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8 May 2007: hey girls and guys ever wanted to know if there is some secret to getting guys to notice you well ta da there is and im gonna tell you it: step1. make yourself noticed, don't be too obvious make him wanna come over to you. step2. if and when h...
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How can you tell if you're really gay or if you're just in a phase?
Q. How do you know if your gay? How do you tell if it's just a phase or for real?...
A. 2 November 2007: dear reader,
trust me this aint the kinda question that you need our help for, all you have to do is believe in yourself you'll know what you are deep down. but if i had to suggest something then depending on your age i would say experime... (read in full...)
I'm a boy who fancies my male teachers. Am I in denial? Am I paranoid? Am I gay?
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy and constantly find myself attracted to my male teachers??? what exactly makes someone gay? I think it could be because I want to be like them not just because I like them but I have got a freidnly relationship with them all...
A. 10 October 2007: daer reader, you are obviously not in denial as you can admit that you have feelings for these teachers, the only reason to e paranoid si if you are surrounded by homophobic people, i know you may be waitin to hear that this is a phase, bu... (read in full...)
I'm worried I wont be big enough to satisfy my girl!
Q. HI IM 15 AND IM ABOUT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY GF MY PENIS 5'5 INCHES LNG IM SORTA CONSCIOUS ABOUT THIS COZ I HEAR HER GOING ON ABOUT BIG PENISES SHE IS A VIRGIN IM SKILLED IN BED AND I KNOW MANY WAYS TO PLEASE A GIRL BUT I DONT KNOW IF ILL BE ABLE TO ...
A. 22 September 2007: dear cupid,
oh hunni, first if this girl a virgin then u have no standards of hers to live up to so dont worry and just remember its not the size its how u use it if u can still make her orgasm it dont matter she'll love it and also the best par... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell my family that I'm bisexual
Q. i'll get straight to it, i'm bisexual and i dunno if i should tell my familly, my brother is a lil bit homophobic n i dunno how they'll react... please anyone i need advise on what to do and light on the situation thank you ...
A. 6 September 2007: dear reader, if you are as close to your parnets and your brother as i am with mine then i am sure that you have nothing to worry about they probably have already guessed and are waiting for you to be ready to tell them, trust me just tell them, ... (read in full...)
My parents are blaming my bisexuallity on my boyfriend
Q. hey.... ive recently just told my parents i am bisexual, and that i have a boy friend. and i think it is best to say all was n ot taken very well!! im 16 and live in the uk, my b/f is 15 buh turns 16 in february, i no the age of consent over her...
A. 5 September 2007: dear reader, i think you have the right idea about your parents not wanting to face the truth. i think you should just sit down with your parents and give them a wake up call, tell then your bi, you have been for years and will be for many years t... (read in full...)
I am gay and I feel like there's no one else like me
Q. Hi, I am 14, I know i am gay, but i am very ashamed of it. I am afraid to tell my parents becuase, then i think they might not love my anymore (i was adopted at birth) and i am bullied all the time at school, and i am always afraid of going ...
A. 1 September 2007: dear reader, dont worry we all went through this, we all had the bullying and the think we were alone, trust me about 1/4 of ur school population will not be straight they just are not ready to tell yet, you shouldn't feel isolated or unnatur... (read in full...)
I discovered my boyfriend has a profile on a gay website!!!
Q. Background: I am living with my boyfriend of 4 years. I am in my 30's he in his mid-40's. He was previously married for 14 years and has two kids. I have 2 kids from previous marriage as well. He is in the military, and last year I left my job, ...
A. 11 August 2007: Dear reader, I really think that you may be over thinking this. You say yourself that you have had same sex fantasies but would never act upon them. Well, maybe your bf is slightly different maybe he is on this site to try and meet someone tha... (read in full...)
Recently my wife lost a close family member and I would just like some advice on how to be there for her and how to try and cheer her up...
Q. Recently my wife lost a close family member and I would just like some advice on how to be there for her and how to try and cheer her up and also what to say to her in situations like the one I was in yesterday, heres what happened. Her mum came...
