B/f's friend is there for me when my b/f isn't. What do I do?
Q. so i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him dearly, i just recently had a miscarraige and ever since then things have just become horrible. it went from almost perfect to a complete disaster, he rarely comes to see me and all i do ...
A. 10 June 2010: You are welcome ! Don't think about the problem. Just let your hair down , go out and enjoy your life with your friends.... (read in full...)
I'm married but am attracted to my co-worker!
Q. I'm married and have been with my husband for nearly 7 years. I love him dearly and we have a great relationship. He really is my best friend and I can't imagine not having him in my life. However, I have found myself crushing on this guy at ...
A. 5 June 2010: You are only human and as long as you don't cross the line , you should be O.K.
Make sure you are aware of your limits and boundaries. Mark them out clearly so that you won't overstep them.... (read in full...)
Do I ask him?
Q. Dear Aunts, I've been dating this guy for a few weeks but I'm not sure if he really like me like he says he does or if he is just interested in sex. He takes me out to dinner and movies. He always pays. But every time we get together it alwa...
A. 5 June 2010: If you are going to ask him , you may not get a truthful answer. He may not tell the truth or lie to you .
You can test his love by not having sex with him and see how he will react. ... (read in full...)
Help! Who do I choose?
Q. well.. i have a friend who is very important to me, and we are very very best friends, and we understand each other, make each other laugh and etc.. i have known him for 2 years, and the thing is few years back his girlfriend died in his arms. he ...
A. 5 June 2010: Go with the one that you cannot live without. You cannot be on guard for someone for 24 hours and if they want to die,there is nothing you can do about them.
This person who may want to end his life ,may not do it .He could only be rambling... (read in full...)
Why does he keep writing me if he hates me so much?
Q. OMG!!! my cousin fucked up my life!!!! she wrote to one of his friends under my profile (she has it to spy on her husband cuz hes my friend) and now he thinks i'm being a stalker!!!! Loook HIM: you have got some fucking balls you know that, i c...
A. 5 June 2010: Take a break. Don't read or answer his mail. After sometime you will have a different perspective of the situation.You will see more clearly after the break.... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about the secret bank account?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and we always talk about everything, we are totally honest but that doesn't mean we agree or we come to a compromise. I am the most financially stable thinker between the both of us, I ...
A. 5 June 2010: All I can say is that , never ever trust anyone with your hard earned money, not even your husband or your parents or anyone else.
Those who think I am wrong , they are entitled to their opinions.
If you have a secret account, never tell to yo... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend's ex!
Q. ok, well im in love with my best friends ex, i've always loved him even befor they went out i just dont understand why he chose her over me, she had a boyfriend when he asked her out and then she broke up with her boyfriend for him and the day she ...
A. 5 June 2010: It is not right to tell your other best friend to break up with him . You had an ulterior motive .
Suppose you were in her shoes,would you listen to your best friend asking you to break off with your b/f?
She would ask herself what is your mot... (read in full...)
I miss my ex, but there is a new guy in my life, should I give him a chance or clear things up with my ex first?
Q. Long story short, my ex-bf broke up with me almost 2 months ago. I miss him terribly. He wants to remain friends with me on skype and whenever he logs on and I am online tries to talk to me, but there are no other signs of him wanting me back (one ...
A. 5 June 2010: You have got the answer from the lion's mouth.This relationship is dead and you need to focus on your new friend.
Wean yourself of your ex , go out, enjoy and have fun.... (read in full...)
It's over... but I have to move on!
Q. I have so much love for my boyfriend, but the past 3-4 years living together, I've been too controlling, and i think he's been keeping it in. The past few days, he asked me to break up with him while I still love him with all my heart and didn't ...
A. 4 June 2010: Compromise is the key to living together. You may think it is over but it is never over if you are still staying together.
Just live from one day to another because no one knows what the future will bring.
It is good that you get to see him f... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents see that even though I'm pregnant I still deserve the wedding of my dreams?
