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i love giving persons advice especially in relationship,friendship and sex problems.I am melisha but i prefer to be call melly.I love honest and trustworthy persons.

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My friend and I both like the same guy and he likes me, not her! Should I go out with him?

Q.   My best friend likes this guy, but he likes me, not her. I like him too. So should I go out with him, or not? My best friend says I can, but I'm not sure......

A.   18 August 2009: actually,i had the same problem as you,and i think if your friend is really in deed a good one she would support you and dont get to jealous.And you should really date the boy.... (read in full...)

I really need to know what he's thinking..and need advice from guys!!

Q.   I REALLY need advice!! My boyfriend and I finished in June and I was very upset. However for about a month afterwards we were still talking every day, meeting up and generally trying to fix things. He believed that the break up was down to me not ...

A.   18 August 2009: even though you said from guys,i was a bit curious to help so here i am.at first he seems like he was bugging you to come back to him.and i think now he is seeing the signs that you dont really want to talk to him,so simple he is just giving you ... (read in full...)

I can't have sex because I'm afraid of eye contact... has anyone else had this problem?

Q.   This is unusual problem to have, but I've only had sex a few times because of this, and I hated it. I can't make eye contact with the other person. For some reason I have very piercing intimidating eyes, it actually feels like people get scared when ...

A.   17 August 2009: first,sometimes persons deal with the same thing you are going through,so don`t get to worried.If you are afraid of making eye contact when you are having sex,well you should try a next sex position in which you don`t really have to stare into the ... (read in full...)

It's 4 times now - is he using me?

Q.   the same guy who i was talkiing about in friends with benefits just asked be back out ...he broke up with me the frist time because people made fun of him cause i was 2 years younger than him second time was because hes to old and third time was b...

A.   16 August 2009: he sounds pretty confuse to me,any guy who really loves someone wouldnt care less how people look at him and think of him whiles being with you. And to me you should really think twice before you getting really hurt again. advice: if he tries to g... (read in full...)

I wanted to kiss him, should I just have done it?

Q.   I am lost... i really think i am in love with this boy. He is 3 years older than me. We have a connection. And he says he feels it too. Though he has just got out a big relationship... should that matter? We had this moment when i was with him... it ...

A.   16 August 2009: i personally think you should go for it.and from what i have read,he seems like he feels the same way too,according to just me..x life is to short,and i think you should enjoy it to the fullest. ~if u love advice rate plz~ xoxo melly xoxo... (read in full...)

Ex still wants to be friends but I have feelings for him

Q.   Hey guys.. Right well i've been invited to this party by my ex and ever since he split up with me he invites me to all his parties and he has quite a few round at his... He thinks we can be friends...Well I guess we can but I do still have feel...

A.   16 August 2009: hey,maybe you can go to the party and then you tell him how you truely feel.it doesnt hurt to try right? xoxo melly xoxo ~ plz rate ~... (read in full...)

Three guys and I have feelings for all of them!

Q.   I've been with this guy for 3 and a half years and I'm happy. I have two best guy friends that are just friends. The more I talk to them and hang out with them the more I start having feelings for both of them. All three boys are best friends. What ...

A.   16 August 2009: first,you don`t really have feelings for your guy friends,its just that you hang with them and whiles getting to know them,maybe yall have things in common so you think so,and it will cause problems if you like 3 guy friends,guys wouldnt make a girl ... (read in full...)

I want a baby at 13

Q.   the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum ...

A.   14 August 2009: I am not your mother, but I do have some words of wisdom for you. I just read an article posted on here about stereotypes and teen moms. I do not want you to think I am putting you down, but I’m not condoning it either. I am just an older woman that ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to lose me but says I'm not what he's looking for

Q.   I started being friends with my next door neighbor about seven months after I moved in. We quickly began having sex, talking on the phone and seeing each other practically everyday. He says that I am the closest person to him other than his ...

A.   14 August 2009: hunny to me...he was using you in some way to get want he want.and maybe he lied about you being close to him.but it was good to hear yall share everything together and you also helped him in the tough times.pretty much...he sounds like he is not ... (read in full...)

Will I still be a virgin if I masturbate?

Q.   hi i want to know that if i masturbate i am avirgin or i lose my virginity and i want to know when do a male lose his virginity...

A.   11 August 2009: yes you still a virgin on the other hand for girls..its diff..becuz the hymen can be broken other than sexual intercourse...eg.by using tampons..... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?

Q.   I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...

A.   11 August 2009: i think you should really get to know this dude better..and matter of fact why wouldnt you tell him about your past and yu never kiss a boy b4 except him...yu not being honest so thats a prob you have to fix their..wen yu about to have sex..you have ... (read in full...)

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