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I feel like I am wasting my time!
Q. when I met my boyfriend 11 months ago he said he was seperated and he and his wife had agreed to a divorce but as neither was in another relationship he did not start any divorce process. He claimed his wife left him, took the kids and lives in ...
A. 7 May 2009: honey i truley think he is just using you and some men will say anything to get what they want. i really do hope you figure it out. try listening to your gut feeling, it's usually right... (read in full...)
I screwed up with my g/f and wnat her back badly!
Q. Long story short, she is the first girl I have ever had deep feelings for and I didn't know how to handle that so after couple of months I became clingy. Every time I look back on how I acted I feel like kicking myself because, rather than just ...
A. 2 May 2009: well one thing most ladies are a good ducker for is flattery and then a good romantic, you know the secret letter giving with mind puzzling hints of who you are. not to mention your going to have to apologizer for being that way and explain why you ... (read in full...)
Can love happen quickly?
Q. So im just asking if i'm crazy. But i thinki found the perfect guy!!! he's silly, goofy, great with kids, has absolute loads of patience and when i'm around him i smile because i fancy him so. :) even my mother notices a different look in my eyes ...
A. 17 April 2009: Thank you guys so much!!!! :) i can't explain how much joy it gives me to know im not the only one who think this is true... (read in full...)
Valentine's Poetry for Cupiders...
Q. As VALENTINE'S DAY fast approaches, and Cupid is having a wild time with his Arrows, I wanted to share some lines of poetry. LOVE, WHAT IT IS by Robert Herrick (1591-1674) Love is a circle that doth restles...
A. 12 February 2009: As the tacit heart lay there She wait for her saviour Shattered to pices weighted by stone and yet suddenly to appear a man of her own :) yeah.. i just kind of came up with that right on the spot Good luck with that!... (read in full...)
Caught between duty and heart
Q. Ah the drama... The unavoidable drama. I've been best friends with this guy sense kindergarden. we moved apart for a while and finally came in contact last year. now i haven't been datting anyone for a while because im waiting for a VERY gentlema...
A. 17 January 2009: Thank you so much for helpin me and your right, there is no rush. :) and so far everything is cool. We talk, we laugh. and i help them with homework alot lol. but overall its as iff life moves on, im happy when im single for now lol makes life less ... (read in full...)
He cries, writes poems, and is a pansy - and he want me to have his baby!!
Q. Hello, I need help, ive been going out with a boy, im fourteen and he's fifteen, hes normal looking but... he writes poems, LOVE poems, he wears wastecoats and ties and says he's got the "italian look" he calls having sex "my expression of my love ...
A. 14 January 2009: OMG WHAT A PERFECT GUY!!!! Girl don't let him slip away (don't sleep with him yet) but guys like that are far and few between!!!!! BE GRATEFULL!... (read in full...)
WHY this fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by an "alfa-male" in front of my girlfriend??
Q. I often have the fantasy of being subjugated and humiliated by a stronger, muscular, handsomer, and more well-endowed man in front of my girlfriend.she tries to stop him, at first, but eventually he ends up woo-ing her into having sex with him ...
A. 2 September 2008: Lol well there is a question. Do you enjoy theese fantisies? If not you might wish to consult a phycic. If so, im not a profesional im just a 15 year old. But you might not even know it but maybe swing both ways? Idk Maybe the phycic can help ya ... (read in full...)
What should you do if you love your uncle?
Q. what should you do if you love your uncle? if you know its true love and you alredy tried to back away but you just cant because you know its true love but forbidden what are the consequenses for this act? and can you like be together? a...
A. 20 August 2008: There are very serious consiquences
Including on his part;
He could be arrested and sent to prison or have a restraining order against you.
And for you;
No longer trust from your parents
and everyone at school would find out.
Not a ver... (read in full...)
Does anyone think maybe I married the wrong man? I just don't know anymore...
Q. I am 21 and have been married for 3 years. I had only been out of high school for a month when I got married. At the time I loved my husband but now I'm not so sure getting married was a smart idea. He hasn't had a steady job the whole time we've ...
A. 17 August 2008: Im no genius, Im just a simple 15 year old girl. But everything seems to be pointing towards you need to divorce your husband. I would have your kids stay with a trusted friend before you tell him though. And have someone you trust there with you ... (read in full...)
Why do I miss her so much when she misses me so little?
