Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?
Q. I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...
A. 18 May 2010: Marieclair,
If you think ,I am judging her, you are entitled to your opinions.
One buys sex and the other sells sex.That is my observation and they are birds of the same feathers. If you called that judging , then I have nothing to say. ... (read in full...)
Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?
Q. I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...
A. 17 May 2010: If she is using you , she will check out the size of your wallet and hit it until you feel the pain .
If she likes you , she would be generous with you and provide the things you need. She does not need your money because this vocation pays wel... (read in full...)
Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?
Q. I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...
A. 17 May 2010: Prostitutes have better understandings of men . They can accept that men are that way and sex is nothing to men because they have no emotional attachments about it.
Her business is selling sex for money and he maybe her client but it does not matt... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with my boyfriend? I'm scared of being sick!
Q. Right me and my boyfriend have been together 1 1/2 years now.. his 22 and am 19 we have just come of a break but he is saying he wants us to have a baby.. i dont no how to feel about this as i have a phobia of being sick and morning sickness really ...
A. 17 May 2010: Wanting a baby and making a baby are two different things. Some girls who don't want a baby will go on the pill slyly without his knowledge.They have to resort to that when they cannot argue with their partners.... (read in full...)
I want to message him but I'm scared people will make fun of me!
Q. Ok i have this group of mates that ive only started gettin to know for the past year, they're all practically the same, pretty snobbish. One had a quiz night a few nights back all was fine and i met my mates boyfriends mate, and kinda liked him i ...
A. 17 May 2010: I think it is too soon to text him after you have only met him once. You should put your interest on hold until you know more about him.There will be more opportunities to meet again in your group.
If you don't see him again , it means that you... (read in full...)
Help: My marriage is in trouble!
Q. So I guess I will give a brief description of our relationship. My wife and I were mutual friends before we started dating in 2004. She was 19 and I was 21. She had a 13 month old boy that I immediately bonded with. We were crazy in love, l...
A. 17 May 2010: If you truly love her, you must walk that extra miles for her and to love her without expecting anything in returns.
You need to cultivate such an attitude in order to win back your wife.Are you willing to pay that price or sacrifice?
Short o... (read in full...)
Why am I torturing myself with memories of my ex?
Q. I've got the most amazing boyfriend who treats me so well and I basically couldn't ask for more. But I still think of this guy I dated briefly before I met my boyfriend. This guy was so into me, pursued me so much and I fell so hard for him. We...
A. 17 May 2010: You can only find closure to this issue when you forgive him for the wrongs and the hurts he has inflicted upon you .
You may not forget him but in time , the pain is no more.
Forgiveness of him will begin your healing's and you will find cl... (read in full...)
Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?
Q. I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...
A. 17 May 2010: Some girls are forced into prostitution's because they have no other choice and after being in that trade, they would hope to meet someone who would give them a better life.
It is not naive because there are men who are willing to marry prostitu... (read in full...)
Does this prostitute have feelings for me or is she just using me for money?
Q. I have meet a prostitute and enjoy her company immensely, her being a prostitute does not bother me, i am married not happly married, and prefer her company allthough it is on occaisionally, i think she likes me. the only thing when we go out out ...
A. 17 May 2010: A prostitute is also a human being with feelings. She could be looking for the right man to come along and take her out of prostitution. She knows that she cannot works forever as a prostitute.
If she likes you , she would pay sometimes while on... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with my boyfriend? I'm scared of being sick!
Q. Right me and my boyfriend have been together 1 1/2 years now.. his 22 and am 19 we have just come of a break but he is saying he wants us to have a baby.. i dont no how to feel about this as i have a phobia of being sick and morning sickness really ...
A. 17 May 2010: Tell him that there is a time to enjoy as a couple first and a time to have a baby.
With a baby , you will be tied down and you will not be able to give him much of your time to him.
You should rather enjoy each other first before you have ... (read in full...)
How much "groping" is too much?
Q. I love my girlfriend, and like I have seen both of our fathers do, I like to (in private) randomly grap my girlfriend's butt or boobs and maybe squeeze them, but never anything forceful. She'll laugh or say something like "oh yeah" in a "naughty ...
A. 17 May 2010: It depends on the individual , the mood ,the ambiance and the time of the day.
As long as the other person feels comfortable , it is not excessive.... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but he has a long-distance girlfriend, does this mean he is a cheater?
Q. Okay so i like this guy and i think he likes me. We talk/text almost everyday, hes asked me to go with him to many places, one place was the movies and we went. Another was a play that a highschool was presenting. And everyone askes if we are ...
