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Do I keep on seeing where this goes, even if he is taken? Or do I just let him go?

Q.   I went on a non-date with a good friend of mine from high school, who happens to have a girlfriend who he's been with for quite awhile. Nothing happened between the two of us but the very little that did happen, his girlfriend would not be happy ...

A.   2 December 2009: If you keep hanging out with him while he's with someone else you could get really hurt. Your feelings will grow but you won't be able to act on it knowing he's got a girlfriend. How long have they been together? Don't pay attention to what he ... (read in full...)

He looks at other girls and I'm not sure he's fully committed like I am!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We both know we love each other everyday, and I know he means it. However, I tell him things like "I only want to be with you and nobody else. I want to spend the rest of my life with you because ...

A.   2 December 2009: The right direction for you would be to stop and think what you really want, what will make you happy and content. I cannot believe that you would basically 'beg' a man to take you back after he broke up with you, after he can't express his feel... (read in full...)

I don't believe pretty women with breasts make good wives!

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, There's a song that goes "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.." Homely women aren't as sought after and they're not as likely to cheat on a husband or boyfriend. It so...

A.   2 December 2009: A woman with the looks and no conscience will stray. One with the looks and a conscience will not. I also think that it takes a man who's secure in himself to have a successful relationship with a beautiful woman. C Grant and DoubleM seem to be good ... (read in full...)

Three years down the line and he's still never told me he loves me...

Q.   Why won't my boyfriend of 3+ years not profess his love for me...?...

A.   2 December 2009: What do his actions tell you? Words are empty sometimes...I think people show how they feel. How does he treat you? Do you think he loves you?... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...

Q.   Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him ...

A.   2 December 2009: When it comes down to it, which guy do you see yourself being in a relationship with? Forget the excitement, the butterflies, the flirting...who do you think you'd be happiest with if you were to have a relationship with...the day to day thing? ... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...

Q.   Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him ...

A.   2 December 2009: When it comes down to it, which guy do you see yourself being in a relationship with? Forget the excitement, the butterflies, the flirting...who do you think you'd be happiest with if you were to have a relationship with...the day to day thing? ... (read in full...)

I am being forced to chose and she isn!t going to like my choice

Q.   Me and my gf have been dating over a year she is great until it comes time for me to hang out with my friends. she doesnt get along at all with my best friend and after many failed attempts its just not working. i know if it comes down to me ...

A.   2 December 2009: Although I'm only getting your side of the story, she sounds very controlling. You're only 20 and she wants you home by 10 so that you can talk to her? I think she's too needy, and perhaps also insecure. She doesn't want you to talk about her when ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be stuck in the "Friends Zone"

Q.   My ex and I broke up about a week or two ago. Everything was going perfect between us before that. She would normally take her anger out on me because she saw me outside of school more than anyone else and it was never me that she was mad at. She ...

A.   1 December 2009: "The real reason she broke up with me was because she didn't have time for a serious relationship because she has to take care of her mother whose back is broken and she has school, a lot of homework, and she also has to take care of her sister. " ... (read in full...)

I can't get me a man and I don't know why

Q.   okey! I need help for this one , I can't get a boyfriend!! I don't know what should I do to make guys want to be in a relationship with me .. the thing is that boys see me in a sexual way, I don't know maybe I send them wrong messages but I don't ...

A.   1 December 2009: Guys are going to see you in a sexual way whether you like it or not...they're guys. You say now that you've stopped caring about the men who only want sex and now you don't have a man...well, you don't want a man who only wants sex so you're d... (read in full...)

I think I'm falling for him but I have a boyfriend...

Q.   Someone please help me! I have a boyfriend (let's call him G) and we have only been dating for about a month but it feels so much longer! I love being with him, he makes me smile and feel happy. But recently there's been another guy.(let's call him ...

A.   1 December 2009: You have to make a choice. It's not fair to G if you keep flirting with D and letting him touch you. How well do you know D? You say you've only been with your bf for a month but it feels longer. I think you like the excitement of D because ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be stuck in the "Friends Zone"

Q.   My ex and I broke up about a week or two ago. Everything was going perfect between us before that. She would normally take her anger out on me because she saw me outside of school more than anyone else and it was never me that she was mad at. She ...

A.   1 December 2009: Are you serious? Are you really 26-29? This girl is using you and walking all over you. As a man, you should demand more respect! I don't think she has genuine feelings for you. Whatever it is, she's using you for her own benefit...compan... (read in full...)