A. 9 July 2007: dear reader, i was just like her when i lost my grandmother my family tried to help me but i didn't want to talk because it hurts to talk just one day wake up before her make you both a cuppa tea or coffee call her work and say she is ill or su... (read in full...)
I'm gay and I want to be with my straight best friend
Q. To me this problem seems stupidly complicated but I think I just need some perspective. I am a 21 year old gay guy. I have avoided relationships so far, as I have ridiculously high ideals about commitment and intimacy which aren't matched generall...
A. 9 July 2007: dear reader,
i think u really might be blowing this out of proportion if this guy is such good friends with you then i think there should be no problem telling him that u are gay but i would leave it for a bit of time before you tell him that u h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to be more interested in his computer game (world of warcraft) than in me.
Q. I am a 39 yr old gay man and have been in a relationship with my partner for 16 years. We have always had a good sex life and I have been happy until recently. My boyfriend seems to be more interested in his computer game (world of warcraft) than in ...
A. 15 June 2007: dear reader
i think that you should just tell him how this game is making you feel and that him spending all this time on it is making you feel like you have done something and that it is making you miserable. the best thing you can expect i... (read in full...)
I'm gay. My boyfriend was sleeping with my best friend for the last 12 months of our relationship!
Q. How do I get through this? Three months ago I broke up with my gay partner of 14 years. We did this because he told me he had been sleeping with my best friend for the last twelve months of our relationship. He said it was "just sex". But it was an ...
A. 14 June 2007: dear reader,
you are obviously better than this guy and if he had the ordasity to lie to you for so long then you were not meant to be. but plz dont sit around in the house wondering what would have happened if it had all been different only foo... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay???
Q. Is my boyfriend gay? I have questioned my boyfriend's sexuality a bit in our relationship. He is not exactly metrosexual, but he has some interesting tendancies. He is always concerned about his appearance, although he doesn't know the difference ...
A. 5 June 2007: dear reader,
i don't really think that you should be too worried about the like candyOOs said he might just have a small case of OCD9 obsessive compullsve disorder) and as for the makeing out with his friend alot of straight men may actually... (read in full...)
What would happen if people found out that i was a gay and i agreed and accepted it as well?
Q. What would happen if people found out that i was a gay and i agreed and accepted it as well?...
A. 20 May 2007: dear reader,
nm would really happen, you would be able to have new experiences and go to new places and meet new ppl, people who except u wud treat you the same and ppl that dont will leave you alone most of the time. dont worry about it im in hi... (read in full...)
Gf and I are planning 1st time sex..I want to get this right. Advice, please?
Q. Hey, me and my gf are planning on having sex for the first time, we have been together for 7 months and are both virgins,we have contraception sorted and are both totally ready. Obviously she doesn't paticually want all of the really bad pain and i ...
A. 10 May 2007: dear reader,
1). try your best to lube her up use your fingers or tongue to make her wet this way it will be better for you both.
2).a bed is the best place as it is comfortable spacious and warm.
3).make it romantic, don't just thr... (read in full...)
I was going out with my friend for 4 yrs, now I fancy my other friend, but hes male! What should I do ?
Q. Right, hi, i am a guy who is going out with a girl who was his best friend for 4 years. now i, like, fancy my only other best friend of 5 years (who is a guy) aswell. what should i do? should i tell him, her or what?...
A. 10 May 2007: dear reader,
i think that you should try your best to tell this guy that you LIKE him and tell your GF that you think that its just a phase and that you think you should take a break until it has passed and if the guy feels the same about yo... (read in full...)
My friend just started jerking me off even though he knows I'm a hetrosexual male!
Q. I stayed around a mates house the other week and we all stopped in the same room and some of us shared a double bed but made sure we had our own space. Well not long after that the lad lying near me moved very close to me and decided to put his hand ...
A. 8 May 2007: dear reader,
i really dont think that you should be worried about this all it means is that you are open minded and if you turn out to be gay then you need to keep telling yourself that there is nothing wrong with that, it's who you are and ther... (read in full...)
I was sexually abused and now I find my bf looking at child porn!!
