I have pushed my boyfriend to the limit and feel I have ruined our relationship, can it be saved?
Q. I love my boyfriend so much but I think I am killing my relationship. I cant stop myself from being so intense and bitchy. I know we're at breaking point as I think I have pushed him to the limit. he's been so pateint and he used to love me so ...
A. 2 January 2008: Ok, you know you've done wrong, but do you know why you're behaving like this? Has something triggered this or how long has this been going on?
He's been patient with you, which means he's willing to give you a chance, you know, wait for you beca... (read in full...)
Does my crush like me?
Q. how do i tell if my crush likes me? i'm natuley blonde so i act dumb sometimes. when i first moved here i didn't notic him at first until this boy that picks on every day.he stars at me and finds thing to anoy me.every day he would say oh this boy ...
A. 27 November 2007: talk to him, and ask him how he feels about you. if he likes you, ask him out to the cinema or something like that. and go from there!... (read in full...)
I like seeing him... but only at weekends!
Q. I am 47 just divorced. We've been married for 22 years. The last four year we only see each other at weekends. I was very unhappy and finally decided to end it. Then I met this man 18 years older than me. He's single without children. We get on ...
A. 27 November 2007: well it probably reminds you of how it was with you ex husband, that might be why. If you'd rather see him at the weekends, then it's your choice, just let him know where he stands with you. Take it slower if you need, I'm sure he won't mind. Take ... (read in full...)
How can I meet new people online?
Q. I don't have much time to socialise by going out. How can I meet new people online? any sites that are good that you don't have to pay money to subscribe to? ...
A. 25 November 2007: go in chat rooms like zwinky and imvu. Imvu might seem like for teenagers, but there are adults that go on it too. It's free and you can make your own avatar so it looks like you then you can go to different places to talk and socialise. You have ... (read in full...)
What can I get her nice for our first anniversary together?
Q. Hello, me and my girlfriend are celebrating our anniversary (one year) and I would like to give her something special (already gave her a ring on her bday). Any advice? Thanks...
A. 25 November 2007: Well, I would love my boyfriend to take me to dinner then at the dinner table It would be romantic to take a little box out with a beautiful necklace or bracelet in. Then say 'Happy Anniversary...(her name)' I think is sounds very romantic an... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to tell my ex to stop coming to see the kids, when he does nothing for them anyway?
Q. My ex and i have been broken up for almost a month, Three days ago he moved in with his new girlfriend, leaving me and his kids at his mothers house. Right now we have nowhere else to go and i am trying to find an apartment, but anyway he comes and ...
A. 24 November 2007: i wouldn't say its wrong, but he does need to see his children. say to him, that if he wants to know his children when they grow up, then he had better play a part in their life now. that's what i would do, but it's really up to you. if you can ... (read in full...)
How can I show her that I understand and love her?
Q. hi everyone, This is the sum up of the story and plese ask for help. My gf and I have been 2 months together and now i'm working in other conuntry which is very close to hers.. She is student and as far aas i know she is bit in a hurry to finish ...
A. 24 November 2007: i think its because of her exam results that she's acting like this. Just give her some space for a while and let her get herself up again. If she doesn't contact you in a couple of months, then try ringing her again, if she doesnt answer, then ... (read in full...)
Is my friend's strategy valid? - to make women like him.
Q. I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go) He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more? What do you think? Doe...
A. 18 November 2007: Well, this strategy could go both ways, depending on the girl .
1. If he does that, the girl might want more, because they want more attention.
2.The girl might just get confused about what she's feeling. She might think: Does he like me? Or w... (read in full...)
My bf is very controlling, I feel I'm living with my parents again. I don't want to leave him thinking of my son's stability. What to do?
Q. hey cupid...I think I hate my boyfriend. I mean he is a great guy who wants to take care of me and he is the father of my son. But he wants to be in control. And I dont just mean some times I mean all the time. He alwasy wants to know were I am and ...
A. 18 November 2007: Maybe he's had a bad relationship in the past, and maybe he isn't sure if he can trust again. The real reason might actually because he's a man. Most men like to be in control, to be the dominant one. I'm sure you don't hate your boyfriend. If you ... (read in full...)
Would I destroy our friendship if I 'came out' to her?
Q. i don't know how to ask this so i'll just go on with it. first, i'm a bisexual but the world doesn't know that (yet). second, there's this girl. we've been friends for two years now. to make the story short we "went out" last weekend. (whether it ...
