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I'm an Austinite who is interested in how people tick. I've graduated from college and just trying to send people advice who are going through tough situations. Isn't it funny you can have all the answers, but when you put yourself in the same exact situation you become dumbfounded?

How to stop arguing and save our family?

Q.   I have been with the same amazing man for almost 18 months now and engaged for almost 16 of the months. We have a 6 month old daughter and just got our own place in a new state. We have been in this new house for almost 3 months, but we have been ...

A.   13 December 2010: My question would be what are you arguing about? Sometimes, you can argue about senseless things for no reason. One of you could be experiencing the wedding jitters. Try to work through this esp. if you plan on getting married this month. THe ... (read in full...)

He said it is only me that has to change!

Q.   A couple days ago, I opened up again to my husband how his relationship with this female coworker makes me uncomfortable. He always says that I'm just jealous maybe a little bit but that's not the whole story. He txt or chat with this girl more than ...

A.   7 December 2010: When some one says that you need to change-you definitely need to reconsider your relationship. It doesn't sound like a good situation, especially if you are trying to rebuild your self-esteem and confidence. It takes two to tango, and if he do... (read in full...)

Am I paranoid or is my wife cheating on me?

Q.   Hello, I am trying to figure out if I am paranoid or if my wife might be cheating on me. We have been married 12 years and have two young children. We recently relocated for her job and I quit mine to stay home with the children. She has lost a...

A.   30 November 2010: You should just ask her. Be direct and safe yourself from all the crazy thoughts. By her reaction, you will know if she is being truthful. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend with stress issues !

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for over a year , and just recently he has been having depression and stress issues. his mom had to take him out of his private school cause she couldn't afford it anymore and he hasn't been in a school for a few weeks ...

A.   29 November 2010: It sounds like your boyfriend is dealing with a lot and right now he may not want a relationship. If he is giving you mixed signals, move on.....Sometimes its the best thing you can do for yourself. He sounds like he is playing games with you. ... (read in full...)

I tricked my boyfriend into meeting up by pretending to be someone else

Q.   Found bf of 2 yrs on ashley madison which he then deleted Later found him onb aff and I set up fake I'd and messaged him He finally responded and we shared some detail emails basicallt About sex. After an invitation to meet and very detail of ...

A.   29 November 2010: I completely agree with dirtball--He didn't know it was you because if he did, he would have brought you something nice...... Trust your instincts and kick him to the curb-Darle la bota......... (read in full...)

I pressured him into leaving his wife for me and now I havent heard from him in 2 weeks!

Q.   i just broken up with my ex bf for 5yrs.then i met a man who made me happy.im at first we met on friendster and said he was single.he lied..he is married. We are madly in love with each other.he told me that he will divorce his wife. I pressured him ...

A.   29 November 2010: Don't let people bully you into thinking about you destroying a marriage--if it wasn't you, then it would have been someone else. Just remember people like to point the finger and he doesn't sound trust worthy. If he hasn't contacted you in two ... (read in full...)

How do you get past the hurt after being cheated on?

Q.   For all those who have been cheated on, how do you get passed the hurt and get on with life again? I feel so empty and I can't seem to find a way forward. After having been with my husband since I was 19 (now 31), I feel so lost. I don't even ...

A.   29 November 2010: Know that you are a strong individual, even if you might not realize it. You will have your good days and bad, but eventually, you will move on. The beauty of that scenario is that you have to. You are still a vibrant person full of life and... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore

Q.   My partner of 4 and half years wants to end our relationship, he says he doesnt love me. He is still very affectionate and touching and intimate with me. HOw can he be like this if he doesnt love me. We never fight and we get along well, he did ...

A.   29 November 2010: Girl, MOVE ON!!! It sounds like he is stringing you along--and why not if can get what he wants in the end. If he really loved you, he never would have told you that he doesn't-Be STRONG and be the one to end the relationship and find someone else ... (read in full...)

How do I reconnect with a girl after three years?

Q.   Sort of a wierd question. I went out with a girl when I was about 14, I had met her on holiday and it turned out we lived close to each other. However, we broke up after a week or so haha, because we were young and immature and we never really...

A.   29 November 2010: If you are really interested in this person, then you should wait until she decides she is ready for another relationship. The last thing you want to become is a rebound. It doesn't matter what circle of friends you both have, if she is ... (read in full...)

Was it wrong of me to enjoy this sexual experience with my cousin?

Q.   Here is the story: I went out of town to visit my aunt for Thanksgiving. I haven't seen my cousins for over five years. My aunt, who is my mother's half sister (BTW), had 10 kids--So I have a lot of cousins. This cousin in particular is the one ...

A.   29 November 2010: Thank you for your different responses! They have helped in analyzing the situation.... (read in full...)

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