My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?
Q. Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of ...
A. 18 August 2008: Ok well
I dont think there is no need for him to be with her anymore. If he loves you, he will choose you, if he loves her, he will be with her. He has to decide where he wants to be tho, because this situation is killing you!!!! This can't go on f... (read in full...)
I had a piercing done 3 days ago, how long do I have to clean it, days, weeks, months or forever?
Q. i had a piercing done 3 days ago i am wondering how long do i have to keep cleaning it for? is it days, weeks, months or all the time cheers x...
A. 5 August 2008: its different.
I got my belly button done long time ago ... they told me its 6-8weeks,but its not really a true....It has been 6months and I still get infections and stuff ... I do clean it and take care of it .. but I guess my body just doesnt a... (read in full...)
My wife is infertile so I decided to divorce, as children are important to me. Your comments?
Q. I am 31 yrs old and married some six years back. We did not have a child due to the infertility problem from my wife side. I am an assistant professor. I am the only kid for my family. I want to have kids.Therefore I decided to divorce. I need your ...
A. 4 August 2008: Wow
Thats horrible! You had perfectly fine relationship with your wife and you leave her only because she can't give you children???? That is sooooooo selfish of you!
I understand children are imporant to you, but there are ways toget them w... (read in full...)
He's keeping photos of his Ex girlfriend. Why?
Q. hi im 24 years old and im in this relationship with my boyfreind for a couple of months and i discovered in his email and as well on his computer pictures of his ex they were all over i spoke to him about it and i told him to get rid of them and ...
A. 2 August 2008: I found many pictures of my boyfriends exe's ... when I told him I saw them .. he showed me all of them on his own .. told me the stories about them ... we were laughting about it ... its a past .. he is not WITH THEM, HE IS WITH YOU .... so who ... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with sex, I'm begining to think this is all he wants..
Q. I've been with my bf for about 5 months now. When were together he wants to have sex at least 4-5 times a day. Now that my bf has been away for about a month, every time i talk to him, he keeps talking about how he cant wait to do it with me like ...
A. 2 August 2008: When I started w my boyfriend .. the first 6 months was only sex sex sex .. .wecouldnt get enough of each other .. couple of times a day .. every day....than it slowed down ...
I wish I had your boyyfriend .. I have much bigger sex appetite... (read in full...)
My girl is losing too much weight - I'm scared it's my fault!
Q. My girlfriend is over dieting also she doesn't need to. She's barely eating a thing, I think it all started when I jokingly say that she's eating too much. When talked to her but she doesn't think its an issue. Help. I have too know is it my fault?...
A. 2 August 2008: You didnt do it, but you kinda did help it a lil ...
I have lost lots of weight .. than I met my BF .. I am about size 8 (I was muuuuch bigger) ... my BF loves me the way I am and he would probably prefer if I styed the way I am .. but once we ... (read in full...)
He keeps hinting he want's 3somes. How do I get him to shut up about it?
Q. Why does my bofriend keep bring up this topic? Early in our relationship, he asked me if I would ever do a threesome with another girl. I told him "no way! i'm not sharing you!" about a month later, he asked if i would ever consider having sex with ...
A. 2 August 2008: You have to tell him streight that you are absolutely against it and there is NO WAY he will make you do it !!!
Most guys would like 3 some .. I am personaly truned on by seeing 3 somes in porn movies or so .. but I would never do it, because ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have a good story or had any luck with 'Online Dating Agencies?
Q. So I finally broke down and decided to test out the online dating scene, and to say the least, I'm not impressed. I wasted an hour or so of my time filling out the eharmony survey... just for them to tell me I'm not an acceptable match. Great. Now ...
A. 2 August 2008: Hi
Well .. I was very affraid to use one of the online agencies, cause I heard about people meeting with their matches, that at the end were totaly different people than their online profiles!
I was lucky.
I met the man of my life. I was in lo... (read in full...)
Why did he ignore my text?
