Does anyone understand this dream?
Q. I HAD A DREAM THAT MY HUSBAND AND I WERE AT A STORE AND THIS GIRL AND HIS PARTNER PASSED BY AND AS HER PARTNER WONDER AROUND, MY HUSBAND AND HER WERE FLIRTING AND THE HE ASKED ME IF HE COULD HAVE SEX WITH HER AS THEY WERE GETTING NUDE AND HE WAS ...
A. 14 January 2009: What the fuck are you talking about? I think maybe you're getting your hims mixed up with your hers. The question should be 'What do YOU mean?'... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the YOUNGEST age you think two people should get engaged?
Q. I have a poll question of sorts... What is the YOUNGEST age you think two people should get engaged? (ie. 19, 20, 25 etc) And how long do you think you should have been with your significant other before you get engaged? (ie. 1 year, 2 years, et...
A. 14 January 2009: I actually thought engagements were a thing of the past!
Still, my advice: As long an engagement as possible - it makes for a shorter marriage!... (read in full...)
I kissed my lesbian teacher
Q. right so my lezbian teacher asks me to stay after school so i did.she starts talking to me about responsibility and all that and then starts feeling and rubbing my leg.at the time it was makin me feel quite uncomfortable but then she leaned in for ...
A. 11 January 2009: Why do you ask for help? You're a grown woman who can make her own decisions about who or who not she wishes to have relations with. If it feels good - go with it. Who's being harmed?... (read in full...)
Strengthening the PC muscle?
Q. I want to strengthen my PC muscle. I'm a guy and i really cannot last any more than 10 seconds when having sex. All i want to know is whether this would help to strengthen my PC muscle. If i hang a small back on my penis and put some small w...
A. 5 January 2009: I'm not convinced that strengthening your pc muscle has any connection with lasting longer during intercourse. The best cure for your problem in my opinion is to have sex often and regular. You will soon start to find your own pace and eventually be ... (read in full...)
Am I normal? Is any other guy experiencing the same thing as me?
Q. Okay so im a virgin, and when im watching porn (not masturbating) my penis gets hard. And after a while when im not watching anymore, i found in my underwear a liquid... it's not precum, it's just liquid and it does not smell or anything... i can ...
A. 3 January 2009: Why do you assume it's not precome? It sounds like this is exactly what this is, and quite normal while becoming aroused. And yes - most if not all guys experience this.... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my boyfriend is really a virgin?
Q. well, I've been going out with this guy for about seven months now, and I still kinda don't believe that he's a virgin. i have doubts about a lot of things, but this is the biggest one I have. if there's a way to find out if my boyfriend is still a ...
A. 1 January 2009: Get this straight: there is no such thing as a male virgin. Only females are virgins and no, there is no way of telling if he has had sex before. If you can't trust him, leave him.... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and my guy wants to have sex
Q. Soo me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years. Im 13 if that matters. I've given him blowjobs and hand jobs and I've let him finger me, eat me out, fist me, stick things into my butt and penetrate me in my butt. But now he wants to have sex...
A. 27 December 2008: Christ almighty girl - you've done everything else that there is to do - why not???
Actually, you are one seriously out-of control-kid. Why are you letting this perv do all this shit to you? Ask yourself what happened to your childhood?
I just hop... (read in full...)
How to prevent fanny farts
Q. how do i prevent fanny farts? :'(...
A. 26 December 2008: I don't think you can. Farts of any type are amusing but in the heat of pleasure, should not detract from the job in hand. Any experienced guy will know this and not be put off by it, it can be joked about after the act. I think some positions leave ... (read in full...)
What does the word mean
Q. hello I have a quick question and I hope someone can help me with this, english is not my first language, and I live in USA, so if someone can tell me what the bulbish word means, and in what context can be used, I would really appretiate it...
A. 26 December 2008: Like a bulb - lightbulb/ plant bulb etc. For example: 'He had a bulbous nose' = big and rounded. It's 'bulbous' not 'bulbish'
Hope this helped!... (read in full...)
I'd like to do oral sex but my g/f has bad smell
Q. i've been with my partner a while now, we are very close and have a great relationship. however i have been wanting to perform oral sex on her for a long time but have always been put off from the smell. i understand it's natural and i would prob...
A. 24 December 2008: Well, I guess it all depends on what you call 'bad'. As I said earlier, the intimate female aroma is, for most of us, a huge turn-on although I have to say, in my experience, some women have hardly any aroma at all. I guess your lady is 'gifted' ... (read in full...)
