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Are baby steps the right way to go about this?

Q.   I am in love with my ex still, its been 3 months till our horrible break up and well, he called me (i was strong) and he said he wanted to work things out, things were okay and kinda flirty, but if hes working things out or trying to work things out ...

A.   1 November 2010: I think he is having second thoughts. but is fighting amongst them . so yes. take baby steps . and just let him know you still care. but give him a little space as well... (read in full...)

Should I be nice? Or let her have it and cause trouble?

Q.   I was seeing a girl for a while. she became my best friend also very close relationship . she gave me the friend talk for those that have been following . I bought her a tiffany co bracelet with alot of charms for other things and special ...

A.   13 August 2010: 2 year relationship . im not hateful . im actually happy for her.nothing I can change about the past . I didnt buy her love. I bought her the bracelet for christmas. a nice charm for valentines day . and one for going through her first year in ... (read in full...)

Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?

Q.   I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...

A.   27 July 2010: I agree with chigirl .. call off the engagement and just stay in a boyfriend /girlfriend relationship.... (read in full...)

She refused to stop seeing her ex and sending him flirty texts and "I love you"s. I'm heart broken.

Q.   Hey everyone Me and girlfriend broke up after about a year of dating and i am still madly in love with her and I would give the world for and I would fight to my dying breathe to keep her safe and i feel completely heart broken to the point where I ...

A.   26 July 2010: Let it be man . I feel really bad for you because I know how hard this can be . ive been in similar situations . the best best best solution to this is keep your self extremely busy . and when you cant find something to keep busy. spend that time ... (read in full...)

My wife cheated on me before we got married.should I divorce her?

Q.   hello there. I have a big problem that i need help to, amy wife cheated on me before we where married. We have being married 5 years, we never had sex before we got married, she was my first and i though i was hers. We have a 2yr old boy.i found out ...

A.   21 July 2010: I really feel bad for you my friend. I really do . it was ignorant of her and to do it so many times. I dont blame you for taking out your anger on the man . I would get a divorce . or separate for a while and shell know that is 100% of the reason ... (read in full...)

Suddenly she's insisting I use condoms?!?!

Q.   Here it go, me and this girl got together in 2007, and broke up in the middle of 2008. We got back together in 09, then around may of 2009 she moved to Missouri (6 hours away). Since then i'll go see her or she'll come see me. We've never really ...

A.   9 July 2010: dude.. Im on the same page as you . call her out on it and ask for the honest truth . or ask around to some people she knows. it would throw me a hint of something if she was so insistent on using them . good luck . and hope all works out for ya... (read in full...)

Need some advice on how to be affectionate??

Q.   hey guys i dont know what to do. im 19 and never been kissed, on a date, etc. its not like im ugly or weird. im 6'2", pretty built, i play football and basketball, i go out and everything. I think my main problem is 1. i get extremely nervous ...

A.   29 June 2010: alright . this is right up my alley . hey man . I didnt get my first kiss or anything until I was older. keep your head up . there are a ton of women out there who are looking for a man like you. you havent tried because you have whats called ... (read in full...)

Yeah, I screwed up, I gave her a drunken ultimatum!

Q.   I am a 41-year-old man who fell hard for a 27-year-old woman that I met four months ago. I've courted her from the beginning, never hiding my feelings from her, but she insisted we remain just friends. We have a lot in common and get along ...

A.   28 June 2010:  ok. I was in a situation like this . almost exact. you need to learn to treat her just like a friend . im sure she also expects to be treated differently ? treat her like any normal friend. and if she gets mad because you treat her like any ... (read in full...)

Is it the right time to propose to him? Last time he said it was too early.

Q.   I've been with him just over a year and one month. So far the main problem has been that his first ex (whom he loved like mad) wants him back. But he says he never go back to her and loves me alot. I want to propose to him but not sure how? Cause ...

A.   23 June 2010:  your deff not long distance if its only under 20 miles.. thats a 15 minute drive.. he just needs time. I think your wanting to ask him more because his ex is trying to get back with him and your afraid he might get back with her. like the person ... (read in full...)

She wants me to pay her bills yet we don't even have sex!

Q.   if im in a relationship with my girlfriend, and she wants me to help her pay bills, but doesnt want to have sex or sleep together, what is my best resolution??...

A.   13 June 2010: Than I wouldnt .apparently she thinks that your important enough in her life to pay her bills but not enough to have sex with ,. I would tell her no an when she asks why . tell her exactly what I just told you ... (read in full...)

I just found out my boyfriend lost his virginity to another girl during our break up

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up. He got with another girl and he lost his virginity with her. But then we got back together four months ago and I just found out he had sex with her. It hurt me really bad and I dont know how to feel about it. So do ...

A.   12 June 2010:  There isnt anything you can do about it . you broke up and he lost his virginity . you cannot take that back . you cant go back in time and change it . all you can do is learn from your past mistakes . and hope for the best. you still have to ... (read in full...)

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