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8 May 2007: hey girls and guys ever wanted to know if there is some secret to getting guys to notice you well ta da there is and im gonna tell you it: step1. make yourself noticed, don't be too obvious make him wanna come over to you. step2. if and when h...
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Do u think this is true love? Or am I just way too hooked on his beautiful face??
Q. Well Im 16 but i've never really been in a serious relationship unless you count the really weird ones as a kid where we randomly played kiss - chase haha!! anywy i met a guy 3 yrs ago and was completely infatuated by him and of course as we all...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i think that if you have been with him for years and have gotten to know the real him and love him for that then you may be in love with him, don't get me wrong looks are a bonus but a great personality is better than a gorgeous face so ... (read in full...)
Do u think this is true love? Or am I just way too hooked on his beautiful face??
Q. Well Im 16 but i've never really been in a serious relationship unless you count the really weird ones as a kid where we randomly played kiss - chase haha!! anywy i met a guy 3 yrs ago and was completely infatuated by him and of course as we all...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i thinkn thjatif you have been with him for years and have gotten to knoew the real hima and love him for that then you may be in love with him, don't get me wrong looks are a bonus but a great personality is better than a gorgeous... (read in full...)
We are both 15 - how do I quickly strike up a conversation with him?
Q. Hi I have a mate thats a boy and sometimes when i see him on the school field i wanna go up to him and talk to him. but i dont know what to say. all i can think of is - whats your next lesson? im 15 and so is he... how can i think up a convers...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i think that you might have a crush on this guy, i also think you should asksome of his friends what he likes you know the basics: bands, actors, films, books things like that, try to find some common ground and then just work from tha... (read in full...)
We are both 15 - how do I quickly strike up a conversation with him?
Q. Hi I have a mate thats a boy and sometimes when i see him on the school field i wanna go up to him and talk to him. but i dont know what to say. all i can think of is - whats your next lesson? im 15 and so is he... how can i think up a convers...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i think that you might have a crush on this guy, i also think you should asksome of his friends what he likes you know the basics: bands, actors, films, books things like that, try to find some common ground and then just work from tha... (read in full...)
This girl has a BF but she sleeps with me and tells me she loves me!
Q. I love this girl who says that she loves me but she has a boyfriend. She says that she loves him too but why would she say that she loves me as well? We've had sex already and that makes me believe that she loves me but then again why is she stil...
A. 13 October 2006: hi, i really think that thisgirlis no good for you and you were definately right todo what you did. she might have said that she loves you but don't forget love is a term that some people use to manipulate others into things like sex. if she said... (read in full...)
I've decided to let my crush go, wrote him a letter but have received no response!
Q. Dear Cupid, Last Wednesday, I made the decision to accept the fact that my crush just wants to be friends and nothing more with me (in other words, I finally decided to let him go after nearly two years of constant pining over him). Well, on...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i really don't think that you should worry about this all that much, you did tell him in your letter that he did not have to answer to your letter. he may just be finding it difficult to answer to your questions. so don't worry, just giv... (read in full...)
Should I be mad that he slept with his ex before we dated ??
Q. My boyfriend and I were pretty close before we dated. We didn't have sex but did other stuff. We were at college and we were leaving for a holiday. I told him to do whatever he wanted I didn't want to stop him. He said he wasn't going to do ...
A. 3 October 2006: hi reader,
i don't think that you should be too mad at this guy you did tell him to do what he wanted over this holiday and he obviously did, but i do see where your coming from he should have thought about what he was doing and how it would affe... (read in full...)
We broke up and stayed friends yet...she says she doesn't want us back together but she is playing games with me!!!
Q. Hi, i need some advice here, me and my girlfriend split up 2 weeks ago due to the distance between us, me living in Manchester and her living in Cumbria. however we decided to remain best friends and that seems ok until when i told her i fancy ...
A. 3 October 2006: hi chris,
well i think that the best way to approach this would be to ask this girl to get her real feelings out in the open and tell you how she really fels, then work on that, if these games continue then tell her that you want to be friends but ... (read in full...)
My family are fine with my sexuality but how do I tell the boy i fancy??
Q. hello, I have recently came out as gay 2 my family and they are fine with it and everything, but i have a problem there is a boy that lives by me and i really fancy him but dont know if he is gay and i just cant find the right words 2 say 2 ask hi...
