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| | LJ001's profile:Well I'm still pretty young, but you shouldn't rule me out because of my age. Experience is essential if you're giving someone advice, but looking at some of the things young people experience these days..
I'm a great believer in fate, and I want to go into psychology. I'm a christian and I'd like to think that the way I deal with things is good in the eyes of God, but I'm far from innocent to be honest! I make mistakes like everyone else and do some pretty stupid stuff.
I'm currently in a long term relationship with a wonderful guy. Although we have our hard times, I've realised that we have so many more good times together. Why waste the love we have? And as it once said in a favourite movie of mine, "I'd rather fight with you than make love to anyone else".
I'm full of life and love to make people happy. To make someone smile or help them in any way really brightens up my day. That's why I'm here really :] If you ever need a chat or advice, just message me and I'll do the best I can.
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| Latest articles: ''Crabit Old Woman''
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10 March 2008: "Crabbit Old Woman" What do you see, what do you see? Are you thinking, when you look at me- A crabbit old woman, not very wise, Uncertain of habit, with far-away eyes, Who dribbles her food and makes no reply When you say in a loud...
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10 March 2008: When the world out there seems to be full of happily loved-up couples and long marriages, it's easy to fall into the trap of relying on your 'other half'. But have you ever considered what happens when your happy relationship crumbles beyond r...
Have you ever...
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26 February 2008: Have you ever loved someone so much, that you could never be with them, but couldn't be without them? It's one of the most heart-breaking feelings in the entire world... Right now, I'm feeling just like that. I'm in a 'kind of' relationship with an ...
Sex education in schools...we need to know more of the basics.
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21 February 2008: It's really strange, how I noticed when I went to school, they always tip-toe around the idea of sex and reproduction in general. The education system seems to be under the impression that the less teachers talk about it, the less we know, the less ...
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If anyone could help me please, does he like me?
Q. i was just wondering, if anyone could help me, plz! theres this guy i like...we've become very close friends...and i am now friends(and close) with his friends because of him, and now they text message me! But he doesn't! I mean all of his friends ...
A. 13 May 2008: Maybe he's just not a big texter, or doesn't want a commitment just yet. Sometimes guys just want their space, like everyone, so he could just be one of these guys that wants his own time to come to grips with how he's feeling. But if you're close ... (read in full...)
Does taking Plan B reduce the chance of getting pregnant?
Q. I let my bf come in me so many times. But I've taken PLAN B so many times. and now we are 22 and ready for a child. but its not happening. Does taking Plan B a lot reduce the chance of getting pregnant..? ...
A. 13 May 2008: You're not getting pregnant because you're a guy.
Period.... (read in full...)
Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?
Q. Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...
A. 13 May 2008: Honey you're still dead young so your hormones probably haven't really kicked in yet, don't worry! If you don't want sex particularly even when you have hit puberty, then I'm sure there are guys out there. But at your current age, definitely don't ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to like getting spanked?
Q. i like to be spanked during sex. whats wrong with me?...
A. 13 May 2008: It's not wrong! Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. Everyone has different things they like in bed, and this is obviously just one of yours. I don't mind being spanked either ;]... (read in full...)
I don't love her as much, what should I do?
Q. What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...
A. 12 May 2008: Gently break it off as soon as you can, because otherwise she'll find out and be upset you basically lied to her, saying 'I love you' all that time. But be GENTLE, and insist that you still like her a lot and want to be friends. Be there for her, ... (read in full...)
I love my Science teacher!
Q. Hey everyone!! I really need your help!! I'm 12 years old and my science teacher is 27(15 year age gap)and i LOVE him but the problem is he's got a girlfriend and i'm not sure if he's engaged.Anyway i've been in love with him for the last 9 ...
A. 12 May 2008: Honey, telling him will only cause problems. I know you're hurting and I know it's hard, a lot of girls have been in your position. Seriously! But you can't tell him because this will cause only more unnecessary aawkwardness between the two of you, ... (read in full...)
I'm shy about my underarm hair!
Q. hi iam ------- i need help when my friends go swimming i feel shy getting my clothes off i think theyll make fun off me im the only one who has under arm hair they are all normal what should i do?????...
A. 12 May 2008: Be proud, don't be ashamed of it. This is a sign you're hitting puberty and they're still little kids. You're becoming a man :]... (read in full...)
Masturbation. Can anybody confirm my fears, or is it all just a big lie?
Q. Hi. I'm a little concerned. People say that you can Masturbate as often as you want and it's not a problem. But I heard about a condition you can get if you do it too often. I forget the name of it, but all I know is I don't want to get it. Recently...