Q. Last year I found out on my bf's computer that he was looking at porn... but also he was looking at pictures of 11-15 year old boys.. It broke my heart when I found this. I confronted him about this and the fight ended up as me being the bad guy ...
A. 26 April 2007: Dear Reader,
i think you should get out of there while you still have some dignity. if this guy is looking at child pornography even though he knows that you here sexually abused as a child then he really cannot care all that much about you, and... (read in full...)
I want a baby but im only 14 years old!
Q. Please help me! I want a baby but im only 14 years old! My boyfriend is 16 and we want to be parents already! I feel ready for some reason! What shall i do!!??? Please please help me....
A. 26 April 2007: Dear Reader,
i know this might not be what you want to hear but i really dont think that you should have a baby at your current age for starters you are too young legally, and you should be getting ready for your GCSE's anytime soon. but if you r... (read in full...)
I dreamt I was holding a guy's hand and in bed with him! Am I gay??
Q. I am a 17 year old male, and i was in a great relationship with the one girl i ever loved and then she broke up with me and i felt so alone. then last night i had a dream about a guy that one of my best girlfriends was dating who i dont know much ...
A. 24 April 2007: Dear reader,
dreams can be very hard to interprate, holding hands and sleeping in the same bed as another man that is known to yopu but not well may just mean that your mind is telling you that deep down you want to get to know him as a friend i... (read in full...)
Was he attracted to me, or what is just the alcohol ?
Q. Heres my story. Only lately I have accepted that I might be gay. I have liked a guy younger than me for the past few years. He is 15, and I am 18. One night he stayed at my house and we got rather drunk. We sat together like old mates, ...
A. 24 April 2007: Dear Reader,
i am going through exactly the same thing with a guy i like, and you are right a drunk mind does speak a sober heart, i think that you should talk to this guy and let him know what that night ment to you and find out if it ment any... (read in full...)
We are the best of friends and I want to be more, (I'm male) but why does he shut me out sometimes?
Q. I have a friend who I've known since last July, but we really started hanging out a lot since the end of October. I always found him cute but just that, and I didn't think he was gay because he is very sports oriented. But as we started to really ...
A. 24 April 2007: dear reader,
i don,t think that this guy is shutting you out on purpose, it's like you said he is probably scared of all they new emotions and stuff, he may joke so much because alot of people use humour to calm them down is nervous or stressfu... (read in full...)
I think I might be gay! How can you tell if you're gay? Realm????
Q. ok.I'm confussed. I might be gay, but I'm not sure. I like always hug boys.......like all the time.....and i had feelings for one once. any ideas?...
A. 21 March 2007: dear reader,
i think that just because you hug alot of guys and you at one point had feelings for a man doesn't mean that you are gay, just let your life take it's course and don't worry if you turn out gay thats how it was supposed to be.
goo... (read in full...)
I have lost everything...please help!!
Q. Dear friends, My name is Seb and i'm 18. i have been bi curious now since i was 11, which is a long time but i have never done anything homosexual until recently. It has caused a huge amount of problems for me. Firstly, i cant deny my feelings...
A. 7 February 2007: dear seb,
i really think that you need to tell all this to sam let him know how you feel about his friendship, tell him that you didn't mean for anything to happen between you and jimmy it just ...did.
if he doesn't listen or forgive you then jus... (read in full...)
Should I find a guy or stay single??
Q. In my "group" everyone seems to have a b/f and they are all telling me to go out with a guy. I dont want to seem concieted or anything, but even if im nice to the guy and even if i dont thnk im pretty, ppl tell me im pretty, i cant get a guy! I ...
A. 7 February 2007: dear reader,
i don't think that you should pay all that much attension to your friends if they are pressuring you. if you want to find a guy then just go out somewhere with one of your girlfriends and have a drink and let the guys come to you, don'... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is being really distant. I've told her I feel forgotten but nothing much has changed. Should I give her a taste of her own medicine?
Q. Okay so my girlfriend has been home for the past month due to Christmas break. She and I have been dating for almost a year. I truly love this girl but since she's been gone she's been very distant. She doesn't call and when I'm lucky enough to ...
