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I can draw air into my vagina and make farting sounds...is this abnormal ? I'm scared it might make me infertile.

Q.   this is going to be the most embarrasing question i have ever asked, and i am way to embarrased to go to a clinic or even my GP. ever since i was about 9 i could make 'farting noises' out of my vagina. At the start it was only tiny ones that s...

A.   31 October 2008: that's really normal :) it just depends on your body shape and muscles and so on I get this unintentionally while working out at the gym hehe kinda embarassing eh no it doesnt cause infertility and it's nothing to be ashamed of just dont show off to ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant or is my waterfall playing tricks on me?

Q.   Im about 3-5 days late. I've been having mild cramps, mild headaches, mild backaches and my nipples are tender. On and off. But my friend told me that when you are pregnant your cervics get hard. This is kinda gross but i stuck my finger inside ...

A.   31 October 2008: rockhard could just be poop in the rectum (not to be gross but that's what it sounds like) unless you're an ob-gym i doubt you can feel cervix changes. tender nipples are usually a sign but yeah maybe start taking vitamins and wait to see?... (read in full...)

Does this make me a lesbian?

Q.   This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. ...

A.   31 October 2008: I think it's cause you watched it with him and unconsciously you realized he would really like that and you would really like being so freaking hot for him and him being so turned on for you and so the lesbian thing tied in there, you vizualized ... (read in full...)

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

Q.   ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

A.   31 October 2008: individual councilling and no more talking about the ex-s if he mentions it let him drop and tell him you have no idea what he's talking about, you're in a relationship with HIM and if he wants to talk to your ex he's going to have to figure that ... (read in full...)

The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

Q.   The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he ...

A.   31 October 2008: call it off you don't need a guy who needs to be explained how he feels you need kids for that!!!! imagine a guy who was passionate about you and really wanted you that's what you need don't be afraid of real men and compensate with loosers who will ... (read in full...)

What clothes would look good on me?

Q.   this isnt a question that usually appears on here, but, i have no idea what clothes i should wear to suit my body. i have; broad/big shoulders (so i cant wear puffball sleeves) a small neck (and look ridiculous in polar-necks) quite long l...

A.   31 October 2008: same here, V-necks that are not very plunged work as do layering, hoodies and so on, nice dress shirts and don't worry bout the shoulders I do but apparently everyone else thinks not lol and look up mermaid or fluted denim skrts they are so hot ... (read in full...)

Why should I live my life virtually alone while my husband spends most of his spare time with his friend?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for 2 1/2 years. We have a 6 yr old, a 2 yr old, and a 2 month old baby. I am an at home mom also trying to help out with the business my husband just started. I have been having a problem lately with my husband ...

A.   31 October 2008: I'm assuming he;s not doing anything sexual there and that he is really at a guys house,. Now find stuff to do on your own and if htat so happens to clash with his business so be it let him know that you need leadership from him and that a business ... (read in full...)

How long before we can dispense with the condoms?

Q.   Just a quick question. I'm about to start taking birth control for the first time. I'm 20 years old and up until now haven't taken it due to a leiden deficiency (which makes my blood thicker than a normal person's), but my doctor and I have found...

A.   31 October 2008: yes the thing is a) he's your bf not husband and b) if you get pregnant then what? ok so maybe 1 abortion then you get pregnant again? will you keep it up? maybe it's time for marriage and thinking about wanting a baby if it so happens...... (read in full...)

Is it ever too early to have sex?

Q.   i need help.. i have a new boyfriend. we've been together for about 2 weeks now. we're both not virgins. we hang out a lot and it's kinda tempting to have sex. i mean we just get in the moment. we've almost done it twice but i made it stop before it ...

A.   31 October 2008: forget getting pregnant yes yes yes trust me it's not worth it and while i think you would enjoy it and he too it's more about where you see yourself in 5 years if you guys are thinking marriage go for it get married, just need some witnesses and ... (read in full...)

My husband wants to make a sex tape!

Q.   My husband (for 3 years) wants us to make a sex tape for his birthday (hes turning 28). We have no kids yet (we're still talking about it). I told him to dream on. I dont want to get out and then everyone will i'm a slut. He promise he'll get a safe ...

A.   31 October 2008: tell him you can start with sex in front of mirrors and then maybe just pics?... (read in full...)

How do I attract him?

Q.   Im 19 and im guessing he's like 22 or 23. I dont really talk to him in class, but he always looks at me and he for sure knows my name because he gave me my quiz back without me telling him my name while everyone else did. I want to show him im ...

A.   31 October 2008: can you add him to facebook? great way is to forget something in his class or pretend you did and then email him feeling really sorry to bother him but did he saw your calculator/ backpack etc cause you forgot it there. if you're feeling really f... (read in full...)

Should I get him a gift in return for his good advice?

Q.   I've recently become FWB with a co-worker (we work in separate departments). He gave me some advice regarding an accident I was in, and as a result I've come into some money (over $800), which will really help me out with some bills, altho he says I ...

A.   31 October 2008: i think so... (read in full...)

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