A. 17 May 2010: Yes! He is a cheater . He is having the best of both worlds.
Talk to him about this issue and be prepared for the worst.
But if you like him a lot, you maybe in for a competition and may the best woman wins.
If he has a LDR ,know what you... (read in full...)
Situation with my ex girlfriend....
Q. My ex started talking to me yesterday online 6 months after we broke up. We haven't spoken since then. So her talking and asking how I was was rather put of the blue. The conversation ended with her suggesting that we go on holiday together. What...
A. 17 May 2010: She is opening the door for you to go back to her. If you are interested,give it another chance, go for it.
She may have regretted her mistake and time has allowed her to see the truth.... (read in full...)
Weird crust on my eyes...
Q. does anyone know an instant cure for really crusty eyes, I think its meant to be like scaley sleep on eyelids or something. It makes me so self concious! ...
A. 17 May 2010: You could be having Bleparitis.. I am not a medical person and you need to go see your eye doctor or a skin specialist .
You may try to wash it with warm salt water.
The link below may give you more info or you can Google online for more ... (read in full...)
My husband threw me out the house coz I don't get along with his brother.
Q. me and my husband are young married couple. everything messed up when my brother inlaw and his girlfriend move in with us... just to make the story short... they didnt like me and i didnt like them... and at the end of the day my husband thrown...
A. 17 May 2010: I am very sorry that you have to face this problem.If I were you ,I would not go crawling back home with your tail in between your legs.
You will be treated like a door mat.Life will be untenable and unbearable.It is utter humiliations to go ba... (read in full...)
My wife tells me I have a porn addiction
Q. how do i stop porn addiction? i have alot more sexual desire than my wife and it got to where i felt horable for asking for it all the time. I eventualy turned to porn magazine and it created more problems than i thought it would. she said i have ...
A. 17 May 2010: She is not against you watching porn. It is your attentions to porn that she feels neglected.
You need to cut down on your porn watching and pay more attentions to her.
Have a more balanced life. Too much of one thing is not good for your li... (read in full...)
Do men lie about a relationship status?
Q. Will men say a relationship is fine and everything is ok even if not -- in order to break up at a convenient time for them or do they more likely really mean that everything is ok? And at the same time he did let you know that he almost changed t...
A. 17 May 2010: If all your stuff is in the front porch, then he is lying. It cannot be fine when your stuff are left outside.
Some men do not know how to say it , because they fear the repercussions and will lie about it.... (read in full...)
Does he like me more than her?
Q. I really like my best guy mate and ive liked him for ages. a few weeks ago we were talking on msn and he asked me who i fancy and i said i didnt want to tell him. he then told me that he kinda has feelings for two people and he would tell me one of ...
A. 17 May 2010: You told him that you like him and he should have no problem inviting you out .
You wait for him to invite you and if he does not , you could suggest to him , "How about going to the movies, drinks or just meet up?" Then if he is interest... (read in full...)
How long do I need to wait before I take a pregnancy test?
Q. Heyy. Right, I had sex a week ago and the guy pulled out (I know I'm a complete idiot and I regret everything) he said there's no chance I could be pregnant and obviously I don't believe him at all :/ I need to know how long I need to wait before I ...
A. 17 May 2010: You can get tested 4 or 5 days before your supposed period day. But those tests are unreliable.
It is better to wait till you missed your period . Take a test every 3 days after the 3rd missed day until the 14th or until your period comes.
... (read in full...)
He put our dating on hold because he has cancer! But he's kept in touch and I wonder if he is still interested?
Q. I met a man recently and we had three dates but seemed to click on an emotional level very deeply very quickly. Then he found out he had Cancer and told me he just wanted to be friends. I was heartbroken and felt like i was going through a ...
A. 17 May 2010: I am very sorry about your friend.I hope he will live through this ordeal.
This is a very trying time and your question has no answers.It is better to wait and see if he will come through first .
Good luck and my prayers for his healing's.... (read in full...)
How do I support my parents when it all goes wrong?
Q. I'm really worried about my parents. My mum is 46 and my Dad is 63. The relationship between my parents has gone down the drain. They haven't slept in the same bed for about 12 years. I know for a fact my Mum doesn't love my Dad (even though she...
A. 16 May 2010: You cannot change their destinies. Whatever will happen , will happen. They will go through life and they can take care of themselves. Worrying about yourself is more than enough and you should not worry about them. Don't let it rob your teenage... (read in full...)
She's having sex with another but I'm still not over her!
Q. I'm sorry if this has been asked before. I've recently split from my girlfriend but we still live together cos I can't afford to move out yet. Anyways she goes out the other night with het "friends" but she doesn't get home till 9am the next day. ...
