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My bf has anger issues, he has cheated and he's hit me 3 times! Stay or go?

Q.   hey guys. well i will start with the basics. i'm going out with a boy who is fifteen (the same age as me) and we've been basically going out since year eight (seventh grade) so over the years we have obviously become very close, but we have been ...

A.   14 January 2010: Oh Boy! I've been married for 6yrs, and gone through similar issues... My wife was a cheater and a hitter... When u keep 4giving them, they feel as though u cant do without them. Staying with him, doesn't help him but make him worse. If u love him,... (read in full...)

My best friend slept with my boyfriend and now I have trust issues

Q.   My best friend slept with my boyfriend in June and i still havent gotten over it! I have major trust issues with people and im struggling to make new friends and start any new relationships. Any advice ??...

A.   14 January 2010: It takes time... U will feel like this for a while... However, plz don't shut ppl out of your life... let this experience strengthen u... Trying to recover, may be quite difficult and probably painful at the start... I'm sure u're a good person... ... (read in full...)

Erection pain!

Q.   Ok so I'm laying in bed trying to sleep thinkin about just holdin my girl and fallin to sleep nothing special or anything just that, and out of no where for no freakin reason I got erect and I was like really freakin hard like daimonds and I was ...

A.   12 January 2010: If a man is turned on after lusting or if he has been fondled or something else that excites him sexually for a period and he does not ejaculate he gets what the caribbean refer to as "Blue Balls". It is an internal throbbing pain that's very ... (read in full...)

It hurts my girlfriend when we have sex in the missionary position, what other positions can we try?

Q.   my girlfriend told me I hurt her when we missionary what shall I do, different position?...

A.   6 January 2010: I dont think that the problem is the position... I think that u need to prepare her more... probably more foreplay and oral... make sure she is extremely wet before u begin... don't be hurry to penetrate her... allow about 1/2hour of foreplay so ... (read in full...)

How can I accept that I might be gay? Or should I continue to try and hide my sexuality?

Q.   Greetings from an Asian teenager.. Few questions before I begin to tell y'all my lifestyle.. #1 - Am I Gay? (even tho I may already know what I am) #2 - Should I continue being gay? #3 - How can I accept what I am? #4 - Where could I go...

A.   6 January 2010: Ppl feel things everyday that may not necesarily be the norm... It doesn't make u that way! If u feed ur mind along that line, then eventually ur consumed by an emotion that overpowers ur sense of reasoning... To assume ur gay bcuz of freaky ... (read in full...)

Attracted to another guy, but I love my boyfriend, help!

Q.   I need help. I have a boyfriend who i have been dating for 11 months. i love him so much and i really don't want to lose him but a few days ago i went to my friends birthday party and there was this boy there who i have met a few times and have ...

A.   31 December 2009: Most ppl may say that at ur age u should generalise in guys and not specialise... My view is different... i think that it's okay to have a b/f at ur age, and i think it's necessary to practice to be faithful to him... U will see guys every day that ... (read in full...)

My husband went to sex therpist promised to be with me,and lied!

Q.   WellI caught my husband masterbating after he promised he would come to me after we went to a sex therpist, he is addicted for sure, please only decent replys, any proverbed replies will be reported. sure everyone masterbates, but a husband doesn't ...

A.   31 December 2009: The fact that in preparing this question, u threatened the reading audience against indecent replies, and proverbed replies; implies that u r pretty controlling... this could be intimidating to a man and even be a turn off... How do u present ur ... (read in full...)

Will my long labia be a turn off to my boyfriend?

Q.   i am 15 and i have extremely long inner labia and like all of my friends, well lets just say you cant even see theirs, and i dont know if it is abnormal. My boyfriend wants to go 'down there' and play around but i am nervous that he will be turned ...

A.   31 December 2009: Frankly, I like the idea of having a woman whose vagina is different from others... It'll definitely spice things up sexually... Wish I were ur b/f... Be proud of what u have...... (read in full...)

Can I Lower my sex drive?

Q.   I'm a young guy and I know that I should have a strong sex drive, but mine is overpowering. I have been wanting sex 5, 6, 7 or more times daily, which is obviously an unattainable feat. My sex drive is causing me to lose focus on other things, ...

A.   29 December 2009: I think all the advice given will make u want more. U probably need a hobby. I used to fell the need to discharge a few times a day... I was always horny! I started to exercise regularly and it helped...... (read in full...)

I am producing a lot more discharge, could I be pregnant?

Q.   I am 16 years old and i had sex for the first time last week. The condom split and i am scared that i might be pregnant. The only symptom i have had so far is that i am producing a lot more discharge. Does this mean i am definitely pregnant? What ...

A.   29 December 2009: I agree with Frenchii, Just buy a home pregnancy kit! Then u'll know...... (read in full...)

I get a sinking feeling when I realise it will never happen again

Q.   My husband is circumsized, and lately I've found myself CRAVING sex with an uncircumcised man. I've been with both cut and uncut men before, and hands-down I've found sex with uncut men to be more pleasurable. My husband knows that I've been with ...

A.   15 December 2009: Many ppl have differences preferences... More like a fettish... Some ppl have a fettish for nice knees, or nice hair or lips... u just have a fettish for a foreskin... I think it's all about ur fettish and thinking... try thinking freaky things ... (read in full...)

Help..how to seduce my cousin?

Q.   Hey, So my cousin's really hot. He's 17 and I'm 14. We chat sometimes but we never flirt, and he has a girlfriend. But I really want to get him to notice me! How can I do so? Please don't say "you're too young" or "it's your COUSIN get real". F...

A.   14 December 2009: I want to urge those of u responding to this young person, to step out of the box, and try 2 hear the real issues... Stop attacking her with the average wrong and right concepts! God Bless!... (read in full...)

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