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heya i'm beth i live in cardiff in a village called danescourt i live with me mum sis and my lil dog alfie i loves to hang out with me m8s and getting hammered and just really haveing a gd time and a good laugh with my m8s i am single and enjoying the hell outta my life.

Bf and I split a month ago...is it too soon to date again?

Q.   I need some help my ex boyfriend finished with me about a month ago! And i was out last night and someone who i have liked for about 5 years kissed me and he give me his number and i give him mine! We are arrangeing to met again i really do like ...

A.   8 December 2006: a month too soon? pshh nah hunni its not too soon go for it you desver it hun he seems noce enough for u so let down ur hair and go for it... (read in full...)

While visiting him, he ignored me and spoke in Dutch to his friends!

Q.   while i was with my boyfriend in his country. everytime we were with someone he ignored me and spoke to his friends in dutch. sometimes even forgetting about me completely do you think he should of tried to speak to me a bit more? and sha...

A.   7 December 2006: hmmm well maybe i think hun that he is doing this for no reaosn he wants just too talk to his m8s but if u feel this way then maybe u should talk to him tll him how u feel talk it out wiv him and if he loves u then he will listen to u and thn maybe ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and scared to lose my virginity

Q.   I need some help, i'm 13 nd im scared ov losin my virginity. ...

A.   4 December 2006: woah woah no need to be thinking about that right now you got ages to go yet there hun so just chill relax hang out with your mates do waht 13 yr olds do :) and when the time comes and found somone who loves ya and cares about you then you'll be ... (read in full...)

In a love triangle and having a hard time choosing the right guy..what should I do?

Q.   Im in this huge love web right now and i dont know wut to do! this one really awsome guy "george" was going to ask me out, but this other guy got to me first. but me and that one guy broke up awhile ago, and i promised this other guy that i would...

A.   2 December 2006: well to be honest the kyle person seems liek the ideal guy for you and i think that geogre its hi loss hun if he ain't treatin u right then i think its time to leave and be with somone who will make u happy and spend time with u no matter what he is ... (read in full...)

I want to date her but she's only 15. Would it be wrong to start a non-sexual relationship with her?

Q.   I'm 18 and in High School, and the girl I like is a Sophmore. She's only 15. I've never been sexually active and don't plan to start with a girl this young, so in a non-sexual relationship, would it be wrong to date her?...

A.   2 December 2006: well i don't think it is wrong to date her if u don't have sex which is perfectly fine if u love her then go for it hun in a wya this relationship can be good for her as well as for you it will leave an impresssion on her gd luck... (read in full...)

We both said NO to any drugs..now I find out he's doing "ecstasy"! What can I do?

Q.   My long term boyfriend and I (6 years since the age of 15) have grown up together, but it has been easy as we have always shared the same morals and values. One of these values was a strictly anti drugs stance. When our friends first started on ...

A.   1 December 2006: ell i think you should talk to hin and tell him how u feel about this all drug thing talkin it out might help him see what he is doin is wrong and he is upsettin u by doin this ad if he does love u he will stop just for u ... (read in full...)

is masturbattion without retracting the foreskin normal?

Q.   is it normal for a man to masturbate without retracting his foreskin?...

A.   1 December 2006: well it doesn't sound odd for me and i'm sure nobody elsed for that matter if u like it then go ahead ist ur way of masterbaution and that if u like that way then npz at all u go and pleasure urself if thats how u like doin it then thats th way u do ... (read in full...)

What are the signs if someone loves you?

Q.   Hello I am 12 and I really want to know how you know if somebody loves you. What are the signs? ...

A.   1 December 2006: well basically i'm not getting much to go on here but i'm srt of guessing somone told u they love you and u ave no idea if u like them them same way would be nice if i could get a bit more information noe this problem but all i can say for now is ... (read in full...)

I dream of a mysterious male figure kissing and touching me. Is it just hormones or what?

