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Can you have a love relationship with someone you don't find especially attractive?

Q.   I'm 31 year old, generally stable, happy person. I am making my way in my chosen field of work and have good friends, good family relationships. However, I've been a bit unlucky when it comes to love relationships. No problem attracting men, ...

A.   1 September 2011: Well appearance is actually such a thing which you can change maybe try different hair styles on him maybe take him cloth shopping usually clothes makes the man I believe it could change it. Well I might be young to give you advice but I will tell ... (read in full...)

She shared something personal with friends and is now making me the bad guy for telling her that bothered me!

Q.   Hi all. Ive been with a girl for 7 months, it's only a short time but it's the best relationship I've had, I can truley say I love this girl.. But over the past 3 months she's changing her attitude, and is acting very different to the gir...

A.   1 September 2011: I am sorry if that will sound harsh but I believe she is not interested in you anymore and eventually you will break up so don't put too much hope in this relationship. And if she keeps doing things like that and hurting you I suggest to run away ... (read in full...)

Confused about increased physical contact with ex-girlfriend.

Q.   My girlfriend of 1 year and I broke up 2 months ago. We are both in graduate school. Background (2 months ago): After we broke up, we met up once for dinner a week after breaking up and i asked her if she wants to get back together, she sa...

A.   1 September 2011: It is attraction maybe but maybe only the remains of it as you dated before... That physical contact could be natural to her. It could be that she feels insecure or wants to get attention and acts that way. Anyway you shouldn't rush and push her ... (read in full...)

My GF has the sex drive of a man-is this normal?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have found the perfect woman, but that's the problem - she's too perfect. She doesn't care that I've just been made redundant, orgasms through penetration alone when we have sex, genuinely finds me physically attractive and explai...

A.   1 September 2011: You should be happy... Because you seriously found a priceless gem. If she acts like a man it means you most likely won't find many problems with her and probably everything will go quite smoothly, I am not a girly girl myself and believe it is much ... (read in full...)

My bestfriend is dating my ex-I don't know what to do!

Q.   My two best friends are dating. And one of them is my crush. Basicly My best friends started dating. She knows i fancied him and his best friend fancies her. He's just a little crush but i cant help thinking that she should have thought about ho...

A.   1 September 2011: Well women can't have other women friends and not be let down, or you can accept the fact that sometimes it might happen and do not be bothered... Well I have dated a guy who I knew was loved by my friend but I still think he is love of my life and ... (read in full...)

Does this joking and grabbing means he likes me?

Q.   So I've known this guy since elementary school, back then we hung out alot with each other and our brothers since were neighbours. In middle school and stuff we weren't really friends and we sort of fought a lot. But this year I'm a freshman and ...

A.   1 September 2011: Probably yes but don't confess to him that you like him especially if you want this relationship to succeed try to wait or even better maybe get some experience else where. The best way is to create moments but don't be the first one. ... (read in full...)

I love a guy who can't give me security

Q.   hello, thank you for taking the time to help me.. I met this guy a long time ago, maybe more than four years now, we were in love, really in love, he is three years older than me and back then I was a very naive girl, I didn't know whait's like to ...

A.   1 September 2011: Your problem is absolutely the same as mine... My situation is practically the same... If I were not in such a situation I would suggest forgetting him and taking seriously your new boyfriend however I know how HARD it is. You should decide for ... (read in full...)

I like her but its kind of weird

Q.   I found out my best friends sister likes me a lot, I asked him if he's cool if i date her and he was all for it so i asked her out a few days ago. The thing is, now she's really shy and cant hold up a conversation with me, to her friends she talks ...

A.   1 September 2011: DUDE! Chill a bit seriously you haven't kissed and you are thinking whether she would like to have sex with her? No no NO... I can tell you that she doesn't and don't be an ass... If she is such a shy girl it probably means that she really likes ... (read in full...)

Do you think he will come around?

Q.   Hey, would anyone be able to help me out? Went on 2 dates with a guy (well, the second one was just a last-minute invite to hang out with him and a few buddies). Both times he was romantic and a gentleman but made absolutely no moves -- barely ...

A.   1 September 2011: Honey, I most sincerely suggest you to move on and try to find other amazing guys. However if you feel that he is the only one in the world try to somehow ask what is wrong and be of any help maybe he needs a friend now and not a girlfriend if you ... (read in full...)

I try to force myself to like guys when they like me

Q.   Okay, do I've been having a problem. Its come to my attention and I really don't know how to stop myself from doing this. Okay, so even though I don't like a guy and when they like me I'll try to force myself to like them back. Usually these ar...

A.   1 September 2011: I am pretty sure that all the guys you were dating were not meant for you. If you don't feel the potential suddenly than it means it wouldn't have been good afterwards too... Try to relax and not to search, let the destiny lead you to your true ... (read in full...)

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