Q. We broke up, and she is the love of my life. I miss her so much every day. Always i look at pictures of us together and just want this pain to end. When i asked her how she felt she said the love had faded...she said that when looking at pictures of ...
A. 16 August 2008: lol you miss her so much BECAUSE she misses you so little. It could probably be a deep jelousy... (read in full...)
I've really screwed this up - please help, I want to fix this.
Q. i have done something really bad and am regretting it deeply. my cousin wanted to create a fake profile on facebook so she could see what the profile of a guy she liked. but so it wouldnt seem too fake - we made 4 profile - she made 2 i made 2....
A. 9 August 2008: He's probably hurt because he apparently he really like dthat girl (this is my opinion im no expert) but you should probably just give him time and space. he'll come back around, just as long as he doesn't find out it was you the whole time he wont ... (read in full...)
Do women like being told straight-up that you fancy them?
Q. Hi everybody. I really like this woman at work and have done so for a couple of years. However, I only see her about 2/3 days a week usually, though when we are around each other we get on well. I don't know if she likes me, but I just have to t...
A. 31 July 2008: Being a woman i think i can help you.
Me and every girl i know (almost every girl in school) LOVES being asked out straight up in person. But some tips would be ask her to a picnic and ask her to be your girlfriend there. Or perhaps a resturau... (read in full...)
I felt he must have thought something of me, or am I being silly here?
Q. I cant make this guy out. I met him on holiday we didnt have sex although he was trying his best every day!!! He got angry becasue I didnt, but then when he returned back he emailed me and asked to meet up, and we did, a few days later (he doesnt ...
A. 31 July 2008: This is very simple.
He is just trying to get one thing.
He's even going to wait for it lol.
Meaning he wanted to make you jelous when he brought you women scouting with him. And there is a possibility that he likes you but from personal ex... (read in full...)
Could it be because he can't betray his dead wife's memory?
Q. Other people said we looked good together on the dance floor, and we have so much in common its uncanny. we are roughly the same age and just by coincidence he lives in a small town a long way away, but I have a flat that I rent out just virtually ...
A. 31 July 2008: Well because to some people thier dead wife's memory matters. I know you like this guy but give him a break. If my mom died then i would not get over it very easily either. And im not talking a few years. Im talking private tears after at least 20 ... (read in full...)
Hot? Or cool? What sort of relationship is this really?
Q. Kinda long..sorry..I met this really cute guy at a night club. We danced last few songs. Got his number. A few days later I go to his place. We kiss and hug (didn't hit 3rd base), but after we talked and laughed for a few hours. I then saw him again ...
A. 31 July 2008: Well, i've never heard of anyone not answering thier own text messages. But its probably he likes you and doesn't know how to say. Although i will warn you he could be using you. But tha fact that he invited to meet his brother is a sign that he's ... (read in full...)
What makes a parent love one child more than another?
Q. can anybody tell me what makes a parent love their child less than their other children and blatantly show it....
A. 27 July 2008: Well some parents are crue and thier demented picture of what thier kids should be and single out one that in thier "demented" mind think is better. not meaning they are but sometimes they do... (read in full...)
Women, is it looks or height?
Q. Do women in general prefer looks(face,muscles etc...) or height?...
A. 25 July 2008: Scientifically speaking women are normally atracted to taller AND cuter guys.... (read in full...)
I'm receiving silent phone calls. How do I find out who is calling?
Q. this isn't really dating or anything. but today I've received 7 blocked calls of silence on my cell phone. I can hear someone and they never say anything. is there anyway I can call this person back? or find out the source or anything?...
A. 23 July 2008: Walk up to you phone store and ask them to trace the number or go to the police. I've had people call me but they play music... (read in full...)
I've known him since kindergarten, could he like me?
Q. Okidays, i know its wierd but i've liked this guy sense kindergarden. Okidays I've always had the feeling he likes me back but never really sure.The other day i saw him in the first time in like 4 or 5 years. And We both admited to being shy ...
A. 14 July 2008: Thank you guys SOOOOOOOOOOOOO Much:)
I was talking to him on myspace and it appears he likes me to :) Lol he even told me so
So i guess we're together now :) Thank you everyone... (read in full...)
Boy trouble! What am I to believe, does he like me or not?
Q. I'm only 12, but all my friends have boyfriends, which is weird for me because they talk about them all the time. I have crushed on this guy for like a year or two now and all my friends say he likes me too by the way he stares at me and smiles and ...