I need your help! How can I get my boyfriend to stop having sex with me until we are married?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. In the beginning we completely fell in love with each other and had so much fun together. We first had sex together about 2 and a half weeks after we had started dating. We ...

A.   1 December 2009: And yeah, he may leave once you say no and he realizes you're not going to be walked all over...but so what...let him go...he's not the one for you.... (read in full...)

I need your help! How can I get my boyfriend to stop having sex with me until we are married?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. In the beginning we completely fell in love with each other and had so much fun together. We first had sex together about 2 and a half weeks after we had started dating. We ...

A.   1 December 2009: What you can do is stand up for yourself and don't have sex with him if you don't want to. So what if he wants it? You don't and that's that. If you want respect, you need to be stronger and know how to assert yourself.... (read in full...)

I want to ask him out, but don't know how to do it!

Q.   I was wondering what is the best way to ask a guy out? I like to get straight to the point/keep it short and dont want to have to repeatedly visit/work up the nerve to ask them out and find out theyre not interested or taken. Theres this ...

A.   1 December 2009: Yeah, that would be random...and it would take him by surprise. It's really difficult to just ask someone out like that when they don't know you and you don't know the first thing about them. Is there any way you can strike up a brief conversa... (read in full...)

Why do guys always only want sex?

Q.   This might take a while but I really need help, please answer if you can. I'm in my final year at school and I have always thought this guy in my year is really nice, gorgeous and a nice personality. I never even thought about me and him being ...

A.   30 November 2009: LazyGuy's answer is great...and it's true. Some guys only want sex, others want sex and a relationship. Your task is to not give in to the sex until you can weed out the 'sex-only' guys. You might get emotionally burned a few times but soon you... (read in full...)

Why do guys always only want sex?

Q.   This might take a while but I really need help, please answer if you can. I'm in my final year at school and I have always thought this guy in my year is really nice, gorgeous and a nice personality. I never even thought about me and him being ...

A.   30 November 2009: LazyGuy's answer is great...and it's true. Some guys only want sex, others want sex and a relationship. Your task is to not give in to the sex until you can weed out the 'sex-only' guys. You might get emotionally burned a few times but soon you... (read in full...)

Confusion here!! Why did he just stop calling me out the blue?

Q.   Hello everyone! I'm having this problem and would love you guys help with this situation I'm having. First off I met this guy that's a year younger than me, and I'm 22 by the way, and from the first time we met he was up front with me about his ...

A.   30 November 2009: CaringGuy gives you great advice, I agree with him. No one on here can tell you why he stopped calling you out of the blue...but the bottom line is, and it's all you need to know, is that he lost interest for whatever reason. There is no u... (read in full...)

Will my awkward kiss, ruin my chances for another date with him?

Q.   I went on my second date with a guy and we went to a movie. He held my hand (for the first time) during the movie and throughout the night as well. At the end of the night, he kissed me. However, the kiss wasn't amazing. It happened so quickly and I ...

A.   30 November 2009: No way, it won't ruin a thing. If he likes you for who you are and wants to get to know you better, he'll be back. Sit back and wait for him to ask you on your third date. And don't ever think you'll 'ruin' something...when a guy likes you for ... (read in full...)

He doesn't want a relationship, just sex!

Q.   i like this boy and i would love a relationship with him but we were talking earlier tongight and we got onto the conversation of relationships and he told me he didnt want a relationship, just sex. im still a virgin but im 16. should i go for the ...

A.   30 November 2009: It's not going to turn into anything more. He's being honest with you (and although it's not what you want to hear, you should be thankful he's been upfront with you from the start). Don't sleep with him in the hope he'll want more...he won't. ... (read in full...)

How do I get this relationship moving along?

Q.   So I just started seeing this girl and I can't really read whats going on in her head and I'm not really sure where to expect things to go. We've gone out on 3 dates so far, due to logistics we can only see each other on the weekends, I've s...

A.   29 November 2009: It's not wrong that you're upset that she might not have been a virgin...that's just how you feel. Whether she was a virgin before you or not, it shouldn't really affect your relationship with her...she had a life before you came along. I assume y... (read in full...)

Have her feelings changed?

Q.   We haven't been together long and it has been a whirlwind romance! Now in text messages and emails she says less and less she loves me or thinking of me expressing affection etc. Should I be worried?? I would like her to say such things. ...

