Is it illegal for a 15 year old to go out with a 30 year old?
Q. i just wanted some advice really im 15 and going out with a 30year old is it illegal?? ...
A. 30 May 2008: I am from Europe .. and no, its not illegal over there .. but are you sure, you want to be with a 30 year old man? There is something wrong with him, if he is interested in children honey, sorry... (read in full...)
Is a blow job for a groom a tradition?
Q. Hey sisters and brothers Just a funny one Just spoke to some friends ... bullshitting .. question was DO you think its a tradition for a GROOM to get blown at a bachelore party??? 95%guys said YES! So, how do you guys feel over here? J...
A. 30 May 2008: Hahaha! Stupid little boy .. some anonymous people sure know how to read!!!!! Why don't you get a real "name" and I maight think about growing up my penis since I was born with Vagina! ... (read in full...)
I was happy sleeping with other men to please my husband, but he doesn't want me to anymore.
Q. after we had been married about five years, my husband told me he wanted me to have sex with other men and he wanted to watch. i told him i didn't want to, but he begged and begged me to do this and i finally told him i would. he brought home a ...
A. 30 May 2008: This is Bull ... ... (read in full...)
Why was I born?
Q. Why I was born? This life is too hard for me. Only problems and conflicts....
A. 23 May 2008: I am asking myself this same question couple of times a year .... but at the end
I am happy I was born, because life is beautiful no matter whats happening. And do not regret anything you have done because at some point, it was what you have wan... (read in full...)
My husband has been sending pictures of himself in his underwear to a man, is planning to meet him, and has told me that it's none of my business!
Q. I'm 27, and my husband's 29. We have two children, a 4-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter and have been married for 3 years. On Tuesday when I was checking our email to see if a bid I made on eBay was successful, an email came through fro...
A. 22 May 2008: Seems like he maight be gay ... or bi ... talk to him !!! How is your sex life??... (read in full...)
He says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Could you please translate this?!
Q. Guys, can you help me out here....... He broke up with me - suddenly - after 3 years, hasn't given a reason (I'm sure he's seeing someone else) but he says he still loves me, and thinks I'm amazing, but he just can't be with me. Translation ple...
A. 22 May 2008: Im sorry to hear that!
3 years its a long time. And if you two were in a loving realationship / friendship, than he must think you are amazing and also he must love you.
You probably should talk to him about why did he leave you, even tho he... (read in full...)
WOMEN: Have you ever dated an older man? MEN: Any insight on younger women?
Q. Women : Have you ever dated an older man? If you have, how young were you when you first dated an older man, and what was it like? Age gap? Men: Any insight on younger women? I’m 23, she’s 19. I’ve always dated women my age or a couple ...
A. 20 May 2008: I was 20 and he was 34 ... didn't work out ... I didnt know better ... he knew too much ... sometimes it does work, sometimes does not. Your age difference is not big at all .. its totaly normal. good luck... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: YOU have to back off a lil .. you are pushing her and pushing her and pushing her. I understand its "somehow" important to you, but you also have to understand, its disgustin to her ...
Lets see ...
If she wanted to take a dump on her cheast o... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: NO one should attacked you because of this ... You need to give it a time.First of all .. try everything you can to show her, that its important to you and its not that dirty as she thinks it is .. try to change her mind ... I don't have an an... (read in full...)
No oral sex. Is this the end of our marriage?
Q. Anyways I need help, what do I do in my situation.... I've been married a year, my wife is nice.. we fight sometimes, and sometimes things are good.. I think we fight mroe than the normal couple but it's nothing we can't solve by the time we go ...
A. 16 May 2008: You should not fight about it at all ... I understand its important to YOU ... but for her its wrong and dirty like you said. Maybe you should do it in a shower. That way she can clean you up the way she wants .. and will feel more comfortable... (read in full...)
Should you lie about the best sex you've ever had?
Q. What if your husband/wife/gf/bf asks about the best sex you've ever had and it wasnt with them? Should you lie? Tell the truth? Change the subject? Does gender or marital status matter in this situation?...
A. 15 May 2008: LIIIEEEE!!! If its not him/her and you will tell them the truth, it will break their heart!!! It will change everything than. They will think they are not good enough. Do not tell the truth. Sometimes we just have to lie ... and if you dont want to ... (read in full...)