A. 12 July 2008: Duh He likes you!!!! And his friend is just jelous!!!! Go for it!!!... (read in full...)
Should I try and get along with my sister-in-law?
Q. Hi, I need some help dealing with my husband's family. They are being insensitive about our separation and it is hurting me. My husband told me a few months ago that he isn't "in-love" with me anymore. We were living at his Mom's with our kids. His ...
A. 3 July 2008: Its always a good idea to try to get along with people.... (read in full...)
Is it okay to continually email this guy or do I look like a girl with no life?
Q. Is it OK or am I look like a desperate, girl-with-no-life kinda way if I like to share and write stuff about my life to this guy I met some time ago. See, he's military I met him in a mission, and obviously I like him awfully a lot. I decided ...
A. 3 July 2008: You should keep emaling himm but keep your options open to guys around you... (read in full...)
My steady boyfriend is wonderful, but I feel like I'm missing out. Help!
Q. Hello, I am 22 years old and have been with a wonderful young man for the past 2 years. He is three years older than me, has graduated from college and has been working for the past three years. He is cute, funny, devoted, loyal, sensitive...
A. 3 July 2008: If you feel like your missing out then you shouldn't be. If you truely love this guy and he loves you back then you might need to take a break. Absense makes the heart grow fonder. If he misses you enough he'll take you back... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me with both my siblings!
Q. I ahve been married 27 years but since the day I got married my husband cheated. I always knew but naturally lied to, but things have just come out. I have a twin he put his tongue on her while she slept and she woke up and freaked and told him ...
A. 3 July 2008: If your husband is unloyal enough to do that i would be Pissed. Personally i don't think he loves you if he can do that and still sleep and night. If you guys have kids he would be the type to expect something awfull... Im ot telling you im simply ... (read in full...)
My periods are irregular, is this normal?
Q. Im 13 as of June 10 and i've had my period since i was nine. it was never really normal, and i've went to doctors and stuff.They put me on the pill but that made me sick so they put me on the patch and it still didn't help me. The doctors say my ...
A. 3 July 2008: perfectly normal... (read in full...)
Did I break my hymen?
Q. I just tried sticking a dildo in my vagina and it hurt so I left it in there for like 20 seconds because I wanted to see if I could break my hymen, but then it kept hurting so I stopped. I started bleeding afterwards (obviously), so does that mean I ...
A. 3 July 2008: Yupps do it again though to make sure if you bleed again then nope... (read in full...)
Why would a guy have sex with a girl and not want her to be his girlfriend?
Q. If a guy doesn't want a girl to be his girlfriend but still wants to have sex with her, does that mean that shes ugly or doesnt have a good personality?...
A. 3 July 2008: DUH! Because he only wants 1 thing from you...... (read in full...)
He sent me this email... opinions please?
Q. I was dating this guy for 6 months and I'm 7 months pregnant and he left me for another girl and I don't know why. He is excited about the baby but doesn't want to be with me, can you read his e-mail and let me know what you think?dearest Miranda, ...
A. 3 July 2008: Looks like he loved you very much. But he is mad that you kicked him out.
WHAT DID YOU DO?!
I'm sorry but you seem CRAZY right now.
YOU HAD AN AFFAIR AGAINST YOUR HUSBAND AND NOW YOUR PREGGY?!
Not a very good move. Seems like you and this gu... (read in full...)
How do I give her space but also be available for her?
Q. my girlfriend is having my baby, she is 13wks along. We had numerous conversations about starting a family, getting married etc before we got pregnant. We went and looked at rings, tux's etc. We do not live together. Since becoming pregnant...
A. 3 July 2008: Alrighty you should probably know the person who is giving you advice. I'm 15 years old and i LOVE helping people. and i might have an idea of how to help. (Read my profile and you will understand)
Now its not full proof and sense i don't know the... (read in full...)
Why can't I be strong and stay away from this guy?
Q. I feel like I am losing my sense of self. I usually have everything together.. but ever since I met him I'm not myself. I miss me and I want me back! I tried ending it with him(and we werent in a relationship so what I ended was just a thing.. an ...
A. 3 July 2008: Lol he probably does love you. nd when your not yourself around him thats cute because that means he helps make you a better person (Not saying your a bad person) But i think you should give him a shot based on terms and conditions. Lol tell him if ... (read in full...)
How can I understand just how much I've hurt her by cheating on her??
