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Returning the favor

Q.   Hi, Just a quick Q. If your partner performs oral on you does it mean that you have to return the favour to her ..and does it have to be during the same love making session? ..or can it wait till the morning?...lol...

A.   16 September 2010: Let's just say that if you put off returning the favor too many times, you won't be on the receiving end for very much longer. No woman likes a man who is selfish in bed. It's a chore for us too, Honey!! :)... (read in full...)

I asked my boyfriend a question should I be mad for the answer he gave me?

Q.   [Mod note* poster your suggested title was already taken]I asked my man, an "If we were to break up" question. I asked would you still love me? his answer was "probably". But If I was asked this question I would say I def would, without a doubt ...

A.   16 September 2010: When it's a hypothetical question, there is no way to know for sure how you will feel when it happens. Especially if it's a BREAKUP. Usually when two people end a relationship, it isn't mutual and someone is hurt. So, "Probably" is pretty good for a ... (read in full...)

Virgin and totally freaked out!

Q.   Hello. I really need some answers. 2 days ago me and my boyfriend were hanging out. I was topless, he wasnt, and i had my underwear and jeans on and he had his boxers and shorts on. He was on top of my and his penis was pretty much on my vagina, ...

A.   15 September 2010: Short answer..No. Please do not have sex until you are educated on how things work. This is what leads to pregnancy and std's. READ, READ, READ and talk to someone who knows a thing or two about sex. Sex is fun, but not something to take lightly. ... (read in full...)

My sister in law doesn't mind being naked with me!

Q.   My sister-in-law (single and attractive) graduated college and recently took a job near where my wife and I live. My wife told her to stay with us in the spare bedroom until she found a place of her own. Initially, she wore a robe over her ni...

A.   15 September 2010: Even though you haven't cheated on your wife, the fact that you're concerned enough to write on this forum shows that you might be thinking about the temptation of it. That's playing with fire. We're all human and we all have sexual desire. An ... (read in full...)

I'm a male that loves to wear women's clothes but my girlfriend doesn't like it what should I do?

Q.   hi i am male when i was a child my mother use to dress me as a girl this went on for about nine years now i am a lot older i have a female partner and i love dressing as a woman it feels so right to me but my partner dosent like it or understand am ...

A.   15 September 2010: Sounds like you have a tough decision to make. Dressing like a woman, when you're a straight male, isn't "normal" per sae, but if it's something that you can't stop doing for the sake of your relationship, than you have to move on. However, if you ... (read in full...)

End of marriage, what do I do with everything?

Q.   Hi there. I am divorced, it was not what I wanted, he did. It has been a year. Our marriage was loveless for several years. The 4 kids are all adults and they struggle with it some. My question is this: What do I do with things like our wedding ...

A.   15 September 2010: Decide which items are really irreplaceable or important to you and toss the rest. This type of "sorting" is so painful and I feel for you (as I just went through a devastating breakup and had to do this.) Even though it seems as though everything ... (read in full...)

Butterflies in my stomach or pregnancy?

Q.   Ok so heres the thing, I'm 13 turning 14 soon, and I just recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend and we kinda didnt use a condom... YES I KNOW MAJOR STUPIDITY!! but we werent planning on it happening, but it did, and he says he didnt cum inside ...

A.   15 September 2010: No offense, but maybe that fear will help you NOT have sex or be more careful the next time. You're way too young to be worried about bringing a life into this world. I work in an ob/gyn office and see young girls who are pregnant or with an awful ... (read in full...)

Seriously depressed, should I run away, what do I do?

Q.   I seriously am depressed and I hate my life. This has gone on too long. I have no friends and I think everyone hates me in my grade. I'm only 13 years old and I think I should run away. Should I runaway?...

A.   15 September 2010: No matter where you run, you can't runaway from yourself. Remember that. The problem isn't with where you live or where you go to school. The problem is with self esteem and self love. Imagine if you loved yourself...you would be your own best ... (read in full...)

Did I over-react to the nurses comments?

Q.   My boyfriend had knee surgery today. We r both in our thirties and the nurse looked about our age. Well she called him sweetie which didn't bother me but then she said babe r u ready to go in,well that mad me mad and I walked out. As I was walking ...

A.   15 September 2010: I think "babe" is a little too friendly. But, I doubt she meant anything by it as you were a female who was standing RIGHT THERE. I work with RN's everyday and they are usually just very friendly people who want to make someone feel at ease before a ... (read in full...)

Disturbing boy in my class

Q.   There is a guy in my class who iz always rubbing me.!!!! Rubbing my back legs chest hips butt and trys for my other part also. He trys to put my hand in his pants. He acutualy one stuck his hand down his pants then when I was not paying attentio...

A.   15 September 2010: This is not acceptable in any way, shape or form! He is way over the line!! Who cares if he is popular? You're a human being who deserves to be protected. The first thing you need to do, is STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!! This idiot does not get to put his ... (read in full...)

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