Q. First of all,sorry for my errors,English is not my national language:) I have a big problem.There is a guy who seemed to like me,he smiled at me all the time and stared at me.So I asked him about his phone number.He gave it to me willingly. After ...
A. 1 August 2008: You have a flag of Czech Republic .. are you Czech? Cause I AM! ...
It seems to me ..that he most probably did not want to meet up in the first place .. or maybe he did, but because you kept bugging him about it he backed up and he doesnt w... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken. I want to confront him about what I discovered, but I don't want him to know how I found out. Please help.
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for only like a month. i have fallen pretty hard for him. everything about him is perfect to me...and everything always seems to fall into place. the other day he lost his cell phone and i found it today at my house. I...
A. 31 July 2008: You have to Confront him!! You have to ask him streight. It will be hard, cause he will feel that you dont trust him, but hey ... you obviulsy had the reason not to trust!!!
Maybe they are just images of some porn moviestars passed from his frie... (read in full...)
I'm a gay man, married to a woman... am I doing the right thing, pretending to be straight?
Q. I need help!! I am a gay guy age 29, trying to have a straight life and relationship. I love my wife more than anything. now i have two questions: 1: Am i doing the right thing by trying to be straight? 2: Are there ways I can spice up our...
A. 31 July 2008: I think you are BI ... because if you love your woman and you make love to her with no problems, than you like female and male body.
I think you should definetely talk to your wife and tell her how you feel. I cant promisse you she will understa... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants a tattoo with a bike and some lady on it! I feel a bit uneasy about it.
Q. I'm feeling a bit indifferent about my boyfriend getting his new tattoo. He wants a tattoo with a bike and then some lady on it. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, not planning to seperate, anytime soon at least. I would ...
A. 31 July 2008: Hey
I have tattoos and my BF does as well. I honestly have to say, I would never want him to get my name on face on his body .. and I wouldnt do it to myself either. You nver know whats going to happen with your relationship and htan you guys have... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair and now she's pregnant! Where do we go from here?
Q. Let me explain more in detail I am 46 my husband Is 36 we have been together for 12 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship. He want children but I can't give him any.He recently had an affair like 5 months ago. now shes pregnant,and of ...
A. 31 July 2008: Wow
I am soooo sorry you are going through this. Unfortunately my opinion is, that if woman is that much older than a guy, sooner or later, he will go after a younger one, cause lets face it ... women age faster than men ... unfair, but true
Any... (read in full...)
I need some tips on talking dirty!
Q. As stupid as this sounds, i don't know how to dirty talk. Can anyone give me some things to say because he told me he loves it when i dirty talk but i honestly suck at it :(...
A. 30 July 2008: Hmmmm
I love talking dirty .. and I actually asked my BF if he can do it for me. Not all the time tho .. you just have to feel like it sometimes
The best thing to say?
Well ... can I actually write it here???? :)
Check out some porn movie ..th... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt my wonderful fiance, but I don't want this amazing, loving affair to end.
Q. In Love with two people! I'm 35. Fiancé 32, Lover 21! I can't believe I have let myself get into this situation, I have a really nice Fiancé, 2 kids aged 2 and 5 we don’t argue, we still have Sex a few times a week. My problem is this a year a...
A. 29 July 2008: Man .. this is srewed up!
You have to make it clear to yourself. Do you really want to get married? All I see is, that you are totaly in lust with your 21year old lover .. there is not much about your fiance, except that she is a wonderfu... (read in full...)
My problem is I don't enjoy sex although, according to the women I have been with, I am good in the bedroom.
Q. I'm a 23 year old guy. And my problem, put simply, is that i don't enjoy sex. Ever sinec i was a kid i wanted that sort of "fairy tale" experience. Since then though, i've learned to know better through a series of heartbreaks and backstabs tha...
A. 25 July 2008: FIND A girl that you love! than the whole sexual experience will be completely different think!
good luck... (read in full...)
Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?