Sex with a fat person, should I give it a try?
Q. This guy asked me to have sex with him. I like him and was thinking about saying yes. I like him alot and he is very nice-looking and has a great personality but is well-built. Would it be awkward having sex with him because he is fat?...
A. 15 May 2008: Is it wierd to have sex with black person? NO .. is it wierd to have sex with white person? NO .. is it wierd to have sex with tinny lil girl with chest as flat as kitchen table??? NO Is it wierd to have sex with fat person? NO !!!! Is it wierd to ... (read in full...)
Straight guy turned on by gay porn!!!
Q. i'm a normal, straight, 20 year old guy. I've had a couple of girlfriends before, and have one currently. Recently i've been getting attracted to gay porn. It turns me on much more than the straight stuff, so i'm beginning to wonder if i'm turning ...
A. 15 May 2008: Well .. it looks like you are BI ... you like both sides. Girls and boys ... maybe you are just affraid to admite it to yourself and others ... I agree w Peter Pan .. you should go out and have a lil experiment .. and you will see if you are or you ... (read in full...)
Have you ever masturbated with a friend, brother, cousin, etc.?
Q. have you ever masturbated with a friend, brother, cousin, etc.? i sometimes do with my brother while watching porn....
A. 15 May 2008: Omg ... God .... I do think masturbation is totaly normal ... but do it alone ... or with your partner ... do I masturbate next to my mother????? JESUS!!!
... (read in full...)
My husband always drops me if he gets an offer to go out with his friends. Why wont he put me first?
Q. i went away for a few days to my parents with the baby.My husband went out every night and behaved liked a bachelor-no problem with that .we talked each day and he said he missed us so much.I came back early and he said he was spending the night ...
A. 15 May 2008: I would kick his ass and go party with my gals while leaving him home .. hehe !!! whopa!... (read in full...)
I have a question about what a girl feels when a penis enters her vagina!
Q. how does a girl feel when penis enters her vagina?? can they feel the veins and the rim of the glans(top portion of penis)?? ..how do they feel when the cums inside them? i would b happy if u explain elaborately:) ... ...
A. 15 May 2008: Em ... well ...
U can definetely feel the length and width ... but veins? No! ... (read in full...)
Any help from girls! Help, is this a period?
Q. hey hey, I started bleeding today from my vagina and methinks it may be periods but i thought id get your opinion.. my blood varys in colour from brownish to bright red is this right?? and i seem to have a continuous flow of blood.. is this normal ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hehe
Yeah .. you are a woman now :)
... (read in full...)
Girls, would you feel neglected???
Q. Girls: would you be offended if your b.f. or husband never called you when he was on his breaks at work, but he went online and checked his email, and looked at other websites when on breaks? I used to call my husband about once a day when I knew he ...
A. 13 May 2008: Oh man ... This sound like a bad story ... sorry to hear that. I understand how you feel. I dont have children, but I am a nanny for twins (for two years now) and I do get very lonely as well. My BF works all day long and he has tons of peop... (read in full...)
What can I do for my boyfriend to really turn him on?
Q. Hi This one's for the guys (or maybe girls, you can tell me about positive/successful experience?) Now, if I wanted to spend an evening/day showing my man a good time what would you recommend? I'm up for anything, but penetration is not...
A. 13 May 2008: Put some sexy lingerie on ... do a lil dance .. maybe a strip show for his eyes ... than a nice massage (his feet and back) and if you "can" give him a blow job as the cherry on a cake! I think he would love that... (read in full...)
Why did he give himself a handjob when he has me?
Q. i sleep with my defacto and thought i satisfied him sexually but the other morning very early he i think handjobed himself twice and now i feel i dont make him happy what does it mean when a guy gives himself a handjob when he has a live in ...
A. 13 May 2008: I masturbate all the time, and I am in a great relationship with tons of sex! Its just something you do, makes you feel good and guys are the same!
Why do people lose their preciouse time by thinking about these things? Its stupid.
He love... (read in full...)
He keeps telling me he loves me but has a girlfriend! I like him, so what do I do?
Q. I just recently fell for a guy who is absolutely amazing except his got a girlfriend and my friend likes him so i haven't said anything but he keeps asking me if i love him i said no and he looked upset but i do like him and we get on so well i went ...
