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My name is Lilly, I'm a transgender, born with a male body but certainly female on the inside. Right now I choose to live as a male basically cuz I don't look very feminine anymore. I'm 34 years old and guess its just easier to blend in. At home I still have my outfits and accessories but I'm too afraid to go out looking pretty. I'm okay with who I am and where I'm at so I guess its just the way it is. I know I could have surgeries and take hormones to look more feminine but that really scares me lol. I don't like hospitals nor do I like taking meds. I live a very healthy lifestyle so changing things is not an option. My butt is still super cute so I'm okay lol. I have lots of questions so this site seems like a good place for me. I could use a positive community to belong to. I'm really friendly so feel free to say hello. Thanx in advance for everyone's advise!

Should I walk away from this relationship for my partners sake?

Q.   Ok so I have asked for help here before and you aunts have been so sweet to me. This is an actual relationship question. Basically as some of you know I'm trasnsgender. Born into a male body but defiantly female inside. I do have trouble finding ...

A.   27 December 2011: Thanx everyone, you all make a lot of sense. I think her main issue is my male body to be honest. As much as she sees me as a woman with her eyes closed she is having a hard time I suppose with what she sees with them open not that I'm ugly cuz ... (read in full...)

Would you be willing to be friends with a transgender?

Q.   I suppose this is more a question than seeking advise but as a person that is transgender I am curious to know how people really view someone like me. I'm female born in a male body. I've never known anyone els like me and friends from my youth put ...

A.   7 December 2011: Wow, thank you so much for all of your very honest answers! I hope I can find people like you girls off line. I hope some of you will say hello as you all seem very genuine and interesting. The reason I'm asking these questions is not because I ... (read in full...)

Inside, I identify myself as a woman-I'm confused! How can I find someone who understands me as I really am?!

Q.   Ok so new at this. Not sure if this question qualifies for this site but here goes anyways. Basically I'm 34 years old and on the inside I Identify as female. So transgender I guess. When I was younger I ad lots of accepting friends. Long blond hair ...

A.   26 November 2011: Thank you so much for your advice. I guess I'm too afraid to approach people. I don't look or act very feminine in public now days as an adult because I'm afraid of getting picked on or beat up. on the internet most sites are for dating or to meet... (read in full...)

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