A. 2 October 2006: Hello ash,
well the best way is to be honest, just tell him how you feel about him and if he accepts it then try to make it work, or you could make friends with him first then you could tell him it will be easier for both of you to accept.
good ... (read in full...)
I found sexy text messages on my husbands phone....from another man!!! What do I do?
Q. I have been married for 10 years now. We have been together for 14 total. Just last week I found text messages on his phone, being the nosey person that I am I read them. Now I wish that I had not, the messages were sex related. I do not know ...
A. 2 October 2006: HI, well maybe you should just talk to him and ask him what is going on and don't let him change the subject to why you where you lookin at his phone (even though you shouldn't have)cos these txt's don't mean that he is gay he might be bisexual or ... (read in full...)
Does this mean I am gay?
Q. hi i am a man of 33 since my girl friend left me. i have been drawn to gay men. and i have also dreamed about them as well. i went to my first gay bar last week and got chatted up. he touch me down there and i touched him back. also kissed me and i ...
A. 26 September 2006: hi, i don't think that you are fully gay if you just got out of a long relationship, there is a chance that you may have just been looking for comfort and your mind turned you to man or your subconcious was looking for reasons as to why your GF ... (read in full...)
I'm a gay guy - can I move beyond footsie?
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I have recently started college and am really enjoying it and everyone
there. I am bisexual guy and am pretty comfortable with this, but i have
had a crush on this boy for a while now. I never really got too into it
because he's a good friend, ...
A. 22 September 2006: well you could just get him alone and then ask him but you may have done that by now, but if not then give it a try and see how he feels about you. good luck lboy xxx... (read in full...)
How to find mr/mrs right?
Q. hi im only 17 but i no im gay but i just feel ive come to the point where i cant be alone anymore and realy feel like i need to start a relationship i just dont no where to start i look on the internet but every think seems to be for over 18s i feel ...
A. 22 September 2006: hi, maybe you could just wait those extra couple of months to be 18 then go out to a gay bar and meet someone, if you live anywhere near MANCHESTER in england then go to canal street there it's one of the biggest gay hot spot in the country, but if ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want an open relationship
Q. i am not sure weather i think this way or anyone in my situation would think the same. we have been dating for the past 1 and half years and we love each other. our relationship started with online dating(we used to live very far) and it led to ...
A. 22 September 2006: hi, i really think that you should give this guy some serious thought, you caught many times with different men, he promised not to do it again but did, i really think that this guy may just be a player out for a good time. you should manybe try to ... (read in full...)
Im a single gay guy, and want to ask this other guy out, but he doesnt know that Im gay or that I know he is!!
Q. OK Then, here is the story, Im a single gay man and have been interested in this guy now for some time. I met him through work about six months ago during a training workshop. At this time although i thought this guy was attractive i did...
A. 15 September 2006: hi, i'm bisexual and i also find it hard to ask guys out but if you really like this guy then i suggest that you tell him how you feel as for the whole him not knowing that you know, you should tell him that you have been told by friends of his that ... (read in full...)
Has everyone cheated at least once in their lives ???
Q. I'm curious. I jus want 2 know has every person cheated at least once in thier lifes? I jus find that alot of people on here have alot of questions about it n it seems alot of us have done it....
A. 15 September 2006: hi, i don't think that everyone has but i think that i would be safe to say that most of us have thought about it, but don't believe ever thing that you hear cos it may just be lies or they say it cos someone else has done it.... (read in full...)
He is unable to be emotionally on the level with me, because he's been hurt before... How can I get him to open up like he did with his ex's!!
Q. Hello! Here's my concern- My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. We temporarily live in separate cities (Philly and NYC) and both just graduated from college. We have an AWESOME relationship. However, my problem is that his othe...
A. 13 September 2006: hi it's lboy here, i really do get your situation, you should first put yourself in your bf's shoes and just think, would you be so eager as to rush back into another relationship when you've had your heart broken twice so far, you should talk to ... (read in full...)
7 yrs younger - is he just after sex??
Q. This guy I'm seeing is 7 years younger them me How do i know he really wants to be with me for me and not for sex? help...