Q. Hello, DearCupid, and thanks for reading. Well, I am 22 years old and my boyfriend and I recently discovered that we are having a baby. We are excited about this idea and plan to stay together and raise our baby together and frankly the ...
A. 4 June 2010: I think her problem is that her parents are not in favour of her holding her dream wedding.
They just wanted her to get over quickly by having to go to the court house to register their marriage.It was their poor attitude towards her wedding ... (read in full...)
The guy I like is my dad's age! How do I tell my parents?
Q. Okay… I’ll try to make a long story (kind of) short here. I am 17, turning 18 in several months, and I’m a girl. There’s this guy I had a crush on from the time I was 14. He is 30 years older than me. I saw him on a regular basis for a couple of ...
A. 4 June 2010: You are wise and matured for your age. You will know him better with time and you should not hurry but to achieve your aims in life first.
Have a plan about what you want out of life. This would guide you along the road that you choose to trave... (read in full...)
B/f's friend is there for me when my b/f isn't. What do I do?
Q. so i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him dearly, i just recently had a miscarraige and ever since then things have just become horrible. it went from almost perfect to a complete disaster, he rarely comes to see me and all i do ...
A. 4 June 2010: Thanks for your update.Prayers and you are always in our thoughts. Take a breather and allow time to heal your wounds.
Everything will fall in place when the time comes. Try to relax and take care of your health.... (read in full...)
How can I make my parents see that even though I'm pregnant I still deserve the wedding of my dreams?
Q. Hello, DearCupid, and thanks for reading. Well, I am 22 years old and my boyfriend and I recently discovered that we are having a baby. We are excited about this idea and plan to stay together and raise our baby together and frankly the ...
A. 3 June 2010: There are many pregnant couples getting married and even some carrying a child on their wedding day. It is the norm these days to see such weddings.
I am sorry about your parent's decision.I hope they will change their mind and give you your dre... (read in full...)
Is his looking at other women a sign?
Q. My question is about jealousy with my partner. It arised when i noticed that he is looking around in other women. But just looking around..Could it be warrysome about the future? I will give an example. We work in the same building and were hav...
A. 3 June 2010: The eyes are made for looking and everyone admires beauty be they woman or man. It is not a sign of anything. It is just a natural reflex of man.... (read in full...)
The guy I like is my dad's age! How do I tell my parents?
Q. Okay… I’ll try to make a long story (kind of) short here. I am 17, turning 18 in several months, and I’m a girl. There’s this guy I had a crush on from the time I was 14. He is 30 years older than me. I saw him on a regular basis for a couple of ...
A. 3 June 2010: It is going to be a very long and uphill climb for you on this issue .
Most parents would be against it and it will take a lot of convincing to prove to them that you really have love for each other.
If your parents are understanding ,t... (read in full...)
I haven't had an orgasm in 10 months and he won't give me one!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, and he is the ONLY person to ever get me off. Orally of course, but I got off none the less. My issue is that he hasn't gone down on me for 10 monthes. And his reasons vary depending on when I ask him ...
A. 3 June 2010: Why wait until 24th. August ? Why not just do it immediately?
Can you hold until that date and not go burst?
You should settle this problem as soon as you can and not wait for that date.
You scratch my back and I will scratch yours.... (read in full...)
I said I'd have sex with this player, and don't know how to get out of it
Q. So I'm 14 , and theres this guy I really like , hes 15 We had a little thing going on at the beginning but then he went out with one of my friends. He's a player and really only wants a girl to put out for him , thing is i said I would , it all star...
A. 3 June 2010: Thanks for your update. You are welcome .
Thats the ideal solution . Have nothing to do with those kind of people and your life would be much better.... (read in full...)
Men: How is it that young men are attracted to older women- does he want just 'benefits' with me?
Q. Need your opinion on this one. I am a woman in my forties. I have a great family:a husband and a 23 years old daughter. I look very young, sometimes people think I am in my mid-thirties. The last few years really young guys started to lik...
