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Do they have a double personality and think they are innocent?

Q.   say your partner who swears they love you was to do something again and again,knowing its a deal breaker and will end the relationship when caught,then wont own up,or start making you out to be paranoid or calling you emotionaly abusive when its ...

A.   22 March 2011: It sounds more like you are addicted to being treated that way. Of course she will know what she did,she knows she gets away with it,nothing more. Why do you think she wont talk about it? Well you could go,stay and sufferor even stay and do just the ... (read in full...)

Would this be called cheating the new Gf? If I just asked my ex to strip while we were on webcam.

Q.   Is it cheating if? Let's say you have a girlfriend. And you know your ex still loves you and you still have feelings for her, but you don't want to be in a relationship with her, but you drunk call her telling her you love her, and miss her, et...

A.   22 March 2011: Its sexual,of course it is. Would anybody want it doing to them?... (read in full...)

What would cause you to cheat on your partner?

Q.   Women, a question of honesty! Why do women decide to cheat on their men? Plz in detail...

A.   22 March 2011: There can never be any real reason for it,as if there was,you can choose to end the relationship. By cheating and lying,it means you dont want to break up. It also means you are unworthy. All i can say is maybe you dont respect or care for the ... (read in full...)

Why do men get away with so much where women get treated different.

Q.   This question has been with me for some time now and would like to hear other peoples views. Why is it okay for a man to walk away from his responsibilities and if he sleeps around its okay its normal whereas if the woman walks away and sleeps ...

A.   22 March 2011: Men dont get away with anything anymore than a woman does. It could also be said that when men cheat they are love rats. When a woman does,she was being neglected. If a man fails to get erect,he is a failure. If a woman doesnt flow its him that is ... (read in full...)

Ex has no idea why we broke up but she should!

Q.   Would like help pls. Has anyone ever come accross a partner who constantly betrays and hurts but never answers to what has caused the break up? Last week,after what seemed a turn for the better after getting back,my belief that its going somewhere ...

A.   20 March 2011: So youre saying it was your son who was fixing up a date for you, without your say so? I say it's just simply a case of you are a chancer this time you lost. Of course her son didn't text it. Rather a desperate attempt to get out of it,so desperat... (read in full...)

Ex has no idea why we broke up but she should!

Q.   Would like help pls. Has anyone ever come accross a partner who constantly betrays and hurts but never answers to what has caused the break up? Last week,after what seemed a turn for the better after getting back,my belief that its going somewhere ...

A.   20 March 2011: once a cheat always a cheat. if her son put what matches a direct reply,then why? does he want to break you up or is it a case of making sure it really is lover number two before saying too much? the son will defend his mother,not make her ... (read in full...)

How do I know if my wife is telling the truth?

Q.   I love my wife deeply, recently my wife diana of 11 years told that she has sex with 4 perosns before marriage..several times. I am amazed, when She told that twice she had Threesome, also....She tells that all story are true.. I have asked many ...

A.   23 January 2011: If she isn't telling the truth, it's through fear of losing you, causing an argument and it doesnt mean she would be a bad wife. She was someone else before she met you. Now she is yours. Compared to the bad partners some end up with you need to see ... (read in full...)

How long does it take a person to decide whether they want to get back together with you or not?

Q.   I sent my ex a let's get back together letter. I told him to take his time and think about it. I know he'll definitely answer (he would never not answer) but it's been 4 days. It's a good sign that time is passing bc I know he actually is thinking ...

A.   25 July 2009: I would mention that he must tell you, if he is now single. 4 days isnt a long time,doesnt indicate its over yet,more like its just a disagreement. It is likely he has a dread of being pressured into your way of thinking. I would mention that if ... (read in full...)

He mentioned he looked at porn, occasionally. And this really bothers me..am I over-reacting?

Q.   My boyfriend recently mentioned looking at porn, as though he thought it wouldn't bother me. I know that he doesn't look at porn often, but it still bothers me quite a bit. Am I overreacting?...