Q. My fiancee and i broke up about 5 months ago because she found out i cheated on her, i have changed the way i live my life and have become a great person, i will never chea t again, i have stopped drinking, and lying and living the terrible way i ...
A. 2 July 2008: Don't give up!!!! Your on a roll here! If you keep doing the things you say you are and she loved you as much as you say she did then she'll be back just have paitience :) Hope this helps Keeps me updated pweasy ... (read in full...)
I have no idea what I'm feeling so I really need help!
Q. Alrighty, I'd rather give help then ask for it. I'm usually not very open. But at htis point i don't have a clue what to do or what I'm feeling.I've known this guy literally from kindergarden. We went to the same school for about 4 years. Then i ...
A. 2 July 2008: Thank you guys soooooo much for your answers and when i said i didn't wanna know i ment that if i did find out i love him its gonna be harder not to tell him, But that you guys very much I'm seeing him soo and I'll let you guys know what happens :)... (read in full...)
How can I understand just how much I've hurt her by cheating on her??
Q. My fiancee and i broke up about 5 months ago because she found out i cheated on her, i have changed the way i live my life and have become a great person, i will never chea t again, i have stopped drinking, and lying and living the terrible way i ...
A. 2 July 2008: Well the only way to understand what it feels like to be cheated on is to actually be cheated on. now hiring someone to cheat on you isn't the same as the fiancee for 5 years being cheated on. Only she can make you realize how badly she was hurting. ... (read in full...)
I'm way to shy to ask around for his number, what do I do?
Q. Well...it's summer. I have the biggest crush on this one kid at my school. I thought he liked me at some point...but he never made a move. Now I don't know what to do because I never see him now since it's the summer. I miss him so much. I'm wa...
A. 30 June 2008: Well if you NEVER see him then get one of your friends who DO and catch up with him there.THEN you ask him for his number... (read in full...)
After four years - could he still feel the same?
Q. Hmmm its more of a venting type thing but I would appreciate some input. Ok my best friend from forever ago just appeared on myspace. I remember when we used to hang out like it was yesterday :) but the thing is last time i saw him was like fou...
A. 29 June 2008: Thanks :) He still thinks that we are good friends and wants to see me soon, and i know its wierd for four years but i was like 10 when i last saw him and to young to do anything lol. :) But thank you very much for your answer :)
And the Hope thi... (read in full...)
What can I do to make this night really special for us both??
Q. i met a man over the internet a year and a half ago. we hit it off really well and i now live with him in australia. today is our one year anniversary of the day that i came here and i wanted to do something really special for him but i dont have ...
A. 29 June 2008: Wellz if you have candles in the house you can light them and then turn off a few lights, also you should talk to the mother and see if she might let you guys be alone that day. Her being a woman would probably side with you and her and her husband ... (read in full...)
I'm way to shy to ask around for his number, what do I do?
Q. Well...it's summer. I have the biggest crush on this one kid at my school. I thought he liked me at some point...but he never made a move. Now I don't know what to do because I never see him now since it's the summer. I miss him so much. I'm wa...
A. 29 June 2008: Well, see if one of your close friends has his number, if not your gonna have to ask around. There is nothing wrong with that its just staying in touch with an old friend :) don't be shy... (read in full...)
Please help me out, I cant get him to find where to please me.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, when we have sex i cant get him to find where to please me. It's really difficult because i dont want him to feel that he is doing something wrong and upset him. What shall i do? please help...
A. 29 June 2008: get him to explore a little bit try different things or just tell it where it is ... (read in full...)
I'm expecting a first kiss from my first boyfriend, I'm scared. What should I do?
Q. Im 15.. I've never been in a relationship, I've never kissed a guy either. The guy I like is 16, he's 16 and very experienced, in other words, he's done IT more than once. He likes me back. I'm not asking about sex, because there is no way ...
A. 29 June 2008: Lol i am also 15 and was in your position a while ago. Now, he will teach you how to kiss, but its not a put off, more of a put on because they get to teach you and that means more kissing for them. Secondly relax.. its not gonna be enjoyable if ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my feelings for a girl.
Q. There's this girl at school who i've known properly for about a year. I'm thinking about her constantly but none of my thoughts are sexual and i feel that i only want her as a friend. At the same time, whenever i see her i get this feeling deep down ...
A. 29 June 2008: I'd say go for it! If you feel something is missing then try and fill it. It's better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. You have to go up to her and just ask her to lunch :) start small and see how she reacts. Just try and get ... (read in full...)
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