Q.   i am only 15 years old i always and dream stuff about me getting kissed, touched etc stuff like that by a mysterious figure figure of a male. people tell me its just hormones, but i enjoy it. i need to know what is going on? and why do i dream of ...

A.   1 December 2006: relax hun ur just goin through what normal teenagers go through i've had plenty of them we all had sme ertioc dreams now and then but i all part of the natural course ther awesome to have so dw about them hun enjoy them ... (read in full...)

He forgave me after the first cheat...now I did it again! Should I tell him before we get married in 2 weeks?

Q.   I have been with my fiance for three years and about a year and half ago i cheated on him...i told him and he forgave me. he recently left to the army and i cheated again! not because i dont want him, because i love him. i just made the worst ...

A.   1 December 2006: well to be honest hun i think that you should tell him and be honest i'm sure that if he loves you he will forgive you againand he won't wanna leave ya as long as he loves you and you be hinest with him then all should forgotten and forgiven... (read in full...)

I hate the rumors at school that I'm dating this guy, which I'm not! How do I stop this?

Q.   Thers stupid rumours in my school about me n im sick of them! yesterday at school everything was fine and this morning i heard this boy fancies me and now everyone thinks were going out its really annoying all day people kept on asking "are you ...

A.   1 December 2006: well let's just say i've been where you it can get to you but as long as u don't show i don't bother u and keep your head up and keep posative and get on with your work then no one will bother you well maybe now on then but then your used to it so ... (read in full...)

I'm cruel to animals and am genuinely seeking help. Please help me.

Q.   I hate myself for this, and you're going to hate me too, but I need help so I'm posting it anyway. I own a cat and a dog, and sometimes I'm just evil towards them. I don't know why I do it, and every time a get a new pet I promise myself that I'll ...

A.   1 December 2006: well first let me say welldone for having the courage to admit that i'd say just get some more counceilng for your sake and your pets sake and try not to get any more pets i the meantime just try and clear this problem and if you can't cope then ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and my BF is moving across country and has asked me to go with him! What do I do?

Q.   I am 17 and i am with a boy that is 18, in january he is 19 and he is moving away, i have been with him for just over a month so far and we are so happy together, we spend as much time as possible together. He asked me to move and live with him when ...

A.   30 November 2006: you do have a pretty bi dission on your hands there well m only advice is that i say which has helped alot of my m8s is follow your heart ... (read in full...)

Why am I still single?

Q.   why am i still single? ...

A.   30 November 2006: well hun there is no need to worry about that it takes a times to find the guy your looking for but for now just have some fun once in a while let your hair down go wild its good to have a bit of fun once in a while and then soon enough you'll find ... (read in full...)

The guy I like...ignores me when he is with his friend! What can I do?

Q.   i am in love with this lad but ever since he has been hanging round with another lad that i have known all my life he has been ignoring me hurting my feelings, he never has time for me am scared cause i dont want to lose him help me please :( tell ...

A.   30 November 2006: well i think that if he ignores you liek that then he's not worth it hun to be honest with ya and maybe he is doing this just to be cool like all the others guys like to do but i think he has blown it if he does that anymore to you try talking to ... (read in full...)

Why won't he orgasm when I give him a bj?

Q.   I have tried giving my boyfriend oral and I know I am very good at this, But I want to know why he wont cum. I know he enjoys but it's upsetting me he always seems to worry more about my orgasm that his own what am I doing wrong?? Please Help I feel ...

A.   30 November 2006: your not in the wrong hun don't be upest about it its just it's a possiblity that he doesn't want to come before you but think of it in this way when he does give you somthing and he gets all excited about it and then i would think maybe after you ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 - is it legal for my 18 year old partner and I to have sex?

Q.   Im 15 years old and currently dating a 18 year old is this legal if we dont have sex?...

A.   30 November 2006: well even though its illegal to have sex beacuse of the age limit but if u do decided to do it wear protection and i wish you the best with ur decsion xxx... (read in full...)

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