I'd like to do oral sex but my g/f has bad smell
Q. i've been with my partner a while now, we are very close and have a great relationship. however i have been wanting to perform oral sex on her for a long time but have always been put off from the smell. i understand it's natural and i would prob...
A. 24 December 2008: It sounds like she has a personal hygiene problem or some mild infection. It's true, vaginas can and do have an aroma - not a 'smell' as such - which is very pleasant and a turn-on. Anyway, what's wrong with showering before sex? Treat it as ... (read in full...)
I was molested as a child, how can I confront that person?
Q. Dear every1, First of all happy holidays : -) ... when I was younger "my cousin"( this boy my brother and I grew up with that lived in our building.. I'm 18 and he's been my "cousin" for like 13 years now) when I was like 7 I remember him touc...
A. 24 December 2008: Don't get me wrong - I'm as abhorred by child molestation as anyone but aw please, stop being such a hard-done-by-attention-seeker. Nothing much actually happened between you and you admit that what did happen actually turned you on.
Stop play... (read in full...)
Don't want to jack-off! Need advice!
Q. What can I do when I get realllly hard? I don't want to jackoff! I need advice!...
A. 24 December 2008: You need a girlfriend to do it for you. No problem!... (read in full...)
Turning on my partner...
Q. Hiya, hopefully this will be a fun question :) I remember reading an article in a magazine a while ago about turning on your partner. Under the 'dirty talk' bullet point, it suggested whispering something sexy/naughty to them unexpectedly, eg whilst ...
A. 23 December 2008: No Uncle Phil, but you sing it and we'll harmonise on the chorus.... (read in full...)
I want to make my family proud by marrying one of my kind, but my boyfriend is black!
Q. i've been going out with someone for the past 8 months and i have no complaints because i know he loves me and everyone says he adores me, however before me and him got together i was seeing another guy who is my own race but ended it because he was ...
A. 23 December 2008: You're obviously in two minds about all this, otherwise you wouldn't be posting this. If in doubt - pull out. You are very young still and in British society, have a few years to go until people expect you to marry. Give them both up regarding long ... (read in full...)
Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?
Q. ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i a...
A. 22 December 2008: Oh DoubleM - you got it bang-on mate!
But further to the posting, it has been acceptable, nay encouraged by society to go with opposite age groups - men and women. Believe me baby, lots of young ladies come on to much older guys (I am pleased to a... (read in full...)
Is he too short for me?
Q. i know it is kind of snobby to be picky about guys outer appearance, but i cant get over how short he is! i really like his personality and his looks, but he is way shorter than me. WAY. like i am 5'4 and he is 5'. i dont want to sound like a jerk, ...
A. 22 December 2008: Well you are rather young so maybe he will grow taller with time but then only maybe. Look, if you're not happy with his appearance, that's cool. Looks DO play a big part in the way we're attracted to eachother so don't have any qualms on that sco... (read in full...)
How to make anal sex more enjoyable!
Q. How could I go about making anal sex hurt less and become more enjoyable and even arousing?...
A. 20 December 2008: What's wrong with your pussy? Bloody hell girl - you surely can't have got fed up with the usual at your tender age - or are you being bullied into it by your bloke?... (read in full...)
I am very well lubricated before and during intercource - does this favour squirting? How do I go about squirting?
Q. My boyfriend is studying to be a doctor. He's very good to me and I love him very much. He once mentioned 'squirting' to me; he said it would be a huge turn on. I didn't think I was even capable of doing such a thing l thought only girls in porn fli...
A. 20 December 2008: I once went out with a squirter and it was an unbeleivable experience. She did, however, explain that she was one of only 2 percent of women who can do this, having researched the subject. Apparently, it is not something which can be learned. It ... (read in full...)
Hand job advice needed!
Q. hey Please can I have some advice on how to give my guy a handjob while we are standing up and have clothes on please How should he and I stand and hold each other etc. I'm not that experienced... thanks x x x...
A. 19 December 2008: If you are really seeking advice on this most basic of sexual moves then you are either too immature and not mentally ready for this or - the more likely - are a spoof poster seeking cheap thrills.... (read in full...)
What is the best masturbatory device for us men?
Q. Hi guys an gals - ok so we keep hearing about 'rampant rabbits' and the like for you gals, but what do y'all think is the best masturbatory device for us men? (Bin on my own lately an my right arms' knackered!)...