A. 3 June 2010: Older women are more attractive to younger men because they are more experienced,financially stable , not demanding
and their expectations are lower .... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!
Q. Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...
A. 3 June 2010: I feel for you and I am very sorry that you have to go through all this mess.
Getting the confirmation is the first step .When you see that bridge,then you can decide what to do after that.
You will be bombarded with many negative thought... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 2 June 2010: I suggest you try to write a letter to him but you will never post it and instead burn it .
Get in touch with your anger by feeling free to express your feelings to him without the fear of reprisals.
In the letter , you could tell him what he... (read in full...)
Two potential relationships but I can't decide!
Q. Long story short. 2 girls, ones the ex, one I just met about a week and a half ago. Me and my ex broke up after 7 mos together a week ago after going downhill for about a month (more took a break, but we’re still single) because I can only...
A. 2 June 2010: When you cannot decide which one , you would need to take a time out. It maybe a few weeks or months. But one day you will have the answer. Let time be your decider.... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!
Q. Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...
A. 2 June 2010: Pray to God and talk to him. Confess your sins before Him and ask for His forgiveness.
Cast all your burdens unto Him and pray that he will lead you to the right path.
Do not think too much . Take one problem at a time . Ascertain if yo... (read in full...)
Falling for his best friend!
Q. Ok, here's the thing. I'm 20 years old and the guy I'm dating is 17. I've been dating him for almost 3 years and he has changed since we started dating. He's a more depressed and angry person now and he goes off on me more often. He gets mad easy. ...
A. 2 June 2010: You need to let your b/f go and stay single for awhile. If you are meant to be together, you and his best friend's path will cross again in the near future.... (read in full...)
Is he likely to cheat again based on his history?
Q. I've been married 10 years and 2 young children. A year ago I found my husband had been on internet dating sites and had been chatting to dozebs of other women, having dirty emails and met up for sex with some of the women he met, all behind my ...
A. 2 June 2010: I think it is better to stay and work out the differences with your husband. Single ,unemployed and at your age can be a lonesome and dark road.
Life can be very tough when you are alone and with 2 kids. Leaving may seem to be the answer t... (read in full...)
She wants to wait to have sex! How do I change her mind?
Q. So I have been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months now. I ask her if she wants to have sex and her reply is "I think I want to wait". How can I change her reply to a "Yes!"?...
A. 2 June 2010: Be patient . It is like taking care of a plant. You will need to put more those flowering fertilizers to make it flower.
Love her more and earn her trust .Walk that extra miles for her.... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 2 June 2010: Stay on course and show your love for her . Tell her that you will change but for the better. It will soon pass and life will return to normal again.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 2 June 2010: May God bless you and heal your pains and hurts. You have been through a lot and I pray you will recover quickly and find the love of your life.
There is a time for everything and you need to enjoy life and be happy whether you are single or in a ... (read in full...)
Is my bad gut feeling something I should listen to?
Q. so my girlfriend and i had a brake up but we are trying to make things work up she lied to me and said she was going over to a friends how but really she she went to a party a languire party at that and she had a crush on another guy but she wont ...
A. 2 June 2010: Your gut feelings could be wrong and you would do yourself no favours. I think you ought to give her the benefits of doubt .... (read in full...)
He wants kids but I already have them and don't want more...
Q. I love my boyfriend. I want us to be together, but as time goes on I have begun realizing more and more that I do not want any more children ( I have 2 from a previous relationship). He has expressed a desire to have one or two children of his own. ...
A. 2 June 2010: I don't think a discussion will be fruitful as both of you are at the opposite end. It is not easy for you to reach a consensus and only time will decide this question.
Best to leave it to destiny.... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 2 June 2010: Well! If you want to forget somebody , you only need to demonize him .Think of all his bad and negative points.
Your mind will automatically reject him when his name comes up in your mind.
You can also write all your feelings on apiece of pap... (read in full...)
Is our relationship over...?
Q. I have been in a gay relationship for 1year, and my bf has been going thru a difficult time in terms of his boss cutting down on staff, pay cuts etc, so we have not had the life of luxury we once had as we are both ;living from pay cheque to pay ...