Q. I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 ...
A. 25 July 2008: Yeah, that doesnt usually happen!!!
Especially if the older one is a guy!!!! It always leads to sex.
Someone smart once said "You can't be a friend with woman, because woman is your fantasy" ... I dont know who was it tho. But its true ... eve... (read in full...)
Any sex advice for a larger lady?
Q. I'm very overweight and not very "attractive" but I've met a fella who accepts me as I am. We're now having regular intercourse for the first time in my life.To be honest I'm just glad to feel wanted and satisfy a man's needs in bed.Look...
A. 25 July 2008: HEY THERE
Congrats on your guy! I always love hearing happy loved people!!! BTW dont every say that you are not attractive, becaue everone is! Trust me, even if you were skinny blond bitch like me, you would still feel not attractive for one ore ... (read in full...)
Can a man love his wife and keep outside affairs seperate, and be content and happy?
Q. I have been with my husband for 18 years, who never wanted to get married in the first place. He was and is a player ever since I had met him. When I gave him an ultimatum. he married me after dating for 10 years. Anyway, He had many affairs ...
A. 25 July 2008: Oh wow
I would never be able to be with someone like that at first place! I need my man to be only mine. I cant share !!! But thats me. You are obvioulsy more open minded than I am (or probably most women) .. I would kill him 20 years ago for this... (read in full...)
Are men programmed to lose interest in a woman after they've had sex?
Q. I,ve been flirting with a friend of mine for months and yesterday we finally had sex. Today I feel that i really could be in love with him, but i have this feelin that now hes finally got his shag i'll hardly see him - and before u say it the sex ...
A. 25 July 2008: give him some time to think! ... (read in full...)
I met a guy on holiday in Greece, now he says he misses me and wants me to go back to meet up!
Q. I have been back from a holiday in Greece for a week. While I was there me and my friend got to know a local guy really well. He spoke perfect english and worked in a restaurant and a supermarket which we visited reguarly. He was older than we were ...
A. 25 July 2008: Hehe ... My boyfriend is Greek ... and he was reading this .. he said
If a Greek man is married with children...there is nothing else than sex that he wants from another woman. Its unexceptable for a greek man in Greece to have another woman, b... (read in full...)
I really want to move to California, but my boyfriend is against it because he's a mama's boy. How can things work between us?
Q. I have always wanted to move to California. Its been a dream of mine for as long as I can remember. And the career Im interested in, I'd make more money there. But I have one problem. My boyfriend of a year and a half is against california. I lo...
A. 25 July 2008: You have to make it clear for yourself Do you want to be with your boyfriend? Will that make you happy? Or will you survive without him, because California will make you even happier!!! He is obviulsy not going with you ... so you have to make... (read in full...)
I have an amazing boyfriend but I'm miserable because I don't have any other friends.
Q. Hi everyone, I need advice, and to spare u anymore agony my dearc agony aunts, im gonna make a long story short. Im miserable, I have an amazing boyfriend that I love and really enjoy spending time with but other than him I don't really have any...
A. 25 July 2008: HI YOU ARE IN THE SAME SITUATION AS I AM Well maybe lil different. I moved in the states 5years ago due to my job. I met lots of other people and friends (usually from the same country) .. we become good palls .. and than they left... I met m... (read in full...)
I'm interested in group sex, any advice?
Q. i am interested in group sex but i would like to know about the advantages and disadvantages of group sex and how can i enjoy more with different type of sex. my some friends and their wives are also interested to join in group sex with me and my ...
A. 25 July 2008: Well ... group sex maigh be fun, if both of you understand that you will be having sex with different people (at the same room!) ... it could destroy the relationship, if you guys are not as strong as you think you are .. and also if jellaousy comes ... (read in full...)
How do I learn to trust my boyfriend?
Q. Okay so today i took my boyfriend lunch on his lunch break and while he was on his way i looked through his condom stash to count how many were left because i knew how many we have used. And it turned out that 6 were missing, i didnt look to see if ...