A. 10 December 2008: Ooh - here's one: try using your left hand and imagine you're with an inexperienced young lady who is trying to please. Your left-hand technique will be so wobbly that your imagination should easily believe someone else is doing it!... (read in full...)
Is this also a form of abuse?
Q. I was wondering if throwing someone on the floor, or pulling them by the hair, or putting your hand over their mouth so they can't breathe, or even pushing your head against theirs so it feels like their nose will break is as bad as slapping or ...
A. 10 December 2008: Yes it is, so stop it at once.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant with clothes on?
Q. Hi. I have a question. okay so. me and my boyfriend have not had sex at all, the furthest we've gone is I'm naked and he's on top of me with jeans and boxers on, and we kind of act like we have sex, just humping until i have an orgasm. well he told ...
A. 10 December 2008: Virtually impossible, I'd say. A bit like sucking a sweet with the wrapper on - you IMAGINE the flavour but you never really get to taste.... (read in full...)
Am I taking his 'manhood' away?
Q. Im an auto mechanic (almost all the commuter's request me) and also fixed everything around the house (like the night table). This really bugs my husband because he says that cant care of me and Im taking his "manhood" away. I mean come on if he ...
A. 28 November 2008: Quite a lot of Aussie birds are 'masculine' so I'm guessing he's a recent immigrant and not used to your ways. Let's face it, even your name is masculine - ok, the feminine of 'Brian', but what non-Aussie ever heard of that? Then there's your chosen ... (read in full...)
What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date?
Q. What do men think of women that sleep with them on the first date? Are they considered a slut and not girlfriend material or is there a chance that it can work?...
A. 28 November 2008: It really depends upon how the girl projects herself. An older, experienced guy will usually detect if she's a slut or not. If the girl isn't, then the guy's ego goes sky-high because he will assume that his irresistible charm/ good looks got her to ... (read in full...)
I have been having a sexual relationship with my two first cousins, do you have any advice?
Q. I too am sleeping with my first cousin..and I love him very very much. We dont see eachother often as we live in two different states...but this has been going on for years. The part some may find sick and twisted, is that he has a twin brother - ...
A. 27 November 2008: Dump them both and go with your own brother - he's handy and you can keep an eye on him.... (read in full...)
I went online for cybersex pretending I'm a woman and it turns me on! Does this mean I'm a gay?
Q. cyber sex hi im male , ive got a wife and 2 kids, we have not been getting lately, ive signed to a web site for cyber sex chat, you can talk to women and even do cam to cam cyber sex , the problem is theres more men on than women and it got...
A. 25 November 2008: No - it means you're bored. You really should concentrate your efforts into making your own lovelife more scintillating. Use your imagination - you obviously have one.... (read in full...)
I'm circumsized, will I be able to give a woman pleasure eventhough?
Q. well im 19 and im still a virgin and im scared if ill give a woman pleasure she desreves.and ive been readin that a circumsized male can give a woman pleasure than alot say that isnt true.so i go a big penis and that wont help even if its big its ...
A. 25 November 2008: You're certainly giving me no pleasure in trying to understand what the hell you're on about!
If your asking if an uncircumcised penis gives a woman more pleasure than a circumcised one then I would say it makes absolutely no difference - I doub... (read in full...)
How can I help my pee shy girlfriend?
Q. What can I do to help my girlfriend who is very pee shy? This makes it very difficult to plan a day out going to the beach or to a concert or even to a long movie. When she gets home to her apartment, I have to wait outside so she can pee. Sometimes ...
A. 22 November 2008: I don't think there is anything you can do about this phsychological problem. Actually, it is very common. I know a lot of guys who have the same problem and simply can't piss if another person is in close proximity. Sometimes possible but mostly ... (read in full...)
Are all redheads bad tempered?
Q. Are red heads really tempered?? Cause my bf has red hair and oh man he has the "temeper of a red head. Haha he is one like one time he was drinking and he didnnt get something that he wanted on the game so he sqeezzed my leg dropped the guitar. ...
A. 19 November 2008: Well actually, it IS true, to an extent. You see, the majority of redheads originate from Scotland and Scotsmen can be particularly bad tempered, especially when they've had a drink. Obviously, I am generalising here and they're certainly not all ... (read in full...)
Please just help me put my mind at ease. Very concerned about my size!
Q. I am a teenage male and a virgin, let's just say 15-18 and I am stuck on the time old question of does size matter. I won't lie, I'm at a 4.5 to 5 inches and for someone like me, you see guys with 6 and 7 inch penises wondering if THEY are big ...
