Should I tell my fiance how I came up with the name for our unborn daughter?
Q. Hi guys So I am 29, engaged and pregnant. To be honest life couldn't be better right now. My summer wedding is around the corner and everything's great. Here's my question. Me and my fiance are having a girl and have come up with the best n...
A. 1 June 2017: I don't think it's a good idea to keep it from him. If you're really set on the name, I'd tell him about it now, hopefully he'll be okay with it. I doubt he will be. I personally wouldn't want to learn after the fact that I named my first born after ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to crack the code to being happier, I am always miserable.
Q. I wanted to ask if someone else has struggled to be happy- I am a miserable person and as much as I try in therapy I just can't be satisfied. I worry a lot about what others perceive me and I please People. Sadly the only joy I have gotten is ...
A. 31 May 2017: I agree with the two comments below.
Very soon, if nothing changes, you'll end up feeling alone even when you're surrounded by people. What then? You need to experience life, meet new people and travel to new places. By the sound of it you're l... (read in full...)
Why didn't he tell his friends he had broken up with me?
Q. The man I had been seeing for 14 months and I had an argument....almost. I asked him how he felt about me because I needed to know in order to decide where to take my life. Eight months ago he was gung ho about "US" and then he turned cold. He told ...
A. 31 May 2017: I think the friend knows you two are broken up and he just called to check on you and see how you're doing... kinda as in a "I know guys are no longer together but that doesn't mean we can't still be friends" way.
That's what I do when my friends ... (read in full...)
I can't stop stalking my ex on social media and I can't get over the way that he dumped me mercilessly
Q. I can't get over my ex and stalking him on social media; this is pathetic and I don't talk about it beside my therapists that doesn't approve my actions but here it is and I am hoping that someone might have some advice - my relationship with my ex ...
A. 31 May 2017: I agree with honeypie!
You have to let go. He's moving forward with his life while you're still stuck in the past scheming some sort of weird unrewarding revenge that will not be satisfying to you. You want him to know you're happy? Why? It's bee... (read in full...)
Drunken fumble, was what the guy did normal making out or was it more than that?
Q. I was at a party recently and we both were pretty drunk and horny, and started making out and it turned into a very intense one. He started moving my hands all around her body including my breasts and my butt, and cupped my breasts and butt ...
A. 31 May 2017: I'd say that's pretty normal when making out BUT it's not because it's normal that you should accept it. If the squeezing wasn't comfortable or enjoyable to you, you have to tell him. It's a two person activity and communication is key. If he's ... (read in full...)
Did he just want to have fun with me?
Q. Hi My name is Aliyah and am 30 years old,separated and from Mauritius. I would like to have an advice please. I have know a guy on an online dating site since last December,he is actually working for an international company in South Africa ...
A. 31 May 2017: Okay... from what I understood I would say he's probably not serious.
The most telling parts were the cancelled lawyer appointment, the talk of his girlfriend moments after having sex with you and the still active dating account.
Cancelled law... (read in full...)
My mother says it will ruin my reputation if I am with this guy
Q. Me and this black have been talking and i told my mama about it and she doesn't approve. she mad me feel horrible about the whole situation and I told him that we were gonna have to be friends. I dont know what to do because i dont see what the big ...
A. 31 May 2017: I'm sorry you two have to go through that kind of prejudice. I don't know where you live but, after you finish college you should move to a bigger city where the color of people's skin isn't so much of an issue. But be prepared to see people show ... (read in full...)
Did he mean anything by this or not?
Q. Me and this boy have known each other for a while, although until recently we've gone a few months without talking just because we haven't seen each other. The other night we were at a mutual friend's party and we started talking, and the next day...
A. 31 May 2017: It's a sweet compliment! At the very least he finds you attractive. I would continue to hang out with him and see if you can pick up more of a vibe from him. It's hard to know from a single comment. But if you like him and you guys get along, ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my co worker about our fling, or let it go?
Q. Hey guys, need some work/relationship advice!! So I recently started working at my job a little over a month ago. One thing I love about this place is there are a lot of people my age and we're all motivated to work, but can still have a good time...
A. 30 May 2017: He's playing the push and pull game. He pushes you away to pull you back in. I don't think he's getting the reaction he wants from you. N91 is right, it is unecessary workplace drama, stay far away from it. As for your coworker, I would act as if ... (read in full...)
He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?
Q. I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy...
A. 30 May 2017: The only mistake you will make is staying. He's unstable and very abusive. It's only a matter of time until he hits you. Luckily your kids seem to have a very involved father and even then, this kind of environment will be damaging for them. I would ... (read in full...)
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