A. 8 May 2008: Tell him to get rid of his GF and than you maight consider loving him and spending time with him... (read in full...)
I have a gut feeling my husband has cheated on me before, has he?
Q. I have this gut feeling that my husband cheated on me in the past. We were having problems, he walked out on our less than a year marriage, said he lost all interest in everything and need to get away for awhile. He moved in with friends of his ...
A. 30 April 2008: My gutt feeling is usually right ... and if I feel something is wrong .. something is definetely wrong.
Dont accuse him tho! Try talking to him about it . nicely .. dont bring more stress into the whole relationship problem that you are havng ri... (read in full...)
How can I stop my Husband beating me?
Q. How do I stop my husband from beating me all the time? ...
A. 30 April 2008: LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?
Q. My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...
A. 30 April 2008: I love Lazy Guys answers ..especially the last one lol .. good job... (read in full...)
Why do we girls go for the bad boys?
Q. this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hey, I agree with the first comment! I have been in 8 relationships in my whole life (serious ones) .. .they all SUCKED ! I was cheated on, beaten up, lied to, I stopped eating, cause I was too fat for SOMEONE ... and you know what? I LIKED IT... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?
Q. My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...
A. 30 April 2008: If he loves you, he will understand and he wont make you do something, that hurts you or doesnt feel right to you! You just tell him, that you dont want to do it anymore,because its very painful and uncomfortable and that you would maybe rather try ... (read in full...)
Should I let him meet this girl and just trust him, or tell him if he meets her it's over?
Q. hey, i need your help. I met a guy of facebook, he lives in my area and we met up and now going out. We've been together a month now, but last Friday he told me that this Friday he's meeting a random girl off the internet for the first time to go "s...
A. 29 April 2008: Well .. it sure sounds wierd.
Maybe you should ask him if you can go with him .. there is nothing wrong with you beeing confused. Trust me, every women would be!!!!
How can they be best mates, when they dont even know each other? And she is t... (read in full...)
I am scared that he is going to be grossed out by seeing me in swimsuit!
Q. Okay, you all may think I am silly.....but, this is seriously causing me major distress. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We have been sexually active. However, I haven't walked around naked a lot. I have bad cellulite and saddle bags ...
A. 22 April 2008: Hey
Don't worry so much! If he has been w you for all this time and have seen you naked (guessing you dont have sex fully dressed) than he saw it and he obviously doesnt care!!!! He loves you the way you are. You dont need to look like a model to... (read in full...)
GIRLS ONLY! We have amazing sex but I want ideas on more positions?
Q. girls only please! hi to all the girls me and my boyfriend have amazing sex its the best ive ever had. now the question is is that i orgasm quick when we do is it because he knows what hes doing or because its big i dont know because ive only been ...
A. 17 April 2008: well .. u didnt really say .. which position r u doing ... anyway ..
why dont u check out kamasutra? there are some good and some crazy positions .. have fun
... (read in full...)
Should I marry my cheating boyfriend? It's not like he gets away with it because I catch him every time!
Q. should i marry my boyfriend of three years? even though he cheated on me numberous times and lied about it and i caught him everytime....
A. 14 April 2008: Well, if you are ready to live with a cheater, than do it! But you can be sure, that you are not going to be his only one!!!! ... (read in full...)
Husband wants sexual pleasure, but will not return the favours, so I feel unwanted!
Q. hi, i am writing to ask about my husband doesn't seem to be sexualy interested in me any more i no he is not having an affair because we have are own business so we are together most of the time.also he wants sexual pleasure from me in the way of ...
A. 14 April 2008: You should talk to him. It doesnt sound to me, like you want him to buy you the whole world, you just want him to make love to you, so you feel wanted again! He is very selfish when he makes you do things but he wont do anything in return. You shou... (read in full...)
What do dearcupid readers think about online dating?
Q. I get very nervous around girls, and thats why I prefer online dating; I was just wondering what the readers of this site think about online dating?...
A. 9 April 2008: Its not a waste of time or money! do it!
these people dont know what are they talking about!
person online can be even more normal than some serial killer you meet in the club or bar! don't worry!! just do it! ... (read in full...)