A. 12 May 2008: No honey, I think it's just a big lie. But if you're masturbating to porn, then this can actually harm you as it can make it really hard to get erect when faced with a real girl, so to speak, rather than these commercial unreal girls.... (read in full...)
Is 17 too young to know you have found "the one"?
Q. Ok I know what everyone is going to say when I ask this question but is 17 to young to find the one? Me and my boyfreind are very matture then most other couple and so happy, everyday just keeps getting better with him , so what im asking is can it ...
A. 12 May 2008: I believe love can happen at any time in your life, never mind how young or old you are. Of course it's not too young for him to be 'the one', but make sure your heart doesn't get broken honey. Attachment can lead to pain.... (read in full...)
My dad says TV rots your brain, what do you think?
Q. My Dad says T.V rots your brain, what do you think?...
A. 12 May 2008: Well if you watch too much or just watch rubbish, then I guess it's kinda bad for you. But as long as you don't rely on it for your evening entertainment, then I'm sure it's fine.... (read in full...)
Is a 4" penis sufficient?
Q. I am with 4" penis is it sufficient for sex?...
A. 12 May 2008: Of course honey. Practically any size penis is 'sufficient' for sex, because it's not really the penis pleasuring it her - girls generally orgasm through fingering, rubbing her clitoris, oral etc. and not particularly intercourse.... (read in full...)
Which of the four should I choose?
Q. Okay so this boy loves me, well says he loves me, and he's also my ex. This other boy says he misses me and stuff, which is another ex, and this other kid always says he loves me but we're really close and we hangout alot, and then there's this ...
A. 12 May 2008: None. If you have no particular strong feelings towards any, then just don't bother.... (read in full...)
He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant
Q. Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...
A. 12 May 2008: Honey, to be quite honest, he sounds big headed and immature. He's telling you all these girls he's had sex with, and he's only 14? He actually thinks he's some sort of anti-pregnancy drug? Is he a complete idiot!?!?!... (read in full...)
We've done nothing but fight for the last few months, should we still go on our anniversary trip to Rome?
Q. Hey, I don`t know what to do! My girlfriend of one year and myself have done nothing but fight for the last few months. When it`s good it`s great but I am just so unhappy about us clashing all the time. My heart is telling me to just give up. I`m ...
A. 12 May 2008: Go honey! Come on, you never know, this could make a big difference to your relationship, a good one! When people go on holiday, they're often in good moods because of the weather and general scene. It brightens people's mood up, just feeling away ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if she like me without letting on I like her?
Q. goin shoppin next week with my friend who I think I like. First time we goin alone jus for a few things anythin I cud do to test her if she likes me without giving the teeniest hint I do? Cud I buy her a meal? Cofee? Nythin?...
A. 12 May 2008: Um, in comment to the last post.. A necklace might be a bit much.. he wants hardly any hints, and a necklace pretty much gives his game away.
But yeah, if you guys go into a cafe or coffee shop, buy whatever she orders. Keep flirting secretly - lots... (read in full...)
Is 21 too young to know if you've found 'The One'?
Q. is 21 too young to know if you have found "the one"? I spent my whole life thinking I didn't believe in marriage, or I didnt want kids. Now I have been in the most amazing relationship for a year and a half and that has all changed. I don't want ...
A. 12 May 2008: Love can happen at any time during your life, so no, I don't believe 21 is too young. How could you be too young for real love? You can't.... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer curves?
Q. Hey everyone I was wondering if some guy could please explain to me why do they prefer curves over thin girls?? I have got curves and sometimes worride that guys wont find me attractive...What kinda chicks do guys really like? ...
A. 12 May 2008: happytochat is totally right. Every guy is totally different, some prefer bigger breasts, some prefer smaller ones. Some prefer nice big asses, some would rather it was just flat. But from experience, I think guys would prefer their girls to be a ... (read in full...)
Can someone please tell me how to trust my boyfriend? He's cheated in the past.
Q. I have really bad trust issuses with my boyfreind, the problem is he has never done anything to betray my trust. My ex boyfreind cheated on me so much and i never found out till we had broken up...Im jsut worride my boyfreind is doing the same. Even ...
A. 12 May 2008: Honey, your ex boyfriend cheated on you, and that's not nice, but it's all in the past now. He was a different time period. He was a different guy. These guys don't have anything in common! So you've got to get this established in your head, even ... (read in full...)
Why are westeners so prejudice, ignorant Bible lovers?
