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Moving on. Is two montha long enough to wait before I start dating again?

Q.   I have just broke up from my girldfriend of 1 year, but to be honest the last 2 months I may as well have been single. The first few months went well, but then I started to get very judegmental about her past, and I was nasty to her about it and aske...

A.   9 July 2011: are you for sure over her??? If you know deep down in your heart you are ready you should move on trust me im in that kinda realtionsship right now he always brings up my past yes it hurts me but i love him with all my heart and i dont know wha... (read in full...)

I'm having sex with my best friend's married father who is 54!

Q.   Basically, i am having sex with my bestfriends dad. I am 25 and he is 54. He is still married and has been for 27 years. His wife is 58 and he says she dows not share the same sexual desire as he does. It all began 3 month ago when i stumbled...

A.   9 July 2011: im not trying to be mean but this is called home recking this man is married how would you feel if you were married to him and he wa doing this to you?? and if he is doing this to her what makes you think hes not going to do this to you?... (read in full...)

He is verbally abusive, how do I get him to change his behaviour?

Q.   Hi Whenever my bf gets angry i.e. like when i try to call him when he is at work or when he is busy, he verbally abuses me. He calls me names, if i have known that he is busy i would have never called him in the first place. We discussed a ...

A.   9 July 2011: hunny its the same with me i always have to apoligize dont do it if he is going to be like that with you he is not going to change he can say he is going to but hes not he can pull the sorry card as much as he wants do what you think is right in ... (read in full...)

I'm 7 months pregnant and my boyfriend is acting shady!

Q.   Today I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go out and get something to eat i wanted to go to the olive garden i had money and everything It was his day off today and I wanted to see if he wanted to do something instead of sitting around doin...

A.   12 March 2011: ive taked till im blue in the face to him Today he kept on telling me im in love with my ex boyfriend that it took me two years to get over and he called me a slut oh but he cold talk about his exs and who he has a sexual past with and im not s... (read in full...)

I have feelings for a police officer investigating my case, could he feel the same?

Q.   I currently have a partner who i have been with for 8 year's, he has never been the perfect partner as he's been in trouble load's, Cheated On Me ect but i have alway's forgiven him. Recently I had to report a crime . . . . My mobile Phone was ...

A.   11 January 2011: okay If you are still in a relationship do not cheat because he has cheated on you dont be the bad guy like he is. yes I do believe that he might be waiting for you to be single. And why did you stay with your partner if they have cheated? I... (read in full...)

He is verbally abusive, how do I get him to change his behaviour?

Q.   Hi Whenever my bf gets angry i.e. like when i try to call him when he is at work or when he is busy, he verbally abuses me. He calls me names, if i have known that he is busy i would have never called him in the first place. We discussed a ...

A.   11 January 2011: this is how my boyfriend is hunny Its the same he would be good for three days and then change I tried to get him to go to consuling with me it didnt work he calls me a whore and a slut Leave him he is not going to change you can keep on tell... (read in full...)

We have tried counselling, but I am still unsatisfied and now considering an affair. What should I do?

Q.   I am married and unsatisfied. I'm not sure if i love my husband and I am contemplating having an affair. We have tried counseling...what should I do?...

A.   11 January 2011: I would get a divorice There is no reason to stay in a relationship that you are upset in and thinking and knowing that one day you are going to have a affiar Don't cheat because it will make you look bad and it will be on your track record f... (read in full...)

I'm 6 months pregnant and my mother wants to kick me out!

Q.   I really need your help. My mother I thought I could trust Out of everyone everything I tell her she goes and tells my step father. She thinks me and my babys dad were having sex in my room when it was a movie and my mother crys about everything...

A.   10 January 2011: he lives with me and he is and we dont want to seperate for the kid we are trying so hard she wants to get rid of him when he wants to be in the life and there are men out there that dont even see their children... (read in full...)

He has been my boyfriend for two months, and is now trying to get me pregnant!

Q.   Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now and he started talkinq bout having a baby with me. The thing is im 16 and he is 18. I told him i'm not ready to have a baby that's not in my life plan to be pregnant at 16. even ...

A.   8 January 2011: NNNNNOOOOOOOO do not do that you bearly know eachother and this is a long commitment he is trying to trap you hunny me and my boyfriend have only been together for a yearr and im pregnant and i think i should of waited this is something not to r... (read in full...)

I've just given up caring that boyfriend doesn't treat me right

Q.   My bf hasnt always treated me right. And as a result I became very insecure for 2 whole years. But suddenly I woke up and I felt I didn't care. Not about him, I still love him. But I feel like I've just given up caring. I don't know what's changed ...

A.   8 January 2011: Okay girl my boyfrined is the same and im going throuh thhe same thing i always sit here and wonnder is one day is he going to change? I still love him but something is differnt inside of me and trust me i know how you feel but trust me i do... (read in full...)

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