A. 16 January 2007: dear reader,
i think that you may be getting a bit clingy with this girls she's right she is entitled to some time alone withher friends, don't forget the first rule of a relationship is that your friends come first. just give her some friends time... (read in full...)
I can't tell if the guy I fancy is gay or straight! I want to know, but don't want to offend him - advice?
Q. i have a problem, theres this guy at work who i really fancy, but the problem is i cant tell whether he is gay or not. We are both very touchy feely together, we talk loads and get along really well but i fancy him and want more then that. All his ...
A. 20 December 2006: dear reader,
i think that you do have a few options on this situation, but you may also be misinterperating what he meant by 'you know you want me', because i'm gay and often say that kind of thing to my female friends for a joke but he may have... (read in full...)
Do I tell my best friend I've fallen for her, or keep it to myself?
Q. I've fallen big time for one of my best freinds, We've knowen each other for years, do I keep my feelings to myself or tell her and risk loosing her as a freind...
A. 19 December 2006: dear reader,
i think that you should wait till you and your friend are alone then tell her straight out how you feel, although if she is in a relationship then i would advise you to wait until she is single again, please don't try to hide how you ... (read in full...)
I'm 16..is masturbating 2 times per day too much?
Q. Im 16 and i think i have a problem. I masterbate about 2 a day or maybe more and finish everytime. I think i am doing it to much or is this normal? and all of a sudden i keep looking at porn sites again, can someone please help. Please....
A. 11 December 2006: hi reader,
i don't think that masturbating is something that you should worry about. i know people who masturbate alot more that 2 times a day some who do it about 6 or 7 times a day, i do on the onther hand think that you should try mast... (read in full...)
My bf asked another guy about going on a date - the guy said yes! My bf says they're just friends and he loves me. Should I just call it quits?
Q. My BF and I have been in a relationship since September of 2004 and had originally met online (gay.com) and was in a long distance relationship. After about 4 months of being in the long distance relationship mutually we decided to move away from ...
A. 11 December 2006: dear reader,
i say fight, if this guy means that much to you then no-one else should get in your way, i am in the same kind of situation with my BF he's bi and has a GF who wants him to herself but i love him so much i'm willing to do anything to k... (read in full...)
Im 18, just found out she's 15, is this gap too much ?
Q. I just turned 18 on monday 6th november and i just met a girl at a gig on Friday who looked like she was at least 17 only to find out she is 15 (16 in janurary) seem to get along fine and everything got her number and stuff, i really like her ...
A. 1 December 2006: hi reader,
i don't think that you should be very bothered about the gap if she turns 16 in january then i think that you should be ok as long as you don't go as far as sex until she turns 16 or until she is really ready for it. just call her and ... (read in full...)
I'm 17 and my BF is moving across country and has asked me to go with him! What do I do?
Q. I am 17 and i am with a boy that is 18, in january he is 19 and he is moving away, i have been with him for just over a month so far and we are so happy together, we spend as much time as possible together. He asked me to move and live with him when ...
A. 1 December 2006: hi reader,
well if your 17 then i'm goin to assume that you are in sixth form and can therefore choose to drop out when you want. i would also say to follow your heart and do what you think is right. thats is all i can tell you, the only wrong disi... (read in full...)
My ex and I have the same friends, so I feel I can't confide in them. I feel so lonely - any advice?
Q. Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for five years now, but we were best friends for about 5 years before that. he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me any more and i don't know what to do. i really can't imagine my life without him...
A. 1 December 2006: hi reader,
i'm not going to tell you to get new friends or interests, i'm going to advice that you trust the friends that you already have and just ask then to keep what you tell them confidential and to not let your ex find out. as for the whol... (read in full...)
Why won't he orgasm when I give him a bj?
Q. I have tried giving my boyfriend oral and I know I am very good at this, But I want to know why he wont cum. I know he enjoys but it's upsetting me he always seems to worry more about my orgasm that his own what am I doing wrong?? Please Help I feel ...