A. 16 May 2010: It is officially over, The sooner you get off from that place ,the better it will be. I am sorry . There is nothing you can do about her anymore.... (read in full...)
What is taking a break exactly?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year. For a couple months we have been having some problems, I seemed to have been annoying him and he had been partially ignoring me. We had a talk today and he said he was depressed becaus...
A. 16 May 2010: A break is just a time out like when you play the basketball game. The coach calls a time out and the game stops for a few minutes.
Wanting a break is not a break up. It is like having a recess and you do your own things. You set your relation... (read in full...)
Boyfriend dumped me after 3 weeks, and I don't know why...
Q. Hey, my boyfriend of 3 weeks just broke up with me, and i really don't understand why. For the first 2 weeks he was really into me, he was so affectionate, wanted to see me all the time, always wanted me to stay over. We'd talked to each other a lot ...
A. 16 May 2010: The chase is very interesting and fascinating .But once they have captured the prey, it is no more fun and they will want to start a new game again. Your upset was the last straw which broke the camel's back.It was the perfect excuse for him t... (read in full...)
I'm jealous because my boyfriend flirted with a friend, or were they just being nice?
Q. Ive been seeing a lovely guy for 5 months. very complicated situation, we are both going through longterm breakups but have become very close. he has told me he loves me and has fallen in love with me. Things have been wonderfully intense but ...
A. 16 May 2010: They have some chemistry and they can click. If you feel strongly about it, then you should talk to him ,let him know your limits and boundaries.
Or you don't mention it and think of it as a one off thing .The next time , it may not be the same... (read in full...)
Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating?
Q. My boyfriend thinks that dating other women is not cheating,but I think it is cheating. Is going out on a date while in a relationship cheating? Both male and female's opinion's is appreciated. ...
A. 16 May 2010: Ask him why it is considered not cheating ?
He may think that cheating is only about a having sex with another person.
When you are in a relationship, your dating days are over.... (read in full...)
What is he trying to say!
Q. I've been seeing a guy for about a year now, and everytime were together he says 'you're my baby, don't forget that' or we're in bed and he's about to fall asleep he'll say, you're my baby. He even says it while he's half asleep! What is he trying ...
A. 16 May 2010: You are his love and the apple of his eyes.... (read in full...)
He said we are moving too fast but didn't break up with me, so what should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 months now. we spoke on the phone once a day. His 27 and I am over the last five days he's not be answering m texts and phone calls on the four day i got a message saying that he was sorry for not talking ...
A. 16 May 2010: You need to pull back and let him do the chasing. Don't call him or contact him unless it is necessary or urgent.
That will give him the perception that you are slowing down .... (read in full...)
How much effort does it take to text?
Q. I was supposed to go round this guy's house tonight. We talked earlier, and he said he had a friend round and would text me later, when he was free. Only he never did. It's now really late, and I've not heard anything from him, not even a "sorry" ...
A. 16 May 2010: It could be due to some human error.Maybe,he enjoyed himself too and forgot to text you .Or it could have escaped his mind.
You could have send a text to him if he did not send one as promised.... (read in full...)
Why didn't she ever call back?
Q. I met a girl in one of my college classes, and slowly I began talking to her more and more. After class one day she asked me if I wanted to go to dinner with her within the coming week. Unfortunately, she ended up being busy. I tried setting up ...
A. 15 May 2010: It would be better to wait for the next chance you see her and see how her responses are.
She could have missed that call or was too busy to take it. There are many possibilities and it is better to see her first and find out from her where sh... (read in full...)
When I turned down his marriage proposal he went and married his ex instead!
Q. i was living with a man he ask me to marry him and i wouldn't because i was mad at him that day. so he went and married his ex. he was gone living with her for 2 weeks before he moved back home. we have been living together now for 2 years sence ...
A. 15 May 2010: You were his first option but your ejected his offer and he chose the second option.
I guess he did not love you deep enough to wait for you .
Now that he has married his ex,this will bring the curtain down on your relationship.
There is no... (read in full...)
Should I cancel the date because he told me his penis size?
Q. Hi friends, I met a guy online and he is 13 years younger than me. I am 48, take great care of myself and get alot of attention from guys. We are both professionals, work out alot and he is very handsome. We have been emailing, within a week he...
A. 15 May 2010: If you are puritanical,then you would cancel the date. It could be a slip of the tongue and it is too early to judge a book by it's cover.
Maybe , you need to see what's inside and this would confirm your feelings.
Sometimes what is online i... (read in full...)
Didn't wash my hands after oral sex--am I pregnant?