A. 30 October 2007: well, I would talk to her about what would she do or feel if she had a m8 that was bi, look at her reaction and if she reacts in a bad way then ask why she would react in such a way. But if she gets suspicious or annoyed then stop.
If she says she ... (read in full...)
They're all calling me fat but I know I'm not. How can I get this through to them?
Q. My mother is constantly calling me fat, and her and her friends have a nickname for me 'fatso'. Im 140lbs and 5'7'', and her constant putting down of my weight and bodyshape is really annoying me. When she was my age she had a very kate moss ...
A. 30 October 2007: no offence but your mum is mean. you shouldn't deserve to be treated like that! My mum says that sometimes to me, and so does my family, and yes it does hurt a hell of a lot, but I push it aside because i'm happy with how I am, and I know I'm not ... (read in full...)
My husband watches gay porn and doesn't know that I know. Is he gay???
Q. my husband watches gay porn and hides a dildo from me. we have been married 4 years and we have 2 kids. this has been happening off and on for 5 years. he does't know that i know about it. is he gay or bi? what should i do? i just moved across the ...
A. 29 October 2007: confront him about it, maybe he is trying to broaden his horizons, it doesn't nessecerily mean that he is gay or bi. If he is bi, then it shouldn't matter, as long as he loves you, then that's all should matter ... (read in full...)
I love her with all my heart...i just wish id met her later in life.
Q. Okay, here's the situation, folks. I'm in a committed relationship with a woman I love. We're both in our late 20's, we've dated for nearly a year and we've just moved in together. My girlfriend really is my best friend and she's the closest thing ...
A. 29 October 2007: tell her how you felt about her, actually tell her you DO want to spend the rest of your life with her etc etc, but also explain about your past and you just want to experiance it and if she's not comfortable with it, then maybe she really isn't ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate at age 13?
Q. I am 13 and I look at porn and masturbate. I have this urge to have sex, but know I shouldn't in case I regret it later. Do you think it's wrong to look at porn and masturbate?...
A. 29 October 2007: im 13 and i felt exactly how u feel now. iv had urges to have sex but i stopped it because we're 13! looking at porn isnt bad, it's normal at this age. it's not going to hurt!... (read in full...)
How do I achieve a g spot orgasm?
Q. how do i acheive an orgasm through g spot i can climax through clitorol...
A. 29 October 2007: a G Spot should give you an orgasm almost straight away. You just have to explore. ... (read in full...)
We have been having sex for 3 months but she is still tight. How can we loosen her up?
Q. Hi me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and we started having sex three months ago and for sum reason she is as tight as the first time we did it any advice on how to 'loosen her up' cheers...
A. 29 October 2007: slow down, don't rush or maybe she still not ready no matter what she says. she might be trying to please you. Be gentle until she relaxes a bit more. Hope I've helped you. X ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend cheated and now I don't trust him?
Q. Hiyah, well this is probably gonna be reali confusin n long and you're all gonna think omg when you read it but its worth a go.. I'm 13 and I got with my bf in feb.. at the beginning everything was fine.. I trusted him round other girls and when ...
A. 29 October 2007: oK, i'm 13 and iv put myself in your shoes. gr8 txt lingo btw! lol. ok, well 1st i wld say tht hes not worth it, if YOU dont feel comfortable about him being with other irls, then the chances are that he will cheat on you. Ask him again, looki him ... (read in full...)
I like her, she has a boyfriend, what should I do?
Q. I have known this girl for about two years but only about 2 months ago i realised that i really liked her. a few weeks ago i gathered up the courage to ask her out but to my huge disappointment, her reply was "sorry i have a boyfriend but i like you ...
A. 29 October 2007: Ok, I'm a female, and I would like to say that I have been in your situation before, only it was a boy I liked but he had a girlfriend. What I did, I let him know that I liked him, and he was ok with that. But I didn't make a move on him, because ... (read in full...)
He's trying it on with me but he's got a 7 months pregnant girlfriend!
Q. I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i got an email f...
A. 29 October 2007: Ok, first of all, I just want to say that you shouldn't have done all those things with him in the first place. But I can partly understand why you did it. I once cheated because I had strong feelings for the boy I had an affair with. It lasted two ... (read in full...)
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