A. 1 December 2006: hi reader,
look at this from his point of view, he just might not want to cum because he is afraid that you don't want him to or he might just be embarassed to cum infront or inside you. don't think of it as him trying to insult you, think of it a... (read in full...)
This new man has got me all confused and I need your advice!
Q. Hi about a month ago I was working away for a week when I met this amazing guy, who also working away for my company, but from a branch close to me. We seemed to hit it off and I spent three nights with him in his hotel room. We never exchanged ...
A. 24 November 2006: hi reader,
i think that if you really like this guy then tell him whether he is joking or not about nthe other guys that has very little chance of changing his feelings for you. and about the whole anus problem that is probebly just from having so m... (read in full...)
My BF is avoiding physical contact, because it might lead to sex...
Q. I recently found out that my bf of years has been avoiding physical contact like kissing or hugging, as it might lead to sex, which it would seem he no longer wants very often. I was gutted that he felt like this and now feel as though I can't ev...
A. 21 November 2006: hi reader,
well you should talk to your BF and tell him that you wouldn't let anything happen that was not mutually wanted, that should give him the assurance that he needs and should help towards your future relationship issues and should make him ... (read in full...)
I'm fourteen... and pregnant! What do I do?
Q. I'm 14 years old and ya I now I'm young but I lost my virginity and I'm pregnant!!I don't know watt to do. I just found out this weekend and I'm to afraid to tell my parents ''PLEAZ I NEED ADVICE. I'M SO AFRAID!!''...
A. 21 November 2006: hi reader,
i would break the idea to them gently without telling them for certain that you are. a good way to start the conversation would be "what if i were Pregnant" and if they give a supportive answer then break it to them gently. but you have... (read in full...)
I'm having his baby but he doesn't seem to want me to meet his parents!
Q. I am 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend's baby. We have known each other for 6 yrs. but have only been dating for five months, and living together for 3. We get along well. He just told his family that we're having a baby. I have never met his ...
A. 21 November 2006: hi reader,
if you say that he is uncomfortable about showing his emotions and feelings then maybe his life at home is not as nice as he makes out, his parents may still treat him like there little boy. you also mention your his first girl frie... (read in full...)
My girlfriend can't answer my question about her sexuality?
Q. hey im now going out with a girl so i asked her if she was gay or bi and she said no whats all this about? so i kept asking her but she said she duno maybe she is kinda whats that mean?is she scared to admit it and why?how do i know if she likes me ...
A. 21 November 2006: hi reader,
well i think that if this girl is going out with you then she must know deep down what she is, but is not ready to admit it publicaly, just think of the way you might of felt in her situation, give her some space and get to know her more... (read in full...)
I think I'm gay or am I bi? How do I go about finding this out?
Q. hi. i have been gay since i was 13 however for a long time now the thought has been on my mind that i may be bi. My feelings aren't just physical but emotional as well. I havn't done anything about following up how i feel purely because i don't ...
A. 21 November 2006: hi reader,
i am going through the same kind of situation but in reverse. i thought i was bi but now i think that i may be gay, the best way to tell is to see if both sex's appeal to you both physically and emotionally. however, if you only have a ph... (read in full...)
Do u think this is true love? Or am I just way too hooked on his beautiful face??
Q. Well Im 16 but i've never really been in a serious relationship unless you count the really weird ones as a kid where we randomly played kiss - chase haha!! anywy i met a guy 3 yrs ago and was completely infatuated by him and of course as we all...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i think that if you have been with him for years and have gotten to know the real him and love him for that then you may be in love with him, don't get me wrong looks are a bonus but a great personality is better than a gorgeous face so ... (read in full...)
Do u think this is true love? Or am I just way too hooked on his beautiful face??
Q. Well Im 16 but i've never really been in a serious relationship unless you count the really weird ones as a kid where we randomly played kiss - chase haha!! anywy i met a guy 3 yrs ago and was completely infatuated by him and of course as we all...
A. 13 October 2006: hi reader, i thinkn thjatif you have been with him for years and have gotten to knoew the real hima and love him for that then you may be in love with him, don't get me wrong looks are a bonus but a great personality is better than a gorgeous... (read in full...)
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