her too much thats the worst thing to do ! but dont totally ignore her either. Every woman is Always looking for a better guy !... (read in full...)

Losing her is the last thing I want to do so how do I stop pushing her away?

Q.   I have put my girlfriend through a lot with my insecurties and jealousy. She has lots of male friends which drives me crazy. They all look better than me and I know they aren't childish like me. It's like the slightest thing comes up and I get all ...

A.   10 May 2008: OH dear me You poor guy your feeling low self eesteem so your woman is leaving you ! i dont think any woman from our culture can put up with low self esteem , certainly non that ive met. Try and act confident like you dont care about what ... (read in full...)

Is money getting in the way of love?

Q.   My boyfriend and I split up last October because he announced he doesn't want a girlfriend. When we split it was completely out of the blue. He has his own business which he is struggling with and I thinks it's impacting his self esteem / self wort...

A.   10 May 2008: Wow i dont think your boyfriend has a low self esteem because no one who runs a business or who can get a woman has that lower self esteem. I think that confident business men and other attractive men will always have a problem with pride,and e... (read in full...)

I want a guy just like him, except for the part he didn't like my past (that's why we argued.) I'm shattered. What if he moves on first?

Q.   My boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months broke up with me. We both loved each other very much, but we had been fighting too much lately, as there were things that we couldn't agree on. We were very much alike, and that is making this break up hard for ...

A.   10 May 2008: Dont worry you will find someone nicer who wownt mind about your past. Dont bite my hand off for saying this and at least give it a though, if you can possibly put up with someone underconfident and shy then they will be so happy that your past ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   10 May 2008: thankyou im happy now just buying prostitutes i dont care about anything else jus sleeping and sharing my bed with a girl is enough to make me totally happy, im content now as i know i can marry someone when im old (50+) because old women dont care ... (read in full...)

How can I gain confidence so that my personality shines through??

Q.   My friend said some girls thought I was cute but my personality sucked. I am smart, nice, and don't see why they think my personality is so bad. I am not very confident around girls. How can I get more confident, make them see my real personality ...

A.   23 March 2008: That last advice is terrable ! Ive been listening to women say this to me since i was 16 (13 years) and being myself got me knowwhere ever ive literally never had a girl even for a one night stand just being myself! girls HATE UNDERCNFIDENCE more ... (read in full...)

Why do girls show interest in me but not want to date me?

Q.   Ok i dont understand this, and i am guessing someone can clear this up for me. Why can i not get a girlfriend. Ok i have had many girls show intrest and compliment me. But most of them are already with someone or im not attracted to them. There was ...

A.   23 March 2008: WOW this happens to me all the time!!!! Im good looking so i get a lot of offers but just the other week i got chatted up by a girl who later rejeccted me ?? i know in my situation that a girl WILL NEVER SAY YES unless you truely ask confidently and ... (read in full...)

Why do girls show interest in me but not want to date me?

Q.   Ok i dont understand this, and i am guessing someone can clear this up for me. Why can i not get a girlfriend. Ok i have had many girls show intrest and compliment me. But most of them are already with someone or im not attracted to them. There was ...

A.   23 March 2008: WOW this happens to me all the time!!!! Im good looking so i get a lot of offers but just the other week i got chatted up by a girl who later rejeccted me ?? i know in my situation that a girl WILL NEVER SAY YES unless you truely ask confidently and ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   5 January 2008: yes but noone can get love from a woman, everyone acts different infront of women especially my friends who are good with them! so i cant see how anyone gets love from a woman? its all based on how good at getting women you are! personality and ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   4 January 2008: Hey buddy might as well just buy women, if you think about it its no different to learning techniques to get women, they only like you for your techniques or confidence its nothing to do with you at all, so my theory is if i buy them then they only ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   11 December 2007: its not what i dont want to face, its going to a counciller i wownt do it, i would prefare to just buy women rather than talk to a councellor even if i never get a date ever. ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   11 December 2007: thanks councelling is a good idea but im not going im too freaked out by it. I would just prefer to buy escorts they are nice and they are good looking and they are easy to pull.... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   10 December 2007: Thats just plain wrong, if they werent looking for someone confident then i would have had at least one date by now!! anyway its my problem i honestly dont think you understand how frustrating it is to hear the same advice over and over, besides ive ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   30 November 2007: ask her??? has anyone ever done this to you??? thats a clear sign of underconfidence and women will hate that, actually assuming that a woman likes you is one of the key things to getting women thats why i dont get them. My buddies who do get tho ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   18 November 2007: wow thanks ariel, that helps a little. However getting a date is almost impossible for me and also when im on a date treating a woman like a friend does not attract them i now because this is how i lost the only woman because i didnt know when to ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   7 November 2007: I think im not good enough with women because my friends who are good with girls get loads of them i dont know how to be good on a date as just being yourself without knowing when or what to say or do is sadly a big turn off for women. but i... (read in full...)

A loving boyfriend and a busy soul mate. Whom do I choose?

