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... Send *ucky786 a private message | | | *ucky786's profile:I live on my own in West Yorkshire in my lovely house. I work in the legal sector and love spending time in Starbucks with my friends.
I am currently single and enjoy my freedom and independence. I love reading walking and watching films. My job is quite stressful so I enjoy activities that serve as an outlet for relieving all that stress.
I've been married, divorced, suffered child abuse and self-harm but I survived all of that! I think that's what makes me the person I am. I've learnt many harsh lessons in life and the most important one is that life is too short to hate those that have wronged us. Instead I thank god each day for his blessings.
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We're not really dating but he interested. How do I break this off?
Q. How do you break it off with someone you're not technically with? My and this guy aren't dating but liked each other and for the past 3weeks we've been meeting it his house and making out lots and cuddled up on his bed, but when I'm with him I keep ...
A. 3 May 2010: Stop going around to his house.... (read in full...)
Met him on Facebook and fell in love!
Q. I think am falling in love with this other guy I met on facebook. i love him so much but i have a boyfriend who really loves me.am so confused and dont know what to do.i need help...
A. 3 May 2010: Are you really in love with Facebook guy? I'm not so sure. Here is a guy that you've never met, never kissed and he o tells you only what he wants you to know about himself, it's not a real relationship, I'd guess that you just enjoy the attention ... (read in full...)
What do you think about age difference relationships?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm going to try and make this question as short as possible. I work with a lad [I'm a student with a part time job] and have started to develop feelings for him. We have been texting a lot recently, usually just before bed. In t...
A. 3 May 2010: a two-year age gap is not too much of a gap. A ten year age gap would be too much (I speak from experience, it was too much and didn't work) You shouldn't let the age difference worry you too much. Consider instead whether he is he mature. If he is ... (read in full...)
Classic love triangle
Q. So, I've been in a relationship with a man I love very much for about a year now, and we have plans to get married. Whenn my best friend had one of her exes around, who she was about to start dating again, we started talking a lot, mostly about my ...
A. 18 April 2010: Get some distance between you and this guy QUICK!Once you are away from this guy, I suggest you have a serious think about what or who it is that you want. You say you love your fiance but are spending time with this guy behind his back. Are you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a smoker, I'm an ex-smoker, and now I just can't stand it. Should I stop going over to his house?
Q. Well I am in a long distance relationship. we have been together for a year, and so far it's worked pretty well. My BF ussually comes to see mee, and after all this time i started going to his place more often, because I want to show him I want to ...
A. 14 April 2010: Firstly, I think your problem has two distincts aspects to it. The first aspect is about respecting each other's rights: your boyfriend's right to smoke and your right to a smoke-free environment. Personally, I think your boyfriend is being VERY ... (read in full...)
He can't make up his mind!
Q. me and this guy have been friends for 8 years, we been sleeping together on and off for about 6 years. i have falling deeply in love with him. he tells me that he doesnt want a relationship, but then he does and say things that make me feel that he ...
A. 11 April 2010: He's using you. If he wanted to be in a relationship with you he would be. At the moment he is reaping all the benefits of a relationship (company, closeness & sex) without actually being in a relationship with you.
Stop sleeping with him and ... (read in full...)
Would he still want me if he knew I had a son?
Q. there is a guy who i have been going out with for 3 weeks he dosent know about my son and im scared to tell him in case he dosent accept me and my son are a deal he has me he accepts my son to its starting to worry me so i try not bring up my ...
A. 11 April 2010: You have to tell him. It's unfair of you not to. Are you that desperate for this guy's affections that you've never mentioned your son before? If this guy reacts badly then he's not the guy for you but that is a risk you will have to take. Imagine ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he needs space and is being distant
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. when we were first an item we would spend so much time together like every weekend, as well as a couple nights during the week. and on weekends i would go over his house and spend time wit...
A. 11 April 2010: It seems to me that his work schedule has changed and you being clingy is not helping him. He can't change his work schedule and you should understand that. Give him the space he wants. No more texting or calling for a while. Believe me the more you ... (read in full...)
My life has always been controlled by my parents and now my husband. How can I break free?
Q. I grew up with very strict parents, I was not allowed to go out with friends or be independent. My day ran on a schedule, from school to various music, dance, and etiquette lessons. My parents determined how I would dress, wear my hair, and who I ...
A. 4 March 2010: I think you should break free now. Your life so far has been mapped out for you by various people. It's time to stop following the map and do what you want to do.
Of course you don't want to hurt your parents, in-laws or husband but equally ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my friend. Why does she keep going back to him after all he does?
Q. Alright, a friend of mine is being in relationship for almost 5 years. My friend, who is a she, is turning 19 this year and her bf is 22. Their relationship isn't going smooth. Her bf was being unfaithful to her once in the past but she has forgiven ...
A. 4 March 2010: Yes it is an unhealthy relationship. She stays with him because she has little or no self-esteem. She thinks his jealous, controlling behaviour means he cares about her. She does not see that she deserves to be in a loving relationship with someone ... (read in full...)