A.   18 April 2007: Most men look at porn,as do it some women.Why not look at it together?... (read in full...)

Hubby visits prostitutes so I cheat on him with casual sex with other men! How can we stop this destructive path we are on?

Q.   I need help... My husband of 13 years got found out a few months ago, he has been seeing prostitutes for 6 years every 2 weeks and each week he has been trawling the streets. We are going throught the councellng route and I have asked for help for ...

A.   18 April 2007: Your self respect must be as low as your husbands.Divorce beckons.Find a decent man and keep your pants on with everyone but him. The more you do the worse you will feel.Revenge isnt making you feel better.... (read in full...)

I like short skirts and low tops on other girls..but I don't like my gf, dressing this way! Why am I this way?

Q.   I know this is going to sound wierd but i have got my first girlfriend, i dnt like her wearing low tops or short skirts or nothing like that bt that doesnt make sense to me cuz i like seeing girls wearing those kind of things as in cuz they look ...

A.   18 April 2007: Its because youre jealous and dont want other peeps looking at your gf the same way you look at other girls.... (read in full...)

My bf is pulling away from me! How do I get him back?

Q.   Hi, ive been with my boyfriend now for 5 years and im 16 years old. Recently he's been pulling away from me and i want to bring him closer, is there anyway that i can bring him closer? I really need help!!...

A.   18 April 2007: You cant make someone love you. You are still young. Live your life.... (read in full...)

My partner quit smoking but his moodiness is really getting to me! Any advice?

Q.   my partner whom i have been with for 3 years is giving up smoking, its only been 4 days and he is very moody. sometimes calling me awful and hurtful names and yelling at me and having a go at me over small things that no one would get mad about. t...

A.   18 April 2007: I pity you here. You need to sit him down and tell him. Yes , i have been in this situation. My husband did exactly the same. I knew he was having sneaky ciggarettes as soon as it stopped after 3 weeks. Its difficult because you want him to quit,yet ... (read in full...)

Been dating 2 months and hes still checking his online ad, do I have a right to tell him to stop ?

Q.   I met this wonderful man (we will call him - Man) 10 months ago. We hit it off right away, about 4 weeks in to the relationship a woman approched me and told me to leave him because he had a singles ad on the internet and was checking it everyday. I ...

A.   18 April 2007: If he checks his online ad then he`s planning a secret fling. There is no other reason to check it. He would have deleted it if he was faithful.... (read in full...)

We broke up and he told me he wanted to be on his own but 2 weeks later he's got a new gf. Why did he do this?

Q.   i broke up with my bf a month ago!i think i can move on but just want to know that why he told me he wanted to be on his own 2 weeks later he's got a new gf?...

A.   18 April 2007: He wasnt honest enough with you. Move on,theres better things out there for you.... (read in full...)

I have depression and I need a counselor...any tips on finding one?

Q.   Im suffering with depression and im looking for a good councellor to help resolve my issues.... can anyone give any information? please help x x...

A.   18 April 2007: First step is to see your doc. ... (read in full...)

My fiancee disappeared for 12 hours, no explanantion! Was he messing around?

Q.   Why would my fiancee of 3yrs txt me and say he dont do expainations when i asked him to explain why he hadnt contacted me in 12hrs, am i right in thinking he was messing around on me...

A.   18 April 2007: It might not be what you want to hear,but you dont trust him,and theres every chance he`s fed up with you. People who dont trust are usualy the ones who are most likely to mess around. Its so easy to believe that because you would,that he would too. ... (read in full...)

He ended it and has not contacted me and the baby! He never appeciated us, so am I better off?

Q.   i have been engaged for a while an in the time weve been together he has never bought me flowers,chocolates,even after giving birth he never got me a card let alone anything else.never does he show me how im appreciated and there isnt anything i ...

A.   1 October 2006: Are you sure this baby wasnt a trap?Why doesnt he want to contact you?Have you thought about his version of events?There has got to be more to this than you are saying.Was he at the birth?You seem to base your importance on "what he has or hasnt ... (read in full...)

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