A. 13 September 2006: well i really think that you should just wait for a while and see, if he continuously asks you for sex then that is all he is after but if he just lets the rlationship carry on the way that it has then you should have no problem. just wait until you ... (read in full...)
She is 13...what to do!
Q. Hi, I need some advise! I'm a 21 year old lad who has fallen in love with a 13 year old girl (14 in December) and not know what to do? I love her more than anything in the world and have never felt this way before, I can’t stop thinking about her ...
A. 12 September 2006: no affence to the poster but i really think that you should try to move on as this girl has her whole high school life ahead of her and trust me it can be hard i should know i'm still in high school, just wait and see if your feelings fade and ... (read in full...)
I can't find where to put my penis when I try to have sex!
Q. Hi, i'm an 18 year old male and twice I have gone to have sex with a girl. The first time I was very drunk and couldn't find where to put my penis but I put it down to me being drunk. But a few days ago I had a girl over and the scene was perfect ...
A. 12 September 2006: well all i can say is that you should take a little time to explore the female anatomy and then try again.... (read in full...)
How can I get to know him better?
Q. hi,i'm 17 and male and bi sexual i have recently been introduced to a friend of a friend over the internet. none of my friends know i am bisexual. this perosn iw as intoruduced to is my age and sex. and as soon as we began talking we hit it off! he ...
A. 12 September 2006: well the best way to find out is to ask him, not really direct but urge into it may be start of by askin him if he knows any gay or bi people then ask him if he wouold be freaked out if one of his friends was if he says no then tell him that you are ... (read in full...)
How do I find out if I'm straight, gay or bi?
Q. Dear aunts. im 21 male never been with a woman or a man, dont no who or what i want, or if gay or bi should i go out and get together with someone have some fun and try out which one? where can i go to be safe, and now who i want....
A. 12 September 2006: the best way to solve this problem in my view is to go out and just take a sample and see if you like it tyhen it will be easier to decide, i did the same thing and now i know that i'm bi.... (read in full...)
My GF broke up with me today and I just can't get her out of my head...
Q. My gf broke up with me today, at first i went all hyper and in an almost sarcastic mood, but now ive been drinking lots of gin, and taken about 8 paracetamol, and ive also been crying loads, and everything i look at reminds me of her. I cant even ...
A. 12 September 2006: well, all i can say is that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel, you know get some closure thats all that you need. ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm gay.... PLEASE HELP!!!!
Q. hi im really worried if i am gay.i am 12 years old and there is a boy in my class that when he used 2 walk past i used to touch him up as a joke,but now when i see him i do it again,and i dont know if im joking anymore by touching him up. please ...
A. 2 August 2006: well i'm only 14 and i decided that i was bisexual at around the same age as you so i think that you should first wait and see if the feeling passes but if you still feel that way about this boy then just get to know him before you tell him how you ... (read in full...)
I'm gay, he's gay, but my female partner can't cope!
Q. I am in a committed gay relationship with a woman and we have a child together. I have always thought our relationship was strong and nurturing. We have been "there for each other" as lovers and friends. Due to work stress and long hours , in the ...
A. 19 July 2006: i think that yu should let her meet the people you befriend and let her get to know and trust them because that way she will begin to be more comfortable with you makeing friends just keep her in the loop and she should be fine, or maybe you should ... (read in full...)
How can I know if he's in love with me or not?
Q. Guys: Tell me how i would know if my boyfriend has fallen in love with me?...
A. 19 July 2006: well the best way to tell is to let him tell you in his own special way, that might mean he takes you out to dinner or he might just tell you straight out but don't force it out of him because i know from past experience that it can scare them ... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm rubbish at chatting up girls. Need some tips!
Q. I have two problems: the first being I really like this girl but I'm rubbish at talking to girls, so have you got any good tips? Have you got any good tips for asking people out and flirting with them?...
A. 25 May 2006: well i can't say this will work bu8t it's what she'll be looking for, when you go to talk to her then just listen to what she has to say and talk back, just be yourself act natural and let what happens happen, ok yes she might turn you down but ... (read in full...)
Feel like I'm rubbish at chatting up girls. Need some tips!
Q. I have two problems: the first being I really like this girl but I'm rubbish at talking to girls, so have you got any good tips? Have you got any good tips for asking people out and flirting with them?...
