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18year old female. living in manchester, united kingdom. in a relationship.

Do you think he may be gay??

Q.   Hi guys I have a guy friend who is a little more than a friend but he is different than most guys I met. He likes to put lotion all over his body after a shower and keeps his place really clean....he also likes to clean his house and keep everything ...

A.   3 April 2008: i was wondering how old is your sister because it sounds pretty immature what she is saying. Just because he likes to take care of himself and have a clean house that doesnt mean hes gay. But if youre still unsure just ask him.... (read in full...)

For some unknown reason he's stopped ignoring my calls and I'm nothing without him!

Q.   my bf hasnt contacted me for over 3 days. i really miss him, its not like him, he texts me like every minute of the day. im so worried about him, i cant go to his house as he lives like 2 hours away. hes ignoring my calls and text messages. i ...

A.   2 April 2008: My girlfriend did the same thing to me once, i let her have her space and when i went to see her we had a good talk and got back together. ... (read in full...)

For some unknown reason he's stopped ignoring my calls and I'm nothing without him!

Q.   my bf hasnt contacted me for over 3 days. i really miss him, its not like him, he texts me like every minute of the day. im so worried about him, i cant go to his house as he lives like 2 hours away. hes ignoring my calls and text messages. i ...

A.   2 April 2008: Is there any of his friends you could ask? Id leave it till a weeks gone and then go and see him, you deserve an explanation. Good luck... (read in full...)

Her ex doesn't know about our relationship so how can I get her her to back off from my girlfriend?

Q.   Im 18 and my girlfriend is 40. I have some trust issues and im finding it hard to cope while my girlfriends ex keeps ringing and texting. Her ex does not know she is in a relationship because of the age gap, my girlfriend is too scared to say. But i ...

A.   2 April 2008: They were with each other for three years and are pretty close. I think my girlfriends scared of her family knowing because neither of us have decided to tell them yet. And if her ex found out she would definately tell her family. ... (read in full...)

I think I am bisexual

Q.   hi im a male 24.. i recently broke up with my girlfriend , got drunk and gave my friend a blowjob.. so i think i must bi bisexual.... yes he came and yes i choked but i did swallow.. but the thing is now i have been confused since.... should i do it ...

A.   2 April 2008: Are you attracted to guys? Do you want to give a blowjob again, if you do, you will be able to unerstand things alot better if you are not drunk. Good luck.... (read in full...)

When he went for my penis I pushed him away! I now regret it..does this mean I am gay?

Q.   hi im confused. about 2 yrs ago i went on holiday with my cousin and 1 nite he started acting gay and wanted 2 do stuff with me. anyway i secretly wanted it but when he started 2 go 4 my penis i pushed him away pretending i didnt want it. we have ...

A.   2 April 2008: If your attracted to men then yes you could be gay, but are you attracted to women? cos then you could be bisexual. But if youve never had sex before then you could just enjoy the thought of being touched. I think you both need to talk and if you ... (read in full...)

I'm male and wear women's panties. Do you out there think I'm an effeminate wimp?

Q.   I've already sent this in but no reply. My problem is I've been wearing womens panties since I was 14, I wear a full brief panty mostly nylon plain no lace. I'm 5ft-7ins and small framed, I weigh 10st-7lb my chest is 34ins my waist is 28ins but my ...

A.   2 April 2008: your not a whimp at all. I wear mens boxers all the time, i just prefer them from womens. Maybe your just more in touch with your feminine side, which is no bad thing. Please dont think your a wimp. If you need a chat dont hesitate to message me.... (read in full...)

Follow Up for the Ladies - The B-cup Cleavage Question

Q.   Hello again! Thanks everyone for your advice and putting up with my cleavage obsession. I've tried the push up bra but it still doesn't help - bras never bring my breasts close enough together. And smaller bras make the flab underneath my armpits ...

A.   2 April 2008: I heard a good way to make your cleavage appear bigger is to use foundation on your chest. Not sure where you have to put it but apparently alot of celebs do this.... (read in full...)

I like giving men blow jobs - am I gay?

Q.   I have always wanted to know what it was like to give another man a BJ. I answered an ad and got to know this guy. I went over to his house and gave him a BJ. I did enjoy it! Now my problem is, I want to do it again. I like giving the BJ pa...

A.   2 April 2008: I have a friend who is gay and he has a boyfriend. But he still loves to fondle womens breasts and to look at them. But he isnt attracted to women other than there breasts. So i dont think you are gay or bisexual. Maybe as you get older you may ... (read in full...)

Can you be depressed at 14?

Q.   I havn't really had it easy when i was younger, but not exactly hard, the thing is, i always seem to be down, i barely eat or sleep[not purposly], i don't have any best friends, as we've all have our ups and downs, so we've all drifted apart, i have ...

A.   2 April 2008: Im exactly the same, constantly in a foul mood and hiding in my bedroom crying or staring at a wall im that sad. Sometimes i forget to eat and drink, i get loads of headaches and stomach pains. I used to self harm, i kind of got addicted to it. I kn... (read in full...)

Should I go for this girl even if my friends call me a freak?

Q.   ok im bi but if i say it the girl i like will she will think im copying her and i really like her but she is going out with a diffrent girl but if i tell my other friends they call my a freak and never talk to me again please help...

A.   2 April 2008: If your friends like you now why should they change if you told them that, it doesnt affect them. But if they do call you a freak theyre not friends at all. Find some new friends, join some groups. Try to become friends with the girl you like and ... (read in full...)

I'm in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start my own family.

Q.   Do you think that if your in a gay/lesbian relationship and want to start you own family, is this good? I see a lot of criticism on that. What is your opinion? ...

A.   2 April 2008: I dont think just because your gay you should have to be any different from anyone else. I really cant wait to start a family with my partner, weve talked about it and are both happy so in a few years well do it. Lifes too short to worry what other ... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my teacher and feel I am in love with her!

Q.   Well, I know this is a very redundant topic on here, and I've read a bunch of questions and answers. But the thing is that most that I would like to reply to have been closed. So I finally decided to post my own, as no one question/story is quite ...

A.   2 April 2008: This is so weird i thought i was the only person that had those sort of feelings. Im 18 and my girlfriends 40, things used to be amazing but since ive moved out and got a job travelling its all gone wrong. My girlfriend treats me so kind and shes so ... (read in full...)

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