A. 25 July 2008: Om .. I dont think he will go every time and tell you !
"Honey today I have been masturbating in our condoms! It felt great!" ... common girl!!!! Give that poor guy some privacy. I am sure he is not cheating on you .. and if he is after all? Than... (read in full...)
How do I learn to trust my boyfriend?
Q. Okay so today i took my boyfriend lunch on his lunch break and while he was on his way i looked through his condom stash to count how many were left because i knew how many we have used. And it turned out that 6 were missing, i didnt look to see if ...
A. 24 July 2008: First of all .. just because those condoms are missing doesnt mean that he is using them with other girls. He could of take some of them and put them in the car or pants or such .. just in case that you guys are "doing it" somewhere else than home ... (read in full...)
I found out that my girlfriend likes lesbian porn. Is this normal?
Q. hi,i found that my girlfriend like lesbian porn.me too!well i asked her if she ever masturbated alone and watched lesbian porn?she said yes.but is shy about it.the other night i thought id treat her and told her to watch some lesbian porn.she likes ...
A. 24 July 2008: yeah totaly normal Women are beautiful .. "sorry" much prettier than gusy! Its easier to look at their bodies!!! I watch lesbian porn too and it gets me pretty horny as well ... but I would not give up on men to be with a woman! NOPE foot fetish? O... (read in full...)
My husband won't have sex with me any more.
Q. My husband won't have sex with me anymore. I'm only 23 and he just turned 28. We have a son who is 3 years old and has been a major challenge for us. In the beginning of our relationship he loved being intimate with me, he'd initiate it all the ...
A. 24 July 2008: It does sound to me, that your husband, even tho he loves you deeply, is not interested in you,because of the weight you gained over the time of being. Maybe you stopped taking care of yourself and he just doesnt see you as he did before. Mayb... (read in full...)
How do I tell my 11 year old daughter she has a sibling? The baby is the result of an affair...
Q. To make a long story short, I had a 3 year affair. When we were breaking up, my girlfriend knew it was happening, and went off her birth control to trick me into making her pregnant. It was out right deception, as I specifically asked her if she was ...
A. 24 July 2008: HI
My father was married before he met my mom and had two girls w that woman. Than he met my mom, got divorced, married my mom and had me and my brother. We didnt know we had another 2 sisters somewhere around, no one told us. Than one day thes... (read in full...)
How do I tell my 11 year old daughter she has a sibling? The baby is the result of an affair...
Q. To make a long story short, I had a 3 year affair. When we were breaking up, my girlfriend knew it was happening, and went off her birth control to trick me into making her pregnant. It was out right deception, as I specifically asked her if she was ...
A. 24 July 2008: HI My father was married before he met my mom and had two girls w that woman. Than he met my mom, got divorced, married my mom and had me and my brother. We didnt know we had another 2 sisters somewhere around, no one told us. Than one day the... (read in full...)
He broke his promise when he looked up swinging parties and porn again, how can I trust him in our future marriage?
Q. Just over a year ago i found text messages on my fiance's phone. There were about 20 texts. The texts indicated arranging a meeting with another woman. The last of the texts sent said 'I wont tell, if you don't.' My fiance had never mentione...
A. 23 July 2008: I really wouldnt worry about the porn as much .... but I would definetely get crazy about prostitutes and the swinging parties !! Thats something I would definetely put my red flags up, because thats not normal . He is right that porn is a guy thing ... (read in full...)
What is worse, regret or rejection?
Q. I have always feared regret more than i fear rejection, but the rejections are mounting up I'm wondering if it would be best not to tell people i fancy them when i do, what d'you think?...
A. 22 July 2008: I always tell myself
"Never regret anything, because at some point that was, what I wanted!"
... (read in full...)
When I shave down below I get a rash. How can I stop it happening?