A. 25 May 2006: well i can't say this will work but it's what she'll be looking for, when you go to talk to her then just listen to what she has to say and talk back, just be yourself act natural and let what happens happen, ok yes she might turn you down but ... (read in full...)
Really want the girl to know how I feel before uni breaks up. Should I tell her?
Q. I have only a few days left until I leave uni for the summer, and I have had major feelings for someone throughout the year. We are good friends and she knows how I felt about her but considering this, we are still close and flirty. I don't kn...
A. 25 May 2006: i think you should tell her how you feel, because it's like they say "friends first, lovers last", the only way that you will get her to tell you the way she feels is if you come out about all of your feelings for her, because you'll never know ... (read in full...)
I think there was a LOT more cheating going on than my wife admits!
Q. I have just found out my wife has cheated on me, but I am not sure as to what extent. She arrived home at 4.30am Monday morning after being out with work colleagues. The next day she was acting strangely and I could tell she was lying about where ...
A. 25 May 2006: well i would say that she's your wife and you should give the benofit of the doubt, but in this case it sounds like you really should get that evidence checked because if it turns out to be what it could be then she has definately not been faithful ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get over the "bad boy" I haven't seen for six months?
Q. I liked this guy for so so long. He has loads of different girls. I slept with him twice cos I naively thought that he would like me back. He txt me saying 'I've always liked you. I want you to take me seriously and I want us to have fun together...
A. 25 May 2006: well it sounds to me like you're in love with him, i know that's probably not the answer that you were looking for but it's what it sounds like. you should try and go to see him, the worst that could happen is that he's moved on but that would give ... (read in full...)
Guys and makeup...
Q. i am 15. i dont where make up. why do guys always go for the girls that wear make up?!? it isnt what they really look like, they are painting a different face on themselves basically. why do boys like that, or do they??...
A. 22 May 2006: well i'm 13 so i'm probably the best answer you'll get for this question. the way i see it is that it is the reason those other girls wear make up is because they have spots and things like that to cover up, where as you are probably perfect the way ... (read in full...)
Girls opinions needed... Is this chick interested in me or just being polite?
Q. Hi, I really just wanted some girls opinions... There is a girl who lives fairly near me who knows I like her (sent her a card ages ago), well nothing really happened as she always seemed so shy, I tried approaching her in the street but never go...
A. 12 May 2006: well the way i see it is that she probably does like you, and if your letting the thought that she might just want to be friends put you off, then don't, because if you don't a chance on love and you'll never find it, don't forget love was to work ... (read in full...)
My husband won't help me out of debt and our old babysitter keeps asking about him.....what is this?
Q. i am into terrible debt and my husband won't me I owe £10,000 he promised to help me now he won't and I have no money as he is not giving me any. and to make problems worse. A woman who once babysitted for me has since then always been asking how my ...
A. 11 May 2006: i think that you should talk to your husband about the whole money situation,because what he's doing is just not on, as for this other woman, just because she says that you have to get on does'nt mean that you have to, if you think that your husband ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to get over him?
Q. heya my ex boyfriend dumped me a few weeks ago but i still really like him. i really really want to get over him. the thing is, i dont know how! how do i get over him when i have liked him for so long? i have fancied him for 2 years now. we went...
A. 11 May 2006: it's not always easy to get over someone and the only way i know how to get over someone is to get out there and try to meet someone else that you are better suited to, for all you know you might already know your true love, you just don't know who ... (read in full...)
We've dated for six months... And broken up nine times!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend now for 6 months and in that short period of time he has broke up with me 9 times. Everytime he breaks it off and goes away for a couple days he comes back and wants to be back with me. He says that our breakups ...
A. 26 April 2006: only 6 months and 9 break ups, that is too much, too soon i would get rid of this guy while you can he is obviously not for you, and if you think that it'll be hard to find another guy then just be open and let them come over to you , that's how i ... (read in full...)
How do I get this guy to notice me, when I am no good at anything?
Q. I need help I really want this boy to notice me he is 3 years older than me im 15 hes 19 and i am no good at anything i just want to be able to make him notice me please help...
A. 26 April 2006: hi i'm new at this but i think that you should just try and talk to this guy, the worst he can do is turn you down but then you can get on your life.... (read in full...)
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