A.   24 November 2009: Maybe she feels secure in the relationship and doesn't see the need to say those things anymore...maybe she just assumes you know she loves you, she's thinking of you etc How does she behave when you're together? Don't just assess this whole th... (read in full...)

What do you all think of 'one night' stands?

Q.   I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protect...

A.   24 November 2009: "I wouldnt just want to be a walking vagina for a random bloke to have his way with." That's a great answer! Hilarious and I totally agree :)... (read in full...)

What do you all think of 'one night' stands?

Q.   I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protect...

A.   24 November 2009: "I wouldnt just want to be a walking vagina for a random bloke to have his way with." That's a great answer! Hilarious and I totally agree :)... (read in full...)

Is he flirting with me just to get me in bed?

Q.   i have been flirting with this guy now for about 3 months however i don't know if i should take things further or not. Ok he works in the bar im a local at and i see him every weekend. The first time i seen him he just kept staring at me th...

A.   24 November 2009: Well, what do you want? Do you want a relationship from this guy? Don't go to his place, expect a proper date. If all he wants is to hang out at his place then you know he's not worth the effort. You say 'in the back of my mind i think that he'... (read in full...)

What do you all think of 'one night' stands?

Q.   I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protect...

A.   24 November 2009: It's ok to go on like that if you're ok with it. I personally would never have a one night stand but it's all about what you want and how you feel about it. I don't do it because I'm not comfortable with the idea of being so intimate with som... (read in full...)

Dating help

Q.   So I have been dating this guy for 3 months. Yesterday he called me and said he realizes I am wanting us to be in a relationship but he is not ready for that. Although he loves going out and doing stuff with me. He is young 24! But I am not sure I ...

A.   23 November 2009: You clearly want more than he does so I think you better cut your losses now. His age has nothing to do with anything, it's the way he feels about you. He's not sure about you and that is not good enough. You say 'to me if feels like he was sayi... (read in full...)

We go to tea, but i'd like it to be more. How do I tell him? Advice please!

Q.   I am interested in a co worker very much but not sure if he is just being nice to me? We have gone to lunch a few times casually its just lunch and tea---- but he DOES go with me when I invite him. However its always my initiative.......I'm not sure ...

A.   22 November 2009: Sorry I'm not a man but here's my two cents. You don't have to tell him you like him. What you should do is set up an opportunity for him to ask you out...to do something outside of work. When you go to lunch/tea and you're talking and so on, ment... (read in full...)

How do people have interesting conversations via text messaging?

Q.   What do you girls usly talk to your boyfriends about well your texting? And what do you guys like talking about with your girlfriend. Becuse its hard for me to like have a real conversation about any thing well were texting its mostly how was your ...

A.   18 November 2009: My bf and I only use texts to let each other know one of us is running late, to send a reminder about something and so on. If you want to build a proper relationship, stay away from text conversations. A long time ago I gave up on men who couldn't... (read in full...)

Having a bad tug of war with my heart..over my current guy and the ex bf! Help!

Q.   Alright, so my ex and I had been dating for just over a month when he broke up with me because I was distracting him from God (since we are both Christians) and that he just needed time and space to figure things out in his life because he has a ho...

A.   18 November 2009: Your ex broke up with you two times...what makes you think he won't do it a third time if you go back to him? He knows you're with someone else, that's why he wants you. He said he can't stand the thought of you with another guy. He wants you beca... (read in full...)

Help! I'm in love but I barely know him?

Q.   Alright, here is my situation. I am in love with this guy. Every time there is even a slight chance of seeing him I get butterflies and my heart races. I can't get him out of my mind and I think I see him sometimes when I'm out. He is very funny, ...

A.   17 November 2009: Listen to what pinktopaz has to say, she's absolutely right. You're not in love, you're very infatuated. Happens often and it's different to real love. Real love takes time and there are no butterflies and all that crazy stuff. Get to know h... (read in full...)

Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...

Q.   hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but ...

A.   11 November 2009: I also forgot to add that you perhaps feel trapped. You've know him for so long and deep down you might think that you 'should' stay with him. You don't have to do that. It's ok to break away and be alone for a while. You have to do what will make ... (read in full...)

Maybe I am paranoid or maybe I should trust my gut...