Q.   I have a boy friend and he loves me a lottt ! he is always there to help me. Spends hours with me daily n i loved being with him until i found another guy (X). X is extremely similar to be in habbits, activities, perspectives towards life. We are ...

A.   6 November 2007: Its obvious your attracted to the guy who is very sucsessfull thats just natural but the problem with cnfident jerks is they wownt stay with you, he will tell you he will but when he starts gtting famous and then he will ghet LOTS AND LOTS of offers ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   6 November 2007: Thsnks, but what happens when a woman does come along and im not good enugh to get her?? i need some help in appearing more confident and how to ask a girl out. Any ideas??... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   6 November 2007: Im scared not to try because thats how i ended up in this mess by just assuming i would find someone. I know im negative thats the problem but i dont know how not to be anymorem how can you expect a girl to say yes when no one ever has?. I cant be ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   6 November 2007: Hi there thanks im PERFECTLY happy having a low self esteem if i could just get a woman. The reason i hate myself is because it should be so easy to get some of these women because im so bad with women i blow it and i punish myself so much. The ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   6 November 2007: p.s i do talk to women but they do literally treat me like a different person when im shy, its true were all humans but its also true that women definately are not attracted to shy people, if the where then i would have a girl now!... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I can't find a girlfriend. I am tired of being alone!

Q.   please help i cant get a girlfriend despite making lots of effort being a male model. Im a 27yr old virgin and its seriously getting me down with loanliness, i dont know how long i can take this frustration. I know women like me to look at but im so ...

A.   6 November 2007: I did meet someone but because i was so so underconfident she rejected me, i only go for nice girls because i dont even get past the first sentance with nasty girls, i do ask quite a few girls out and they just reject me every time always. how can ... (read in full...)

I thought we were compatible and that he cared. Why did he stop?

Q.   I don't know how to get over him and stop blaming myself, do you think a few months in Australia will help? I was dumped nearly two months ago now by my boyfriend of 8 months. I'm really finding it hard to cope and I am still crying my way th...

A.   6 November 2007: remember your a woman and can get men whenever you want so dont stress someone else will come along i promise . Crying yourself to sleep is natural if you cant get anyone, or shortly after the break up, i cried myself to sleep for 4 years beca... (read in full...)

I keep getting turned down by girls, how can I make myself more attractive?

Q.   I never seem to be able to get a girlfriend everytime i ask a girl out she turns me down i just wish some girl would like me but none do but i like many girls but since i have been turned down so many times i am afraid to get close to any girl and i ...

A.   6 November 2007: p.s girls dont like interesting people because so many guys get girls who are not interesting and pay them about as much attention as well not much. Its sadly just confidence.... (read in full...)

I keep getting turned down by girls, how can I make myself more attractive?

Q.   I never seem to be able to get a girlfriend everytime i ask a girl out she turns me down i just wish some girl would like me but none do but i like many girls but since i have been turned down so many times i am afraid to get close to any girl and i ...

A.   6 November 2007: you need to be cnfident! all the confident guys get the girls no problem. Just look at the gus who get the girls and copy them. Please dont just hope someone nice will come along and love you for who you are cuz underconfidence will put ANY woman ... (read in full...)

I keep getting turned down by girls, how can I make myself more attractive?

Q.   I never seem to be able to get a girlfriend everytime i ask a girl out she turns me down i just wish some girl would like me but none do but i like many girls but since i have been turned down so many times i am afraid to get close to any girl and i ...

A.   6 November 2007: you need to be cnfident! all the confident guys get the girls no problem. Just look at the gus who get the girls and copy them. Please dont just hope someone nice will come along and love you for who you are cuz underconfidence will put ANY woman ... (read in full...)

Do I see the guy that is nice to me but I have no attraction to or the guy who isnt so nice but I am attracted to?

Q.   hey what would you rather.. a lovely lad/ girl who is so nice but ya arnt attracted to... or a lad/girl you Really like but not as nice..? iv gotten with this lad i really like but broke up with him because he wasnt trying, but now he asking me back ...

A.   6 November 2007: i think your young and youve already made up your mind the confident guy will win trust me. post back when youve picked him.... (read in full...)

Am I doing the right thing???

Q.   Help someone please, I have finished with my husband of 19 years and I really don't want him back its over for good.... My problem is that I have fallen head over heals with a man ten years younger than me, we meet on holiday and he is the best t...

A.   6 November 2007: love isnt precious (well not between a couple) because its based on so many conditions of attraction, for example someone like me who is underconfident and cant get a woman. my love is clearly unprecious ! its not nice and im sure the mods wownt ... (read in full...)

Are women better than men in life?

Q.   If this world is heading towards being more female, then what is the point for a guy to try to do anything in life. It doesn't help when your mum says us women are better than you lot at evrything. I've tried to prove her wrong but I've failed i...

A.   6 November 2007: women are better than men because the have them begging for everything ! also women are better than us men because they can make us do anything, well at least when they are young, then later they make better parents so they are more superior to us ... (read in full...)

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