Q. I was giving my boyfriend oral, and i swallowed his precum, i think maybe afterward a little bit leaked on my hand. I really had to go pee, so I did. I didnt wash my hands, and grabbed the toilet paper. I didnt touch my vagina at all, but i touched ...
A. 15 May 2010: from Roger W. Harms, M.D.
The life span of sperm after ejaculation depends on the environmental conditions. Sperm ejaculated into a woman's vagina can live in a woman's reproductive tract for up to five days or perhaps even longer.
Fertili... (read in full...)
I want to be with her and the baby
Q. My ex and I found out that we were pregnant a month ago, things have been pretty rough lately, maybe due to me, and last weekend she split up with me, now she had decided on abortion, but today she called me saying that she is now keeping the baby ...
A. 15 May 2010: What you see is not what you get. Don't take to heart what she told you .
Women are fickle minded creatures and she can change her stand any time .It depends on how you treat her.
You need to go woo her and give her all your love and kindnes... (read in full...)
I am falling for my boyfriend's bestfriend. Does he like me too? Someone please help!
Q. Ok, I'm 16 years old. I have been dating this guy for almost 4 months now. And we are truely in love. But recently, his bestfriend came into the picture. The bestfriend, David, is the one who somewhat set me and my boyfriend up. Well, David and I ...
A. 15 May 2010: Initially when he set you up , he was not interested in you but I think he does now. But because of his best friend, he has to walk a fine path.... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable to expect these things?
Q. I'm a newlywed only married about a year. My husband never learned how to drive and I really would like him to. He just won't do it and won't even try. I am getting really tired of hauling him around places. He takes public transport but compl...
A. 15 May 2010: Some men have phobia's about driving and you will never get them to drive.Even if he gets his license , he may still not want to drive. You married him and his problems.
If you have tried and cajoled him to no avail, then you will have to live ... (read in full...)
It's been two days and I'm still waiting for a reply
Q. Hello. There is this Man i am friends with fell in Love with him going on three years now... He is married yet i have strong feelings for him and i cant become interested in anyone one else.... We last text on Mothers day he said he was thinking ...
A. 15 May 2010: That's the kind of life you will face when you get involved with a married man.
He cannot give himself wholly to you and can only give you some crumbs .... (read in full...)
Will boys be interested in me?
Q. Hi, basically I'm 16yr old female... I have never had a proper relationship with anyone, never had sex or done any sexual activity. I know think that because I havent done anything no boy will be interested when I start college. I get horny all the ...
A. 15 May 2010: It is the way you carry yourself that determines if boys are interested in you .
If you are confident, cheerful,friendly and sporting and have a positive attitude, you will attract boys.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?
Q. Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started...
A. 14 May 2010: You are like back to square 1 and it is a bummer. He is unstable and fickle minded .He is like a man walking in a fog.
There are too many misunderstandings between you two and I think , you should take a break from this problem.
Go out with y... (read in full...)
I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?
Q. Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started...
A. 14 May 2010: You are both a confused lot. The only way to solve it is to talk to him and thrashed out all those confusions.
Don't beat about the bush but lay your cards down so that you will know what's inside your respective heart.
As to his picture on F... (read in full...)
I'm terrified that my baby is not ok or that I'm not even pregnant!
Q. hi Im 12 weeks Pregnant with my first child im so Excited! i have my First scan next week so i can see the baby. My partner is coming with me. im just scared they say there is no baby there, or that there is something wrong with it. But i must b...
A. 13 May 2010: Everything is in God's safe hands. So stop worrying and have faith and trust in God.
Worrying does not do you any good. Try to think in a more positive manner.
Always think in the positive and not the negative.... (read in full...)
We broke up because of this sticky situation but we still love each other, help!
Q. So I have a bit of a problem... 2 weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up :( we broke up because he is going to work away soon and I wouldn't see him for upto a month or two at a time or even be able to talk to him because he won't have any phone ...
A. 13 May 2010: If you love him,let him go and if he comes back to you he is yours.
What you are going through is a period of uncertainty .If your love is strong, distance does not matter.
Love is patient and kind.... (read in full...)
I'm trying to figure out my ex boyfriends thoughts. Any suggestions?
Q. Ok, i need some help here. Im trying to understand my ex's thoughts. We just recently started talking again after being broken up for about 6-7 months. He got a girlfriend right away and him and i haven't talked since. But we just recently started...
A. 10 May 2010: He is confused and cannot read your mind. He is unsure of your stand and that's why he text you that you should not talk when you are both still in a relationship.
He may have confessed his feelings for you but he is aware of the pragmati... (read in full...)
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