Q.   hi everyone, i am 21 and have known my boyfriend since i was 15. Now we have been dating for 3 yrs. For some reason i have been having these feelings that he is hiding something from me. i would have never thought of this when i was younger, but ...

A.   11 November 2009: Pancakes rule is right...it does seem like you're not too sure if you want to stay with him. If you are feeling like this then there is a reason for it. I think you need a bit of quiet time to try and find out what exactly is bothering you. ... (read in full...)

Her boyfriend is in the way!!!

Q.   About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she ...

A.   11 November 2009: No problems. I also agree with the advice by xnickx, he's right about such girls. I hope things work out for you and I hope you find someone who deserves you.... (read in full...)

He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?

Q.   Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...

A.   11 November 2009: You need some sense. Why do you want this man? I don't get it. You get one life and one shot at it. If you want to be happy as I think you deserve to be you need to leave this man and look for that happiness elsewhere, you will never get it from ... (read in full...)

Her boyfriend is in the way!!!

Q.   About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she ...

A.   9 November 2009: This is a tough one. I know you like her but have you ever stopped to think that if she can cheat on her boyfriend with you she would possibly aslo cheat on you with someone else if you were her boyfriend. That aside, how long have they been tog... (read in full...)

How can I convince a lover to stay without throwing myself at them?

Q.   how could i show someone that i love them and want to be with them, and convince them not to leave out of state without actually throwing myself at them?...

A.   9 November 2009: If they can't see that you love them and want to be with them there really isn't much you can do. A person needs to make their own mind up and want to stay with you. The only thing you can do is be honest and adult about the whole situatio... (read in full...)

Confused...is he interested?

Q.   dear cupid, i am really confused about this guy that i think im really starting to like!! it has been a while since i met someone that im slightly interested in since my last break up. and finally im starting to like someone but i am really confused...

A.   9 November 2009: I don't think that any of us here can tell you what he's thinking exactly. I'd say that as a general rule, if a guy was really interested, he wouldn't wait so long to contact you after getting your number, he wouldn't just text you, and he would... (read in full...)

Ever since I became happy with myself, I seem to repel men!

Q.   I am a 27 year old editor and I have the worst luck with dating out of anyone I know. This year, I have been on dates with seven men, every one of whom has not felt compelled to continue seeing me, almost always after three dates. ...

A.   4 November 2009: I totally agree with aksoldersister and caring guy. I really do think that this has nothing to do with you per se but the kinds of guys you're going out with. Because you're good looking and successful you will attract many men. The ones who pursue ... (read in full...)

A man FINALLY fancies me for more than sex and I am not as interested in him! What should I do?

Q.   hi seemed to atract men how only wanted sex , and am fed up as want more than that,now i have meet a man how wants to spend time with me treat me right and is lovley person has a fab job , and is very honest, the trouble is i just dont fancy him he ...

A.   4 November 2009: Do you fancy him even a little? If you do, then take a chance, spend some more time with him, see what he's like. If you seriously don't see things happening between you two then it's better to let him know now and let him move on. Also, d... (read in full...)

What do you think of a man, who...?

Q.   What do you think about a man whom, you leave a phone message in the morning asking if he wants to have dinner and at 8:30pm he calls, leaves a message that does not mention the call, you try to call back and know he is there because he is on ...

A.   4 November 2009: Right, you should not date him. You want more than he does and he's got all the power in this right now. Stand up for yourself and deman what you want. If he can't give you that than he's not the man for you. He's evasive for a reason and he's ... (read in full...)

How often is too often seeing each other while dating?

Q.   So how often is too often seeing each other while dating? Or how much is not enough? We work together so we see each other every day. Although this probably shouldn't count as seeing each other, it's hard to guage. Right now we see each other ...

A.   3 November 2009: It really depends on what you both want out of this...are you just dating and are free to see other people or are you both interested in forging a proper relationship? If you're looking for a relationship I'd want to see someone on the weekends... (read in full...)

How do I get this relationship moving along?

Q.   So I just started seeing this girl and I can't really read whats going on in her head and I'm not really sure where to expect things to go. We've gone out on 3 dates so far, due to logistics we can only see each other on the weekends, I've s...

A.   7 October 2009: She sounds like me. I don't call and text all the time as I find that's suffocating. I also move slow in terms of physical intimacy because I need to know a guy well before I let him touch me...it's a respect thing. And none of this means she's a ... (read in full...)

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