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My ex is back in my life...is it possible to try again?
Q. Hoping that someone can give me some advice here. My ex and I broke up two years ago as he moved back to his home city and I did not go as I could not relocate with him. I was pretty gutted for awhile as we had been together for ten years but I am ...
A. 1 July 2007: I personally have been in this situation more than once and I can safely say from my own experience and that of others second chances dont usually work. youve already pointed out the flaws in getting back together with him in your question. ... (read in full...)
He cut me during sex, now I've got a discharge--any advice?
Q. I've got a weird question here.. My boyfriend fingered me and cut me inside (we got a bit carried away) and well, when he took his fingers out (2) there was blood on them.. So later that night when he had gone home I went for a wee and it bur...
A. 1 July 2007: quite possibly is thrush, if youve had the infection there to start with laid dormant and it has got into your cut and thus into your system it is most likely an infection, however im not a doctor and none of us on here are so I suggest that you go ... (read in full...)
Jealousy, physical fights...will he ever change?
Q. I,ve recently split with my partner again for the 4th time. I gave up my job and friends 4 him he promised he change, we've had loads of physical fights cause of his jealousy now he's promising yet again he change. I've heared it all b4 but this ...
A. 27 May 2007: Unfortunatley I agree. These type of violent people always promise to change, it lasts a few weeks and you get in the security that he has changed and then it goes back to square one and you are left feeling like you wasted your time. You obviously ... (read in full...)
Should girls ask guys out on a date?
Q. Is it all right for a girl to ask a guy out, or is it only supposed to be the guys who do the asking?...
A. 27 May 2007: Yeah its fine for a girl to ask a guy. Infact minus one who asked me thats how Ive got all my boyfriends! Its equal status now on chasing and its not just boys who do the running anymore! Good luck... (read in full...)
I feel used! Had sex with me but wants to date other females! what's wrong with me?
Q. i have slept with one of my mates from uni four times and have fallen for him. i thought he liked me because all the signs were there but he kissed someone infront of me the other night and keeps saying things like "i could shag her" (about other ...
A. 27 May 2007: Unfortunatley Men see sex as a lot different to women in this type of instance. He has seen it as pure sex and you have seen it as a lead up to a relationship. Hes walked away thinking your in his mindset and youve walked away thinking hes in yours ... (read in full...)
My ex is seeing someone else! Why do I feel so gutted?
Q. I split up with my lover a while back because we had issues that couldn't be resolved,we were together 3 years and it was me who decided to end it.Anyway i found out that he has been seeing someone else and for some reason i felt gutted and very ...
A. 27 May 2007: I agree with DV1 I have been in a similar situation a few months back. I split up with my ex because his emotional problems were bringing me down. I did it with a heavy heart because I did genuinely love this guy but it wasnt working. A few months ... (read in full...)
Guy at work admits he likes me but won't me as he doesn't date co-workers. What can I do?
Q. I have been going out with some guys from work once a week for a month or two now, a big group of us go, but I have two particular friends who I always thought were gay, who I'm closer to than the rest. The first is most definitely gay, however ...
A. 4 February 2007: We are both only weekend staff, as we are students, hes doing a degree moved here from another place, im starting a degree at the end of this year so the chances of us staying in the same work place for a decent time are minimal... (read in full...)
I got angry and told him to leave me alone! Now I'm regretful and want to say how sorry I am...what should I do?
Q. my boyfriend and I broke up almost 3 months ago now, we were together 8 months, we talked about the future a lot but then we seemed to suddenly not be able to communicate anymore. ive found these 3 months so difficult because i cant understand why i ...
A. 4 February 2007: unfortunately, I made the mistake of contacting my ex after we split. Under similar circumstances to how yours end. We got back together, and it just happened again. As heartbreaking as it is to just sit back and let him go it is probably the best ... (read in full...)
What is the 'average' size??
Q. I'm worried that my penis is too small and just wanted some advice on the average size???...
A. 4 February 2007: Theres no such thing as the right size, if I remember right its about 6 inches when erect, but this varies greatly, and most women arent going to be bothered how big it is.... (read in full...)
We broke up-so how do I stop texting him and staring at my phone?
Q. My partner of 2 years has just ended our relationship due to us arguing, he says he still loves me and always will but has made the right decision, how do I start again, why do I feel so bad and how do I stop myself from texting him or staring at my ...
A. 3 February 2007: Ive been through this recently, and it seems to be with men you are better off leaving them be. If he wants you back and misses you he will come running. You start texting and begging you will only end up feeling very bad about yourself. Ive found ... (read in full...)
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