Q. I grew up in one of the biggest cities in North America. I’ve accepted baseball and McDonalds, but what I can't accept are there BS " morals ". Whenever it comes to love, sex or any other issue people turn to the book of lies, distortion and gene...
A. 11 May 2008: Open your mind, flipping heck. It's called religion. It's called having your own beliefs and opinions.
If you don't believe the bible, then join the rest of the people that feel the same, and don't go around insulting christians and ster... (read in full...)
Penis Length Question
Q. is my penis normal it about 7"long...
A. 10 May 2008: I was doing double takes at the last post!... (read in full...)
Does anyone else mind their boyfriend having porn?
Q. am i the only girl who doesnt mind her boyfriend looking at and having porn?...
A. 10 May 2008: The ever-going arguement.. Porn or no porn? Noel Edmonds' next new show.
Personally, although I can understand why guys would find it a big turn on, why wouldn't they want to save themselves all for their girlfriend or wife? But a great alte... (read in full...)
Are teenage girls so worried about pubic hair?
Q. Hello I was talking to my girlfriend about "stuff" yesterday and turns out that herself and most of her friends are all a little worried about how their pubes look, like how they shave them or how they don't shave them. Can any other women ...
A. 10 May 2008: Yeah I think a lot of teenage girls do, and older girls too. I mean, it's just started growing there so it's basically a new thing (for early teens) and as so much porn out there shows shaved pubic hair, this confuses us as to whether this is really ... (read in full...)
Please clarify 'doggy style' for an argument's sake, thank you.
Q. Okay, so my friend and i are arguing over who is right on this one, please help... While doing it doggy style, does the guy go in the girls vagina or her butt hole? Thank you!!...
A. 10 May 2008: It can be either! :]... (read in full...)
Do ultra thin condoms make you more sensitive? I'm a virgin.
Q. im a virgin that is about to start having sex. the condoms i have are ultra thin. i know that im not going to last very long on our first time but will these condoms make me cum even quicker than i would with a regular condom?...
A. 9 May 2008: Yeah honey they will, because they'll increase the sensitivity down there, compared to thicker ones.
I'd recommend maybe getting durex thicker condoms, as I wouldn't completely trust the thin ones, unless you are sure they are a decent brand. It c... (read in full...)
My poem entitled...'Nothing Seems Right'.
Q. nothing seems right not the brightness of the morn nor the darkness of night no one can see my plight as i sit here with simply no delight because nothing seems right no one can see your light they mock they snigger with nothing ...
A. 9 May 2008: Ah michael, another great work of art :]... (read in full...)
I watch lesbian porn and masturbate. I hate myself. Is this normal?
Q. hi im 13 year old female and just recently started masturbating but i use a hairbrush and masturbate watching lesbian porn i no it sounds discusting and i want to stop because afterwards i feel so dirrty and hate myself for doing in i...
A. 9 May 2008: Yes! Your hormones will be all over the place and this is your own way of experimenting and finding out what works best for you. Don't worry about this, it's natural. Honestly.... (read in full...)
Why don't I have an orgasm when I have sex with my partner?
Q. hi, i just want to ask why i did'nt feel orgasm every time i had sex with my partner? my partner is good in sex i know it. he always ask me if im finished i said not yet,if i feel that he can no longer to wait for my orgasm, im just pretending and ...
A. 9 May 2008: Honey this is just all natural, I don't think you're getting enough clitoral stimulation and this is why you are not orgasming. Have a bit more foreplay, or masturbate while he has sex wih you.... (read in full...)
Don't be Embarrassed!
Q. There is absolutely no need to be embarrassed during sex! It doesn't matter who you are, there will always be at least one sexual experience that leaves you slapping your forehead years down the road and thinking "what did I do?". The wonderful ...
A. 9 May 2008: Great article, a seal haha :] I think the most embarrassing thing I did was when I was first experimenting with blow jobs, I actually blew.. Oh my word I don't even want to think about it, it was horrific when I found out I wasn't supposed to blow..... (read in full...)
My girlfriend bleeds everytime we have sex, is it unusual?
Q. Most girls I've had sex with haven't bled during/afterwords, unless they were virgin's or hadn't had sex in quite a while, but my girlfriend at the moment, she bleeds EVERY TIME we have sex? is this unusual?...
A. 9 May 2008: Yes, this is unusual and shouldn't be happening. I recommend you go to the doctor, because it could be something serious.... (read in full...)
Suggestions about new positions?
