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How do I ask my girlfriend to shave her pubic area?

Q.   Hi there, as i've become more sexually active with my partner, i've wanted to try more and more different things with her. However, she is very hairy 'down south' and I really can't think of anyway I could ask her politely, to shave her pubic ...

A.   29 June 2008: Ummm that's a tough one. But you should be able to talk openly about these things. Telling a friend to tell her would NOT be the way!! Perhaps just have a talk with her telling her everything you want to do with her but your afraid that her hair ... (read in full...)

If he's a really nice guy in general and also the quiet type, how can I tell if he likes me?

Q.   Quick question how can you tell if a lad has feelings for you? Like if he's already your friend, well not close friend or anything but still. Of he's not the flirty type or anything. infact if he's really quiet? So how would you be able to tell if ...

A.   28 June 2008: Haha this feels like im looking back into the past. My current boyfriend used to be extremely shy and I tried so hard to find out if he liked me. Umm well its hard to tell if a shy guy likes you besides the glances in your direction..a way to tell ... (read in full...)

Dating this guy for 15 years and he's said..he'll never marry me! How do I move on?

Q.   i have been dating the same guy off and on for fifteen years. He often tells me that he's never going to marry me I want to move on but I don't know where to start. Can you give me some tips?...

A.   28 June 2008: He says he won't marry you but does he want to spend the rest of his life with you?? Marraige is great yes, but if you really love your boyfriend and have been with him so long do you really believe that a piece of paper is gonna change anything? ... (read in full...)

Will he come home or should I just move on?

Q.   My boyfriend left me almost 2 weeks ago. He moved out a lot of his stuff but left a lot too . He called me while I was out with a friend like crazy because one of his friends saw me out and told him he talked me into driving home. We talked briefly ...

A.   27 June 2008: Just move on dear. This guy is not worth it. He used for meaningless sex. I suggest you call him and set up a day for him to get all his stuff and have a trusted friend be there instead of you when he goes to retrieve his things. Insist on getting ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and I want to have sex with my boyfriend. How can I relax?

Q.   I am 24 years old and still a virgin. I have recently decided that i am ready to have sex with my long time boyfriend. We have tried once and I freaked out. I couldn't relax and kept moving my legs and hips! I am just so scared that it is going ...

A.   27 June 2008: Well be prepared that even if your boyfriend is gentle that it will hurt a bit. To relax I suggest to set the mood to be relaxing. Have a semi-dark room, scented candles, and have a drink or two of wine. Have your boyfriend give you a massage in ... (read in full...)

I don't hear from her now we've broken up, and it's bothering me.

Q.   I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's ...

A.   27 June 2008: I think she may be avoiding you for a bit while she gets over everything. It is most likely hard for her to talk to you so soon after you have broken up. Just give her some time, she will come around eventually, and hopefully you can be friends.... (read in full...)

My ex's new girlfriend is giving me grief, what do I do?

Q.   OK I wan to know how to deal with my ex and his new evil jealous girfriend. This girl have been writing blogs and say real rude thing to me.I at frist like ok i dont care i aint go say noting, but (this is was on myspace) i did put up on my hea...

A.   27 June 2008: Just let it go. You will seem like the better person and she will seem silly and idiotic. If you must let out something, make a bulletin talking about how pathetically jealous some people can be and how sad it is that they are so unhappy with ... (read in full...)

Am I supposed to just be a good mate to him? And how do I cope with my friends' comments?

Q.   Hi, This might sound a bit confusing by the time i've finished!!! I really like a guy whos in the same year as me at college and have done for over a year now!!! I started liking him as more than a friend when we started talking more last Apr...

A.   27 June 2008: If this boy really liked you then yes he would've left his girlfriend. It seems that apparently he likes the attention and is having fun flirting with you giving you all the wrong signals. I suggest that you tell him that you think his behavior is ... (read in full...)

Me and my girlfriend want to have sex, but we're unsure about some things.

Q.   I am 12 and me and my girlfriend want to have sex but we don't know were or when....

A.   27 June 2008: I know that you must be looking at all of our answers and thinking that we don't understand and that you are truly are ready for this and that you and your girlfriend really love each other and etc, but please hear us out. Having sex is a huge ... (read in full...)

My mum wont let me stay the night at my boyfriends!

Q.   how unfair is it to not let you'r 16 year old daughter stay at her boyfriends for one night? my mother wont trust me, even tho she was stayin over at my dads all the time when she was my age. she refuses me to stay over at my boyfriend. ho...

A.   27 June 2008: Yeah, your mother is most likely not allowing you to spend the night because she knows from experience what could happen or got very near to finding out. It may seem unfair, and you might not even have sex in mind, but when the moment presents ... (read in full...)

I want to use tampons for the first time and need some advice

Q.   I'm 13 and I really want to try using tampons. I've had my period for 1 year and a half and I'm ready to switch to tampons now. I find pads annoying. I'm going on a camping trip soon and by then it'll be my time of the month! I don't want to use ...

A.   27 June 2008: Ahhh tampons, a womans best friend. They do seem to be a little scary at first but trust me they aren't that bad, in fact they are wonderful. Lol. Well since it is your first time I suggest you buy tampons with a plastic applicator, I find them a ... (read in full...)

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