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She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

Q.   ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get ...

A.   8 September 2008: Ok, this doesn't make any sense. If she doesn't want to be your gf, why go on and on about how perfect you would be. Or she would love you only in certain circumstances like getting pregnant(God forbid). If I were you I would step back a little and ... (read in full...)

He hardly talks. he stopped telling me he loves me when he used to say it everyday.

Q.   im in a 2 and a half yr long distance relationship and things were going pretty well. we saw each other once a month or every 2 months after last yr. just recently he was acting strange and thinking that he is a failure and nobody wants him and ...

A.   8 September 2008: Ok, I understand more why you feel so lonely. You need to connect with people and to do that you have made a tentative step here but you need it more on a face-to-face level. My first choice would be your immediate family, make an effort to get ... (read in full...)

If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?

Q.   I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...

A.   7 September 2008: YES YES YES!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)

He hardly talks. he stopped telling me he loves me when he used to say it everyday.

Q.   im in a 2 and a half yr long distance relationship and things were going pretty well. we saw each other once a month or every 2 months after last yr. just recently he was acting strange and thinking that he is a failure and nobody wants him and ...

A.   7 September 2008: You sound depressed, I wouldn't worry about your boyfriend at the moment, it' sounds like you are the one who needs help. What about professional help like therapy? It's better than getting so-called "support" from thee "guys" that are actually ... (read in full...)

I slept with him hoping we'd get back together, does that work?

Q.   I just dont know what to do anymore, i think that im over my ex then i see him with another girl and i fall apart. we broke up more than a year ago but we slept together a while ago and i thought this might mean that we could get back together..I ...

A.   7 September 2008: Hi I'm sorry you feel like this, it's a no win situation until time takes it's course. It's never a good idea to sleep with your ex, you will always regret it. I know this is going to sound harsh but this is what you need at the moment. GET YOURSELF ... (read in full...)

How can I defuse this situation, did I lead him on?

Q.   Grrrrr ive gone and complicated my life. After a turbulant split from someone in january (my decision) ive been going in a certain pub every weekend, and made some frieds of the regulars. But one particular guy has marriage problems, and me being a ...

A.   7 September 2008: Be sriaght with him and tell him in plain english you just want to be friends. If he can't understand this, just ignore him. I don't mean to be judgemental but you made a mistake asking him around when you clearly saw trouble. I just call 'em as I ... (read in full...)

My ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me bit I'm with someone else now!

Q.   So I have this amazing boyfriend of almost 3 months. He means the world to me and we don't argue he doesn't flirt with other girls. And to me his is perfect. The thing is my ex, told me last night that he loves me and can't get over me even though ...

A.   7 September 2008: Hi kutie0712, I don't know why you broke up with your previous boyfriend but it sounds as if trust was an issue? Maybe your ex wants you back because he is seeing you with someone new and can't handle it, not because he really wants you. Sorry to be ... (read in full...)

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