A. 1 June 2010: If someone claims to love you and you know they really do do they come around and will things get better and the relationship become strong again?
Generally that is true but there are exceptions.Not every case is the same.
When a thing is gone ... (read in full...)
I've noticed the way the boss is looking at me
Q. I had a meeting with my boss and he kept looking at my breast and was intentionally trying to keep me there for longer than necessary. I have noticed the way he looks at me and is trying to help me in my career. I am trying to work out how to ...
A. 1 June 2010: Tread carefully because office romance can make or break you .All the best to you .... (read in full...)
What's the best way to test if a guy is interested in me?
Q. What's the best way to test if a guy is interested in me? in a subtle manner! so that if he isn't, i can walk away without a dented ego!?...
A. 1 June 2010: Assuming that you are already friends,you can stay away for a week and when you meet again , see how he reacts.
Happy to see you or just act normal ?
Will he walk that extra miles for you ?... (read in full...)
Input needed here! What can I do to make him trust me again?
Q. Okay so the boy i lost my virginity to is acting kind of different now. First he says, that the sex wasnt good and now he has a girl. He hates me for lying to him(which iDidnt) He doesnt believe i Was a virgin. And he tells me all the time that he ...
A. 1 June 2010: You cannot force people to love you . If they don't love you , it is better to walk away.
Even if you do everything he says, he will only treat you like a piece sh*t.
Have more self worth and don't throw yourself upon him.It is like casting pea... (read in full...)
Does she deserve another chance?
Q. This might take abit long. Me and my girl have been dating for year and a half, and she recently started a new job 3 months ago. But the past week shes been acting a bit strange. She was suddenly dressing up for work. Few days ago she had a ...
A. 1 June 2010: No one is perfect and to err is only human. I am sorry that you are going through all this.
Maybe, you need to understand better and dig deeper into why she is flirting behind your back ?
Don't make any rash and hasty decisions which ... (read in full...)
Am I a man whore???
Q. Okay so people keep calling me these names and I'm just sick of it. I'm 17 and I'm gay. The think is I get turned on very easily and am very friendly and flirtatious. So I tend to flirt with a lot of guys... and some girls too. And even when not ...
A. 1 June 2010: You cannot control people's thoughts and how they think of you . If many of them have this kind of perceptions of you ,then probably you are acting like one.
You need to conform to the norms in your society or you will be branded as such.
... (read in full...)
Why did he do this when he knew I wanted to wait?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and we're teens he's 17 i'm 16, and well we was messing around the other day, and we was grinding on each other naked (i'm waiting on sex till' i'm ready) and well we do that just to make us both ...
A. 1 June 2010: Love and sex are powerful emotional forces. Once let loose,one may not be able to control it and will be swept along with those tidal forces.
That's what will happen when you do not have any intentions at first but later was powerless to resist t... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 1 June 2010: Hi,
Glad to see you are back.
I think you should change your name to a better sounding one as seeing your name will make you devastated.You need to think more positive and associate more with positive things.
You need to accept reality a... (read in full...)
B/f chooses to go in with his sister rather than me to buy his parents a gift
Q. Should I be offended if my bf chooses to go in on a b.day gift with his sister instead of with me for one of his parents? I asked him first and he said he wanted to ask his sister first. We've been dating over a year and are in a serious ...
A. 1 June 2010: Three heads are better than two.He acted right and saved the day. That is life.... (read in full...)
Would getting a guy a teddy bear for his birthday be stupid?
Q. He always tells me he's lonely and so I always tell him teddy bears help. So finally his 16 bday is coming up (we're just friends) and I was just wondering if getting him a teddy bear would be too embarrassing for him? He's a nice guy, I think he ...
A. 31 May 2010: Does he looks like or acts like Mr.Bean ? ( The British comedienne)
He is always telling you that he is lonely because he wants you to be his g/f.... (read in full...)
Why did I cheat on my boyfriend when everything is so perfect? What is wrong with me?
