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I get extremely hurt and upset when he says things about other girls, am I taking all this too seriously?

Q.   Hello, I have been with my boyfriend for a year in febuary. Thursday night we we're on the phone talking about someon on the telly and he said what the one with masive boobs and I said yeah, how do you know shes got massive boobs and he said well ...

A.   24 November 2008: Yeah Mandy, you are right. Thats why I got confused with all the answers. Thank you too all of you though because they still helped.... (read in full...)

After I met my bf I started feeling all needy, how can I regain some self-control and act less pathetic?

Q.   seriously help! i have just realised that them rules women invented to play it cool and everything actually should have been stuck to or you just get messed around. right well my boyfriend ignored me for a couple days and i being totally in love ...

A.   23 November 2008: My boyfriend is almost exaccutly the same he just doesn't ignore me for days on end he ignores me for about an hour or so but I ring him just as much as you do. Before I got with him I was in control and never let anyone or anything stop me from bei... (read in full...)

My parents caught my BF fingering me and now they won't talk to me.

Q.   HELPP! my parents caught my bf fingering me... and they havent spoken to me since (it happened last night and havent talked to me all night and today) are they disappointed..? sad? will they ever get over it? im so depressed right now because i ...

A.   22 November 2008: Of corse they are shocked they are your parents and you there little girl and it is hard to see that happening to your own child, any age. They probably have no idea what to say to you but when they have thought it through they will speak to you, ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?

Q.   Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...

A.   12 November 2008: I am fourteen and just started my GCSE corses at high school, I took History, Triple science and Childcare for my choises although we are made to do other subjects aswell. I want to go to collage and uni to study, Social work, hence I want to ne a ... (read in full...)

I'm wondering what walks of life the aunts and uncles come from?

Q.   Dear posters, I think its wonderful to have people from different walks of life, to be able to come here and look at others situations with a different set of eyes. its great! On to my question, I was left wondering what each and every one of you...

A.   12 November 2008: I am fourteen and just started my GCSE corses at high school, I took History, Triple science and Childcare for my choises although we are made to do other subjects aswell. I want to go to collage and uni to study, Social work, hence I want to ne a ... (read in full...)

He said 'it's not his fault' that I'm pregnant!

Q.   please can someone help me because i really dont know what to do! my boyfriend and i had been together for just four months and he knew i was no where near ready for sex, even though im 16 and legal n all that i didnt feel physically ready for it! ...

A.   9 November 2008: First of all it sounds like your boyfriends the one who needs to grow up, he sounds like a total idiot and very selfish. Im sorry to tell you this but he doesnt love you. If he did he would have stayed in his parents room like he said he was going ... (read in full...)

His parents don't like him seeing me so he "sneaks around" to see me and I hate it.

Q.   help i dont know what to do well okay here goes. me and my bf have been going out 4 about half a year now and we love each other to bits. his parents were fine about it till earlier on in may and that made them dislike me. Now they still haven...

A.   3 October 2008: Hiya, first of all what did happen in may? If you dont say then no-one can really help you. Secondly, if they cant let what happened in may go then theres really nothing you can do. You and your boyfriend have moved on and it was yours and your ... (read in full...)

Please help me with this love thing!

Q.   im 12 year and am in love whit a girl in my class. to valetine i gave her a card........... a friend of me told me that she tornd it....... is that very bad....do got a chance or do i just give up??...

A.   27 September 2008: Hello, you can keep trying if you like but if she doesn't love you back its her loss you sound very sweet. There will be lots more girls for you sweetie.... (read in full...)

His left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly! He pushes it back, but I find this really worrying!

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend just told me today that his left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly. He says this happened before when he had an erection and he just pushed it down back into his scrotum ,its been happening for the ...

A.   27 September 2008: Thank you for sending me the link. It really helped, I think we will leave it for a while now and see what happens. Thank you again because you have all put my mind at rest. x... (read in full...)

His left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly! He pushes it back, but I find this really worrying!

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend just told me today that his left testicle sometimes comes out of his scrotum and into his lower belly. He says this happened before when he had an erection and he just pushed it down back into his scrotum ,its been happening for the ...

A.   27 September 2008: Thank you for all your answers. I told him what you said and we have decided to go to the doctors as it is not very nice and does cause him discomfort, and would rather get it seen to just to make sure. ... (read in full...)

I'm only 13, pregnant with twins, afflicted with herpes, and I don't know who the father is. How do I tell my parents?

Q.   I just turned thirteen and I found out I am pregnant with triplets I don't know who the father is I have been sexually active with over ten men the last year. I have lied about my age because I am very developed and I don't know what to do. I also ...

A.   11 September 2008: Hello, I am sure you are really scared of telling your parents and you have every right to be. It was a very silly thing to do and as you now know can have major consequences. Your right what are you going to do with three babies?? Now tha... (read in full...)

Am I weird for liking dry humping better than actual sex?

Q.   Am I weird for liking dry humping better than actual sex?...

A.   11 September 2008: Hello, No you are not weird, it just depends on what you like. Maybe you like your clit being stimulated in which case dry sex is better. Have you ever actually had sex though? Let me know whats going on.... (read in full...)

Our attempt at having sex failed because I was too tight and he was too big. What can I do about this?

Q.   umm ok so me and my bf are really really close. and we've done just about everything...except sex. we tried the other nite and...hes huge...and i think i was to tight. both of us r virgings...i dont kno what to do. it was really emabrass...

A.   11 September 2008: Hello, I know I'm younger than you and you probably think I probably don't know much but sex is the only thing that me and my boyfriend haven't done. Some of the reasons that you might find it hard is because you don't do enough foreplay so ... (read in full...)

What are the chances of deformity??

Q.   well i am in love with my moms cousins youngest son.. is that wrong and can we be and what are the chances of deformity?? STORY i know what you guys think your too young to know what love is but one of my fa...

A.   11 September 2008: Hello, I'm not going to tell you that you don't love him because you might. I am fourteen and I know I love my boyfriend of just over seven months. Although what you described sounds alot like lust. Lust is where you get the butterflies an... (read in full...)

How can I tease my boyfriend?

Q.   i need your help on this one, how can i tease my bf, i am new at this...and at this, he always finds a way to tease me by pulling my hair or pinching me slightly, but i can never seem to do so myself, i mean i return a pinch,, but what more else can ...

A.   9 September 2008: To tease him try kissing around his ears and neck. Touch his upper leg softly and kiss him on the lips gently and sort of open your mouth a tiny bit when you do it but no tongues. Touch his bum when you walk past him in public but be subtle.... (read in full...)

I'm scared my GF could be pregnant at 14, how to tell our parents?

Q.   i need help,im 14 and i think i made my girlfriend pregnant who is also 14. im really scared, i dont really know if she is or if she isn't. if she is, i dont know what i would do and how we would tell our parents. can someone please help me!!!...

A.   8 September 2008: Hello. I'm fourteen and a girl. I have thiought I was pregnant before and my boyfriend didn't cum inside me. We have not even had sex, but there are many ways I could have been. He could of cummed on his finger and touched me. This could of happe... (read in full...)

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