Q. okay i love being on top and missonary just as much as everyone else... but could someone please give me new postions that will keep me on my toes?!??!??!...
A. 8 May 2008: Doggy style? 69 can be amazing, although it's not actually sex, it's oral. There's plenty of great books out there that can suggest some great positions.... (read in full...)
I'm worried boys will be put off by my ginger hair...
Q. hey im a ginger girl, 16. whenever i go out to town and places and meet boys im always worried that boys will be put off by my ginger hair. I don't know if its just me being wierd or weather boys don't actually like ginger hair. What do you think...
A. 8 May 2008: Well I've got a good friend with ginger hair and I think it's lovely. She's never short of male attention! Boys will be more bothered about what you do with it and whether it looks a mess more than anything. So keep it nice and tidy (unless messy is ... (read in full...)
What's the best first-time sex position?
Q. what is the best sex possition for first time sex and what gives the most pleasure? what is the best things to do before inserting my penis into my girlfriends virgina?...
A. 8 May 2008: Haha 'borbav' gave a good point.
But missionary is probably the best position. This is where she lies on her back with her legs spread, and you are on top of her, thrusting. Remember, lots of foreplay before hand eg. oral, kissing, cuddling, fing... (read in full...)
What does "Be Yourself" really mean?
Q. Can anyone really define "BE YOURSELF" properly, so we all know what it means? People use this expression all the time, yet it does not parse in an intelligible way. If I were to "be myself", I would never leave my land, and spend most of my life ...
A. 8 May 2008: It means not copying anyone else, and staying true to yourself. Not putting on a front, not going along with anything you'd prefer not to - it's doing what you feel is best and not changing for anyone else.... (read in full...)
What do most women feel bout men going to strip clubs?
Q. Ive been in a relationship for 6 years and am now living with him. Last year he went travelling for a month in Europe and by accident i found a diary from when he was away saying that he'd been to a strip club and had two lap dances. One with one ...
A. 8 May 2008: Yeah, you've just got to ask him about it. But when it comes to what I feel about strip clubs.. Well I can totally understand why men would want to go, but not when they have a girlfriend that pleases them and they have a good relationship. You'd ... (read in full...)
Some of the do's and dont's for relationships...
Q. We've all have in been relationships and dates, some of which have ended in good terms and some of which have ended badly. And honestly, a relationship takes more than saying the three words, 'I love you.' Mostly the reasons for relationships last ...
A. 8 May 2008: Wow. Pretty good, you've made some good points there. For example, Number 5 - Compromise. I think a lot of people just give up instead of trying to work around problems. Every relationship is bound to have problems, and although it's unfortunate, ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is overwhelmed by life and is unsure of my love for her! What's best here, space?
Q. My g/f seems unsure of my love for her. Shes overwhelmed by life overall and me, and needs space(but not breaking up). What would be my best bet here? I don't want to give her too much time, I'm afraid that may lead her to think I really don't love ...
A. 8 May 2008: Lovely advice from PeterPan, I agree with him. Buy her a little meaningful gift (like he said, flowers and a card are always a good, traditional but loving gift) and give it to her right before you go away for a break or whatever. But let her know ... (read in full...)
Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.
Q. Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having ...
A. 7 May 2008: Or 'not a day goes by' by lonestar :] makes me cry every time, seriously, this is a beautiful song.... (read in full...)
Exam concentration tips?
Q. I'm so annoyed at the moment. I have exams and i cannot concentrate on revising at all... no matter how calm everything is around me, i can't make myself concentrate. It's annoying me so much as I know that i need to focus but I can't !! Has anyone ...
A. 7 May 2008: I'm actually in the middle of exams myself, and I feel its easiest if you put quiet music on in the background. Maybe get together with mates and help each other? Makes it a bit more fun.... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex. Should I be worried?
Q. ohkay. well me and this dude that ive been knowing for sometime have been havin sex together. we've became very close friends i guess you can say and our relationship is great but we arent together. well yesterday we had unprotected sex twice an...
A. 7 May 2008: I only read the title and I'm going to say yes, you should be worried. Unprotected sex is for people wanting to be parents.... (read in full...)
Can you catch diseases from lesbian love?
Q. hey i am bisexual and i have never had sex with a female..if i do then i was wondering if it transmits any sexual diseases..i am soory if my question is lame but i have no idea about the lesbian world...
A. 7 May 2008: Of course!... (read in full...)
Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.
Q. Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having ...
A. 7 May 2008: Boats and birds by 'Gregory and the Hawks' :]... (read in full...)
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