Q. First of all let me start by saying that I already am aware of what I have done, I am not looking for comfort or criticism - what I have come here for is help or insight into my behaviour. I cheated on my boyfriend, I met someone through work las...
A. 31 May 2010: There are many reasons why women cheat.
Hurt, pain ,loneliness, rejections, unexciting and unsatisfactory relationship, low self esteem, emotional needs not met,lacking attentions and admiration's, revenge and boredom.
You need to work on the r... (read in full...)
Should I break-up?
Q. I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. he is really sweet when i see him in person. he has a good sense of humour , and he told me that he would wait unti l iwas ready for sex. We are both virgins, but he sems to be more confident ...
A. 31 May 2010: I think the relationship has run it's course.No self respecting man would put his girl down.
He insults you and belittles you and mentally and emotionally abuses you .
Why stay around when he spews out only craps?
You either be firm ab... (read in full...)
B/f's friend is there for me when my b/f isn't. What do I do?
Q. so i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i love him dearly, i just recently had a miscarraige and ever since then things have just become horrible. it went from almost perfect to a complete disaster, he rarely comes to see me and all i do ...
A. 28 May 2010: My sadness and sympathies for your miscarriage.
It is unbecoming of your b/f not to be there besides you to offer you comfort and solace for your grief and pain.
You will have to decide if your b/f is still the man he is .If he is this cold ... (read in full...)
B/f chooses to go in with his sister rather than me to buy his parents a gift
Q. Should I be offended if my bf chooses to go in on a b.day gift with his sister instead of with me for one of his parents? I asked him first and he said he wanted to ask his sister first. We've been dating over a year and are in a serious ...
A. 28 May 2010: I think you should just accept it, as old habits are difficult to change.
He may not be aware of your feelings as most guys cannot see from your perspective. You could give your suggestions to him and let him decide .This should not be an issue.... (read in full...)
I miss my ex, but there is a new guy in my life, should I give him a chance or clear things up with my ex first?
Q. Long story short, my ex-bf broke up with me almost 2 months ago. I miss him terribly. He wants to remain friends with me on skype and whenever he logs on and I am online tries to talk to me, but there are no other signs of him wanting me back (one ...
A. 25 May 2010: Your ex b/f has commitment problems and is too immature to have any meaningful relationship. He is not ready for any commitments .Don't waste your time over him because he has lots of growing up to do.
It is good that you have another choice. ... (read in full...)
I said I'd have sex with this player, and don't know how to get out of it
Q. So I'm 14 , and theres this guy I really like , hes 15 We had a little thing going on at the beginning but then he went out with one of my friends. He's a player and really only wants a girl to put out for him , thing is i said I would , it all star...
A. 13 May 2010: Tell him you are not available this weekend.
You know he is a player and want only sex. Why do you still want him to like you ?
Or you tell him that he heard it wrongly or you only meant it as a joke.... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 17 April 2010: When their honeymoon ends and their feet touched the ground, expect fireworks in that relationship. His true self will come forward.
Go for a new self image of you . Increase your self esteem and confidence.
Everything happens for a reason and... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 17 April 2010: You are welcome. Don't shed a tear for that ungrateful man . It is not worth crying for him now. He isn't the same man that you loved and married.
You must do the reverse psychology thing. Be happy instead of sad .Be cheerful instead of glum. En... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 17 April 2010: You need to accept reality and that he is a changed man and not the man you married .
Do not cry or beg him to come back to you.You need to show him that you can live happily even without him.You have to hide those sad feelings from him.
He i... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 16 April 2010: Take each day at a time and try to think positive always. Focus on God and do not look at those waves in your life. You will be able manage your everyday affairs and will gain back your strength in time.
Every dark clouds ,there are a silver l... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 16 April 2010: I am very sorry that you have been dealt with a very cruel blow in your life. You need to get up , pick up those shattered pieces , put them back together and do your best in that circumstance.
You will need to accept that your life will not be t... (read in full...)
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