I have a friend who is going off the rails
Q. Hi, I have a friend. She is in the kind of relationship where guys treat their girls like trash and girls still wish to continue with them. She always comes to me asking for help and sometimes just tells me things like "he doesn't call me/pick ...
A. 4 March 2010: I know you feel fed-up and have probably lost all patience with her. She thinks she is in love with this guy and he only treats her like cr*p because he cares about her. Her self-esteem is rock bottom right now. She cannot leave him because she is ... (read in full...)
Should I just not tell her...?
Q. Hey, I met this girl and we hit it off and became very close, anyway she confided in me that she had been sexually abused when she was young by her father, things were going reall good but then we broke, some of the relationship problems stem form ...
A. 4 March 2010: I wouldn't tell her, it could backfire on you...badly! When you next speak to your mum (hopefully to tell her that you and your girl are back together) just mention to her that your girl doesn't know you confided in her and it's best left that way. ... (read in full...)
Had an affair with a married man and now I cant stop thinking about him!
Q. Will I ever win my ex back? Its very complicated and sorry but a bit long! I had a bit of a fling with a guy I'd known for a while last summer, it only lasted 2 mths and he had seperated from his wife. After the fling ended he went home to try...
A. 4 March 2010: Sorry but I think first he used you to get out of his failing marriage then he used your petty argument as an excuse to get out of your relationship. If he truly loved you, he would want you by his side at this difficult time. He strikes me a... (read in full...)
Do most prefer 'curvy' women?
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-it-only-the-mans-biology-thats.html I want an opinion from the uncles of this site.Hopefully men will be able to shed more light on this. Is it true that majority of men only like curvaceous figur...
A. 4 March 2010: When I was a size 10-12 or even when I was a size 14-16 I didn't get much attention from men but since I lost the weight (down to a size 6-8)I seem to get more attention. Draw your own conclusions!... (read in full...)
Despite our relationship being a good one, I keep dreaming of us breaking up
Q. Ive been going out with my gilrfriend for about 2 months now and for the last 3-4 nights ive had dreams about me and her breaking up, i trust her 100% but i dont know why i keep having these bad dreams, what could this be? ...
A. 4 March 2010: Sounds to me like your anxieties about your relationship are manifesting themselves into these dreams. Is there a real reason for these anxieties? You say you trust her 100% but I'm not sure this is the case. Why not talk to your girlfriend about ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid she doesn't miss me like I miss her. Should I let her know how I feel?
Q. i really need some help guys....i miss her so much,but the reason we stopped talking was because she broke my heart, and i didnt want to have my heart broken again...so we stopped talking to each other but now a few weeks have passed and i realise ...
A. 19 February 2010: I can't tell you whether you should contact her or not but before you do, remember she broke your heart.
Do you want to let her back in your life and take the risk that she might do it again? On the other hand can you forgive her for breaking... (read in full...)
Is he worth waiting for?
Q. My partner rejected my marrage proposal. We share a child. He says he's not ready to commit to me. He is still contacting his ex. I love him. Is he worth waiting for?...
A. 24 January 2010: No.
He is telling you and showing you (by his actions) that he is not ready to commit.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean?
Q. My boyfriend told me 2 days ago that he needs space, what does this mean? We have been seeing each other for 5 months, when i first met him i can remember being SO happy because i had finally found a nice guy. He promised me he would treat me r...
A. 23 January 2010: There is one part of question that really worries me:
"He promised me he would treat me right and never do anything to hurt me"
You both went into this way too fast. If a guy promised me he would never hurt me I would not believe him. No-... (read in full...)
He still wants to see me and have sex with me but doesn't want the title of my boyfriend!!!
Q. Ok so I met this guy and it was like love at first sight for both of us so as days passed he asked me out on a date and obviously I replied yes and accepted so this date turned into a relationship. we dated for 3 years, only problem was he was a ...
A. 18 January 2010: Okay, I know a little about the muslim faith and men and here is how it is.
Muslim men will mess about with/sleep with a non-muslim girl but will rarely marry them/commit to them. Why? Because the family will disapprove, by the family I mean the... (read in full...)
How can I make things better between us?
Q. Help me please, i really cant stop thinking about this guy, i met him in may last yr and swapped numbers, then stoped talking then in october, we started talking again, and hit it off really well, i met him 3 times and slept with him twice, the ...
A. 3 January 2010: I agree with Caring Guy. This man used you and he is making it obvious that he is not available to you. If he wanted to have relationship with you or keep you as a friend, he would have answered your text.
To make this better for yourself... (read in full...)
Sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend
Q. One of my best friends in the world and I have been sleeping together for a few years now and i am in love with him. He says i am his dream girl and wants to be with me but because of other circumstances (neither one of us drive, he has no job ...
A. 26 December 2009: You are just a friend with benefits, nothing more and nothing less. If you have any self-respect, end it now. Forget trying to be his friend and find a man who will make you his one and only number one.... (read in full...)
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