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My cheating ex dotes on his new girlfriend

Q.   So I found out my partner was cheating on me November last year and I ditched him (yay) Our 2 year relationship was pretty rocky throughout and so I absolutely know in my head that I have done the right thing by leaving him. My gripe though...

A.   5 February 2019: Thank you everyone - I take something from each of you and appreciate the advice. I guess I really just want to fast track to the bit where I feel nothing about any of it at all. I get that I need to give it time, but he hasn't needed any time... (read in full...)

Loves first kiss ..........

Q.   How can I kiss a girl who is taller than me without looking silly. I imagine we will be standing since it will be the first kiss. ...

A.   1 February 2019: Hopefully you have accomplished this by now, but yes - sit her down! Lead her to a bench or on a picnic blanket or something. But more importantly - you will not look silly and don't you dare think that about yourself! You may also find that s... (read in full...)

Do people like this ever change or am I best out of it?

Q.   Hiya I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 2 year old son and we live together I just need some advice on this we used to go to school together and met up years later through social media we moved in together and had our son but the past year ...

A.   1 February 2019: Yeah, he is playing the coward card. He has lost all care and is hoping to save himself the effort of breaking up with you as it is likely there will be more drama and 'please don't leave me'. If he plays the arse now, you will leave him and th... (read in full...)

Should I just leave it at that?

Q.   A guy i had got to know had occasionally winked and started bantering by text with me. We started having really good chats together bantering and flirting and then at a recent party we were both texting each other and he was saying I bet you really ...

A.   1 February 2019: Urgh - sadly, he is just being a silly boy. Definitely nothing to look into here. Leave him be x... (read in full...)

Before her pregnancy she would flirt all the time... now Nothing.

Q.   Recently i changed job and got close to a girl here. She used to behave with me like she is my girlfriend. She is married but she even asked me to be her "Boyfriend" forever. We did heavy flirting and she also told me she'd kiss me when we go for ...

A.   1 February 2019: Yes - you have been used basically. Do not allow yourself to continually be caught up in dangerous waters with her. Flirting outside of the relationship and leading you on is not exactly full blown cheating I supposed, but it is darn right u... (read in full...)

I'm pretty sure he likes me but how can I be sure?

Q.   There is this guy who I really adore. We are very similar and all my friends think we should be together. I am pretty sure he likes me, but how can I be certain? I don't want to make a fool of myself asking him to be my boyfriend, but I still really ...

A.   1 February 2019: Don't try too hard - you will find in life that people who are supposed to be in your life will just be there naturally. That doesn't mean you can't give him a few helpful hints that you are interested, but let him notice you. Wear your hair d... (read in full...)

My daughter just found out that I am her biological father not the man she grew up calling dad. Do I contact her?

Q.   My question is thirty years ago I was very much in love with my youth sweetheart,but she she got married but we never stopped seeing each other, she had to children, we didn't know if her daughter was her husband or mine but we split up for the ...

A.   1 February 2019: So long as she knows how to contact you let her be the one to come to you, for sure. If you're absolutely desperate to say something to her, write it in a letter and send it to a friend or something so you have the therapy of getting what you... (read in full...)

I can't climax and I'm worried he will leave me because of it

Q.   Hi, I am in need of some advice. I have been dating a really nice man for over a month. We have been intimate with him a few times. It was an amazing experience even though, I did not climax. He seemed really worried about it. Would tell me when I ...

A.   1 February 2019: I am 28 and I think I have climaxed less that 10 times throughout my various different partners without any self assistance! Very frustrating. It may be something mental - my therapist has suggested that I have conditioned myself to thinking that... (read in full...)

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