Q. When i shave Below i get a sort of shaving rash, but their squeezy! Is this normal what can i do 2 stop it!? x...
A. 21 July 2008: DONT SHAVE!! WAX!!! ITS THE BEST THING EVER!... (read in full...)
Not even a birthday present from my boyfriend. What am I worth to him?
Q. It was my birthday last weekend. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. He's a very sweet guy, but not very good when it comes to suprises for me, or buying gifts ahead of time. I was over at his parent's house the day before my birthday ...
A. 19 July 2008: Hmmm ... thank God my BF's bday its the exact same day, so he can't say he forgot ... lol
If its really bothering you, tell him ... I wold probably wait for maybe another week or so .. and than start joking about "the present I never got" ...
... (read in full...)
Do women like watching porn? Can they get addicted?
Q. Do women be addicted to porn and how do they fill when watching all the dirty action?please I prefer answers from female readers only....
A. 18 July 2008: Yeah
I enjoy watching porn! I wouldnt say I am addicted tho. But if my BF is not around and I feel like I "need"some .. than Ill watch it for a lil. We also watch it together soemtimes, just to get some new "ideas" .. and its fun :)
I think... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sometimes calls me fat, which makes me cry, and brings out my insecurities, I am driving him away, what can I do to build my self-esteem?
Q. I am currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. I would do anything for him and I think he would do anything for me, problem is I think I could be pushing him away. We have been in a relationship for a year and a half and I can honestly say...
A. 18 July 2008: Get rid of him
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Is it possible to find a boyfriend not into religion?
Q. Hey, I was wondering about this. I want a boyfriend, and one issue i was afraid would come up is that I'm not a religious person. (not that there's anything wrong with it) I know that LOTS of people are religious, and it would probably be really ...
A. 18 July 2008: Hey
I am Atheist and I am proud of it! I dont care what people say .. for example bebe girlie that called you "person with no identity" how dare is she .. you have identity if you are religious or not!!
Thats actually why I am not religious ..... (read in full...)
Slept with a few girls but too scared to go to the clinic for a check?
Q. I've slept with a few girls, but too scared to go to clinic what should i do?...
A. 15 July 2008: GO! There is nothing to be scared of ! You will be ok! Just do it... (read in full...)
How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 15 July 2008: I use to meet all my guy friends at someone elses parties or bars or clubs - it have never worked for me, because the wanted only sex or they were just not "it" in any other way.
I met the love of my life on match.com (yeah, I know how phatetic... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is now willing to have anal sex, now I need some advice, please.
Q. Hello All, Well i am 27 and hve a gf. I want to do anal sex and i am kind of crazy for that. I like to see movie with anal sex, also i discuss the same with my gf. First she was not ready but now she said YES over the phone. Whenever we met she ...
A. 15 July 2008: Hm ...
I was always interested in knowing how anal sex feels, but never had the guts to do it. The pain and after problems are to scary for me to dela with.
As much as I know from my friends, the pain is horrible, she wont be able to even use... (read in full...)
I'm married. Would one afternoon of extra-martial passion be THAT wrong?
Q. I've been married nine years and have kids. Sex is not as adventurous as I'd like but things are fine. Better than fine. I Iove my wife and enjoy a wonderful family life. Then I go and get drunk at a conference and have some sexy action with a woman ...
A. 15 July 2008: DO you love your wife? Do you wana be with her or the other one? Do you respect your wife ?
Do not ruin perfect marriage that you have! You will feel horrible after you do it. Now it seems like an adventure, because its not "real" but imagine ... (read in full...)
Quiz on guys!
Q. I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!! 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more lik...
A. 14 July 2008: Sorry than ... it was ment as a fun quiz, as posted, not as something thats bothering me !... (read in full...)
Quiz on guys!
Q. I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!! 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more lik...
A. 14 July 2008: TO COLLAROY
Hahahahhahahaha ... lol ... u made me laugh
It was a fun quiz. This is usually what women talk about when they are all together so I put it up as few questions instead reading always some serious stuff like " He doesnt love me" ...... (read in full...)
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