My insecurities are interfering with the relationship: I keep focusing on what could happen instead of what actually happens!
Q. I feel like I'm ruining my relationship. I'm constantly craving outward signs of affection, loving gestures and reasurrance... Even though my boyfriend gives me these things (even when they're subtle) a week, a day or some time after I'll feel the ...
A. 9 April 2008: Oh My God !
Are you Me, or am I you? This is exactly how I feel!!!! I have no idea why am I like this, but its definetely a problem in my relationship as well.
Check out self-defeating behaviors !!!!!!
It will help
Good luck... (read in full...)
What do dearcupid readers think about online dating?
Q. I get very nervous around girls, and thats why I prefer online dating; I was just wondering what the readers of this site think about online dating?...
A. 8 April 2008: Hi
GO FOR IT!
I met my fiance on match.com (about year ago). It was the best thing I have ever done in my life. Meeting people on a street or in a bar was never good ... it was always only about sex ... if you are really looking for something se... (read in full...)
Come on girls help me out on this one!
Q. Why do women do this? i've had it happen three times now and its pissing me off. You meet a woman and she agrees to go out with you. She says she wants to take it slowly, you talk get to know each other, exchange thoughts and generally get on like ...
A. 5 April 2008: I dont know. I have never been one of those girls .. but I sure had the same type of men!!! Its not a girl thing .. girls are usually not like this . You are just probably picking the wrong kinda people thats all. ... (read in full...)
I need to change myself or I will destroy this relationship for good!
Q. Hi I know this question has been asked many times, but I still have to ask ... I dont know what to do with myself. I am pretty jealous and I really don't want to be, cause I have the feeling I will destroy the whole relationship if I dont sto...
A. 4 April 2008: Thank you all for our help especially Namatjira - I will def look for "self-defeating behavior" online and will see what it brings!
Another person was asking me if I had any bad experience in the past...unfortunately all my past relation... (read in full...)
Is it normal for Europeon men to have a wandering eye?
Q. Everytime I go out with my boyfriend (he is Europeon and I am american) he keeps oopgling other women and has an extreme wandering eye. I have never had this problem before with previous boyfriends. His previous girlfriends have all been Europeon. ...
A. 3 April 2008: My BF is Greek/American and yes, sometimes he looks at other girls too. I think everyone does. You look at other people that pass by, don't you?
I told my BF once that I feel ... ehm .. exactly the way you feel ... like he is maybe missing ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt to lose your virginity?
Q. Does it hurt to lose your virginity? Ladies' opinions, please....
A. 26 March 2008: I personally didn't feel anything... But I sure was with the wrong person at the wrong time ... so don't worry about the pain .. worry about who it will be with!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
He no longer wants to please me sexually or orally after I had our baby, I feel insecure and need advice!
Q. My husband is 37 and im 27 and we just had a baby but about 6 months into my pregnancy he quit wanting to please me sexually or orally. I go down on him several times a week but he makes excuses on why he won't please me. The only time he does ...
A. 26 March 2008: My friend had a similar problem
They are divorced now. He just didnt see her as a LOVER anymore, he saw her only as a Mother of his child. He had no other feelings for her anymore. And unfortunately it wasnt his fault .. it was just his mind and ... (read in full...)
I can't bear to think of him looking at porn when I am a willing bed partner, it makes me feel so angry and rejected and worthless any ideas what to do?
Q. Hi I can relate to everything some of you say I met my partner 8 years ago at first although not frequent, sex was really good then four years ago he announced that he no longer wanted sex with me or any other woman I was a bit shocked but took ...
A. 19 March 2008: Honey, This sounds like your man is addicted to porn. He is happy with himself and the porn scene, and he doesn't need anyone else to it. He is just lost in his own "sex" world. I don't really know what to tell you. I would understand, if... (read in full...)
I think my daughters' masturbating is going to far.
Q. I am a older guy. My wife died at a really young age. I have 2 daughters. One is 12 and the other is 14 One year ago I caught them masturbating in the bathroom. I told them it was ok and that they have the right to do that to themselves but d...
A. 19 March 2008: They shouldn't be doing it together. I think that's the biggest problem that I see here. Masturbating itself its normal ... but this way? Do they have their own rooms? Maybe you should talk to them and tell them that doing this together its just not ... (read in full...)
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