A. 18 November 2008: At 4.5" to 5" you're in the 'average' ball park mate. I don't know yet of any young guy who didn't want more in the way of cock size, myself included and I'm average and these days very satisfied with what I've got.
Your future lady(s) won't be judg... (read in full...)
Am I just a sexual pervert or am I bi or gay?
Q. I don't think I have a problem, I just need to understand myself. I'm middle aged and as straight as they come. However, I have recently started a sexual relationship with an oriental 'ladyboy' She still has a penis, but boobs, long hair, pretty ...
A. 17 November 2008: I would say that you are just highly sexed and as such, have become very adventurous in your pleasure seeking. From what I hear and read, a lot of straight guys would want to at least try what you are getting - there seems to be a big fascination ... (read in full...)
Can a Straight guy have interest in kissing/making out with other guys??
Q. Just a little question that im interested in peoples' opinions on - ESPECIALLY MEN. Okay, can a straight guy be interested in kissing/making out with another guy? I personally think that no straight guy can have interest in doing that, but...
A. 16 November 2008: Well I don't know about the kissing aspect but I guess a usually completely straight guy can have a thing with another guy purely from the sex angle - we know exactly what we want without the flowers/ chocs/ dinner dates bullshit. I reckon a guy can ... (read in full...)
I am interested in on-line dating, but as charming as I try to be, they always disappear, any advice?
Q. I am a single man who is kind, has a good sense of humour, good hygiene, takes care of himself and his dates and generally behave in the presence of women and give them all the attention and respect they need. For some to me unknown reason, ...
A. 16 November 2008: Ok. try the patient approach. First, ensure your posted profile sounds good. a brief description, your likes,(don't include too many dislikes, you'll sound like a fussy moaner) the type of girl you're looking for. Then let THEM respond to you. It ... (read in full...)
Burning questions about guys and your erections!
Q. Hey guys, I really want to know all about erections; a)How does it actually exactly feel when one has an erection?! b)What can a woman do to make it feel better? c)What NOT to do...? d) Are there different types of erection? Thanks...
A. 12 November 2008: Well, quite a question! a)The feeling comes from an initial move or suggestion from your lady, the heart starts thumping, resulting in blood being pumped to the penis, resulting in erection. The feeling then becomes an intense ache in the penis. ... (read in full...)
How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men?
Q. How do I make my wife agree to sleep with other men? This is my deepest fantasy and will give me immense pleasure in seeing her having sex with others....
A. 12 November 2008: I'm assuming you've discussed this with her and she's refused. That being the case, I can't see any way that you could make her change her mind. I'm sure there would be no shortage of available men but you've got to look at it from her angle - she ... (read in full...)
I find it very alarming that we are accepting 15 and 16 yr olds as agony aunt/uncles.
Q. I find it very alarming that we are accepting 15 and 16 yr olds as agony aunt/uncles and allowing them to give advice to vulnerable and or confused people...
A. 11 November 2008: 'ang on a minute - who the hell here IS actually qualified to give advice? And what is meant by 'qualified'? Like most of the answers here, it has been my experience that a lot of early teens have shown a remarkable maturity in the advice they have ... (read in full...)
How can I make him feel good during sex?
Q. me and my bf have been having sex (were both 16 and used protection) and im wondering how can i make him feel good during it. he plays with my chest alot (to be honest that turns me on like crazy..) and was wondering if i can do something for him it ...
A. 11 November 2008: You seem to know a lot for one so young! At the risk of sounding pervy giving sex tips to an underaged girl, some guys like to hear dirty talk and finish in places other than the obvious. So, combine the two and say, when he is about to come "Shoot ... (read in full...)
Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?
Q. Is talking about your marital problems with a male friend "cheating"?...
A. 11 November 2008: Well, it depends on how sensitive your husband is but I would imagine the majority of men would be horrified if they knew that their private lives had been discussed by their wives with another person - especially so if the other person is a man. It ... (read in full...)
Would he think I am "easy" if we were to have sex right away?
Q. Calling all men.... I have recently got back it touch with an old friend. We used to have a 'thing' for each other but it never really went anywhere. We are now several years on and well things are moving really fast... but in the virtual world......
A. 8 November 2008: No, given the history, I personally would not consider you 'easy'. It's a natural flow of things that are inevitable. Different if you were teenagers but no, definitely do what is natural and I feel sure he will not think badly about you. Quite the ... (read in full...)
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